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ese TTT * vides a dependable adult to care Without His Rum Jar For Him, Party Flops Dear Ann Landers: Please| ~'gettle an argument. My hus- -4band prefers rum but he will drink anything that is poured if there is no rum handy. As for me, I am not fussy. My husband says a' decent "host makes it a point to learn * and remember what his friends prefer so he can keep it on *hand when they visit. He says it is a sign of indifference when friends know that a person pre- fers a certain drink and then don't bother to have it on hand. Last night we went to a party at the home of friends we've « known for years. They had no " rum in the house and my hus- * band became surly and un- * pleasant, I say he expects too » much of people. He says I am a country hick. What do you say?--Suburban Squabble * Dear Suburban; A first-rate 2 host goes out of his way to please his guests--and keeping * their favorite beverage on hand » Is evidence that he went out of 'his way to please them. If a host fails to do so, it does not justify surly and un- pleasant behavior. When a spe- cial beverage becomes that im- 'portant maybe the person , should stick to ginger ale. Dear Ann Landers: Everyone -who wants to air a complaint * seems to write to you sooner « or later. Here is mine: I am employed by the tele- phone company as a long-dis- + tance operator. Why do people * pwho talk on long-distance feel + they must shout into the mouth- piece in order to be heard? The telephone equipment is made to Dear Ears: Telephone equip- ment has improved a great deal in the last 15 -years. Antiques like myself can remember when a call from Chicago to either coast was more static than con- versation. An overseas call made before the Second World War was mostly: "What did you say?" The present day shouters are mostly old-timers like myself who can't get used to the idea that it isn't necessary to yell anymore. P.§. I'll bet you are an opera- tor who has had me on the line and I yelled in your ear. Thanks for the tip. I'll try to watch it. Dear Ann Landers: I am a quiet, well - mannered young lady of 15. My problem is my father. He monopolizes my male. guests, as if they came to see him instead of me. I have lost some very fine boy friends because of this awful thing. I would prefer that my boy friends pick me up for dates and visit with me in my own) home, but if dad's behavior con- tinues I will meet my boy friends elsewhere, When my father has com-} pany I don't make a pest of myself, I greet them and leave the room. Why can't he do the same? I'll be going away to col- lege in two years but I hate to think of sweating out this dread- ful situation until then. Any sug- gestions?--A Proper Little Lady Dear Little Lady: If you could read the letters I get) transmit a normal speaking voice, Distance makes no differ-| - ence. Will you please pass on this) word to your millions of readers|are entitled to privacy when|ried and save the eardrums of hard-|they have guests -- including|Church, Lefford, on New Year's} working operators all over the|teen-agers. Point this out to|Day, 1906. The bride's parents| dad would be civil to their boy friends, you'd feel less abused and maybe a little Jucky. All members of the family Se f | CL/ 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, January 7, 1966 MR, AND MRS. GEORGE E. WILSON | Wed New Year's Day, 1906 | Yelverton Pair Are Honored | Family Célebrates | 45th Anniversary |Ot Newcastle Pair Mr. and Mrs. George E. Wil-|spoke words of congratulation | | son of Yelverton were honored and paid a tribute to the pair| at a special family dinner on their diamond wedding anniver- sary. Mr. and Mrs. Wilson, the mer Miss Eva in St. Mary's Anglican who will be celebrating their | A family party was held at | the home of Mr. and Mrs. C. A. | 85th and 83rd birthdays later|Cowan, Newcastle, Ont., to cele- from teen-age girls who wish|New Year's Day celebrating|this month. In March 1906, the newlyweds moved into the first farm north) , a | of y i for-|of Yelverton where they