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ANN LANDERS Sincere Praise Instills Confidence In Children ehicle than your column, Parents: Do you want your child to be tense, insecure, un- bie to make friends, defeated before he starts? Do you want him to be lonely and resentful and keep his feelings buried in- side? If you do, follow these suggestions: Criticize him several times) every day -- preferably before an audience, Bellttle bis efforts, tell him to shut up when he tries to speak, shrug off his po cage Boel .~¥ we a portant, Ma lun m for asking stupid questions. If there is an older brother or sister who is exceptionally bright or talented, make fre- quent comparisons and ask him why he can't do as well. If there happens to be a prettier girl or a handsomer boy in the family, make a big fuss over his or her looks, On the other hand, if you want your. child to have self - confi- dence and enthusiasm, initiative and leadership qualities--if you want him to be co - operative and friendly, praise him a little every day, But be sure the praise is sincere because he will know if it isn't. Listen to him when he speaks, If he does something wrong let him know you forgive him and that you know next time he will do better, He will try his darn- edest not to let you down if he feels you have faith in him. 6 FM Snusion react 1 ue Way wey are treated, What your children ate depends on whet you are willing to invest in terms of patience, time and love, ~ In Dear Indianapolis: You have condensed in a few paragraphs the fundamental principles for rearing children: Thank you for being me. I couldn't have sald it so well, Dear Ann Landers: | enjoyed your answer to the young wife who was distressed because her husband was having a difficult time finding a job but refused to shave his beard even though some employers offered to hire. him if he shaved. / This item appeared in the! Montreal Star recently: oA few years ago one of the) best crimiral lawyers in town selected a bright young man, man, one of his students at Mc- Gi University, to join his law firm when he had completed his year's study abroad, The young man returned with a beard, The} attorney looked him over at some length the morning he re- | ported for work, 'Young man," | he said, at least, 'I have no ob-| jection to that beard, Just don't wear it during office hours," -- Mrs. F.B.W. Dear Mrs, ¥.B.W.; The attor- ney dealt with the situation wisely. It's amazing how a little humor can take the edge off what might be a cutting re- sponse, Thanks for sharing. Confidential to No Medal for Me: Were you expecting one? When you married the man you} MRS. JUNE MeLEOD and Mr. Earl Gillard study bylaws of "Parents With- out Partners', an organiza- tion formed in United States for single parents, Mrs, Mc- Leod is the interim presi- dent of the newly formed Oshawa Chapter, which meets in Simeoe Hall and Have you ever wondered why|knew about his 'crazy religion,| your child behaves differently| limited education, poor health,| with others than he does with|terrible temper, and miserable you? How many times have you! ex-wife," If you have managed heard a parent say: "He is so'to get four wonderful children pleasnt when he is with thejout of this marriage, consider Joneses, but at home we can't! yourself fortunate and make the New Life Brought To Familie Through Activities Of P.W.P. A young mother was deserted|ents met for the first time on | we | by her husband -- a young: May 10, 1966 and again on May get a civil word out of him." father lost his wife by death ---- both tragedies that | brought complicated responsibil-| ities to the one left, The post war years multiplied these situations in many citles,| towns and villages and these people found themselves the for- | gotten citizens, Out of this groun came the organization of 'Par- Jents Without Partners,"' | It was founded with the pur-| pose of helping single parents to) cope with the unique problems} that only they experienced, such as care for the child or children while at work; disciplining and guiding a child of the opposite sex; coping with the hurt that the child felt at finding himself different because he had only one parent, and many others, It is not a matrimonial agen cy - it is organized to solve mutual problems, share in in-| formation and help in raising best of it, were 24 at Simcoe Hall, The next meeting will be Tuesday, June. 4 Thirty-eight parents attended the last meeting and an iterim president was chosen, Mrs,| June McLeod. Others helping to organize the group are Mr, Ronald Smith, Mrs, Barbara Reynard, Mr, Karl Gillard, Mrs