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Dear Ann Landers: I want to thank you for printing that let- ter from the man who won- dered if males slow down sex- ually when they get older. I am 46 years old and your answer was the only sensible informa- tion I've ever read on the sub- ject in a newspaper or anywhere else, About three years ago I be- gan to slow down and I got pretty worried about it. I was afraid - something serious was wrong with me. I sent away for love potions, -"sex" vitamins, plus a lot of other phoney junk I saw advertised in magazines. I'm ashamed to tell you how much money I threw away on stuff that. didn't work. Now that I know I'm normal I've got a lot more pep. I can't thank you enough, Ann Landers, you've been a real friend.-- Grateful Dear Grate: Some men slow down from worrying about lf he is -wrong, y ANN LANDERS By Casting Off Care Man Regains Virility from ali of them. What do you suggest--Big Headache ~ Dear Headache: The girls are getting encouragement from somehwere, sonny boy. Maybe you come on stronger than you mean to. My advice is to cool it. Dear: Ann Landers: I have two teen-age daughters (16 and 17) who feel that everything in this house is community prop- erty. They help themselves to my combs, hair brushes, hair rollers, stockings, panties and bras. It's always the same ex- cuse--they can't find theirs or they didn't get around to doing the hand laundry. When I raise the roof, my /husband says, "Is.a pair of | stockings that important" The |girls smirk and I wind up look- ing silly. If I'm wrong, please tell me and I'll never complain again. say so and slowing down, which is prob-|maybe with you behind me I ably what happened to you. I'm 'can hang on to what belongs to glad I could help. me.--Nothing to Call My Own Dear Nothing To Call: Girls Dear Ann Landers: I am 4 qo not suddenly--at age 16 and 17-year-old boy who is reed -- confiscate mother's prop- average looking. I don't have| arty They have been helping anything special going for Me.|themselves to your things since Petes "naa that og ha early childhood -- and getting an; ae "| away with it. ever I take a girl out a few The time to teach kids about times she goes nuts over me - -- I can't shake loose of her,|mine and thine is when they ho} I don't sound like} nk. pe tind of an idiot, but hon- |been eet we page estly I need help. I have liked start Lic by ctiggy Mer ter several girls but I don't want|the problem now. An | ad to get involved with anybody. | concede that dad hasn't helpe When I date a chick three|much. : times she acts like we are en-' If you mean businéss tell gaged. your daughters that the next In the last eight months Ijone who helps herself to your have tried to break off with | things loses all privileges for four different girls and I'm/one full week. If you make it learn to talk. If discipline had/ the '118 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, April 21, 1966 MR. AND MRS. BERT HARDIE Friends From Far and Near Fete Couple On Silver Wedding | Friends and relatives from) Messages were received from| |Windsor, Whitby, H a m pton,|the bridal attendants of 25 years CHILD GUIDANCE. - Tattling Among Children Should Be Discouraged By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Tattling is a common prac- tice among children, especially young children and more espe- cially among brothers and sis- ters. It begins early. The youngster three, four or five may run to you many times a day to tell you his baby brother or sister is doing something he is not supposed to do, As time goes on the younger may be-) come a tattler, too, | When you hear one child tat- tle on another you are inclined to go at once to deter the sec- ond child. Often phat is told teacher or parent a good rule is merely to listen to the tattler but not to put on trial the child told on. However, from the tat-| tle you may have received in- | formation causing you to be! more vigilant. There was a time when a} teacher, wishing to be absent | for a period from her class, of-| ten prould put a certain child | in charge of the class with in-) structions to report to her on) her return any wrong-doers, In a few places this practice still still getting letters and calls stick your problem is solved. ----|Hamilton, Peterborough, Brock-|ago, Mr. and Mrs, Fred Bir- |ville and Oshawa gathered at)cham, now residing at La Mir- on the second child may have|Prevails. The wiser teacher) happened some while earlier! aims to cultivate in all the chil- out of your sight and hearing.| dren of the classroom such a -- Pibell ce ueiy weld feeling of responsibility that no} kind of trial in which both chil-| one child will be needed to be} dren may testify. in charge or to make a report "Putting the child on the wit-|to her of the behavior in her t-| absence, | Some schools seek volunteers among older children to be ness stand" always is a doubt-) ful procedure, tempting him to} lie, especially when he fears he | monitors on schoo! buses, car-| may be punished. When the|/rying many younger children. | youngster tattled on by an-| Wisely they are instructed to| other child is punished for what| protect the younger ones in| you see or hear him do or on|reasonable and persuasive) his own answers to your ques-| ways, tions, the: tattle may feel he is} some hall monitors at the rewarded for having tattled.