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CENTRE STREET UCW 3 The Evelyn Goodwin Unit 3 of Centre Street United Church held its April meeting in the chapel, Miss Vera Waison was in charge of the devotion period. Colored slides were shown on the Old and New Testament, Unit leader, Mrs. Cyril Clark, presided for the business peric?. DISTAFF DIARY Summary of reports of meetings and activities of Oshawa women's organizations as compiled from reports submitted by their secretaries. committees: Simcoe Street Unit- led Church History; Canadian In- dians; agriculture in other coun- tries; relief and rehabilitation, jeveng and. medical _re- search, Mrs. Robert Sheffield volunteered to address the var- jious units of the UCW and en- arge on the available informa- tion, CANADIANA CARDIGANS Here are two delightful for sizes 2, 4, 6 ~ If you would like the leaflet, sim- designs for the young folk. Sy ebad b stained, sell Both are easily and quickly addressed envelope and ten knitted and have the added cents to cover cost of hand feature of comfortable rag- ling to the Needlecraft De- lan sleeves. Both designs partment of this paper, re are included in the same questing Canadiana Cardi- instructions which are given CHILD GUIDANCE Give Both Pleasure And Pain In Training Stubborn Child By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD | would be open for you to prac Stubbornness is most frequent) tice him in co-operation. in me age ner between -- But if. your had and five. It usualiy arises when ,, 4 cae i the parents don't distinguish be- liberately --- ey re tween getting the little child to|his shoes across the floor or do what they wish him to do| thrown them at you, you would and keeping him from doing/have been wise to turn him what they don't wish him to do. over your knee and spank him They give him commands in soundly, How. different this both situations. Then when the| would be from spanking him to bry Bessel b yeeal ne at. | make him pick up those shoes. in e unis sites, tavtence. ASK PERSUASIVELY Pas parents overlook » {ne Let me entreat you that when that' a very young child, ; like all other Hiving creatures, | special act, you ask him as per- tends to do and do again what| Suasively as you can. But if you promises pleasure and to desist|tell him to quit doing some- from doing what promises pain.|thing you are sure he should What parents should aim to do|never do, give him immediate as far as possible is to make a Pony pain hat aa other leasant the many things they/e!fective discomfort. rg the child to do and painful! Exceptions to the rule will be only the few things they wish such acts as _ tiumbsucking, him never to do or do again.|nail-biting or habit spasms or While this principle is sound|for any act of his. you can't with the child of any. age, he| check on constantls may have enough experience by; In routines like going to bed the time he is six, seven or; mere requests might not work older to profit from discomfort} Let him get mere information when he doesn't do what he is|of what is done next and next told to do. He may figure out|Also, when he must have put that he can avoid unpleasant-| on him galoshes or a snowsuit, ness by doing what he is com-| put them on with the least pos manded to do. sible resistance and greatest But if-you make painful to the; dispatch youngster of three 01 four what; We've been talking about such you wish him to do, he may in-| special matters as wishing him cline to refuse to do it, eer hand you a book, open the much pain you give him; and|door, or bring you a comb, as be prepared in like retusals| special situations when you are later. As a rule, except in rou-| wise to request and not com tine matters, don't command) mand a child under four, five your youngster under five or/or six, Of course, if we made a six to do this or that. Ask hin, resuest of a child 12, 14 or 18, and let him choose whéther to) we should not shift it tea com accede or not: Ther aim tw be} ith so skillful as. to win him to choose to do it. But if the young child is about to do something danger- ous or destructive or anything you have already told him not} to do, give him instant effective discomfort son de mand--but.