Margaret Stauffer, Mrs, Win Gauer and Mrs, Marie Rochel eau, The organization is open to divorced, or separated per- sons, widows or children The meetings start at 8.00 p.m, and plans are being made for speakers on different fam ily life topics by doctors, law yers, and social workers, Group discussions, exchanges of prac tical solutions, and a common bond fill a need for all, The bylaws of the organiza tion require 10 educational meet widoers with 1 ings a year and the Oshawa group is planning teen dances, children's craft groups, a pic nic for June 26, at Geneva Park children, The organization has spread through many chapters in the || United States and Canada and) io. all single parents and thelr how one is being organised In) children, and the activities for in costume worn at the Regi- mental Ball marking the centennial of the regiment. Oshawa Times Photo MRS, LEO Tiggelers, wife of the new Commanding Of- ficer of the Ontario Regi- ment, poses in her period Commanding Officer's Wife To Carry and Enjoy Many Duties By JO ALDWINCKLE {ers joined the Ontario Regiment | A Change of Command in| a8 & 2nd Lieutenant in 1954 and) the Ontarlo Regiment not only | the transition from marine to jarmy life was an easy one. introduces a new colonel but) 'The couple has a son John his lady also and Mrs, Leo/12, finishing grade 6 in St. Tiggelers has overcome her/John's School and a daughter) first stage - fright und is ready| Patricia, 15, finishing grade 10/ to fulfil and enjoy the respon-/in Dennis O'Connor High School sibilities she may have to under-|John is impatiently waiting to take, be old enough to join the Army | The petite five-feet-four, with Cadets and Patricia who keeps | long, bobbed brown hair andja scrap. book of her Dad's ac: | dark + lashed grey eyes, is/ tivities, is anticipating her first "Ruth" to her friends and her! big social event and two years | naturalness invites a new-made|seems a long time to walt at acquaintances to call her by her/ 15 first name. Born in Amsterdam,) Mrs. Tiggeler's favorite hob- she speaks English with ease bies are swimming and dancing, and fluency, having studied the 'I always swam in the sea be. | language at school, fore coming to Canada, but here | She became the bride of Leo in the summer, | love to go to Tiggelers in April, 1950, after)a nice lake for a swim. | real he had completed two years'|ly love ballroom dancing," she service in the Royal Dutechisaid. 'Like most Duteh girls Marines and spent one year on/and boys, | went to dancing active duty in Indonesia, In De;|school and it gives you con- cember of that year the newly-/fidence to be able to follow your weds came to Canada to joinipartner and dance correctly, I Mrs, Tiggerlers' sister, Mrs.jdon't like this shuffling about Michael Bovinsky, who was that passes for dancing resident in Whitby. Mr. Tiggel-| We have pleasant "wine and! Oshawa. A group of single Parle fall a When the Oshawa group dine" evenings in the mess that! petter acquainted they will elect| © have replaced the monthly High!» permanent executive and Teas and I really enjoyed the |form welfare, telephone, recrea Centennial Ball, there are real-|tion, program, social, sports, ly too few formal occasions and| and finance committees, In the T think they enhance the pres*\meantime any one wishing in 4 tige of the regiment. | would|formation can call Mrs. Mat 7 like to see more "mixed" mess|earet Stauffer at 725-3602 } dinners and perhaps a 'Daugh The organization helps single| ers of the Regiment" Ball at parents to rise above them-| m@ which young girls would be pre-|aelves by meeting other people| sented jin similar circumstances thus) Meanwhile Mr, and Mrs, John| making their transition toward Tiggelers of Venlo, Limburg,|normal living more favorable, | Holland, have arrived to witness) Many a single parent by re-| their son's taking over the com-/flecting and stock-taking has) mand of the regiment and for|heen able to gain new self- the next two months anyway|awareness, awareness of needs| |family affairs and sight-seeing|in the selection of a marital entertaining will supercede re-'rertner, her: (his) role in a mar- gimental business as far as thelital relationship and in relation "eolonel's lady" is concerned to her this) child CUSTOM Carpet & Upholstery DYEING Let us put new life in those drab, faded, and soiled colors at © fraction of the cost of replacing, We do wall to wall broad- loom right in your home or place of business, Brighten up any room's chesterfields or chairs the low cost way, used by Hotels Motels, ete . . . serving Oshawa, Whitby, Ajox, Bowmanville and surrounding districts. 