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Their Benefit Many People Dear Aun Landers: My wile and I are in our 60's. Last week _ we decided to rewrite our wills. Since both my wife and I have been helped greatly by medical Science we decided to leave our remains to a medical school. A few weeks ago we were having dinner with our children and we mentioned this. Well, we never saw so much commo- tion. It created such a storm that both my wife and I are un- strung. Our children described it as gruesome, creepy and macabre to list a few adjectives. We explained. nothing in the Bible says this practice is sinful. We further explained that it was not a spur of the moment deci- sion--that we had thought about "dt for a long time and we want 'to do it. Our children are putting so tmuch pressure on us to change our minds that we are really 'Upset. Please give us your views. Are we "way out' as they say?--L. G. C. Dear L. G. C.: Your children - have no right to deprive you of the privilege of 'making this kind of contribution if you want to do it. Since you have made it clear that this is your wish, consider it settled. Dear Ann Landers; My dear- est friend (I'll call her Lottie), Legacy Should squirrel's company because I am leaving." He put on his coat and left. I spent two hours with; them, myself. I felt like crying, Ann. In my book my husband let me down. I do many things for him that I don't want to do, but I believe it's a wife's duty to please her husband. Am I wrong when I say he failed me? How should this problem be handled in the future?--Tears In The Pillow Dear Pillow: From your de~ scription of. Heathcliff, I think maybe I would have left with your husband. : If you enjoy Lottie, see her in the afternoon. But don't inflict the squirrel on your husband when you know he cannot stand him. : Dear Ann Landers: I've been going with a very nice gentle- man for six years. We cannot be married for a while but I won't go into the reasons here. (They are all good ones.) | We are both over 30 and have) a mutual agreement to ignore birthdays. We never speak of them. We do make a big thing jout of Christmas, however, and this is what I am writing about:| For the last four years I've asked him what he would like for a Christmas gift and he has said, "Just give me the money) and I'll buy what I want."" Each} --- married an oddball who thinks| year I have given him $40 and he is a creative genius. The slob| he seemed pleased won't take a steady job because' So far as I know he has never he needs to be free in case a| bought anything. I think he just brilliant thought hits him. I't}saves the money. This makes| not my business that he doesn't} me unhappy because I want the take a job, but he doesn't take| pleasure of seeing him enjoy a bath either. and this I find/something I bought for him repulsive. Motor City Streamlines TOPS sii REMEMBER THE OSHAWA PRODUCTION OF HMS PINAFORE IN 1912? presented in the Grand Thea- tre which was located on the north side of King street east, in the second floor of what is known as the Felt Block, Identified in this group are the following whom long - established resi- Often accused of suffering from a cultural deficiency, this photograph taken in 1912, shows that in those halcyon days Oshawa boast- ed enough active musical talent to produce HMS Pin- afore. The light opera was Crown 1965 Queen Of Losers Mrs. J, S. Poirier was nanied| At the election of officers Mrs. Would it be rude of me to tell Queen of the Motor City Stream-|Florence Russell was elected 1966 for a second eho ; / teu) -< TOP I love Lottie's. company. She| him how I feel or should I just liners TOE 4 is a dear person and we grew! continue to give him the annua]|™@S dinner and annu up together, but Heathcliff is too! much. I've decided to put up . with him, but my husband froths at the mouth when I tell him! years you should have a fairly| Weight in the current year. Lottie and Heathcliff are com- ing over. Tonight when I told him they were dropping by after dinner he said, "I hope you enjoy that! KEEP IN TRIM cheque?--The G. F. Dear G, F.: If you have been going with this man for six idea of his tastes and needs. Go out and buy him a gift this year and I'll bet he registers more enthusiasm than he did over the cheques. good | Russell | with a bouquet of red roses, and/other prizes were won by Miss Army, paid Tense, Nervous, Tired? | Try A Relaxing Miracle By IDA JEAN KAIN | When we feel tense and ner-|our vously tired, it is next to im-|tensing the muscles and slowly) FOR TOMORROW scious, and as such is beyond control. By deliberately possible to experience the heart-| releasing the tension, conscious warming glow of this blessed|control is acquired. Think of|Jating day. Stars will bless any season. A reader has written to} this as shifting into power steer-| worthwhile endeavor, share his secret of relaxing.