farmed| Charles Cowan were married in|or and bridesmaids, Miss Bever-| with gifts of crystal, china, and Flack, were mar-|for over 40 years, prior to retire-|Toronto December 29, 1920, by|!y Homewood, Fort Erie; Miss!a buffet. jment. Their son, Jack, and his family continue to run the farm. Mr. and Mrs. Wilson have country? Thank you. -- Aching} your dad, calmly and politely,| were Mr. and Mrs. David Flack/made a noteworthy contribution Ears 'and you'll get better results. CHILD GUIDANCE The Correct Child Care Faces Working By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD {child by day and guide him in who farmed at Fleetwood. The ito the Yelverton community, ifarm is now occupied by Mr.|Mrs. Wiiscn was the first presi-| newly built home on Mill street, | and Mrs. Harry Shea. Mr. Wil-| dent son is the eldest son of the late| woman's church's then the local organization, of |brate their forty-fifth wedding | anniversary. The former Viola Gilmer and| jthe Reverend C. W. Wilson. |They have spent all of their} jmarried life in Newcastle, liv-| jing first on North street and a} |few years later moving to their| |which they still occupy. | Their hobby has been the Mr. and Mrs. Richard Wilson.|known as the Ladies' Aid, now| growing of flowers, specializing! Present to honor the anniver- actively interested throughout The couple received numerous lsary pair was the organist for| the years. Mother |their wedding, Mr. Wilson's sis-| Iter, Ada, now Mrs. Jack Clark|messages of congratulation in- The working mother of the/Self-amusement, and, when pos- child under school age tries, as|5 her absence. Usually she pro-| for the child. lt In some economically disad-|j - vantaged areas a public day}; ' nursery is provided at little or| while the mother is home, when « no cost, though far too few of ~ these are available. The working mother, after a/ * day's work, may have a heavy| household program on her re-| turn home. So encumbered, the . mother may lack time to enjoy) « the children while she is home, * or she may be too tense emo- - tionally to enjoy them. * In case she has school ~ age| ~ children she should train them at sharing in the home drudg- » 'eries. Her husband might also assist. It's not the number of hours she or the father spend ible, some amusement with |* -a rule, to make sure of protec- | other children of his age, tion for this youngster during | serEcT WELL In matters of control, he mother is away as when she| s present. It may be fortunate f the caretaker is also present this mother might guide the control; also cultivate in the child co-operation and obedience} to this caretaker, | About the worst thing that could happen would be for the mother to punish the youngster her authority with the child should be decisive, final Obviously the working mother | needs early to establish effec- tive control of the child through Iso of Bethany. of Bethany, and the matron of|cluding greetings from Mr. Rus- honor, Mrs. Lyla Vance Kerr,|sell Honey MP, Mr. Alex Car-|sage and boutonniere were pin- |ruthers MPP and an illuminated Mr. Lloyd Wilson and Mr./address from the government of|Stapleton and Mrs. Jack Wilson, representing the|Ontario, department of citizen- | Daniel. An address was read by| westbrook High School, hopped | four eons and ten grandchildren, | ship. the|-- cesta ways should be the same when to the rich and status-conscious.|Sometimes the pants guaran- Long a holdout from the youth|teed attention with dazzling of| o¢ worship cult that eaptured|art combinations. French fashions last year, the} Strictly for evening, they are the pretty pastel shades are same hue. OFFERS PYJAMAS For women who don't want to bare their knees in his short, Hats for the Norell collection ldean of U.S. style pacesetters|range from the giant pinwheels |caretaker in effective ways of|finally succumbed with his own|to floppy - brimmed, high - version of the baby doll dress.