|iynior and senior high levels | This is resented by the tattled-| are successful. Instead of mak-| on child, ing note of offenders and re-| When your child tattles on) porting them to the principal, | another child don't, as a rule,/they quietly remind each of- punish the one he has tattled| fender "that is not the thing to| on. Don't even hold a trial to/do here,"' and such reminders check on the other child. If,| usually work well. one child) - --_------ Publishing A Cook Book Takes Detailed By JEAN SHARP | Canadian Press Women's Editor) TORONTO (CP) -- When your group decides to publish a cookbook, a commemora- tive pamphlet or a rule book, it will pay to have it planned almost to the last word be- fore any production begins. Start with a clear idea of what you want to publish and why -- what you want your publication to achieve. De- cide what it should look like to be most in keeping with its content and with your group's personality. "The more clear - cut the decisions at the beginning, the fewer the hidden production costs," says Frances McNab, editor of the YWCA national publication The Journal. You can get ideas of type styles and layout and design from library books, from pamphlets available from ma- jor printing, paper and ink companies, from local print- ers and from similar publi- cations put out by other ama- teur groups. BE REALISTIC If you are going to avoid waste of time, work and money, be sure you have time to get your publication ready for when you want it. Make sure you have enough money to distribute it when it is fin- ished. Money, of course, is the most important decision you will have to make "Decide exactly how much you are going to spend, what size you want your publica- | tion to be, how many copies you want and if you want any | special effects." Mrs. McNab 'says you may revise your ideas when you talk..to.o.printer.and.find..out what things cost. Get his ad- | vice, but remember he is a | businessman in business to make money. "When you are dealing with the printer remember he is the horse trader. He is on the other side of the fence, even | though he can be a_ good | friend to your group. Go to several printers. Make it | clear you are still in the bar- gaining stage and want esti- mates and advice. Get cost figured out before you commit yourself." j } UNDERSTAND BIDS The next step is for bids "Don't be embarrassed at talking to one firm and hiring another. That's the way busi- ness . works. "When you get bids, make | to ask | contents | McNab says the more you do | Planning sure the quotes cover pre- cisely the same things and afte on the same number of copies. Get an estimate on the cost of a second printing with the first. "You will have discussed timing. Before you decide on a printer, be sure to get a firm commitment so your publication won't be furnished too late to be of use to you. "Try to get bids from large, small and medium-size print- ing firms. If your timing is good you. may catch someone with slack time. He has to pay his men anyway, so prants to keep his machine busy. You might get a better price if he can run your work then. If your time is unliniited, let him know. "If you are going to do a lot of mailing, discuss envelopes. It might affect the size of your publication. "Stapling and folding should be included in the bid, Volun- teer groups melt away when there is such uninteresting work to do. "Be sure you know how much the printer takes re- sponsibility for. Do you get artists or does he? Do you take pictures to engravers or does he? "If you have read the how- to books, you'll know there are several ways to produce publications. You should lool. into those price differences." When you are putting' the together, and the more carefully you do it, the 'more you can lower costs. Have copy cleanly typed, double - spaced with wide margins, Have someone ee ae el ae besides-the typis proof-read the typed-copy and | still another person proof-read the printer's copy Choose photos for clarity and interest. They and art work are exper sive and should also be chosen with printing requirements in mind. Every addifional step in processing. them makes them more expensive. Mrs. McNab says if you try | shortcuts you'll get caught. Plan each page with eare. 'Hot Flashes' You can get. help with Lydia E. Pinkham a? ALL ORUG COUNTERS Have You Seen Our Pole Lamps 0 Recently? OFF Thursday -- Friday -- Saturday ZELLER'S Downtown SIMCOE ST. SOUTH -- 723-2294 Mrs, | }the Fernhill Park © clubhouse} ada, California. Other messages| |Saturday evening tc honor Mr.|were received from Mr. and| | and Mrs, Bert Hardie, Hamp-} Mrs, Martin Ostler, Okala, Flor- | ton, on the occasion of théir 25th\ida; Mr. and Mrs. Douglas however, young |comes to you telling of a dan- ger another child is facing or that he is endangering other | wedding anniversary. Amey and Mr. and Mrs. Harry | The former Helen Lee, daugh-| McMaster, vacationing in Day- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Clayton Lee,| tona Beach, Florida. and Bert Hardie, son of Mr.| Mr, Hardy expressed the cou- and Mrs. James Hardie, were|ple's thanks to ali in attend- married in Oshawa in April 1941,|ance and the evening was spent with the Reverend H. P. An-|in dancing. derson of Albert Street United) Another guest, Mrs. William| Church, officiating. They have) Cardinal, grandmother of Mr.| four daughters, Sandra, Mrs.) Hardie, was honored with flow-| Michael McNamee, Windsor;|/ers and greetings on her 92nd Diane, Joanne and Pamela at} pirthday. home, who arranged thé recep-| _----_----_____--_ os "ye ee FASHIONS LOOK EAST | Mrs. Hardie received prearing | a robin's-egg-blue linen dress) MOSCOW (AP)--Styles at a with beaded bodice and match-| Soviet fashion festival included | ing accessories. Miss Pamela|s sijk winter coat with a fox -- wae eek collar and an evening outfit of toast to the anniversary couple. |!eather. "Diverse embroidery" Mr. and 'Mrs. Hardie were will replace the "austere trim- presented with several gifts of} mings" of earlier years, Tass silver including a money tree. reported. FOR THE FINEST Custom and Ready Made DRAPES in the latest Shodes ond Fobrics ... 00... MéC DRY GOODS & DRAPERIES DRAPERY TRACKS EXPERTLY "INSTALLED 723-7827 | | 74 Celina Street .00 22.00 down 5.50 week Beautiful 3-diamond Set by Bluebird. 22 JEWELLERS 20 Simcoe North Open till 9 Frideys Open ox. Acoouit | cious, persons or property, you may! need to act decisively. SCHOOL TATTLING Tattling may prove serious when one child often tattles on a brother or sister in relation) to his behavior at school. It/ may be most serious when a} child tattles to you on an older) brother or sister. 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