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_Work-a-Day R For Happy Marriage 'Dear Ann Landers: I am an '{e-year-old girl - whose parents want me to do something I con- sider cruel. Please advise me. My best friend, who is also 18, tried to commit suicide yester- day, I don't think she really' meant to kill herself. She is a smart girl and she'd know how to finish the job if she really wanted to. I think she was only seeking attention. This girl is attractive and lives in a lovely home and has plenty of money to spend. She's always had trouble with her parents. They give her money and gifts, instead of love, and she resents it. My folks say 1 must stop see- ing her because she is not right mentally and she might attack me, They also say it will hurt my reputation if I go around with her. My friend tells me things. she could never tell anyone else and I know it helps to get things off her chest. She needs me more than ever now. What shall I do? --Torn Dear Torn: Your loyalty is admirable, and I agree that it would be wrong to abandon the gir! completely. Nonetheless, you should loosen the lines. Your friend is unstable and the attachment could be destructive to both of you. She should be unloading on a psychiatrist. Urge her to get that kind of help. Dear Ann Landers: I have a problem that I have never heard of in my whole life and I'll bet you have never heard of it either. I'm 16 years old, a good stu- dent, better than average look- ing and I have plenty of dates. So what's the problem? My _mother.. She wants me to go steady, and I don't want to. My mother was born in Eu- rope and she came here at age| 19. This may account for some} of her oddideas. She says it is| not decent for a girl to date| five or six different fellows. Ac- cording to her it means that the boys pass the word from one to the other that she's an easy mark and they are all having a; good time with her. | I tried to explain that the} chances for getting intimate are reduced 'when a girl goes with many boys rather: than with one. She said, "I'd rather have you get intimate with one nice} boy than go with every boy in town." | This shocked me, What is your opinion?--Dazed | Dear Dazed: [ hate to tell | | THE STARS SAY | By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW | Over-emotionalism 'will con-) tinue to afflict many on Wed-|| nesday, so use care in dealings || with others--especially those of} the opposite sex. These plane- tary afflictions will lift during the late p.m., so all should find! a welcome release from tension. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, || your horoscope indicates that it would be advisable for you tol take advantage of all available) opportunities to advance your)| occupational. status and make) plans to improve your financial | standing as of now, even though! results of your efforts may not be immediate. The period be-||f} tween late December and mid-|| February' will be excellent) along both these lines but, upon | the foundation you lay now will dependthe .successes.of .1966.|| Next beneficial cycles govern-| ing material interests: June} truly oxcelient!}, Auanst" and September. The last two weeks | of April will also be outstanding || for career advancement, and/j late December and mid-May, will be highly propitious for ne-|| gotiating successful bu si ness; transactions which will simul) taneously add to your prestige. | The late December days) should be happy ones for all) Librans, with interesting devel-| opments forecast, not only along the aforementioned material) lines, but also where romance and social activities are con-| cerned. Other good months for) romance: April, May and Au-| gust. Household and family matters should run smoothly for most of the year ahead, but do try to avoid friction in close! circles in early March and early| June. This you can do if you) determine to curb your innate} tendency to be over-exacting! with others and an insistence on always having your own way.| Most auspicious periods for tra- |} vel: Early February and the | . late-May-early September pe- | riod af next year. | | ------ | | 1] WORLD OF Beauty. AWAITS YOU HERE! | Remove superfluous hair per- manently from: face arms, legs with ELECTROLYSIS Kree Imperial Deluxe, gentle, fast by Electrolysis MARIE MURDUFF. Will be in Oshawa at the Genosha Hotel Oct; 4, §, 6. PHONE 723-4641 ule girl that her mother is wrong! }--s0 I. won't. I'll just say I don't agree with her. People who were raised in another country often have ideas which are different from ours. Mark it up to a foreign culture and stick to your own ideas. : WORMMAPDAY 64 65 ks Dear Ann Landers: My hus- every day and we are tired of letters from married people who fight all the time. We thought you might enjoy hearing from a blisfully happy couple for a change. Richard and I have been mar- ried for 13 years and we have eight beautiful children. We are as much in love today as we were the day we got married. We think we have discovered the secret of a happy marriage and we want to share it with the world. Here are the rules we live by: 1, Always kiss each an argument you may have had during the day. 2. Always kiss each other be- fore leaving the house. 3. Work together and play to- gether. 4. Whichever one asks for a divorce must take the children. In closing I would like to say we don't have much money but we feel like millionaires. -- MRS, R. K. B. Dear Mrs. B.: was so sweet I decided to mellow sauce and print it. band and I read your column} CHILD GUIDANCE Children Learn Spelling With Parents' Home Aid By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD 'A number of mothers have told me of the following way they tried to help a child master the Spelling of a list of words, especially of Jong lists of hard- to-spell words. One mother tells of her boy, 12: He would follow me around while I was doing housework. I would pronounce the word. He would try .0 spell it, often spelling it wrong. I would spell it correctly and he would try again to spell it. Then, some- times he spelled it right, some- times wrong. Thus we would keep strug- gling together for an hour or more at a stretch. Sometimes we were both worn out by that) time. : Though I'm not a mother my- self, I remember trying in this way to help one of my own children some years ago: Upon reflection I am sure it is a wasteful way, even though it allows the parent to do other other} good night no matter how bad! things at the same time. In the first place, he is practicing only) by ear. Some children are more} eye-minded than ear-minded. Most seem to learn better through both hearing and see- ing. Besides, the child doesn't have the word to look at and to repeat its spelling before try- ing himself out on it, | STRAIN IS LESS The