|crowned felts. | Shoes are low-heeled and two- shockingly short, at least by old|toned for day, with low pumps standards. With hem lines two inches above the knees, s A- sses|eyes. Accessories are simple in the evening for reported mis- "yor yokeless A-line dresses | Pp. lbehavior d her absence. |) [behavior during ats aeer yy, {banded on the skirt and sleeve| Selecting the caretaker well-| aces by twinkling beads of the|ing Norell, who sells his seem-|-- |for night. Makeup is natural, except for heavily - painted jand old-fashioned. Women who despair at copy- jingly simple-to-make suits and dresses at $900 and up, will |merely have to wait a minute. |The ready - to - wear industry, which knocks down Norell His brother, Mr. Archie Wilson, 'the United Church Women, in|in roses. They take part in the | cried | still operates the family farm. which she has continued to be/life of their community and are|ing when you know you'll never|/ }MAGINED BEDROOM active workers United Church. in Newcastle) ed pair were presented with a | sapphire crystal bowl. A cor-| ned on them by |Mrs. Edward Warburton and jthe presentation was made by |Mrs. Herbert Gilmer. The nieces and grand-nieces the couple served the guests. | Members of the family at-| jtended from Newcastle, Bow- manville, Courtice and Oshawa. Mr. and Mrs. Cowan were the} recipients of many cards and gifts from neighbors and | friends. FEW EARN MUCH Only seven per cent of fully- employed Canadian women jearned more than $4,000 in 1960. ltott KCMG, British High Com- SOCIAL & Jo Aldwinckle, PERSONAL Women's Editor Telephone 723 - 3474 for Women's Department Miss Ann Stiles and Miss Jo- anne Conway spent several days in Peterborough during the holi- days, taking the Red Cross Swimming Instructor's Course which they both passed. In past summers Miss Stiles has taught swimming at Camp Samac and Miss Conway at City Pools. They were the only two from Oshawa and from out-of-town at the Peterborough session. Mr. and Mrs. H. §. Gill, Wil- son road north, had as their New Year dinner guests, Mr. and Mrs. Roy Mulligan, Mr. Walter Bigley, all of Bobcay- geon; Mr. Horace Goodman of Lindsay; Mrs. Mabel Ryan, Fen- elon Falls, and Mr, and Mrs.) William Gill and family of Osh- awa. His Excellency Sir Henry Lin- missioner to Canada will form- Diane Haas, Miss Barbara Olin- yk, both of Oshawa; Miss Mary Dickinson, Elora, and Miss Mar- garet Smith, Fergus, Ontario. Soloist: at the Dickinson -- Johnston wedding was Mrs. Ed- ward Flagel who was accom- panied by Mrs. Philip Lesley. The 8:00 p.m. ceremony in Northminster United Church was followed by a reception in the church hall. Mr. Frank Dickinson of Elora was best man at the Dickinson-- Johnston wedding and ushering were William Cuningham and Jack Crellenden, both of Elora; William Krets, Goderich; Brian Henderson, London, Ontario, and Fred W. Johnston of Oshawa. Mrs. Earl Matthews and Mrs. George Jones were co-hostesses at a dinner party, New Year's Day, for their parents, Mr. and Mrs. S. J. McCully, in honor of} ally open an exhibition by young English artists at the Art Gal-| lery of Toronto tonight. Mem-| bers and guests will be invited to view the collection of 67 paintings and 13 sculptures en- titled "London, the Scene"'. At her marriage to Mr. James Dickinson, Miss Constance John-' } Miss Cathy| where the bride and bridegroom} ston was attended by McRae, Oshawa, as maid of hon- Blinded Student Follows Class Work By WESTBROOK, Me. (AP)--"I at first. It's a funny feel- see again," 4 | Then Barbara Mitchell added:;was at a Portland hospital, | | During the evening the honor-|«put {t isn't a handicap. I'm so|Barbara used to visualize her fortunate to have had sight for 16 years." That's how the pretty, 17-year- onto her new white motor scooter one afternoon last July. While riding to a girl friend's house, she skidded into a car. For months doctors thought she wouldn't live. Barbara suf- fered extensive brain and spinal injuries and lost her sight. But now she's up and about at the home of her parents, Mr. and Mrs, Lawrence E. Mitchell. And she's determined she will graduate with her class next June. "J shall do everything I ever did before except drive a car," she said, "and when they