¢ = - | ANN LANDERS Making Legal Will Pievenis Bicketing mi te 1,00 a my, js and the doc- mite Pai a a left, I a eeling for myself. liyed a full lite and have ed most of it. The problem is two of my three children. They are already fighting over] p my money. ; : I've. aiwart had a ood re- with.my youngest son a Bite. This Son has han- dled finances for the past 10. and I have complete cofitidence in him. 1 have given id his wife money for an- a and birthdays | be- ast y have been, wonderful to me, The other children have not been so wonderful and J have fot done the same for them. Yesterday the two older boys and their wives came to tell me that I should stop giving away their money. According to them, ahy money I have be- longs to. the estate--and they plan to share in it. When I told them, I wasn't dead yet my daughter-in-law| piped up: 'It won't be long now." | Please tell me. if I have a} right to. give away my. money) as I please, or if it's considered} part of the estate because I am| old and ill--Old Timer | make A will, and leave not to chance. ih vous be & shame if that lippy daughter-inlaw prere fot, dealt with according to your wishes. Dear Anh Landers: Please re-word my letter and make it rintable, I'm not, much of a writer but I need help badly. Otir 16-year-old daughter Has some awftlly cite girl friends, They sometimes spend the night at our ome which js fine with me. I'm pleased our daughter has such fine. friends, The problem is my husband. He just can't keep his hands off the young. girls, 1, have seen him pull them on his lap and beg for hugs and Kisses. The poor things don't know what to do. of say. f On. two occasions I spoke to my husband (priyately,. of colirse) and he tore " me like a wildcat. He insists that I ar evil-minded and, jealolis. an that he is just being fatherly, 1 asked him, how he would like it if the fathers of these girls pawed his daughter. He said I was ctazy and that I} ought to see a doctor, If you! think my husband is right} please say so. If you think I| am right I'd appreciate your support.--N. M. Deadt N. M.: You are right.) If that eight-handed lothario Dear old Timer: So long as| thinks he's being fatherly, sig-| you are mentally competent) gest that he talk to a physician you can give your money to|who has some good psychiatric | whomever you please. I urgejorientation. He may learn a you to see a lawyer at once,' thing or two. CNIB Presents Brief To Gov't. Requesting Allowance For Blind It tis report At the Aprit 26th/ tional Institité for the Biiha to| meééting of the Oshawa Ad-| the Federal.Government in fe-) iay,| SPect to a Federal Government visory Board of the Canadian A iowance in recognition of} National Institute for the Blind, | blindness. This request. asked| Mr. David Hatton, field secre-| that all blind people in Canada| tary, stated that there were|in the age group from 18 yeats, | now 49 registered blind people| when they are no longer éligible| being served in this area by/for the Family Allowance, up} home teaching, library service,|to the age of eligibility for Old travel concessions, employment! Age Security, be. granted an service, residence, eye service) allowance of $75.00 per month care; and other general sery-| without a means test, in recog:| ices. The CNIB was one Of the/nition of the hardships of} agencies supported by the| their handicap, which reduces Greater OShawa Community|their earning powers, ., and Chest. jmakes life difficult for them.| Twelve registered blind were|As yet, the resuits of this re-| now énjoying the new tape talk-| quest. were not known. | ing books, which they found a) Mrs. A. J. Parkniil was chair-| great improvement on the old|man of the meeting. A new! record talking books. Mrs. Jean| board member elected was Mr,| Johnson gras finding her seeing-|V.. G. Jenkinson, chairman of} eye dog, Tessa, very helpful,) the Lions Club Sight Conserva-| and application had been made| tion Committee. by another of the blind people| Plans were made by the} for a seeing-eye dog. The) board for its annual picnic for} Humoresque Club for the Blind|the blind, which is to be held has had a very successful year,|at Lakeview Park, July 6. Sug- and the season's. blind bowling| gested books of special interest will be concluded, this week by|with regard to the blind