| ing. It's not easy, but practice| terial brings a blessed release. This senior citizen writes: "T figure you are interested in keeping your readers in good| neliberately health, Needless to say, ner-| muscles, then let lower jaw sag|along occupational lines are in- vousness is the cause of many! joosely. Repeat. Wrinkle the /dicated our modern ailments and) forehead, then let the brow of Start with the facial muscles tense one of the doctors asked me,| smooth out, gently. Hunch your "Do you find yourself with) shoulders, then allow them to clinched fists during the night?!drop back, rotate your head, The next time you have trouble} loosely, first in one direction |Wil do all in your power to sleeping, or bothered with indi- "at take advantage of all available |} then in the other direction. Ah, coparhinitied, Even though yourthave three 'imambers who have gestion, or if you want to get/| tension is so often the root of the trouble." "Many years ago while work- ing with a large hospital staff, up and eat, see if your hands/ are made into fists, with the nails almost boring into your palms." "Sure enough that is exactly t-f discovered. vised not only to open my hands but to relax all of my body, including my facial mus- cles, legs, shoulders and arms I'm writing this hoping many of your readers might get the} wia I was. ad-|_ your face, neck and shoulders feel relaxed and _ released. That's a good start. Go through this practice with each group of muscles, head to toes. Once the relaxing is begun in any group of muscles, nature carries on, You can pro¢eed to relax the next set. Happy Holidays! TO COLOR GRAVY Dark gravies may be obtain- ed by adding a darkener to the lighter, finer-flavored' drippings - and your jawjopportunities for advancement S Club at its Christ-|leader for al meeting term. Other officers held at the Club 401 recently were: ist co-leader, Mrs. Mar-; The Queen was chosen be-|garet Poirier; 2nd co-leader, cause she had lost the most/Judy Reinkoester; Her porter, Mrs. Evelyn Harris; runner-up was Mrs. Lillian Wil-|treasurer, Mrs. June Deveau; son. Other winners in their divi-| weight-recorder, Mrs. Geraldine sions were Mrs. Connie Magee, Smith, appointed. Mrs. Poirier Mrs. Reta Hartwig; Miss Phyllis|will remain the club's photog- Ann Goguen, TOPS Princess,! raphez. | Miss Elizabeth Devenish,' Christmas carols were sung, TOPS Tiny Princess. games were played and gifts ex- The leader, Mrs. Florence|changed. Miss Evelyn Black- presented the Queen/thorn won the centre piece and last year's Queen, Mrs. June} Coguyen. pobre ate the crown upon Regular meetings of the Motor her head. -- Streamliners TOPS Club THE STARS SKY are now held Tuesday evening at the Civic Auditorium} By ESTRELLITA City every and are well attended in spite of transportation difficulties. The club held a_ successful bazaar in November, where the }winners of the grocery baskets and M&-| were Mrs, Geraldine Smith, Wil- interests may be fur-|jowdale | thered through the assistance Of|jijams, Farewell avenue. a valuable contact. Some new Thursday should be a: stimu The Wednesday night Happy; Gang TOPS challenged the} Motor City Streamliners to a contest from September 14 to FOR THE BIRTHDAY November 30. The winner was If tomorrow is your birthday,|the Motor City Streamliners a bright year awaits you if ad ig a total weight loss of 245 Ss. The Motor City Streamliners interests may not seem to belattained their desired : weight progressing at the -moment,/and have held it for a period many advantages are indicated/of three months, becoming soon--no later, in fact, than! KOPS (Keep Off Pounds); three} mid-April, when you will enter! who have attained their desired a highly propitious planetary | weight and are trying to hold it cytle which will last for at least|for the three month period, KIW a month. This cycle will favor|(KOPS in waiting) 'and a few ional.and.financial in-| members..who hone terests, romance, travel and so-'reach these categories before cial activities the convention in May During October, however, it would be well to consolidate what gains you make between now and then, since you will not have another good fiscal more to same relief I did and still do.'"'| Produced by roasting turkey at! 'break' until the end of Novem- How right he is! Tension is|4 low temperature of 325 de-|ber. This one, however, will last today's gremlin. Perhaps no) condition of mind or body out- tanks that of nervous tension as the cause of unhappiness. TAKES PRACTICE Learning to relax takes prac- tice. Tension is, partly subcon-! Holiday Punch Coffee Eggnog Creamy, rich eggnog will be the star attraction at any, holi- day party. For a large group Serve it in your prettiest and biggest punch bow! and let your guests help themselves. Or for a smaller party, serve coffee "eggnog and shortbread cookies as a delicious, quickly prepared snack. Food specialists at Mac- donald Institute, Guelph, recom- mend making this eggnog at least 2 to 3 hours before using it to let the flavors blend. Add gingerale or soda water just be- fore serving. : COFFEE