-treat a request also ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Our son, 12, with one older and one younger sister, has the highest IQ of his class earns high grades, is shy avoids sports. He is teased he. plays baseball and does DISTRESSED MOTHER |poorly, What should we do? 4 mother writes A, Consider having him at- "Our little boy, three, is very tend a good camp for several obstinate and if I could find a) Summers, way to help him change rather than getting into a habit of be ing that way all his life, I would give most anything "For example, if I say, * 'Lance, pick up your shoes,' he probably would not do it, but if I said, 'Lance, don't you pick up those shoes,' he would im mediately do it. I'm afraid it is wrong to tell him in the nega- tive to get him to de what you} want him to do. Spanking and restly as A Suggestion for 'an extra puffy souffle comes from home economists at Macdonald Insti- tute, Guelph. After putting the mixture in a casseole, make a circle around the endge of it, about one inch deep, with bowl of the spoon held vertic ally. The souffle will then higher in the centre and more appealing the rise look There were 101 cards sent, 40! Mrs. H. V, Myers, program hospital visits and eight home committee, informed the mem- visits made. ¢ lbers that the Unit hoped to Members were remindod oe ae address UCW meeting, April 27 at 8.00) p.m. with a special speaker | The event stressed was the an- from Port Perry, An invitation|ual dessert luncheon being had been received from West-|held on Wednesday, April 20, at mount UCW to attend their|which Mrs, Jean Wright, manag- meeting Tuesday, April 19 \ing editor of a Canadian maga- | you wish this child to do any! Refreshments were served by |zine, would speak. There will be committee in charge. ja bake sale in charge of Mrs. | ' J, H, Halliday and Mrs. H. H. | REBEKAH LODGE NO.3 Wells, | The regular meeting of Osh-; embers were reminded that lawa Rebekah Lodge 3 was held|jhe Unit is catering for a wed- on Wednesday evening with NG|qing on May 7. and to be avail- |Luella Smith presiding. The!abje on both the 6th and 7th to lflag of the country..was pre jaysist: the _ color-bearer, Vandewalker, escorted CEDAR DALE UCW by the warden and conductor.| The' monthly meeting of the {Chaplain Betty Parm led the\Cedar Dale United Church devotional period. VG Dorothy) Women was held Wednesday af- Holdsworth read a lengthy re-|ternoon. port on the sick members. The president, Mrs. Albert |, PNG Viola Keeler Baye on Singer, presided, and conduct interesting report of the district CA a temortil pecvide in yneth) meeting held in Port Hop g ory of the late Mrs, William announced that PNG Betty Henderson, Mrs. Frank Singer, Major of Orono would be the in charge of the devotional per- next District Deputy President iod, spoke on Dorcas and her of Oshawa No. 8 East. Margaret good steak ies ¥ ockie gave the CP and T re- idea ep ae port. PNG Lena Harper re- Mrs. Clarence Gunter read the ported on the bowling banquet correspondence, which included Semi-annual returns were read an invitation to tour Glenholme by PNG Goola Couch Workshop on Wellington Street. The correspondence and thank An invitation to meet with West- you notes were read by the mount United Church Women on secretary, Nelda Thompson. Tuesday, April 19, was accept- An invitation to Sunshine |e¢ Lodge's 45th birthday party was) The members were invited to accepted for Monday, May 2.\the Bay of Quinte Camp July The members were reminded of 16 to August 20. their birthday on April 27, Din- A letter was received from ner will be served at 6.00 p.m. |Southminster United Church and anyone wishing tickets waS|women to hear a panel discuss ensemble from designer, Sue J, the soft- ness of full, pouffed sleeves A new. pants California eombines asked to contact PNG Lena family problems on Tuesday, | Harper or Annie ache rice April 26 at 8.30, Plans. were| of the a, is $1 7 whe a completed for the Mother's Day There will be a fu gree ervice to be in charge of the practice on Wednesday, April 20 women of the church. A wom- at 7.30 sharp. en's choir will sing and Mrs. The members were reminded Tlbva Golietion will '. the guest} of the District Church parade speaker. on Sunday April 24 at 11.00 a.m.' "At the next meeting on May at Christ Memorial Church 11 the members will pack a ISABELLA |bale for the overseas. Mrs. Fred Williams who is a |life member of the United Aneuhrite Auditoruins 0H ej church Women was petal to gor! part of the evening was hie an a ag tg parse greate & alt 'edar P J spent arranging for the "Spring-(Church Reap ie eg pees ag a A number of pairs of pillow-| on Sé rday, : as ea ale per oel ' Srenton hal atte Oshawa Ai oues were, atipled tor the port. Music will be provided by| annual bazaar to be held in the Metro Sound and the admission) iai6 autumn. 's A cacuapale Aa The members were thanked) seve § . 4 "!by the official board of the} -- hee on for the|church for the Easter lilies centennial year The two members who assist-|or the Easter service ed at Hillsdale this month were|____ pins lea tty : Mrs. Russell Smith and Mrs ie eB Oe | Parental Slackness DAUGHTERS OF St. Anthony of Padua Circie held its business meeting in St. Peter Brady Refreshments were served by| Mrs. Gerry Forestall. Permits Offence SIMCOE STREET UCW » gta lcaaaamia ' The Lenore Unit of Simcoe Meee elec = eo ee polipe Street United Church Women inspector says parents afraid o : being called "old-fashioned" are held its April meeting in the . nat church parlors, with the presi-|/etting their children slide into | ae nciq.