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an BY JO ALDWINCKLE Women's Editor of The Times TTVITTITTT bee 4 po The Journal is one year old today. Like most infants »~ {t has suffered a spell of sickness and recovered and with <= your kind indulgence and encouragement it may survive, ~ My engagement calendar for 1966 is staring at me = blankly. Before discarding last year's I have been leafing «through it month by month. My heart skipped a beat = when I noticed that my first "date" in January was with & Evalyne Branch. Mrs, Walter Branch whose untimely "death last Sunday the whole city mourns and I had a long -. chat about her travels, particularly in Russia and Poland. It had not been an easy trip. At times it was wearing to .. keep on schedule and frequently frustrating. ' "Why did you go?" I asked her ,and in her quick, "eager way she replied "Because I wanted to see things "for myself. Because I love people."' Our eyes met and our ©. thoughts touched. It was a moment of sweet accord, " We met on many different occasions in as many dif- ferent places and always felt close. This was a different side of the light-hearted comedienne who gave generously of her talents, spilling mirth into humdrum lives. Our ~ sympathy is a poor substitute for the emptiness she leaves "behind but for her husband and family it is real and abiding. Social Highlights Highlights of January were Polish banquets and the Winter Carnival at Club Loreley. There was the Ontario Regiment Change of Command ceremony at the Oshawa Armouries the Burns' Supper and the Nicol-Starr wedding. MCVI students presented "Life With Father". In February OCVI students presented "The Winslow "Boy" and Oshawa's Sweet Adeli "Four § of Harmony". Oshawa Little Theatre gave a stirring presenta- *tion of 'Twelve Angry Men" and Oshawa Symphony Or- chestra gave a splendid concert. Wing 420 RCAF Associa- tion held its annual dinner and dance and the Pleasant v«Monday Afternoon Club celebrated its 50th anniversary. a March brought the reception service for the junior stu- ~« dents of Oshawa General Hospital School of Nursing; the UAW Auxiliary annual dinner and the anniversary or the Byelorussian Mutual Aid Society. April brought several luncheon dates and spring bazaars and closed with a presentation of Cyrano de Ber- gerac at McLaughlin Collegiate. May brought the sound of music from the Oshawa Symphony afd the Canadian Con- cert Association, Colonel McLaughlin led the grand march at the Regimental Ball and Club Loreley celebrated its "10th anniversary with a sumptuous dinner and dance, The ~Canadian-Ukrainian Women's Association held a May ~ Festival dance and in Toronto the Shah of Iran and his -Empress held a glittering reception. June was graduation month for nurses at Oshawa Gen- ¢ral Hospital with its attendant round of social events and . the Stratford Shakespearean Festival opened with its an- 'ticipated fanfare and excitement duplicated in July with | the unforgettable production of The Cherry Orchard. July 1 was perhaps the warmest and fairest day of a "poor summer and Dominion Day in Oshawa was cele- brated by the biggest and best Folk Festival to date. Down The Hatch July 30 the captain of the visiting escort destroyer St. Laurent returned the compliment of the hospitality extend- ed by the Navy League and Oshawa citizens to his offi- jaa and ratings by hosting a cocktail party on the aft eck. August was uneventful socially and my September diary is filled with travel notes of faraway places while Oshawa was honored by a visit of the Governor-General and madame Vanier. Sorry I missed them but I was chas- ing Tito across Yugoslavia. October gave promise with Thanksgiving suppers and a civic dinner hosted by the Oshawa and District Real Estate Board and the annual fashion show under the aus- pices of the Evening Chapter of the Women's Auxiliary Oshawa General Hospital. The Golden Jubilee Chapter . IODE held a ball in the Hotel Genosha and the Canadian Club presented an Indian Princess Kahn-tineta Horn. The Rotary Club President's Ball and the Chrysanthemum Tea at Parkwood were the social highlights of November. We had a surfeit of culture which included OLT's production of The Lark; The Importance of Being Earnest at MCVI and the National Ballet live and lovely, at The Regent Theatre. The St. Andrew's Society and the Knights of Columbus held annual balls on successive nights and al- together the run on white gloves was unprecedented. Apart from all the Christmas dinners and parties of December the event that attracted wide attention was the marriage of Don Jackson and Joanne Dierck of the Ice Follies. Lay Away The Trimmings that inat Now we have passed Twelfth Night we can put away the Christmas decorations and bundle up the greet- ing cards for Simcoe Hall. How beautiful the