EGGNOG 6 eggs % cup sugar ¥Y, teaspoon cinnamon Y, teaspoon ginger Y% teaspoon ground cloves cups milk cups strong coffee Y% cup lemon juice cups. gingerale or soda water quart vanilla ice cream nutmeg Beat eggs until light - and Jemon-colored. Add sugar and spices. Stir in milk, cold coffee and lemon -juice.Chil}- for -two or three hours to allow the fla- vors to blend. Before serving cut ice cream into small cubes and place in punch bowl. Pour in eggnog mixture and ginger ale.. Sprinkle .conerancte nutmeg. This recipe makes 20 to 24-punch-cup servings, ' 4 4 4 1 with grees F'., says the Poultry Prod- ucts Institute. Simply melt 2 cups of granulated sugar in a heavy frying pan over low heat Stir constantly until caramel is dark brown. It will have lost all sweet taste. Slowly stir in two cups boiling water. Cook until caramel is all dissolved and syrup is slightly thickened. Cool and store in closed jar or bottle Use as much as required to give light colored gravy the desired color. MOVES TO STATES Veteran CBC singer Harmer has moved writer-husband Allan to a 100-year-old near New York. Shirley with , her Bertram farmhouse through the first three months of 1967. Creative workers will find this year an exceptionally good one, with the months of May, June and September un- usually profitable. Personal relationships will be governed by excellent influences for most of the year ahead-- with the possible exception of" brief periods in early June and mid-November: Best periods for romance, besides the aforesaid April - May period: Late June and late July; for travel and special activities: June, mid- August, September and next De- cember A child born on this day will be endowed with a high order of intelligence, great love of home and family and a special liking for literature. THIS CHRISTMAS HELP A STRANGER Choose "Help a Stranger inc.' L Make this Christmas truly meaningful rian organization devoted solely to the promotion of a more charitable celebration of Christmas. ty We -- GINGER ALE TONIC WATER CLUB SODA is a non-profit, non-secta- elected| dents may recognize: Mr. Norman Henley, Mrs. A. McGibbon (Mildred Ellis); Mrs, Puckett; Miss Leah Garrow; Mrs. John Burns (Larraine Tod); Mrs. Wil- liam Coad (Erline Moore); Mrs. R. Leo Gray (Ina Tod); Mrs. Arthur Felt (Florence Tait); Russell Wotten; Mrs. George Hezzlewood (Ruby Derry); Mr. Robertson; Mrs. Russell Bale (Miss Saywell); Mr. Fred Dobney Sr. and Mr. Harold Bateman on the ex- Women sacretary ae. 14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, December 22, 1965 SOCIAL & PERSONAL Jo Aldwinckle, Telephone 723 - 3474 for Women's Department The 10th sponsored Guide Company, by the Salvation its annual visit to Holiday Manor where the senior citizens were the recipients of candlesticks and candles made by the Guides for each apart- ment.. Carol singing, heralding the approach of the Guides as they passed through the halis, was appreciated by the resi- dents. Mr. and Mrs, Herbert Russell, Cadillac avenue south, are fly- Women's Editor | Kerracher, formerly of Oshawa and now. with St. Joseph's Hos- pital, Farockaway, Long Island, New York. Mr. and Mrs. Robert Chalifour} and daughter Linda, - Scarbor-| ough, spent Sunday with Mr. Chalifour's parents, Mr. and} Mrs. C, E, Chalifour, Colborne street. | The members of the Oshawa Weavers Guild were the guests at a Christmas party held at the home. of Mrs. A. E. Hornick, Ayenue, and Mrs. Wil-!ing to New York City for the|Glenforest avenue, which was 'Christmas weekend, where they| beautifully will meet Miss Elizabeth Mc- decorated in the Christmas theme. A social hour Oshawa GIVE HER A FUR A Very Merry Christmas ¢ FURS TO ENCHANT HER AT CHRISTMAS from THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT | FOR THE MOST PERFECT GIFT TIME Our Furs are Beautifully . Christmas Wrapped. The Fines Quality Furs OSHAWA | FURRIERS We wish to take this opportunity to Wish our Many Friends & Customers 463 BOND STREET EAST OSHAWA PARKING @ Furriers THIS CHRISTMAS and a Happy New Year. jing will be held at the home of | treme right. The photo- graph is the property of Mr. Bateman who is pre- senting it to the Henry House Museum. The Osh- awa Historical Society is glad to accept any such treasures of the past for its archives. was spent in the exchange of | Small gifts and Christmas re-| freshments were served by the hostess. The next regular meet-| Mrs. S. J. Stuart, Brooklin » on January 18. | Mrs. W. D, Arnold, College What Is The Seed Ot Success In Lite? _ By RORERTA ROESCH. - whats me detimiuon or successful person? ' That's a thought to consider as one year ebbs to its close to open up a brand new door to fresh opportunities. I have thy own thoughts on the subject from years of ob- servation. To go along with my personal findings, I also have scientific ones that have come to me from Mensa, a worldwide organization whose member- ship requirements are based solely on brainpower and 1.Q. "Tt takes an