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Special guest was the B. D. if a wets prow ed . Rundle Park clubhouse, 'oronto, and Past Gran a\| Mrs, Florence Russell opened ron, John Muir of Toronto. Al-| the meeting with the club song. #0 honored were American lodge Ritual was held and Mrs gg er oles one gl singh Eileen Mastin was crowned evi prayer was CON! queen of the week and present- ducted by the Chaplin, Beatrice!eq with @ cup and saucer Duchemin. \for her loss of 244 pounds, The It was decided to give a Jarge| club had our big pigs all with donation to & young man tO' two pounds gained. help further his studies"in the summary of convention Ministry, |workshops was given by the Plans were made to attendijeader and discussed among the Grand Chapter Harvest Ses-| fejjow members: sion, to be held in Toronto, Sep-| 1: was snnounced that thank! ones 7 Ps you cards were received from 508 ibs |the centennial parade commit- Wilma Taylor, and for bus) . tickets, see Sister' Mable Al- tee for the Streamliners' entry jin the past parade; from pine, \Streamiiners Mrs, Lillian. Wil-| meetings will be held in Knox Presbyterian Church, Simcoe Street North, At conclusion of meeting re- freshments were served and s social time enjoyed, STREAMLINER TOPS The regular meeting of the Motor City Streamliner TOPS Club was held Tuesday at eight single parents at- tended the last meeting. Oshawa Times Photo | SOCIAL NOTICE AT HOME | Mr. and Mrs, William Jack) Tripp, Baseline, Whitby, will] be pleased to receive their rel-! atives, friends and neighbors at their home on Sunday, June 12, 1966, from 2.00 p.m, to 4.00 p.m, and from 7.00 p.m. to 9,00 p.m on the occasion of their 25th wedding anniversary, | | | CHERRY BISQUE | 2 egg whites 2 tablespoons sugar 1-3 cup grapenuts 2-3 to sprinkle % cup chopped toasted | almonds % cup maraschino cherries tablespoon marashino cherry juice teaspoon vanilla cup heavy cream whipped cup sifted confectioners sugar paper cup liners | Sprinkle more grapenuts in hottom of paper cup-cake liners| placed in muffin pans in cherry mixture sprinkle grapenuts on top, Freeze WIFE PRESERVER ejarr 6 Pout and Visitors were present from) son in hog | ; , pital, for the get-well| Whitby, Toronto, Durham, Mim-| itt, and a letter was received| ico, West Hill, Scotland, Bub-\from Pauline Shaw leader of falo, N.Y., Brampton, and Wes-|Qghawa's Losin' Lassies, thank- ton. ing Streamliner members who The farewell was given by|helped her at the convention. 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D, G, M, Mrs, Hallie Ben-| stead, and an enjoyable hour| was spent playing bingo, atier which refreshments were served, PMA CLUB The Pleasant Monday After- Streamliners were reminded| of their bake sale on Friday, June 17, 1966 (with all goods to be fully wrapped and labeled) It was announced that a pic- nic would be held at Darlington noon Club held its weekly meet-|Provincial Park in June honor- ing in the Legion Hall with the|im@ Hi-Hopes TOPS of Port ist vice-president, Mrs, Phillip}Hope for winning the seven- Bell, presiding, jweek contest for , weight lost Final plans were made for | 28ainst the Streamliners, the outing to Midland, June 20,| Streamliners welcomed two The bus will leave the Legion|new members, Mrs, Patricia Hall at 9.00 a.m. and all fares|Hogel and Mrs, Elythe Lioyd must. be paid in by next Mon-|Mrs, Ann Tripp, club photog- day, June 13, The family picnic|/rapher, took before pictures of to Centre Island will take place, | both girls, July 13 and names may be| Next week's meeting will be given In now. This includes chil-| final plans for the plenic and dren of members. jappointing of food and game Mrs, Bell offered special pray-| committees, er for Mrs, George Hall who is in the hospital, also for Mrs. Olive Harrison who is ill at her| home. A speedy return to good | health was the wish of all mem- bers. Mrs, Norman Hodgson was welcomed back after her recent illness, The closing meeting will be held on June 27, This will be the last one in the Legion Hall. The PMA have held their meet-| | And if his taste ig as good as we think if is} he'll be charmedy proud ond simply delighted with a gift of , Arden for Men JURY + LOVELL 1m. 8 KING ST, E. OSHAWA Ings here for many years, and it} is with deep regret they say goodbye to a long and happy association, In September the OSHAWA TIMES PICTURE Attach rubber jar rings to the pull strings of children's toys. They're easier to grasp. RE-PRINTS Available At NU-WAY PHOTO SERVICE | R. W. BILSKY, D.C. CHIROPRACTOR 100 KING ST. 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