cards were this year. The Prime Minister's card was a single fold ~pvith the Royal crest of Canada imprinted in red on the "outside and inside a colored photograph of the. whole Pearson family including eight grandchildren. Mr. Diefen- baker's card also had the royal crest in gold on the front cover and a sepia-tone photograph on the inside was an informal picture of himself and Mrs. Diefenbaker taken in the garden with their enormous pet dog. "The Prime Minister of Ontario and Mrs. John Robarts ~chose for their card an engraving of the Parliament Build- Sings in Queen's Park, copied from a sketch drawn by the architect. in 1887, prior to construction. The Minister of ycHealth, Dr. Matthew Dymond and Mrs. Dymond sent t-@reetings on a card embellished with a gold "partridge *-in a pear tree" and the president of the Canadian National Exhibition selected a color' picture of the Dufferin t~ Gates by night. Colored reproductions of snow-covered peaks in the Rockies were chosen by Mr. R. C. Berkinshaw and Mr. © Walter Gordon and Mr. A. Gordon Cardy chose a quaint «picture of King street east, Toronto, in 1846. Mr. John G, Geikie's personal card was a colored photo- i. 8taph of a small boy in striped pyjamas peering up the » chimney of a cosy fireplace and Colonel R. S. McLaughlin's pigreetings were accompanied by a reproduction of a painting «by Miss Isabel McLaughlin entitled "Autumn Tamarak"', a composition of gold and brown against receeding blues. : Business cards were clever, witty and seasonal ac- cording to their source but perhaps the most elegant came £.from the Abitibi Paper Company depicting the Star of Bethlehem, blazing in a deep blue sky and profiles of the .-Three Wise Men in green, purple and orange on gold form "a mystic background to the pensive man of today. The artist's initials E. A. in the corner bear a personal Signi- ficance. : They Followed A Star * To those of us who follow the Gregorian Calendar this .. Is the feast of Epiphany which marks the visit of the three - wise men to the Christ Child in Bethlehem. They bore i gifts; gold, signifying His kingship, frankincense, His ~ divinity and myrrh, His death, the Supreme Sacrifice, For others who follow the Eastern Rites of the Orthodoc Church it is Christmas and we wish them all the joys and = blessings of the Holy Season, They had a holiday when we celebrated; wouldn't it be nice if we could have another holiday to celebrate with them? Roll on automation. The nature notes Have been lying fallow. I can scarcely bring myself to write of the majestic tree that has gone to its doom over the edge of the cliff. For a year we have "watched the roots become exposed' by the whittling of the « wind. Then the fall rains soaked the surface and the branch- ing giant began to lean. The Christmas rains further soften- ed the restraining earth and the exposed roots clung like "skinny arms to the cruel edge of the escarpment. The - death agony was unbearable.and on the last night of the year the struggle ended. Our big maple tree, haven of song _. birds and queen of mid-day shade, finally gave up and * slid forever from our view, taking with her a great bite of "lawn. We cannot win the battle against' wind 'and weather. _, We are losing ground and there is a moral here but I don't want to end the journal on a gloomy note. Wonder syhat those Gulbs I planted are doing? "EPO A Chili Mexican Twosome Mushrooms With Green Beans Mexicans like highly spiced foods made from beans, rice, |potatoes, peas and all sorts of vegetables. They eat less meat than we do and generally it is |mixed with vegetables and cook- ed until very well done | The chili pepper, used in a great many dishes, is thought |by many to bring good health jto those who eat it. Mild chili | COLORFUL AND SPICY Cook beans according to di- rections on package; drain. Saute onion in butter or oil 3 to 4 minutes; add mushrooms and cook about 5 minutes more, stirring occasionally. Stir in beans, pimientos and season- ings. Reheat and serve. 6 serv- ings. (NOTE: A 20-ounce can of green beans may be used in- stead of the frozen ones.) |peppers are greatly enjoyed |when stuffed, then dipped in batter and fried | The foods of Mexico are color-| |ful and very tasty when not too highly seasoned; for example, chili con carne is well liked here as long as it is short on chili! Another dish that sounds inter- esting, probably for lunch, is lfried eggs served with a sauce made of mushrooms, green pep- pers, onions, parsley, tomatoes, Some other foods you would find in Mexico are: Tortillas -- thin, crisp pan- cakes usually made from corn- meal. these are the bread of Mexico and are also used as a base for many dishes. Esckiladas -- rolled tortillas usually filled with minced beef, chopped onion and grated cheese and served with a spicy tomato