rte oo ee 4 a cycle tor along the col- ony's beach - lined south shore. They have been in street west, Oshawa, and Miss Beverley Horack, Euclid street, Whitby, enjoy Vacationing in the resort islands of Bermuda, Miss Suzanne Smith (left), King KEEP IN TRIM Will Small New Dress Help Her Slim Down? By IDA JEAN KAIN to do something else. ) "T call myself a problemjadult reasoning. Much better influences will pre- eater. Pik all goes well I get! About the red dress. Just pur-|V#l! on Tuesday. along fine, but with any problem | chasing a dress a size too small rOR THE , I eat and eat and eat! I really/won't necessarily do the trick -- bial -- eee want to change. One time you|Many overweights have a whole), If tomorrow is your birthday, told of an overweight wholwardrobe of dresses they can-\/OU chart presents some pleas: bought a red dress one size too/not get into. What will help is|i"& Prospects for the year ahead small, and then slimmed down|to see yourself, in your mind's|-especially where personal re- 2% pounds and wore it. Well, eye, wearing the Green, Your |/ationships are concerned, If I've bought the dress; now! will power is influenced by, you are unwed, there will be | By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW It may be difficult for you to reconcile yourself to certain \prevailing trends and opinions, but it would help if you try to This is make temporary concessions, | 'That ANN LANDERS THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, October 25, 1965 93 CHILD GUIDANCE It's Who She Isn't Bothers Her his billfold and handed it over. When we got home he told me about it ang ! blew my top. My husband asked me to write and get your opinion, He doesn't see anything so terribly wrong with it, Do you? -- A. Stonished Dear A.: I see plenty wrong with it. Friends should not be asked to pitch in and help. de- fray hospital bil's and funeral expenses, Your neighbor's son By GARRY C MYERS, PhD According to the FBI reports, year by year, crime has been increasing in the U.S, Of those arrested last year for serious crime, 48 per cent were 17- years-old and younger, These facts are of great concern to parents. They are anxious about the safety of their fam- Dear Ann Landers: I am 22, a secretary with a problem that is driving me nuts. There's a girl in.town who bears a strik- ing resemblance to me. She's a model--the kind who is on call any hour of the day or. night. She will pose in various states of dress or undress if the price is right. And finally, she enter- tains at stag parties as a s0- called exotic dancer, Whenever anyone says: 'You look awfully familiar," I get the shakes, I imagine men are nudging each other in elevators and whispering behind my back. This terrible thing is giv- ing me a complex. If someone says: 'Haven't | children and grandchildren ¢ might someday number among is a clod and I'm sorry your|those committing crime. They husband fell for his pitch. wish so much to find the best Dear Ann Landers: Jack and|ways to bring up their children 1 have been married 14 years.|to be honorable men and We have six wonderful children.. women and good citizens. Jack's parents are people of} No longer can parents with a means, They own a great dealjcomfortable income, comfort- of valuable real esiate. Thelable housing, social and educa- of no, in a family r of love and understanding. Influential Parents Can Kid-In Crime Reduction -- should be our influence in these directions. If enough parents of influence could gain this re- spect, we might expect a de- crease in crime before long. One discouraging factor is that when the. wave of exces- sive permissiveness struck our nation several decades ago, it was the more influential par- ilies. * jents, as a rule, who relaxed on Parents worry that their own|/home discipline. Naturally they have been imitated by the less influential, ; If delinquency and crime are to be reduced the more influen- tial parents will have to lead in stiffening up in the nursery in lteaching 'the tots the meaning e h CHANGE OF SEX Q. Is It possible to change the sex of @ person? A. No. Change of sex is known to occur in some animal species, but in humans, only opparent or simu changes of sex are observed. In some instances mutilating operations may be performed to give the illusion of change but no true alteration of sex is involved, CLEANSING DENTURES Q. Would a strong acid solu- ton bo neliakie tae ' seen you before?" shali 1 tell them about my double and ex- plain that I am a respectacle home we live in belongs to them|tional influence feel smug about and we live here rent free, His|the problem of the increase of Moving to the suburbs PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Should the parent of a LOCAL RESIDENTS ON CYCLING TOUR OF BERMUDA secretary with no sidelines?