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20 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Weanesday, Vetobor 20, 1965 CHILD GUIDANCE "Boy Acts Up In Class Because He Feels Inferior ° | By GARRY MYERS, PhD. "Our son makes failing grades /A mother writes from Texas|in reading, spelling and arith- of her son, 10, with a married) oti. put A's in music and brother average. He failed third grade, 23. 7 art. He loves science and social Pee ee ee ea studies and makes C's and D's went to summer school andjin them. {point where he has te be sent out of the room, "He shies away from boys his age. Says all they do is ar- gue and fight and that he doesn't want to fight because he doesn't want to hurt anybody. In fact, ten-year-old boys do not Ptr as ry, hin # , dike; ini; cass him --'hshy' and _ |'sissy.' TRIES TO HELP 'I do not work outside the home. His father is good to him, but due to past illness cannot be too active with him, Instead of showing Don how to fight, play ball, etc., he merely. tells him to get in there and learn how--the way he (the father) 40 about. our son's learning problems at school and how I can help him to act like a nor- mal ten-year-old." My reply in part: No doubt your son "acts up in class' because he feels in- ferior and wishes to do some- thing to attract attention. You hardly can hope to deal witii fis school conduct directly. Put your trust in your indirect in- fluence at home. * The main problem is te help him succeed in ways which will be approved of by other per- sons, especially other children. books. Read to and with him his assignments in science. and social science, you and Dad. | have a notion you could afford at almost any sacrifice to have a tutor to work with him half an hour or more a day. Most of all you need to at- tract some other boys of his age tO your home, one ai fitst--msre later when you can study your son and guide him in ways to be 'a better playmate. A LONG PROGRAM Don't look for quick, improve- ment. Trust to a long, patient program. Attract him to the It is fine that Dad goes places with him; also he should often take along one or two other Scouting program, Plan enter- ing him in a camp next sum- mer. The married brother might wish to help you in good ways with this boy. BALLET CLEARS RED WINNIPEG (CP)--The Royal Winnipeg Ballet has shown a profit for the first time in {ts 25-year history. The ballet had an operating surplus of $2,236 for the 1964-65 season and was ablé to reduce its accumulated debts to $40,683 from $64,000, Simcoe Hall Boys' Club Mother and Pre School Children Swim REGISTRATION Tuesday, Oct. 26th Ya made it up. Failed the fourth! "qRyery teacher says Don is\learned. His father takes him : Pee! re last year and is now fail), nice sweet child, considerate|with him whenever he goes out, /Poys 0! Yon age. g it again. He is much over- t others, but about twice a but loses patience with him be-| Do show great interest over size for his i and is very sen-|° x cause he doesn't act like a nor-|his excellence in art and music. fitive about it. jweek acts up in class to the! ma) ten-year-old. Find easier books for him to § : "Please tell me what 1 can'read than his regular school | 'KEEP IN TRIM -- : Faddy Diets Bring Ror "SN SS s "ow YOUNG AGES... You can see the prettiest and most practical fashions for. boys and girls 2:00 p.m. | No Permanent Results By IDEA JEAN KAIN * A diet should be made up of foods you enjoy, At first blush this tempting plan might seem to be in the wrong direction. for 1 slice; Or a serving of cereal in place of break- fast toast 2 fruits, one citrus You can plan delightful meals | ut is it? The best weight con-jaround that list of foods, and| te plan is to find a satisfying slim down without going hun- way of eating that is within) gry. four calorie needs. Do this and', you'll have it made. | Fad diets will reduce, if you) are just thinking of immediate tesults, Of course, what is/ wrong with faddy fare is just what is wrong with appetite de-| pressants. Results are not per- | manent. | . If you could go on a quick diet} and lick your weight to a stand-| #till and have done with the| weight problem, then the means | ould justify the end. But it| never works out that way. The yery day you resume your old Ways of eating, the pounds be- | in to ease back on, usually) aster than they came off. | Recognize that the amount of food you tend to eat is a habit | pattern. You can't change that | pattern by following a rigid diet for a few weeks. Medical au- | thorities believe there is prob- ably more harm in losing and regaining and disturbing the tmetabolic balance than in stay: | ing fat. REDUCE GRADUALLY So, back to the pattern, It is fmportant for you to reduce| gradually so that you effect a/| permanent change in your food | habits. However, if you are con- | siderably overweight, say 40 or 50 pounds, you will lose fast at | first, for a portion of your weight is in soft-watery fat that comes off easily. In order to get down to idael weighr, you) must follow your new pattern of | eating long enough to truly al-| ter your food habits, | The daily diet pattern should) be made up of the same type| of food that every healthy per-| son eats. Stop looking for a spe- cial diet. Decide to adjust your everyday eating pattern so that | it meets your nutritional needs within your reducing require- ments, | Here is the food pattern that | furnishes the nutrients in ade- quate amounts, without too) ~many calories. When you lose by this plan, there will be no| reason to revert to your old, fattening ways of eating. This makes sense, doesn't it? Daily Pattern 2 glasses of skim milk or buttermilk; Or, 1 glass and 1 0z. yellow cheese Lean meat, fish or fowl, 6 oz., cooked weight; cut off all trimmable fat 1 egg, or % cur cottage cheese 2 vegetables, plus a salad Salad oil--1 or 2 thsp. Margarine or butter, 2 pats Choice, 2 slices bread or 4 a baked potato In exchange Near Century Mark She Learns Braille HALIFAX (CP) -- After 15) years of total blindness, Bessie' Saunders has chosen her 99th year to begin the long, siow process of learning braille. Deaf since childhood and con- fined to a wheelchair since an accident 15 years ago, Miss Saunders recently cele brated her 99th birthday with "high hopes" of reaching her 100th. She is able to speak herself, but can receive communica- tions from others only by means of messages tapped out on her hands. 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