are} -- a bowling banquet. |"No. Compromise", by M, W,| Mr. Hatton reported on tht}Campbell, which tells of the life brief presented last March by|and history of Col. E. A. Baker,| the Canadian Council of the/and 'The First Lady of the Blind and the Canadian Na-| Seeing Eye". | leaves, water can, cords and stakes for vines, and heavy and i light pairs of gloves. Never leave lawn and garden For Green Thumbs tools outdoors, 1f you don't By ELEANOR ROSS ' ; ; 1 a t have storage space for smaller | eines leat toe for the $reeh | items, put up a maintenance- | --bitt into the garden ~|free steel cabinet in the ga-| If your own green thuthb only| T28°® and store them out of the leaves a smudged fingerprint] 78" And he sure to wash and around your garden instead of i A teal eas ater Pie They coming through with an abitn-| Peyit | a 400k better but daticé of flowers, shrubs, veget-| ~~" ~ Bee anger: Your war. on weeds and in-| shies and a ; maybe you hdyen't been doing! Sects should start before there is an invasion. All - purpose something right. : Stick to some simple but per-|SPrays,.and dusts will control tinent rules, muster up patience | Most insects and plant diseases and a world of enthusiasm and| in flowers and vegetables if ap- get set for a lovely garden. |plied early and according to di-| First of all, don't plant too) Tections. deep, Small flower or vegetable | Pick your flowets just as they | seeds need only to be coyered.|are coming into bloom and) When reseeding bare patcties in|they'll last longer in arrange- your lawn, loosen two inches of ments. soil and then fertilize and SOW.| Most vegetables must be Using. too much fertilizer is) picked before maturity for worse than putting on too little.) maximum flavor, but melons | Follow. precisely the directions) and tomatoes should be allowed on the package from a reliable |to ripen fully, on the vine. house. Overwatering washes nu-| Happy gardening! trients out of the soi] and helps} ---- -------- spread fungi. Let, your turf dry ~almost to the wilting point be- tween waterings, atid then soak it to a depth of six inches. USE SPRINKLER Use a corrosion-resistant gal- vanized steel sprinkler. Its ad-| vantage, beyond its many years | of, Service, is that it furnishes) water only as fast as the ground can absorb it. Mow your lawn, of coiirse, but don't erase it! It is advisable to set your mower at a height of 14% inches and mow whenever the grass gets over two inclies If your mower blades get dull, they'll split the grass tops, causing them to ttirn brown. The blades should be made of high carbon or alloy steel which makes them. rugsed--so they won't chip when they hit a rock --and hard, so that when the blades are sharpened, they will Jtay that way for a Jong time, Once a year, have the. blades removed, ground and balanced. Buy good garden tools, as an, investment. in beauty, since} these will do the proper job and) also won't have to be replaced periodically. Good steel tools are light weight «enough to be easily manipulated and need a minimum of care. GARDENER"S GEAR Basic equipment to do the job properly should include a spade or shovel, spading fork, rake hoe, culticator, Shears, trowel, sprayer or duster for plant Gardening Rulés luvuriant lawn | BORN TO UNWED About 25 per cent of births among Berthuda's population of 58,799 in 1965 were illegiti IF YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT LIFE INSURANCE Why Not Call TOM FARQUHARSON SUN LIFE Assurance Company of Canada RESIDENCE: BUSINESS: 668-4371 725-4563 The committee making arrangements for the Sim- coe Hall Charity Ball Fri- day evening ate staging a fashion, show between the banquet and dance. Mrs. Pe x ae Pe ee GUEST SPEAKE "Behind the Scenes at Henry House" will be the subject of a talk by the curator, Miss Charlotte Abbott, following the 5th Oshawa Scout Mothers' luncheon at Northminster United Chutch, May 11. Miss Abbott will be intro- duced by Mrs. G. D. Conant, past president of Oshawa Historical Society which administers the Henry House Museum. WOMEN FOUGHT IN WAR About 620,000 Yugosla Kenneth Ostler, co-cofivener of the ball; shows one of the coats to a model, Mrs. William Taylor, centre, and to Mrs. J. N. McGill, right, president of the Wotien's Auxiliary of the Simcoe Hall Crippled Children's School, who are sponsoring