ANN LANDERS Tactless Wife Dear Ann Landers: Does any- one really want an honest opin- ion? I am beginning to think they do not. My brother-in-law who lost his wife two years ago asked me for my opinion of the woman he has been dating. I told him I Furious Husband | THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdey, November 16, 1965 13 KEEP IN TRIM Gets sirls who has been married three years announced in April she was expecting a baby on Oct. 12. Well, on Aug. 18 she gave birth. Her child weighted 6 Ibs. 8 ounces and had a full |head of hair. She made a point of explaining to everyone that Caliper Measuring By Doctor Truest Test For Fat, Obesity By IDA JEAN KAIN mage issue Rigger Pow How do you measure obesity?|tion in an article en) How do you know whether or not|Simple Criterion of Obesity. you have a_ disproportionate amount of fat? (I am not re- ferring to overweight.) What is the gauge? These questions were asked is present. grees of overweight, obesity is thought she was a loud, vulgar, money-hungry shrew and that if he marries her she will wring him out like a pair of cotton socks, toss him aside and go on to the next sucker. i Instead of thanking me for my honesty he gave me a with- ering look and said: 'Well, if that's the way you feel about Amelia I'll see that your name is removed from the wedding iP Ba Now my husband fs furious with me. This brother is his fa- vorite and he says we will never be invited to their home. I re- peat my question: Does it pay the baby was premature. Please tell us how in the world a premature baby can weigh more than most nine month babies? When we told her she must have miscalcu- lated the date of birth, stubbornly inisted that she did no such thing. Since this woman is so obsti- nate we decided to ask you to check out the facts and settle the argument. -- Seven Dishe- lievers Dear Seven: It is unusual for a premature baby to be so large but it is no unheard of. What she to be honest?--Cannot Lie Dear Cannot: There's a vast difference between being honest baffles me is not the sixe of the child, but the size of your inter- est. Why do you dames concern and chopping people into ham- burger. Cruel and vicious re-| marks masked as '"'an honest Ejopinion" fool no one. | (| The next time you are asked) Hisuch a question, say something) pleasant. Every person has at mm least one good quality. Dear Ann Landers; I prom- Deaths Climb Among Destitute VANCOUVER (CP) The +|woman dying in a skid road bed might have been saved with a kind word in her childhood. by a gentleman who is vitally: interested in the relationship of body weight to body fat. Weight! tables, even those giving a range for small, medium and large frame, do not accurately measure the amount of fat. The thickness of the layer of fat can be measured with cali- pers. Your doctor can determine how much of your weight is in body fat, with the use of cali- pers. Various places may be measured -- the triceps, that spot on the underside of upper arm; the subscapular skin fold, just under shoulder blade; and the -abdomen or diaphragm. These areas are good indices of all-over fatness. by no means clear. College foot ball linemen are generally over- weight; they are not generally obese. Conversely, some ex- tremely sedentary persons can be obese without being mark- edly overweight. Without a direct measurement of adipos- ity, the diagnosis of obesity can- not be certain."' It is the suggestion of these scientists that of all existing methods of measuring body fat on which a definition of obesity might be based, caliper deter- mination of skin-fold thickness offers the greatest promise in terms of practical application. Talk this over with your doctor. Dr. Norman Jolliffe, in his) yourH book, Reduce and Stay Re- bi sapiancgaast usenet duced, suggests the pinch test.| CHICAGO (CP) -- The world) Take a deep pinch of skin on|of young people has to be con- the side of the body just over|sidered as a culture of its own, vA pit So Between thumb/tnez Seagle told a three - day and inde ' of Weak Tan' toe of tk gg meeting of youth workers. Dr. lneath the skin should be be-/Seagle, a sociologist, said stu- ltween one-fourth and one-half|dent protests these days are not jinch thick. If the fold is thicker about politics but are against) |than one inch, there is prob- lised myself the next time you ably an excess of subcutaneous |the affluent society which forces | OSHAWA TOPS CLUB SPONSOR BAZAAR Woodview Park Clubhouse will be the setting for the bazaar being held by the TOPS Motor City Stream- liners on Wednesday after- noon. Among the many items on sale will be the doll and cradle, the knitted poodle dogs and teen doll clothing sets, shown here. Shown here admiring the fancy needlework are the leaders of two sister clubs, from the left: Mrs. Margaret Stewart of the newly formed TOPS Westmount Club, Mrs, Betty Harris of TOPS Inch-Pinch- ers and the Motor City Streamliners' leader, Mrs. Florence Russell who has \did it I would write to you and) today is the day. Please, please} stop suggesting volunteer work as therapy for crazy, mixed-up dames. Women who are capable of performing a real service to the community don't need to be told to join anything. They are right in there