sauce. butter and seasonings. And to serve with meat at dinner, how} Tacos--sandwiches made from about: |tortillas folded, filled with spicy meat and vegetables and fried MEXICAN-STYLE GREEN | BEANS WITH MUSHROOM 10 ounce package frozen French-cut green beans tablespoons finely chopped onion tablespoons butter or oil ¥% pound (1 pint) mushrooms, sliced pimientos, coarsely chopped tablespoon finely chopped parsley ¥ teaspoon salt Y% teaspoon pepper ¥ teaspoon chili powder 1 2 3 1 | Tostados -- tortillas fried jflat and heaped with green pep- pers, onions, cooked meat and lettuce. Tamales -- Cornmeal, min- ced meat and chili peppers mix- ed together and steamed. Guacamole -- Avocado dip. Chiles Rellenos -- chili pep- pers stuffed, usually with cheese Nopales -- prickly pear cac- tus, used in candy, preserved and other foods. CHILD GUIDANCE Feel Insecure By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Often we parents suppose our i children have no concern about manners and social conventions. .,Some children don't. th oiiek Ak cn en sh mei | DuUbL UWivet Vi "Ue @ie save OH |that many children, especially |early teen - agers, often suffer from feelings of insecurity when they dread that their manners might bring strong disapproval from us in situations very em- barrassing to them, as when they go with us as guests or when adult guests are in our home. They may not know. when they will get a nudge in the | side or arm, a light kick in the | shins or foot, or a telling look, or a verbal rebuke from us for some uncertain breach of eti- quette. At such times they may| look tense and act tense; not Children And Adults Socially sidered. You might in private help the timid youth or adult grow tamiliar with a few most important matters of conven- tion. Or you might be gracious enough and big enough not to let yourself act, or even feel, ch su mat such embarrassed mat ters. HELPING HAND You might help the socially timid youth or adult to feel at ease. Just think how 'precious this persons may be, how de- lightful his or her ways which are different may be to your |own friend; and when you see |this timid person blossoming | out, what satisfaction you your- self will enjoy as a result. Without placing blame on the) over over THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, bor urdey, January 8, 1966 Rock Hadassah TORONTO (CP) ~ A promi. nent Israeli woman answered with an invitation Thursday the complaint of three young Cana- dian Jews that they are not be- ing offered the kind of chal- lenges they want, Mrs. Raya Jaglom told the three student panelists at the Hadassah Wizo conference here that they should come to Israe! which offers all the challenge they should need. worked with children in a non- Jewish group because she could find no comparable work among Jewish organizations, including Hadassah Wizo, the interna- tional women's Zionist federa- tion. Marshall Devor said Jewish young people are joining the United States Peace Corps be- cause Jewish organizations do For Tomorrow | Fine planetary influences now) govern personal relationships.| You should have an extremely} pleasant day--especially if you} co-operate with all and display) your most charming self in get-| togethers with family and friends. For The Birthday If tomorrow is your birthday, the next 12 months promise a great deal in the way of attain- ment, both in business and per- |sonal matters. Efforts put forth| as of now, coupled with some unusually good opportunities to advance through influential con- tacts, should contribute greatly toward the achievement of even! the loftiest of goals. Look for good results from your job and financial efforts during the next five weeks, in April, September, October, November and next January. Those engaged in ar- tistic pursuits will find the months of May, June and Sep- tember highly inspiring -- and profitable. Romance, social activities and domestic interests are all high on the favored list, where your private life is concerned--with emphasis on sentimental inter- ests during the next three weeks, in February, June, late October and late December. Be cautious in marital relationships in late February, early March, late June and early July, how- ever, A child born on this day will be endowed with exceptional intelligence but will 'have to curb a tendency toward snob- bishness. The Day After Tomorrow You should be particularly receptive to the ideas of others on Monday. You may have def- inite thoughts of your own, but listen to associates and you may be surprised -t their practical adaptations of your plans. For The Birthday If Monday is your birthday, this year should be outstanding where both career and personal 'high accomplishment. matters are concerned, Your| metary influences indi-) cate that you can gain unusual recognition