= nen |AINIV LANDERS Military Discount Has Its Drawbacks Bg 'Dear Ann Landers: Why don't service men and women get treated better by the airlines? They risk their lives for our country and should be treated like privileged characters. In- stead they get kicked around. * Our nephew who is in the navy came home for a few days. He couldn't make reservations be- Cause he was travelling on the military discount. They kept him: on standby for 12 hours and he arrived home exhausted. Servicemen and women are the last to hoard the plane. They can get on only if seats are left ever. Furthermore, they can be put_off at any stop if a com- ger. wants to get on Seen boys in uniform near tears when they were or- dered off a plane halfway home. These poor kids must then wait for a plane with empty seats. Is this fair?--Disgusted Aunt. 'Dear Aunt: The military dis- count is*an arrangement be- tween the airlines and the gov- ernment, designed to accommo- date the maximum number of service people at the most eco- nomical rates. 'Servicemen and women who travel at a substantial saving are told in advance that they might get bumped. If they don't want to risk it, they should pay the commercial rate and be as- sured of a seat. Dear Ann Landers: My mother died five months ago. Her last wish was that I take my 23-year- @id brother into our home. My husband never got along with Kirk but it was he who said: 'Yes, mother, we will take Kirk. Don't worry." Kirk agreed to pay us $17 a week for room and board and lJaundry. (He makes $88 a week.) He stopped paying after the first two months and we haven't seen a dime since. Two months ago he took our ear without permission. Hel =. wrecked it and now we are with- out a car. Our two sons are afraid of Kirk. He's awfully mean to them. He wears my husband's clothes and has burned holes in our furniture because of his careless smoking habits. I could write a book, but what's the use? My husband has been a saint but he's ready to leave if I don't get Kirk out of here. My mother's memory haunts me. After all, we prom- ised. Please tell me what to do. --A Wr ck Dear Wreck: The Bible says you are your brother's keeper, but it doesn't say you should keep your brother until he burns your house down and destroys your marriage. You fulfilled your promise to your mother when you took Kirk in. He made the arrangement impossible because of his miser- able behavior. Throw the bum out. Dear Ann Landers: Many peo- ple write to complain about a mother-in-law. My mother - in- law is a peach. It's my father- lin-law I can't stand. This man has never been wrong in his life. He is an au- thority on everything -- knows better than the president of the United States and all his ad- visers what ought to be done. He reads a lot and gets everything |mixed up. He is always telling me how to run my business although he could never make a success: of his own. He inherited a fine company, ran it into the ground. and is now working for his former competitor. I try to be respectful for my wife's sake, but it's rough. Any Prag rgsehags oe ase Se: A RS a , 1Q THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, December 7, 1965 Dr. Thornton H- $ _ 'Bazaar, Fun. Fair. Mrs. Hartley Delaney, imme- diate past present 'of ine Robert --"Phornton Home School Association, opened annual bazaar and fun fair held at the school recently. The gen- eral convener was Mrs. C. M. Sheffield. The various booths and con- veners were as follows: tea SPECTACULAR SALAD OR SUMPTUOUS DESSERT For the woman who can't ind ... on her suggestions on how to tolerate make up her mi him?--G----rrrr best allies are two tin ears and la sense of humor. Keep the lid on for your wife's saké. You'll be glad you did. |holiday menus, that is . . . this beautiful red Cranberry Salad- Dessert Gelatin can be the an- swer to her problem. It's switch- able and can be served--either }as a salad with mayonnaise or la dessert with whipped cream. | Dear G--rrrr: Your three Now that the fresh cranberry season is in full swing, it's fun Fresh Cranberry Salad Mold Doubles As Dainty Dessert 2 cups fresh cranberries 1% cups boiling water 1 package (6 ounces) straw- berry-flavored gelatin cup cold water ¥% cup chopped celery ¥% cup chopped nuts | Drain peaches and reserve syrup. Add brandy to syrup and| enough water to make 1 cup.