|parents even insist on paying|crime. ! ; eae Help! Help!--Carbee Crisis land their families also live injents' worries. Juvenile delin-)and Dear Crisis: Concentrate on "ne pnetes jhomes owne t s.}quen d a een in- letting people know who you are h Jack is . -- pares. |gaeney ane cae Wer + --_ bere band fae Bade 4 In|man and I have great respect|these better economic areas ese es the striking physica' re-\for his judgment. His parents|than in the nation in general, jsem 'gg your ee nner OF feel they can run our lives, die- ispeech, dress and general be-\taie what he must do in his|Harvard, two famous students intelligent|creasing at a faster rate 5% Shelton and Eleanor. Gluck of Discount \the taxes, Jack's three brothers|and suburbia has not eased par-|him when to go to bed each every night? en ee ee work and they also try to take|of juvenile crime, have OE ida etl m. Miss be "X-lover the disciplining of our chil-\'The great common denomina-|, 4 _Zbniaeg |posure. dren. tor of delinquency in our 680- | Dear Ann Landers: Our) Dozens of times I've wanted ciety--whether deprived or af- neighbor died yesterday. Wejto tell my. in-laws where to fluent--is , the. break-down For All Your |were not close friends but she|head in but I've kept quiet for \of the family, as the character- |was a pleasant woman and we'my husband's sake, | would builder of its members and the jwere sorry. i give anything if we could live|morale - builder of society." My husband and I went over| our own lives, But how?-- ; vie ae aN to pay our respects and this is|\¥G, T ae" rg tiplptrtiy nd aware |what happened, Two woman's) Dear YG. T.: When you de-|of this family breakdown, But son pulled my husband off to/cide you want to lead your own |the factors involved are s0 com-| the side and asked if wellives so badly that you are will- |nlex. and far-reaching that no-| planned to send flowers. Myling to start paying rent, you|hody has come up with a so- husband replied: "Yes." The/will take the first step toward |iytion of this. problem, though Bridal Shoes TINTED FREE CHOOSE DANCEY'S DOWNTOWN OSHAWA son said: 'We'd rather have the|independence. Your in-laws feel |ajj 5 olan money instead. Mother's illness) justified in running your lives Boned oe as eee cost a lot and the funeral will) since they are keeping the roof |izations are being made to curb be expensive, too, Do you mind| over your heads. If it's my Opin-|the problem & : | giving me a check to help us| ion you want, here it is? You'd) parents are the hub of the out?" be happier in 2 broom closet i iret «4 i | set family. Of first importance is | My husband was dumb-|over a bowling alley. So move the fat that they i ceviana| B 4 ociober 6 founded but he took $10 out of'already. , lof high moral integrity anal ermuda since clober \. Ra 2ST 4 ; | have deep regard for each t | and returned home las lother, Living in a community week, THE STARS SAY | Woman's Place others of be favorable for being good parents. Understanding their children like qualities their Fashin Conscious School Girls Can Have Easy-Care Wardrobes with should ion tartar from false teeth? A. No. The use of strong ichemical solutions and @b- jrasive powders on dentures" child in the grades have to tell} roughens the denture and en- lcourages deposition of more |tartar, If the denture is heavly lencrusted with material it is \best to take it to a dentist for cleansing and polishing. After- word, gentle brushing with soop and water should keep it free of deposits. | The true measure of the worth of prescribed medicine fies inot in dollars and cents, but in the faster relief from pain \and speedier recovery it pro- vides. ~ 28 King Eost Oshawe PHONE 723-4621 Open Evenings till 9 p.m. | Free City Wide Delivery if Home jand winning their co-operation Not " By ELEANOR ROSS |popular jumpers. Some are|!