for past . efforts, with commensurate financial advancement, during the next five weeks, in early March, throughout April and Septem- ber, the first three weeks of October, all of: November ands next January. Those engaged in artistic pursuits will be gener- ally favored throughout the vear, with the months of May, June and September notable for nls pia | parents of the timid person we have been discussing, we easily; Look for some stimulating relaxing for normal communi-|C@® see a strong reason why cation. The anxious parent, too, may be as tight as a clothesline after ja rain, or may be distraught. | |ADULTS SUFFER A wife or husband not ex- posed earlier to the major nice- ities of social grace, may like- | wise suffer from constant fear \ that he or she might do some- | thing socially wrong at various times and places. Then there's Uncle Jim or Aunt Molly who has grown up in a smaller place or in an en- vironment not considered as) |young parents with reasonably cultural advantage should strive|February, June, late October | hard | to cultivate, from the early years in their children, | the basis of good manners. | As we try to cultivate good | manners and the niceties of so- | cial grace in our children let us | keep thinking of what these ac- quisitions pvill mean for their |personal satisfaction as they grow older. PARENTS' QUESTIONS | Q. Are there many college | dropouts? and- romantic experiences dur- ing the next three weeks, in and-or late December. Plans made now for a trip in May, November or December should work out extremely well. A child born on this day will be extremely reserved, loyal and endowed with a charming personality. year's entering freshman class will become dropouts during the next four years.'"'" -- Tom Mayer, The Atlantic, Novem- {| A. "Roughly half of this ber, 1965. polished culturally as that of a| city relative or friend. Imagine | the suffering which may occur/ both by the visiting person and/ | the host and hostess, In case you are parent, host | ;or hostess, in the foregoing) | types of situations, you should |feel responsible for any such | fears in the disadvantaged child | Or adult as we have just con- Bridal Shoes TINTED FREE DANCEY'S DOWNTOWN OSHAWA ') NOTICE TO VOTING MEMBERS OF THE OSHAWA Y.W.C.A, The Annual Election of Members to the Board of Directors of the Oshawa Young Women's Christian Association will be held from Monday, January 10th to Friday, February 11th. A list of names is posted at the Y.W.C.A, giving information about the candidates, six of whom are to be elected. Bailots will be available at the office in regular ofice hours from Mondays to Saturdays. We Guarantee to SAVE YOU $100.00 ON YOUR ANNUAL FOOD COST PHONE 723-1163 THE FOOD PLAN_THAT. HAS PROVEN ITSELF | Clb FOOD CLUB 933 RITSON RD. 5, not present the chance to do something active Alan Fink, the said he believes must find ways Older Workers May Fret Unduly By ROBERTA ROESCH "Does every older worker worry about her performance and wonder how long she'll keep her job?" a reader asks. "In my case," she says, "I'm ruining my chances to get any- where in my job because of my fearful approach to it. "But I guess I was born with a worried look, since that's my reputation. And now that I'm working at my first job, my worries are really getting me down, because of the daily pres- sures and demands, the compe- tition with others and the gnaw- ing fear I won't be good at the things I'm asked to do. "Does every older worker ex- perience this feeling?" ALL AGES FRET Worry is no respecter of age and many workers fret unduly. Some others, in a defense against worrying, refuse to care how they do their jobs. But when you are like this reader, you need to take cor- rective measures. As Dr. Os- wald Hoffman of radio's Lu- theran Hour has pointed out, anxiety can inflate .,ordinary problems and blow them up to giant size. You often think your worries won't cease until they ruin you. To keep this problem from worrying you right out of your present job, try these mental maneuverings. Jewish youth to aid Israel Janice Goodman said she has| : third student, | Forthright Young Jews Conference and to alleviate the problems facing Jewry in such countries as Russia. : However, he thought many young people considered them- selves too busy to take on real commitments, Mrs. Jaglom said the Cana- direct contrast to students in Israel who helped immigrants and fought for their country. Moderator Dr. Benjamin Schlesinger of Toronto said Mrs. Jaglom's remarks showed that adults will not listen to their children, Dr. Schlesinger said they also showed that Israelis do not un- derstand Canadians. He said: | "I am sick and tired of being misunderstood. The Israelis don't have any idea of what life is like here, They don't under. stand our youth. There must be ja two-way bridge, not a one-| way bridge with us expected to understand Israelis while they don't understand us." Some women commented from the floor on the students' remarks, One said: "They're arrogant, |just arrogant." | Another told Miss Goodman: "Your generation has never known discrimination and been called a dirty Jew," BEATEN FOR SPEAKING Dr. Schlesinger said the wom- en's and Mrs. Jaglom's re- marks were like beating the youth panelists over the head after inviting them to speak their minds. | "I would not have come if I knew this was going to hap- pen,"' he said. 