| Combine with sugar and cran- 1 4 \trying to figure out just what! Blonde Co-ed Wins\i corener's job entails. | U | A 135-year-old state law re- Coroner FS) Term |quires her to bury shipwrecked PRINCETON, N.J. (AP)--A \people who wash up on the 'shapely blonde co-ed has} \shore, sell their clothes at pub- jlic auction and watch for more Golden Jubilee Chapter IODE Prepares For Centennial Year ded had at the com ment exercises at the Dr. F. J. Donevan Collegiate, and pre- sented a Second War Memorial Scholarship valued at $1,600 to Miss Patricia Jacklin of Osh- awa, on behalf of the National Chapter of the IODE. It was reported that the stand- ard bearer, Mrs. J. E. Hough- ton, had carried the flag of the Centennial year will be greet- ed enthusiastically by members of the Golden Jubilee Chapter of the IODE. : At the November meeting, held in the home of Mrs. R. S. Jones, many ideas were dis- d and idered for a chapter project that would suit- ably celebrate Canada's birth- day, and, as requested, the Osh- awa Centennial Committee will be advised of the proposed date| order, and that the regent, Mrs. a room, Mrs. Richard Schad; bake table, Mrs. Robert art; sewing, Mrs. H. J. Mark: doll clothes, Mrs. Ray novelties, Mrs. Fred Sturch: delicatessen, Mrs. E. W. white elephant,. Mrs, D. Kerr; candy, Mrs. G. R. Ban- non. The fun fair for the children was held in the school proper and included the ng: drinks, Mrs. B. J. Porter; ice cream, Mrs. D. E. Taylor; hot dogs, Mrs. D, A. Stovin; games, Mrs. Arthur Gray; pond, Mrs. H. M, Spurrell. . Sheffield distributed six "on the spot" prizes to lucky people during the afternoon. uly of this function. J. A. Vivash had pl The regent, Mrs. J. A. Vivash,, Wreath at the cenotaph serv- thanked the hostess for opening|ices, on Remembrance Day. her home to the members, and} The members stood and re- welcomed a guest, Mrs, T. J. Heath. Correspondence, from the Red Cross, the Oshawa Po- lice Ladies' Auxiliary, and the peated the affirmation of loyal- ty, as a new member, Mrs. Wallace Young, was welcomed into the chapter. Winner of the Oshawa branch of the Canadian Concert Association was read) kindly offered her home for the by the secretary, Mrs. E. L.| January meeting, at which time Disney. The treasurer, Mrs. R.|the annual meeting and election M. Morrison, gave the financial) of officers will take place. The report, and on behalf of the/chairman of. the nominating services at home and abroad de-| committee is Mrs. W, D. Burns, partment, Mrs. C. J. Higgs ask-| assisted by Mrs. D. M. Camp- ed that donations be sent to! bell and Mrs. Edward Bind. three IODE funds, the Korean) 'The December meeting will be Projects Fund, which supplies|heid at the Oshawa Golf Club powdered milk, x-ray equipment! and Mrs, E. R. Munday has and developing supplies tO/made arrangements for the Korea, and to two Service De-| Christmas dinner and the enter- partment funds. tainment that will follow. Guests Mrs. E. R. Snow, educational) will include the Honorary Re- secretary, reported that she had|gent, Mrs. T. K. Creighton, the attended the Oshawa Central | Honorary Vice-Regent, Mrs. Collegiate commencement exer-|Michael Starr, and Mrs. J. A. cises, and had. presented five|Mitchell, Regent of the Prince lucky draw, Mrs. L. R. Sawyer, White Cross Centre Open House, Sale The White Coss Centre, Simcoe street south, held its an- nual open house and bazaar on Thursday. The numerous Visi- tors saw a varied display of the arts and crafts done by mem- bers. helped by volunteers. The exhibits had been ar- ranged on tables containing hand knitting, aprons, and stuffed toys, Paintings by the members were framed and hung to display their beauty. Volunteers and members served tea and fancy cookies, STARTED AS SAINT Canadian "chanson" singer Monique Leyrac made her pro- fessional debut in 1944, acting St. Bernadette in a CBC radio jstudents with chapter awards. | Philip Chapter. play. started a three-year term as) coroner with visions of running) for the United States Congress) in the future. "This is an ideal political of- fice for a college girl," beamed/than anybody in the world read- ing all the law books and un- County coroner. "Already \'ve|COvering all kinds of minute blue-eyed Janet M. Bond prior to being sworn in as Mercer 8 been assisting in the research. hips. Her father, a physicist, has \It was decided to send books |and candy to the 'adopted' | school at McKerrow, Ontario, in "He's been having more fun|@ Christmas parcel. A donation was also sent to the Lucy Mor- rison.Memorial Fund for educa- tion. The regent reported from the Provincial Executive Meeting, met a lot of people I wouldn't|ttivia," she said. to try new recipes featuring|berries in a small saucepan. / y P 8 P have otherwise."' | "If the shipwrecked victim is these bright little red berries.