® another powerful force. So is In Space Age Grammar school girls may|made of corduroy, which, inci-\* very community influence : be as fashion conscious as adults|dentally, is best sudsed wrong which encourages and exalts LONDON, Ont. (CP)--~People|nowadays. However, this should|side out so it won't pick up any 'hese family Yirtes | who think all married women should stay at home are. still |"*back in the horse and buggy |days," says Nazla Dane of Tor- jonto, president of the Canadian |Federation of Business and Pro- fessional Women's Clubs. Speaking Sunday at a_bus- liness women's luncheon, Miss |Dane referred to a brief pre- jsented recently to the Ontario legislature's select committee on youth by the Ontario Med- cause no "'conflict of interest' |lint, when the two generations set forth to purchase clothes for|washable flannel separates, play or for school--either &/such as pleated skirts and 'eu eider complete wardrobe or pieces to/ sleeved tops trimmed with fill in "'classy"' outfits. jperky neckline bows. Daughter may enjoy her fa-)make nice wardrobe fill-ins, vorite style and Mother can in-| sist on easy-care features at\oacv.ooing "swingers" for young girls this season are These Of course, all of us parents should never cease in our in-| There are also wortderfully|terests and efforts to make our| jimmediate neighborhood and) fittest) possible for promoting whole-| some family ideals and family| , If we could maintain) Some little girls prefer the|what seems to us the finest| ' . injfamily standards and fi | the same time, because clothes| :mock-like styling. Or they may|to bring up our po eo ngs : combine jumper or skirt with\cordance with these standards,| mostly as washable as they are] matching socks and sweater or|we could contribute fener attractive, And there are maNY|<shirt to wear under pile-lined|ably to best family 'life among community the | living. we'll see... . : 'aati four periods within the next 12/ical Association. ett payee ' 4 a st Let's analyze the situation. eagle Be Recagenone yg months during which, under the! The brief suggested the edu abe, agree Hing corduroy A-line coats. other families and, therefore When trouble crops up you turn! your mind " most fortuitous of planetary|cational system be used to pre-| 'There are colors and designs! Mothers can easily endorse | best citizenship in their chil : . blessings, you could wend your|pare girls for 'the vital task of|for every taste -- raning from|°"Y of these for practicality,|dren. to good for comfort, Food gives you an immediate satisfaction What you are really saying 18\ mind, wonderful, This will make|anq Jate July, of 1966. Stimulat- that you get so discouraged and) sai id Of damrsond that you think 'Oh, Ur goal more real. Now, back ing social activities and an in- If having the dress helps You way to the altar, They will oc-lraising future citizens of our|yiyid red to navy, and from so-| |to get the right picture in your! our in January, May, late June|country" rather than compet-|phisticated Courreges - ingnivedl jing with men for jobs. | Miss Dane said it is up to the to the problem of eating. When|crease in your personal popular-jindividual woman and her fam-| with turtle-neck sweaters smudgy desk or \with that writing arm can't ASSES "om F dresses to comfortable a cde SPN any "dirt disasters" with warm 'Helanca-stretch JuMPers'tne washable school outfits. because even leaning against 8 Gaqn RESPECT sweeping it The more we are looked up) to in our community the greater! what's the use!" In a sense, you " ; r give up and stop trying. Then(life is running smoothly, give ity are indicated during the next ily to decide whether she should) stretchies in any style fit so With clothes that can be » * you automatically start eating.Some Prior thought as to how|two months, in July, and early work and it is the responsibility) wel] that a little girl has plenty|sudsed and rinsed after one or Since eating until you are sur-\You want to act when things gO\next September. jof the community to care foriof room to move around--|two wearings, a child can look feited does nothing to help the wrong By giving yourself a is ayeithe children of women whol wy, isi . .jattractive and clean enough to so If you are careful not to make whether raising her arm to an situation, you feel even more|mental set through forethought, : : have to work swer a question. or. playing onibe. teacher's pet every day of depressed. you can help yourself enor- hasty decisions and avoid risky -- ~ lhe wa ae re r dy ; g Mi the vane. And ahe can look nits Some good, hard thinking mously,. 