practice contributes to- wards making mistakes and re- peating them. Half as much) ltime spent with the child with| the printed words before him to|words spelled wrong and help-|of art work she wanted to do Your letter|look at, pronounce and_ spelljing him .corr3ct them. Such/for us, she simply couldn't tell |while looking at one word and! several times would lead, I'm sure, to far bet- ter results and would not re- quire so much emotional strain. We must admit that when we are trying a child out on the spelling of a word that we don't always keep calm and patient. Sometimes our voice, alas, rises then, when the harm can be very great to the child. é Mothers who help the child at spelling while they are busy about the house, might wisely have the printed words where the child can see them, prefer- able each word on a card. An- other good modification might be for the mother to spell some of the words aloud while the child is listening. Perhaps the best help a busy parent may give the child with spelling is to spell any word he wishes her to spell while he is writing a letter or doing his written homework. Unfortu- nately, many parents suppose they should not do this but should tell the youngster to ivok it up in the dictionary. WILL OFTEN. GUESS But, as a rule, he won't but will take a chance and guess at the word, often spelling it wrong Yet we want the child to acquire a spelling conscience. Besides, there is an atmosphere of comradeship when the par- ent willingly spells the word or looks it up herself in the dic- tionary. ' Wisely, some parents check occasionally or often on the child's written work--detecting checking enables the parent Scrape off the chocolate-marsh-| repeating this whole perform-|also to encourage neatness of|the store said. jance carefully the written work. Telephone. Voice Carries An Image Of Your Personality By ROBERTA ROESCH Do you spoil your opportuni- ties, when you've just. about opened a job door, by conduct- ing yourself ineffectually on the telephone? Unfortunately, this happens when people forget the fact that the way they sound on the tele- phone projects the kind of im- age that gives them an "in" or gets them an "out" in a poten- tial employer's mind. One girl, for instance, who applied for a jvb with a bank executive lost it when she al- most had it because of her tele- phone manner. "When I called her to set up an interview," her perspective employer said, 'ther audible sigh when she said "Hello" and the coolness in her manner turned me against her so quickly that I never even both- ered to tell her the purpose. of cial continued, "was: that she had been told I might be able to use her. But she never stated specifically what she could. do. "Because of the way she sounded," the personnel man- ager said, "I had-no desire to hire her even though there was a job. available." These incidents should be warnings to check on your tele- phone manner, especially if you have an inkling it's not doing much for you. Then, if it needs improving, make these five pointers your habit. A. Create a good first impres- sion by answering each call with a cheery "'Hello" or a friendly "Mr. Brown's (or whatever your boss' name happens to be) office," depending on whether you are at home or at work j}when a call comes in. 2. Avoid sounding cool, de- tached, uninterested or tired. Try using some contagious en- thusiasm--but don't overdo it. 3. Prepare yourself to be spe- cific instead of vague by. col- lecting your thoughts for poten- tial calls ahead of time. Also gather together all the informa- tion you'll need for ig cells you--sre.-geing--t6 ke and incoming calls you expect. 4. Stick to the subject under discussion and don't waste the time of the' person on the other end of the line. by wandering off.inte. teo many. irrelevant details. 5. Say a pleasant Goodby be- fore you hang up so your leave- taking will sound just as pleas- ant as it would at the conclusion of a personal interview. BRAINS OVER SPORT HOLLYWOOD, Calif. (CP)-- Dan Blocker, star of TV's Bon- anza and the father of four, thinks schools should take def- inite steps to make academics and not sport the source of prestige and popularity. "The community should sponsor foot- ball or baseball teams after hours and weekends," he says. "That way the school heroes would be the kids who learned the most, not the kids who ran fastest or jump highest." my call.' | Another woman, who lost out) on a job because of her tele- phone manner, called to apply| for part-time work as an artist! in a department store. But she lost a chance she might have) had because she acted so vague} when spoken to on the phone. DIDN'T PREPARE And it wasn't a matter of be- ing surprised, either, since sne did the calling after she was given the name of the person jshe was to talk to about a pos- \sible job. She also had time, be-| fore she even dialed the num-) feel to prepare herself to an- swer some questions. | "When I asked her what kind me," the personnel manager of "Exhibition November Peat. P and the surrounding districts ore "All she could say," the offi- The Lyceum Club Sale of Art' McLaughlin Library Auditorium For information and Forms Enquire at the Library, Front Desk and Ist to 13th invited to submit their work. | HELPING TO THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, October 5, 1965 + See Sahat 2 dase a 4] KEEP THEM HEALTHY .:. x YOUR PHARMACIST National PHARMACY WEEK OCTOBER 3-9 Health is priceless indeed. You will realize that only, and fully when you, or people near you are sick. You are helpless, discouraged and feel unlucky. You're depend- ing on help from others. First your doctor, who, with all the knowledge of modern medicine, treats you to become well again. The doctor prescribes medicines, vitamins, and other. health - aids. Then, out of an assortment of hundreds and hundreds of basic powders and liquids, your Pharmacist prepares-your-pre- scription. Fast, efficient, and with the knowledge of many years of study benind nim. Not only that. The world of medicine makes tremendous strides forwards, new medicines, bacteria, hormones, viruses and serums are invented and detected almost daily. Through continued studies, your pharmacist keeps abreast of these advances, to safeguard your health, to bring you the latest available prescriptions, health-aids, etc. Trust your pharmacist, he does not take shortcuts or second rate ingredients, health is priceless, your pharmacist is here to help you preserve it. You can buy miracles . . . and you can buy them from your local pharmacists. Today one hears a great deal about the ap- parent high cost of drugs, but many serious and previously fatal illnesses can be cured today for only a few dollars. 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