'This is just an- other case of adults asking youth to speak and then taking Dear Ann Landers: Hockey season is here and I need to know the answer to a question. Is my husband trying to put one over on me when he says, "You can't come to the hockey game .|with me because the language you hear at the games is not fit for a lady's ears." What do people say at hockey games that ladies aren't sup- posed to hear? When I asked him who uses the bad language, the players or the spectators, he said, "Both," I used to go to hockey games dian students' attitude was in/With my dad and brother when I was in high school and I don't remember hearing anything that wasn't nice, I'm the mother of two children and I resent being treated as if I were an adoles- cent. What do you think about this?--Mrs. X. Clooded Dear Mrs. X.: Hockey fans are often salty talkers, but I doubt that you would hear any- thing at a hockey game that you wouldn't hear at a football game or for that matter any place where al! types of people gather. If you want to go, your husband ought to take you. Dear Ann Landers: Last year our daughter ran off and married a boy none of us ap- prove of. Delores was not yet 16 so we had the marriage an- nulled. She kept sneaking out of the house to meet the boy after we had gone to sleep and it was impossible to contro] her. A few months ago it became apparent that Delores was pregnant. When the boy learned of her condition he told her he wanted nothing more to do with her. We sent Delores to a home for un- wed mothers where she agreed to give up the child for adop- tion. Three weeks ago Delores wrote that she has changed her mind, The boy is out there and wants to marry her. They want to keep the baby. We feel the boy-is no good and will leave iANN LIANDERS Language At Hockey Game No Bluer Than At Football stuck with a child and we will have '® take care of them both. Will ryou please tell us what is the best.thing to do?--Out of Our Minds Dear Our: This girl is rebel fious snd determined to do as. she pleases. You could not con- trol her earlier and you can't controt her now. She should have had professional help years jago. Stand by and be pre- pared to pick up the pieces. Dew: Ann Landers; We've been «married six years and have four children. My wife stays up every night until 2;00 or 3:10 a.m. She says she has insommia so she finds things to keep her busy, like sewing or Ironing or looking at TV. She claims: her best sleep is a nap in ther afternoon while the kids nap, I gett up at 7:00 a.m. and of course' she is so beat at that hour she can't get her head off the dewk. I make my own break- fast and the kids are awfully good about staying in bed until my wife gets them up. (She keeps them up late so they will let hew sleep in the morning.) We quarre] a lot and she com- plains that the romance has gone gut of our marriage, She says I, am cranky and I say she is lazy, What's wrong here?-- Scotty' Deat Scotty: A woman who has had four babies in six years has iver hands full. You can hardly call her lagy because She dinesn't dance the frug at 7:00 a.m. You; both need to air your comphaints to a third party. I recomanend the clergyman who married you. When you learn what's bugging her and she learns: what's bugging you, you can teegin to pull together, in- stead of against one another. {HOUSEHOLD HINT Use: a cotton swab or tooth- pick swathed in cotton to clean her eventually. Then she will be tiny, ward-to-get-at corners, etc. over. Youth says its innermost thoughts and you get up and hit them on the head." | His outburst was greeted by mixed gasps, groans and. ap- plause. "And as for you who applaud, you are the ones who say it is fine to send young people to Is- rael as long as they are not your sons and daughters," he said. He later apologized to Mrs. Jaglom for sounding rude, but said he would not take back his words. Mr. Devor agreed there were challenges in Israel. "Not every Jewish kid in Canada is going to go to Israel," he said. 'We have to find something for the ones who are going to stay here." The four day conference ended with a banquet Thursday night. PIN-POINT TROUBLE . | 1. Spot the situations that bother you most. 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