invent |, ---DAVIDSON' New) their 40th wedding anniversary. Mr. and Mrs. McCully were married January 1, 1926, in Drumlee Presbyterian Church, |County. Down, Northern Ire-| \land, and came to Oshawa in| 1928. Following the dinner, held h jin the Rib Room, Hotel G The New Year, 1966, was welcomed exuberantly by well over 100 members and guests at the annual New Year's Eve party at the Grandview Golf Club. The ballroom was gaily deco- rated pvith streamers and tin- sel, while overhead 100 multi- colored balloons fluttered to and fro, to be released at the stroke of midnight, The tables surrounding the dance floor were decked with noise makers, horns and hats. Mr. Jack Walmsley, the mas- ter of ceremonies for the dance program, spun a broad reper- toire of modern and old-time music, The reception committee for the evening was comprised of Dr. B. A. Brown, Mr. Bryce Brown, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Brown and Mr. and Mrs. John Konarowski, who prepared the buffet supper which.was served shortly after the New Year was ushered in. Winners of spot dances were Mr. and Mrs. Guy Roach, Mr. and Mrs, Ross McMaster, Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Wilson, and Mr. and Mrs. H. Hicks. The statue dance was won by Mr. G. W. Stevens, and Mrs. T. J. Schrader. Door prizes were won by Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Loyko and Mr. and Mrs. Alex Sydorenko. Among those seen dancing were: Mr. and Mrs. T. B. Dan- fels, Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Mar- shall, Mr. and Mrs. R. C. Me- Master, Mr. and Mrs. T. Cor- mack, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Carr, Mr. and Mrs. Donald Tilk, Mr.. and Mrs. Harvey Wilson, Mr. and Mrs. J, Milne, Mr. and| Mrs, R. Simmons, Mr. and |the guests were entertained at |the home of Mr. and Mrs. 3. FE. Jones, Chadburn. street, iof 40 years ago were presented Telephone a car with push button magnet |control, I'll do that, too." In sleepless nights while she | Dadnaems as it was the night be- fore her accident. | "I'd remember my bed is Mrs. Berti oiq blonde reacted to blindness.| grey with a pink spread... . Colinwood) Barbara, a cheerleader at/the animals... the book I left open, and my glasses. Then I'd worry about where I left off in the book and I couldn't remem- ber." | Reading is what Barbara }misses more than anything, But ishe has a substitute, a talking book machine which helps her with her school work. Another mechanical aid to school work is a_ telephone hook-up with her classrooms. "Before class begins," she said, "the kids come over and | whisper in the intercom, They'}l jtell if we have a substitute (teacher) or any of the latest gossip." Barbara wants to attend a vo- cational school for the blind. One of the prerequisites is he- ing able to walk by herself with a cane, "It's a funny thing,"' Barbara said. "I was always tripping over something before the acci- dent, but I haven't tripped since." | Ai Pe Pe. L Uldlluview Uull Ul Exuberant Throng Greets 1966 oe er Mrs, A, D. Pratt, Mr. and Mrs. D. D. Gray, Mr, and Mrs. Sam- uel Venn, Mr, and Mrs, §. A. Loyko, Mr. and Mrs, Alex Syderenko, Mr. and Mrs. Charles Holt, Mr. and Mrs, Robert Holden, bMr, and Mrs. L. R. Jeffs, Miss Sandra Constable, Mr. John Porayko, Mr. and Mrs. D, R. Hurst, Mr. and Mrs, Lorne Bray, Mr. and Mrs. J, Brisbois, Mr. and Mrs, James Szikszay, Miss Gayle Saville, Mr. B. E. Ryan, Mr. and Mrs, Guy Roach, Mr, and Mrs. Gary Stevens, Mr. and Mrs. T, J, Schrader Mr. and Mrs. A. Allan, Mr. and Mrs, E. C, Lloyd, Mr,- and Mrs. A. E. Haley, Mr. and Mrs. Jack Walmsley.' Mr. and Mrs. Roy Mills, Mr. and Mrs. Alfred eves, Mr. and Mrs. J. Sweetman, Mr. and Mrs. J, Johnston, Mr. and Mrs, Omer DeForge, Mr. and Mrs. T. Smyth, Mr, and Mrs. L. J, Bobbie, Mr. and Mrs, W. J. Lawrie, Mr. and Mrs, J, Tuskey, Mr. and Mrs. M. Pepe- rowski, Mr. and Mrs. William Moore, Mr. and Mrs. John Vickery, Mr. and Mrs. J, Fahrenbach, Mr. and Mrs, Dun- ean McColl, Mr, and Mrs. V. Wilbee, Mr. and Mrs. T. Savage, Mr. and Mrs. V. W. Jarvis, Mr. and Mrs. Frank Smith, Mr. and