7 speculation, job and financial eaneee COUNTS TOO oleh fea ter vveunderiag ott 'of doors and at home, too. about your problem eating may| Wishful thinking, which {s/matters should also go well-- Trigg Alia rag trmiwnminina 0 UU help ae cae pete Maes eas, PO eae Gears especially between now and the members of a mental patient's|!® gy stretch to its original HOUSEHOLD HINT well aware of what you tend to/|willing can set a real force into end of March, Next good pe-/family can be important, says snug. fit Simmer a few cloves in a Yo is so that you can be in con-.action, It's almost as if you had tiods for monetary gain: The Dr. William Forester of the SUDS INSIDE OUT small pan of vinegar, and you'll trol. In short, the automatic turned it over to a higher au- entire month of September and coe A os p it al ge Deep, deep scoop necklines eliminate cooking. odors from reaction is what you want to thority, as if the reasoning and jate October of next year; for stnintcalis dared nie new variations of the ever- cabbage, onions, fish, ete srevent happening the forethought you put into : Bi PREIS Cotta ce cant ae : vwhen you. recognize that the practice in calm momenis come job promotion and-or business son are caused by the behavior ff established pattern simply does to your rescue when needed @xpansion Late December)! his family not work, you realize the need most January, the last two weeks in PARKA SLACK CHIC 1\ / ( T «| cp RE \ April and next October KINGSTON, Ont. (CP)--This| § aI Don't Put Off Till Tomorrow A child born on this day willicity's "meter maids" are dis \ \ ,. . AL Ail 8) be endowed with great deter-\appointed about their new 2 | mination and enormous will/winter uniforms, The hip-length) GETS YOU A VOTE | power; will have to curb tend- parka with baggy slacks and a} | What You Can Do Today! encies toward domineering, how- hooded cap '"'just isn't feminine OF CONFIDENCE ever, enough.' By ROBERTA ROESCH ficient that she could eventually -- IN THESE NEW Our best approach to living a baa a and sell the} | @&> ee < fully is to set aside some part 'hings she mace. NOW a) of each day to do what we've "Then one day, while I was » AT YOUNG AGES ees ! = 'always wanted to do"' instead' wishing," she said, 'I decided . : we of waiting for a future change . pa . te. ou can see the prettiest and mos Glenaw 3 in our lives which will give us Ms change someday me proctical fashions for boys and girls e ; e time for that. day' and biocked off an hour infants to size 14 utumn is the time to be In New Yor This applies to the housewife|right then ahd there to put up ; | ' who craves to do something) my feet and sit down and em- ) LAY-AWAY for CHRISTMAS EARLY al' more stimulating than house- broider, . «+ The Best Costs Less ot... b és ' { a hold chores but who keeps +O I've done this every after- | ' SWEATERS That's when it's cooler there and less in eon Benga! bien ee peating like a broken record: noon since, often with chaos q ' ing' mats: "There's just so much to do in around me. But I'm = doing =1| 3 Fashion's loveliest "lovelies" crowded . -- salva ng's greatsis -- AND THAT'S MORE OFTEN THAN ANY the es I never have time for ge Eye rou slonaing te > choose new easy-to-care-for Broadway is bright with new shows OTHER AIRLINE! myself. and making big plans for the fu- ~~ : Sy dueant alse ior (he mother |ture, OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE ne agi Php Yaa and old hits... the pro football season $ whose password seems. to be or sence rent rrr -- a hho ; +4) , 28 Shades Sennen "Maybe after the children have pen tne aoe is in swing--it's. the time of year roe cole sss my grown I'll find I'm not so tired ction ' 622/690 when the whole wonderful world of 715am. 10 > a i1isamr Perhaps then I can get to some j tye : Staging ; : ian of the things I've always CARDIGAN . New York is wide awake to entertain 1,40 p.m, (except Sat.) .00 p.rr wanted to do." Plus this it per- 'ii eae PaRIAR | sheisbes 28 i aaa a 5.55 p.m. 7.05 p.m. 9.30 p.m tains to people with jobs who 100% English Botany, moth: ; " Ny and excite your When do you want to go? are so wound up in their work islet exciting Aha toll S naa ay & é their favorite saying is: "Some: vo mae ' For det Travel A AIR CAN day I'll get to something else : w weronte of 13a bicee cade ei oad il BPA in The fallacy in this thinking, | j oor Street West though, is the fact that most of | up p ecia S » Other CARDIGANS 3 us never arrive at a stage inj} Six styles in Shetland Mohair, life when we have sufficient | Delhi ceedee" Fur Blend, j Al R C D time. 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