| Bring to a full boil, then remove Should A Daughter's Pride and informed the members that Prevent Mother By ROBERTA ROESCH Should a daughter prevent her mother from the opportunity of working simply to preserve her own le? Her objections are that neighbors and social contacts will think the family funds are so low that she can't her mother. t's the problem we are air- ing today--from the viewpoint of the mother. "For the last year and a half, I have been living with my daughter in her beautiful sub- urban home," writes this reader, "and I have tried to be happy sharing her home, since T cannot afford to live alone. "But I have never really been happy as part of her endless social life, so for months I have wished I had a job to which I could go every day. I am con- fident I could handle one, since I worked as a bookkeeper for) years. My daughter, however,| From Working? to be considered in dealing with human relations, so the mother of this daughter will have to) take that into account in some) of the following ways. | To begin with, she will have}. . to try to understand her daught-|t er's feelings--even when those may be wrong--since she and her husband provide a home for her husband provide a home for the older woman, Then, armed with understand- ing, the mother will have to continue trying to convince her daughter that what she wants to do is best for her. | Ideally the best solution is aj compromise that will satisfy both of them. A volunteer job, for example, in which the mother could use her bookkeeping skills, might be the kind of answer that would save her daughter's pride and, at the same time, give the par- ent the life she would like to SALAD - DESSERT GELATIN 2 1 , you can switch your salad o a really beautiful dessert, CRANBERRY (Makes 1%4-quart mold) cups fresh cranberries, rinsed and drained cup water cup sugar cinnamon sticks whole cloves cups port wine or black cherry carbonated beverage 1-3 cup lemon juice envelopes unflavored gelatin can (1 pound) peach slices, drained Combine cranberries, water, | sugar and spices in saucepan.|it with the other. Bring to a boil, lower heat and) simmer five minutes. Cool. Re-| They're a real fall treat that) from heat. | will brighten up both the flavor and appearance of any dish injand stir until dissolved. Add|the coroner... . which they are used. So try this| cold water and cranberry mix-| eye-catching cranberry gelatin|ture. Chill until thickened. Addithe U.S. Thanksgiving holiday salad mold and, if at the last} peaches, celery and nuts and/she was invited to address a minute your cake falls, or extra|mix well, Pour into 144-quart|local boy scout troop. guests arrice you're -home safe) mold and chill until set. : Add boiling water to gelatin Beis WIFE PRESERVER A No. 2% can, with one end removed, is handy for making hamburger patties. Smash the pattie with the closed end, trim | Classmates introduce her to\foud nude I have to provide \their parents as: "My friend,|the grave clothes. the Provincial Educational Sec- retary, Mrs. Morley Keegan, " On her first night home for 4 1 a She's received 2 bundle of |mail from around the country, |including congratulatory letters! |from prominent national politic-| jans. Janet became something of aj celebrity recently by polling 56 votes for a landslide victory over 54 other write-in candi- dates. 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Combine gelatin and lemon juice in) saucepan und let stand for five = 04 saved me from work-| have on her ogrn. ig when she urged me to give) 1 this is not i | | possible, how-| up my home and my job and|over and the daughter still| come to live with her. clings to her false pride, the "Recently, I mentioned I) mother may have to take a would like to go back to work. |stand and ease into a job--per- But she says it wouldn't be fair/haps on a trial basis--so that minutes; place saucepan over low heat and stir until gelatin is dissolved. Combine gelatin to her, because her friends and her social contacts would think) that she and her husband were} keving money troubles. | "Is my daughter's view right} and mine all wrong? Please tell| me what's what in this case.") FALSE PRIDE I think any daughter is wrong if she lets the foolish false pride hold back her mother from working, if the parent really wants a job and has the stamina to hold one. But false pride is always there is concerned, and cranberry mixtures; chill until slightly, thickened. Fold in peach slices. Pour mixture into a 1%-quart mold; .chill- until firm. Unmoid and serve "wi sweetened whipped cream. BRANDIED. CRANBERRY she can prove that working doesn't mean the end of the so- cial line, as far as her daughter FIND FEWER BABIE6 HALIFAX (CP) -- The birth- |rate has been falling here for several years, say local. doc- tors, and it is expected to go on dropping as more and more wives take birth-control pills. Hospital beds formerly needed for maternity cases are being put to general use. PEACH GELATIN (Makes 6 to 8 servings) can (8 ounces) sliced peaches 1-3 cup brandy or 2 teaspoons brandy flavoring Water 2-3 cup sugar 1 20 SIMCOE ST. S. 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