(Juvenile delinquency, » 5 ). Kerr, presid-| ident, = Se sei spa Inspector Dan Brown told the 5 Bags 8 Vancouver Parent Teacher pers. : _ |Council that only increased con- Mrs, Frank 'cern by parents can halt the rise charge of the devotional per-lin delinquency, But parents iod assisted by Mrs. Lloyd! seem afraid to become involved Moody at the piano because they're reluctant to in- Mrs. Donald Holden, card Con-|terfere in their children's activ- vener, reported three plants sent ities, out and thank you notes were; 'They seem to feel that if read from all recipients. It was )they question their children too announced that Mrs, Ira Trav-|much about whom they g0 ell was ill around with, they will be Mrs. Kerr announced that a@!thought of as old - fashioted Hi "C" Conference was being By ignoring the problem par- held in Oshawa on April 22, 23/ents somehow hope it will go and 24 and billets were request-| away." ed for bed and breakfast for The inspector, formerly head the first two days said In Black was of the ~police-youth squad, Members were reminded that children are starting out money for the Glee Club Con crime at an earlier age than cert to be directed by Ross Cot-|ever. He recalled that last ton and held in Simcoe Street spring Vancouver police broke ,|United Church, Saturday, April yp a shoplifting ring involving 23, should be turned in to the|59 schoolchildren. group ledders and that more!- tickets were available A rummage sale will be held in the memorial hall of the church on Tuesday,.May 17, at 9,30 a.m. Members are asked to keep this in mind, Good used clothing for the overseas bale should be sent. to Mrs. Orville Eagle, Cadillac North, or, if boxed may be left at the church The members' attention was also. directed to the World Church Festival of 1967 to be held in Simcoe Street United Church, Mrs. S, G. Lailey, presi dent of the Simcoe Street UCW Hl. has requested names of mem bers to work on some of the punishimg seems to make him more stubborn." * My reply in part: I hope you never make a re quest or command. That would be the best. possible way to make him a very. stubborn child Why child; three, did you command a to pick up his shoes? If, instead, you kindly and calmly requested him to pick them up he probably would have done so willingly Suppose he wouldn't would not be disobeying you then. It was a request you made, not a command. Being an honest request, it implied that he could choose whether to accede to it or. not, just as if you had made a request of your closést friend. If you made the! request honestly you would have no occasion to say 'you must" in case he didn't ctionse to pick up the shoes: You wotild have hy no occasion to feel angry at him MARY §T or to punish him. Then the way He BOB EAKINS 97 WOLFE - 170.4 @ United Taxi, 143 King St. East @ Roxy Variety, Rosslyn Ploze CLEAWIT SERVICE? ~!| You'll with a neatly fitted bare THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, April 18, 1966 15} midriff top and long, slim lines of stove-pipe pants. Trimly tailored in a heath- ery linen-look fabric both pants and top are banded at neckline, midriff, waist Now Is The Time For Plants To Be Re-Potted And Pruned By ELEANOR ROSS Let's get busy right now to get your house-plant program organized, before the outdoor garden season begins, That, you know, will take every moment you have to spare. To simplify the clean-up pro- gram, collect all the materials you'll need before you start the job. For plants that have outgrown their containers, you'll need new clay pots in 'a variety of sizes For re-potting, select a pot just which the plant is growing also need potting soil, perlite or vermiculite, and gra- vel or pebbles for drainage at the bottom of each pot, and a flat stone or pieces of broken clay pot to place over the drainage holes In appraising your collection, set aside plants that need to be re-potted or replaced. If any need pruning, cut back the branches one - third of their length. This will spur the growth new branches to make a bushier and more attractive specimen, 3 Keep a sharp watch for any insects or plant disease, Isolate any questionable plants imme- diately and spray them with a pesticide, according to con-| tainer directions. After two or| three weeks, if the pests are still around, better replace the diseased plants with new ones For re-potting, prepare a pot of the -right size. Place a stone or piece of broken clay pot over the-drainage hole. ton with an inch or two of gravel or pebbles, and a cushion layer of pre- pared soil. Mix potting soil with one-half of perlite or vermicu- lite for most house plants. Ferns need a half part of peat moss Do your remodeling now. 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