Mrs. H. Hill, Mr. and Mrs. John Wihilidil, Mr. and Mrs. R. Sharpe, Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Gilham, Mr. and Mrs. R. Royston, Mrs. Dean Dillabough, Mr. A. Kelt, Miss 0. Kokot, Mr, and Mrs. William Jeffs, Mr. and Mrs. A. Crow- ther and others, WIFE PRESERVER White shoe polish renews the grout lines between ceramic tiles, Apply with an eld tooth- bpush, Misses wipe off with damp cloth. VADIANT | CLEANERS NOW HAS 2 CONVENIENT LOCATIONS | @ Oshawa @ 1120 Simcoe St. N. 728-2361 Shopping Centre 725-1023 for pick-up and delivery call - | 728-2361 Oshawa Shopping Centre ~ with the child that counts so * working mother may arise with measures the caretaker can lalso use. Having early. estab- lished in this child a respect for the iittie word "ne," ihe mother can shift from spanking as pun- ishment to chairsitting for a} much as the quality of the re- Istionshin et home. Some special problems for the the child from one to six or , 'guilt for being away from home . ishing sweets and playthings on » the youngster. seven. Often with a. sense of by day, the mother may incline to try to compensate with lav- * RELAXES CONTROL The working mother may re- " lax on matters of control. She may feel she should constantly entertain the child while she is home. As a result, the young- ster may grow more dependent = on her and less happy in her absence. Even when she is not bur- * dened with household duties, she needs, while home, to try to educate her child in self-amuse- ment and self-feliance so he « can be more comfortable when * she's away. Of course, the working mother and dad should read daily to their young child and play with him. But if the youngster must have her constant personal at- tention each evening he wil! be | less prepared to be happy while alone with the caretaker. In the child's guidance and amusement, the working mother * and her husband should aim to cultivate in the caretaker the same general procedure when - alone with the child as when definite period. | While few mothers are eager to have a caretaker spank their} child, they hardly will hesitate to delegate to her authority to administer chairsitting punish- ment. Unless the caretaker has authority to control the young- ster effectively, impossible prob- lems may arise. Flat Bosoms, Long Waists Coming Back NEW YORK (AP)--After Nor- man Norell's spring collection opening women without the wherewithal for one of his orig- inal creations may usurp their husbands' cardigan sweaters to wear with their pleated skirts. They also may be tempted to snip out the bosom - shaping darts in blouses and dresses in an effort to duplicate the new, flat-chested, long-waisted silhouette by this most widely copied of American designers. Mannish cardigans, plus the three-button Rex Harrison ver- sion, cut from soft jersey fa- brics, worn over slim accordina- pleated skirts and curveless, the mother is home. Especially if the caretaker read to the neck-sashed blouses are only a part of Norell's fashion message eseiatiemanieaaia short gowns at a charity ball, Norell offers party pyjamas topped by the straight, dartless bidiises. Some were dramatically black, worn with a strand of pearls, like the traditional lit- tle black cocktail dresses. Some were simple, pastel confections; others were sugary with glitter. |styles faster than it can steal| from Paris, probably will have} |them on the racks in no time| at working-giri prices. | HOUSEHOLD HINT A drop of lighter fluid will | loosen a. stamp without damage from an unusable envelope. & JANUARY CLEARANCE DUPONT Has immediate at its Plant Guignments Walch 'heve' Insluged. whic! vi ----e<--_«_ioo Experience in work with manag OF CANADA LTD. Regular Opening SENIOR STENOGRAPHER in the Technical Department in Ajax, Ont. five yeors experience in secretarial shorthand os well es tryping end jament personnel, end high school are Independent transportation to th This position will include work di but not e plont is necensery. company benefit range. Ajex Fairall St., A . 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