it. Proceeds are for the building fund for the new school. --Oshawa Times Photo Sidewalk Classes HAVANA (Reuters) -- Cuba's fashion leaders claim to have} found the ultimate in sophisti-| cation -- countrywide, sidewalk ited materials and clothes avaii- able. for trends. women, welcome men for 37 For Cuban Women Though primarily interided) pNG Nelda Thompson read also the correspondence and cards of; injgood wishes to the lodge.. An good manners and male fashion | invitation to Whitby Lodge, May|joyable the classes courses 18, THE osHAwA TIMES, Wedneidey, May 4, 1966 N.G, Luella Smith pore | over the regular meéting of Osh- awa Rebekah Lodge No. 3 when) it celebrated its 85th birthday | Wednesday evening. | The flag of the country was| presented by the color bearer, Sarah Van De Walker. | Several past -. presidents of the Rebekah Assembly and one district deputy' president were} introduced, | PNG Elizabeth Farrow intro-| duced past-president Mabel Dis-| ney; JPNG Vera Wirsching. in- troduced Annie Courtney; PNG} Goala Colch, introduced Meta} Priestly; PDDP Flossie Balj in-| troduced Clara Beatty; PNG Lena Harper introduced Louise| Clark and DDP Jean Rutter was introduced by Annie Mitchell. NG Luélla Smith weleomed ithe distinguished guests, visitors land members. There were 24 |PNG present and one officer jabsent at the roll call, VG Dorothy Holdsworth read| ja lengthy report on the sick) and wished them a speedy re- covery. Oshawa Rebekah Ledge No.3 Anniversary It was decidéd to seid $50 for & retarded child to go to camp. The degree staff were remind- ed of initiation on Wednesday, May 11 and to wear long dresses. Good wishes and continued success were offered by, the Past Assembly Officers and the District Deputy President. fn their remarks to the members. Visitors were present from Stinshine Lodge 222, . Orono, Port Hope, Ajax and Port Perry Lodges. A roast been dinner preceded the Lodge meeting convened by Annie Shorten and committee. A humorous skit depicting the family coming home for Grand- mother's 85th birthday was put on in a delightful manner. by several of the members of Osh- awa Rebekah No. 3. Eva Tipton was. the commen- tator, pianist and led in the singing. Mabel Disney PP of the. Re- bekah Assembly assisted NG Li- ella Smith in cutting the birth- day cake, served with ted, small cakes and tarts. A social time, was spent and another en- birthday anniversary i4 was accepted. 'brought to a close. Package Deal For Women, Dogs At British Hairdressing Salons ee ty? Baar ThE price of & saMmpod af it ident of Bela t {6t 6 "h of Bri Gta id set for women How fahges or 0) as feo fais to give a package deal to women and tHelt dogs, "We should compete for thé odie parior customers," y Henson, new, president Sepa; sted Guild of Het S yee and erfumers, told 'he guild's annual conference. "Our prices are {00 low. Our clients openly admit that elt fee cos" tee it shillings s ce ($4.87) for a tH AiG. SHIH BLS. Just let us try to charge our custom. ers that for a. shampoo and set and they'll blow their tops." from the éqdivalent Of about $1.50 in a tun - at: the - ett St, 'ae ethanding .» ed 1 t t ce . ag il ae é . pgityy 364 wt ackage W 'ees Lett feed "ts atch We An Gee sive charge." classes on corfect dress and| hait styles and good manners. | Organized by the bureau of fashion orientation under the auspices of the internal trade ministry. The classes are held jon busy sidewalks outside fash- | j ion shops at.6 p.m., when many | |Cuban workers are heading home. Experts .give directives on good manners and courtesy and on dressing in accordance with the Jatest trends--and the lim- "SOCIAL NOTICES | FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr, and Mrs. Walter Mc- |Intee, St. Catharines, wish to | annoufice the forthcoming mar- |riage of their daughter, Geral- dine Jo-Ann, to Robert Peter |Stelmach, son of Mrs. Alex | Stelmach, Oshawa, and the late |Mr. Stelmach, The wedding is |to take place on Saturday, May 21, 1966 at..2.30 p.m. in St. |George's. Ukrainian Catholic |Church, Oshawa. | | FORTHCOMING Mr. and Mrs. Anthony G. Tryon wish to announce. the forthcoming marriage of their _|daughter, Carol Roseann, , to | Carl Cecil Marshali, son of Mr. and Mrs. Cecil Marshall, all of v|Oshawa. 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