intelligence quo- tient score of 146 or better to be eligible for Mensa,"' the brain- powers behind it explain, 'but any person of normal intelli: gence can develop the qualities that most successful people have, This is obvious since not everyone who has attained a! measure of achievement has also been blessed with 'way- above-average intelligence." NEED MATURITY The successful person is usu- ally more mature emotionally, says Mensa, than the one who knows only failure. Psycholo- gists and other scientific prob- ers of human behavior patterns have found that personal values --a living and consistent code of ethics--are also at the heart of athie ; ceed without si : 4 "The successtul "person--isn't--- afraid to formulate and express his ideas. Although there are exceptions, it is only rarely that the person, who plays follow the leader and never has a thought of his own, gets ahead. The most successful people are those who are capable of coming up with good ideas and putting them across to others effectively, The successful person main- tains an active, problem-solving attitude and applies it to tack- ling the situations that confront him daily. He learns to be ob- jective about both himself and any problem. Then-.he defines the problem, evaluates all the possible solutions -and carries out the answer that seems to be the most reasonable. £ KEEP OPEN MIND The successful person is one who never stops learning. His mind is constantly open to the world around him. He is always looking for new ideas. Taking an occasional classroom course can be a good way of keeping the mind active and getting the cobwebs out of the brain. The successful person has confidence in himself and others and uses his brainmanship for creative thinking. 'SW poopie suc F a sense of respou- Buy Quality at Black's Shirts by Forsythe & Hathaway Colognes by Jade East & Canoe Sportswear by Jantzen Sweaters by Gino Paoli, Tony Day, Jay-Berma, Parker of Vienna Handsome TV Gowns Shoes by Sloter Hats by Dobbs Cuff Link Sets styled for Black's Gloves & Vests See our Leather Counter Gift Certificates NEW FORMAL WEAR & RENTALS avenue, entertained the mem- bers of the Weavers' Guild re- | cently, to visit with her house guest, Miss Mary Andrews of Banff, a friend and former member of the Guild. Miss An- drews showed slides of her weaving and school that she has in her home in Banff. : HOUSEHOLD HINT Cover rickrack, or other braid) with wide cellophane tape be- fore you stitch it on to keep the presser foot of the sewing machine from catching in the points. MEN'S WEAR LTD. ESTABLISHED 1924 74 Simcoe North Plan to Make Your Reservations for Your ISTMAS * BANQUET Plan mow on holding your holiday social funeti surroundings of the Flying Dutchmen Motor Ment < Oae Kr irene Drive East of Oshawa) -- Interchange 75, on Ontario's new super Hwy--401 Whether you ere entertaining « group of 10 or 150, you will receive the same coreful attention from our expert end willing stoff, We ot the Flying Dutchman ore especially proud of the prestige which has been achieved through the personei end meticuious consideration whieh is given to the minutest detail of your function, For Your Reservation PHONE 623-3373 Highway 401 Bowmanville INTERCHANGE 75 623-3373 The Women's Welfare League of Oshawa Directors of SIMCOE HALLS BOYS' CLUB - EASTVIEW -- announces ---- ADULT & CHILDREN'S REGISTRATION FOR JANUARY/MARCH SWIMMING INSTRUCTION on TUESDAY, 28th DECEMBER 1965 at EASTVIEW BOYS' CLUB, Eulalie Ave. 9:30 a.m. to 12:00 noon © 1:30 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. CHILDRENS' SWIMMING INSTRUCTION For Tadpole, Beginner, Junior, Intermediate, Senior, and.R.L.S.S. Bronze, Award of Merit. 12 week course, one hour a week, Classes will be held on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednes- days at 4:15 to 5:15 p.m. -- 7:00 to 8:00 p.m. -- 8:00 to 9:00 p.m. The fee for the course is $6.00 per child, and child must be a member of the Simcoe Hal! Boys' Club. ADULT SWIMMING INSTRUCTION : MIXED ADULTS each Tuesday evening. Classes held 9:00 to 10:00 p.m. -- 10:00 to 11:00 p.m. 12 week course, one lesson per week, Fee $10.00. Closses include Beginner, Junior, Intermediate; and Senior Red Cross. : 1 LADIES INSTRUCTION each Thursday morning. Classes held 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. --- 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. 12 week course, one lesson per week. Fee $10.00, Classes include Beginner, Junior, Intermediate, and Senior Red Cross, : MOTHERS AND PRE-SCHOOL Each Monday afternoon 2:00 to 2:30 p.m, -- 2:30 to 3:00 p.m of age. Six weeks course, one lesson per week, Fee $1.50 The above programme will commence on MONDAY, JANUARY 3rd, 1966. No applications will be accepted for the above programmes prior to the scheduled date and times. for 'children under 5 years Application forms now available. For further information call 728-5121 GEORGE MUDD, Assistant Director, Simcoe Hall Boys' Club, Eastview Park, Oshawa.