pitching and doing a |wonderful job. | It's easy to spot disturbed jwomen who volunteer not be- jeause they want to serve, but |because they need something to \do. They are high-strung, irrita- ible, and troublemakers. It takes five times as long to train them jas it does to train the others. |Then they drop out because they organized the bazaar, Pro- ceeds will be used to pur- chase a scale, for awards for losers, for convention expenses and for crowning a monthly Queen, the mem- ber who has lost the most weight each month. --Oshawa Times Photo Company Had More Confidence In Her Returning Than She Did By ROBERTA ROESCH What do you do when you are in the age-40 bracket and apprehensive about looking for a job, because you've been at home so long bringing up your family? Today, instead of answering with the usual rules about up- dating your skills I'm replying to this question with the story of one woman over age 40, who returned to work in an office after being home for 14 years. Specifically, she's Ruth P. Aceto of Manchester, Conn., now an executive secretary. "During my first round of working, I had a job in an in- out by applying for a Christmas lseason sales job at a local de- \partment store. | "When I went for that job though, there were so- many |women ahead of me I didn't see {much chance for getting hired myself. |MADE UP HER MIND But since I was out anyhow can't get along with their co- With deaths of destitute} women up an alarming 180 per cent this year, a panel discus- sion was called recently to seek answers to the dilemma of the homeless women who drift into the 10-black-square area that makes up Vancouver's skid road, R. F. Astbury of the welfare} department suggested the prob- lem is left until potential vic-| tims are past the age at which they can be saved. Because the women rarely seek the assistance of charitable agencies, he said, "we have to) get into the home situation be-) |Mayer of the Harvard Univer- iconformity on young individ-| juals. TOO MUCH FAT | fat present. When a person is frankly fat, | this,is obviously obesity--that is, too great a proportion of the weight is in fatty tissue. Dr. Carl Seltzer and Dr. Jean 'PORTRAITS Children Ete, o , Siete? special 8 for 1.00--16 for 1.75 H. 'E. Stillwell Studios ina witty] Centre sity school of public health, made this observation in the REMEMBER if your hair is not BECOMING to you. You should be COMING fore they get onto skid road."| His suggestion was seconded) nighttime training--came back). ors or the work doesn't\by Inspector Nancy Hewitt of| rather wall boran to fel aturn out fo be the cureall they ut ~|had hoped for ever CUnce. ' So please, Annie, don't do. us| _As far as handling both ajany favors. Send the disturbed| oy al Te sbog hed ene b ; § | Dear G.: Perhaps you have a} pe for her ge week at the| point, but it does seem to me) office and for running her'that there is a volunteer job for household. every pair of willing hands and A ~ ooere tao bog ee "eda le if vg! an er husband takes the laundry|to a high - strung irritable to the laundromat, she and her|woman. oldest daughter share the iron-| ing, and Mrs. Aceto herself) does the cooking and most of| the cleaning. Dear Ann Landers: Eight of us girls get together every two weeks to play cards. One of the the police department who said) lassistance early in life could) reduce the toll of deaths, which) last year numbered 12 destitute) women among a total of 100 deaths on skid road. "Let's work with the chil-| dren,' she said. "We are spend- ing too much money and time on adults. If the same amount was expended on children we jcould prevent future problems.) The adults we are trying to) |help now started with small! problems that grew to present! proportions." and had taken at least a first step toward returning to work, I made up my mind to go right up to my old company and apply for a full-time office job, without letting myself stop to think about whether or not I jhad the courage to do this. surance company office," Mrs.| 'To say I was nervous at the Aceto told me, 'but I 'left injstart of the employment inter- 1946. : view is to put it mildly," Ruth "When my children were allisaid. 'But the interviewer in school, however, I found my-|made me feel welcome and 1) self with more and more lei-|soon relaxed. | sure. As a result, I began to| "I discovered the company) think about returning to work./had more confidence in me But it had been so long since|than I had in myself," she ad- I had. worked in an office that|mitted, "because I was hired I was apprehensive about how)and placed in a secretarial job. well I would qualify. Because I|Within a month, my typing and felt that way, I decided to startishorthand--with a little extra} 1 They Had Me Crying The men from Ross Mills come in and gently removed the rugs from the floor. It wasn't the men's fault, | thought our rugs had gone for good, so | cried like a baby. But was | ever glad later! They brought our rugs back looking so fresh, clean and room brightening right | literally pranced with joy. Where had they gone? To the famous Boker Cleaning plant for their annual cleaning. You try Baker Cleanin today, you'll see what | mean. . 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