12 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, July 18, 1966 ANN LANDERS: Freddy The Freeloader Must Dear Ann Landers: I am a 16-year-old girl who has a 17- year-old problem. His name is not Derrick but fF will call him that. And will you please say we live in High Point, because we really live somewhere else and I want to confuse people. On our first date, Derrick took me to the movies. He paid my way and bought me pop- corn. On our second date we went to the movies again and Derrick asked me if I would mind pay for myself because he was short on cash, | said, "OK." He bought the popcorn. On our third date we went to) the movies once more and Der- rick asked me if I would mind paying for him, too, because he had left his money at home. I bought the popcorn. Last night was our fourth date. When we approached the box-office he said, 'I am broke. How about you treating me?" I said, '"'OK."' He added, "'Don't forget the popcorn." What do you think of a ro-| mance like this? Should I con-| tinue? --Bricktop Dear Miss Brick: Romance? Derrick likes the flicks and pop- Be His Teacher Instead of being pleased when others admired her I was jeal- ous and resentful, I must have been out of my mind to say some of the things I did. She never once defended herself or argued. She had the patience of a saint. But she left when she just couldn't take any more, And now I would get down on my knees in front of the whole world and beg her to come back if I thought it would do any good. I know now that it's slow love. Any man who thinks he sees a little of himself in this letter should read it again and ask himself, "'Am I doing the same thing?" If you are, and your wife is still at your side, stop it--or God help you.--Tom D. Dear Tom: You said you would get down on your kneés in front of the whole world and| i beg her to come back if you thought it would do any good. Well, this is what you've done-- and I hope it helps. Dear Ann Landers: Wheneve my husband and I go to a place) where there is dancing we end corn--in that order. And he up in a great big fight. Sense, Knowledge, Experience Are Keys To Water Safety THE EXPERTS SAY By JEAN SHARP Canadian Press Women's Editor TORONTO (CP)\--Fven nad- dling .2 cance near the cottage or running the outboard over to get groceries can be dangerovs. Common sense, knowledge and experience are all necessary to the safe han- dling of a boat of any size, under any conditions. James G. Perrin, general manager of the Canadian Boating Federation, says he believes the solution for the problem of boating accidents is education, not legislation. "I think the biggest. prob- lem is overloading a small boat. A lot of accidents hap- pen in the early spring and late fall. Hunters and fisher- men in heavy clothing put five people in a boat designed to take three. What legislation can you get against this? "And common sense is not You should learn water traf- fic rules. "Water skiing must be car- ried out well awav fram hath- ing areas." "And always the life jacket. Everyone should wear a life jacket." He says childrex should be taught the proper way to han- die small boats, always wear- ing a life jacket, always un- der close parental supervision, and with some common sense applied to the question of how highly powered a motor a child is allowed to operate. Mr. Perrin recommends three ways to learn about how to handle boats safely, The federal department of transport has a booklet called Safety Afloat available from the department and from most marine dealers, The Canadian Boating Fed- eration has a home study CHEESE A Special Cheesecake 2% cups graham wafer crumbs \% cup granulated sugar ¥% cup melted butter or mar- garine egg whites cup granulated sugar: pound cream cheese egs yolks two-thirds cup gran, sugar tablespoons lemon juice. cup cake flour teaspoon vanilla cup thick dairy sour cream Mix together the 4% cup sugar, crumbs and butter. Press almost all of mixture evenly on sides and bottom of a 9-inch springform pan, reserv- ing some for the topping. Beat egg whites to form soft peaks, and gradually beat in the Y% cup sugar until whites are sitff and shiny. course in elementary seaman- ship which anyone may take by mail for $15. It is available through the federation, 29 Col- borne St., Toronto. Cream the cheese and beat In the egg yolks, one at a time. Gradually beat in (in this or- der) the two-thirds cup sugar, lemon juice, cake flour, vanilla, sour cream. Fold in egg white' mixture. Pour into prepared pan. Sprin- kie reserved crumbs to form border on 'op. Bake in preneai- ed 325 deg. F. oven for 1% hours, or until almost set. Top with canned fruit pie filling, if desired. Yield: 12 to 14 servings. Wilson's used. There was an accident last week because someone was standing up in a boat. The boat may not tip, but you can." KNOW RULES The federation has a list of safety don'ts: --Don't take chances. --Don't overpower your boat. --Don't overload your boat. --Don't forget refuelling procedures, --Don't sit on the thwarts ar A Division of the S. S. Kresge Company Limited r CAMERA DEPT. in a canoe. --Don't stand up small boat. Don't take a chance with unseaworthy boats. --Don't cut across the mouth of a harbor. --Don't exceed lucal speed limits. --Don't jump into a boat. --Don't travel fast near the shore. --Don't be a hot - rodder, practise courtesy afloat. doesn't seem to be particularly) When Ernest dances with bashful about mooching off a!other women they are as close) girl, which is really rock bot-|together as a stamp on an en-| tom. |velope. But wien he dances) This could hardly be called a| with me you could drive a truc "romance."' It's a freeloading| between us. | in any COMPANY'S COMING tiny clusters and wide loops. The scalloped bord- er, with its dainty picots, addressed, stamped en- velope plus ten cents for handling to the Needlework adds the final touch. If Dept. The Oshawa Times, you would like the crochet Oshawa, requesting Leaflet instructions, sent elf - No. P.C,1514. a8 Naa AEGEAN Sy OES RAGE RESO ASOLO ---------- | WATCH AND LEARN families who pay 280 to 500 ($45) plus aise and elie ode tue an oa ae marks (about $70 to $125) ajand three to four free evenings ways observe. ja week. The average monthly "J would say the average |salary for female office work-| person doesn't know which ers is $50 to $60. side of a boat to pass on. month. In reverse, German girls who come to Greece to work and see the country can only be en- gaged as S ids b ich families who can offer then the | Has Your Food Dollar Lost It's Punch? salaries and comforts they are} used to. 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SHADESS, one | thing eet digger each year in search of a better hands, her heart and her head|you have to serve these, and} Last year a total of 117,167 As I promised last week, here Doctor up leftovers with imag-|Of these, 52,000 were women in are also a career-minded wife. | Fifth, serve your meals in in-|change is constantly bombard-|available Greek maids are be-| of long standing recognize once old set-up will be all right for|ble girls to work for German| ing asked is 1,500 drachmas ! dance with anyone who is under else from wrecking his life. My|can dance with anybody. Any; when you add a crocheted I was married less than ajried? You sound like a pair of| creative arrangement of enough to treat her the way she} tives is. ridiculous and agreeing| see what I was doing. |both of you. Leaving Greece | disappearing species in Greece. | the lack of maids as compared By ROBERTA ROESCH ; ; jincreasing number of young remains the same, and that is|!0ok homemade. Add spices and for the homemaking side of her|Switch them from their telltale|Greeks emigrated, mainly to are some pointers for being a|i®ation so they will have a new the 15-39 age group. First, whether you are a job-| Viting surrounds, Never give injing the Greek employment of-|coming more demanding. The and for all that, as a woman,|YOUr family meals. Instead pees s | n Back Yard end iy, Swim In Your Ow pons operation, baby, and you'd bet-| Ernest is very jealous and he! Dear Ann: Please print this|}40 years of age unless he is | Classic apron design quick wife's name is Ann, too, so this! advice?--Two Left Feet | edging. The delicate look year but I drove my wife away|10-year-olds to me. Your hus-|---- deserved to be treated. 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