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14. THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thurdey, Beptember 8, 1966 ANN LANDERS Poor Mother - Daughter Relations Begin Early helping mail. your neighbor is experi- "on Ann Landers; What do Dear re; you have against unmarried a anyway? In a recent Fed said marriage gi er "respectability." Are you herself to our Christ-|suggesting that without mar- "mas ornaments, linens, pots and Pas a & woman can't be respec: table? pans--whatever she wanted, Do you believe that all Finally I told her J wouldn't| unmarried girls are out catting Yesterday my neighbor came , in a state of shock, Her 'daughter had telephoned to say| "Marriage is not for everyone," she was leaving her children] Youan say that again, Of the "with gram" while she and her|15 married people in this. office hhusband took a two week vaca-| marriage means nothing to nine around? You also said "Marria gives a woman security." married women are #0 secure do so many married women work? Your last line was a gas: 'tion, "Gram" told her she was|of them.--Miss 20-20 Vision sorry but she and "gramps" 'were taking a vacation, too, 'and she's have to make other arrangements. Her daughter shouted; 'Well, if you don't care about your "grandchildren I'll see to it that 'ou aren't bothered with them the future," and hung up. Please print this letter and "tell mothers what to do, We hate to lose our daughters just because they marry, but we hate to be taken advantage of, too, Where's the line?--Honest Inquirer Dear Honest: The line fs where mother draws it, Some girls would leave their kids for- ever and move out the whole ag they could get away It's a safe bet that the daugh- ter who ran roughshod over her mother when she lived at home will continue to do so after marriage. In such families, the 'children have trained the par- ents. Where ther is love, respect aud room for honest expression, you will not find the kind of ex- ploitation and emotional black-! sion is 60 see some world, I saw no evidence from your letter, Thanks for writing. day my husband admit was poor manners, but I did it and I am sorry. My husband glared at me eat with a knife and fork or I'll move to another table, I'm ashamed to be seen eating with ou." I nearly cried, If this had occurred when the two of us were alone he wouldn't have said anything, Why must he al- ways wait until he has an audi- ence to correct me?--Humill- ted Dear H; Because he wants to add to your discomfort, You violated a rule of eti- quette, but he did something worse, He violated a marriage vow---the one that reads, "To love and to cherish--till death do us part." Dear Vision; Since your vi- 'ood I hope you can ing decent in the Dear Ann Landers: Yester- took his mother and me to lunch in al/ i / fh restaurant, I picked up an onion ai ring with my fingers, which I and said; "Put that down and THE LATE Helena Rubinstein frequently wore sapphires -- the Septem- ber birthstone. Here she wears a bizarre starfish By MARGARET NESS TORONTO (CP)--Blue is the color for blondes, fashion ex- perts say. So if you're blonde by nature or inclination and born in September, you're dou- ble sapphire-prone, Wear a cornflower blue sapp- hire and confound the popular saying that blondes are dumb. For sapphires were held by the MARGARET SANGER SLEE Promoter of Planned Parenthood Margaret Sanger Slee Dies ' TUCSON, Ariz, (AP)--Marg- aret Sanger Slee, founder of the Dirth control movement, died 'Tuesday in a nursing home. She was 83. (AP Wirephoto) She lived in Tucson for more ancients to be stones of wisdom. They were said to impart the attributes to clear thinking to thelr September-born wearers, One September-born woman who fits into this clear-thinking category was Queen Elizabeth I. Another is Greta Garbo, However, all saphires are not blue, If you are dark-haired ou can choose white or near lack, as well as green, violet and yellow. Bui tie most Nights prized is the blye and this is the color in whtch synthetic sapphires are made, These synthetic stones are used in costume jewelry, True sapphires are much too ex: pensive, This fall, for example, you can use pseudo-sapphires for your important dangling earrings and big matching pins. Trifari features all the pseudo- gems in a series of pins in orbital shape, such as shooting stars, bursting rays and star wheels, You can use sapphire eyes for the amusing animal set, FAVORITE OF ROYALTY True sapphires have always been popular with kings and princes, The most famous set of sapphires is probably the neck- lace owned by ill-fated Marie Antoinette, It was rescued and became an heirloom in the French royal family, handed than 30 years, down to the Due de Guise, the pins that most jewellers like for) casual wear or for the teen-age! hand ornament featuring a large sapphire in the centre, It was among the jewelery auctioned last year from Miss Rubinstein's es- Sapphires For September - Born Considered 'Stones Of Wisdom' pretender to the throne of France, Sapphires were the choice of another tragic queen, the last czarina, a German princess of Hesse, Her favorite diadem, which had been created for an earlier czarina, included several large pear « shaped and oval sapphires, She also liked jewelled aigrettes, One in the form of a feather was made. from thin wires on which were arranged five big sapphires and 75 small ones, as well as diamonds, When the czarina moved her head, the wire allowed the jew- els to tremble and glitter, Sapphires were popular with the British Royal Family, Two notable ones are in the imperial state crown, One is called the Stuart sapphire and was noted as far back as 1605 as "great blue sapphire' in the inventory of royal jewels ordered by James I. The other is called St, Ed- ward's sapphire, Tradition has it that this sapphire was in a ring owned by Edward the Confessor and was buried with him in 1066, Later it was re- moved from his finger, was lost, Re LR RAT a Bi a PRY | CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD. A person's name is a very precious part of him, We show due regard for him as we say bis name correctly, How im- Want Wet We WaciEr iseine the first oe last --_ of each er as early as pos- sible, There may be several chil- dren in her classroom with the ee first name, '- ' " u you are the teacher ol ely oe gree a te children in one room, You might be able to learn the names of every one of them this week. An occasional teacher with a flair for learning persons' names, may be able to say good-bye to every child, using his first and last name, as he leaves for home the first day of school, Imagine what an impression such achievement would make on these children, Certainly this could be done by any teacher by the time the week ends, But if you are teach: ing in the upper. elementary grades, or junior or senior high, you may have a total of 100 or uable of all sapphires, Man- made ones were finally re produced synthetically in 1049 by Linde Stars, after 50 years of research, These are used in expensive costume. jewelry, They are chemically identical and structurally similar to nat- tate. The plece is reputed to have been a gift to the cosmetic tycoon by actress Sarah Bernhardt; (CP Photo) aged to survive centuries of conflict, HELD CLOAK TOGETHER When the Princess Royal married Viscount Lascelles, King George and Queen Mary gave her a sapphire set of tiara, necklace, earrings and corsage ornament in cornflower blue, Edward, then Prince of Wales, presented his sister with a sapphire bracelet, Probably the most historic of all sapphires was the one used by Charlemagne as a clasp for his imperial cloak, The mantle was placed over his body in his tomb but the sapphire clasp was later stolen, It remained in Ger- man hands until it was pre sented to Napoleon when he conquered the German states, Here history and mysticism merge, Legend said the sap. phire could bring its owner world domination, Napoleon the gem to Josephine, stein, The ton pelea far 2 single her jewels was $33,000 for her 70-carat sapphire ring, sold to a Boston jeweller, Twin drace- lets, set with white sapphires, were the earliest valuable jew- elry owned by Madame Rubin- stein, They were given to her when she was only 12 years old by her Polish grandmother, Star sapphires that reflect six found again and somehow man: rays of light are the most val- mutfed his chances by giving|' Sapphires were frequently; ; worn by the late Helena Rubin-| | item in last year's auction of| pf ural star sapphires, patent Teachers Should Strive To Use Names Correctly more pupils of students, Even with so many you could, with sufficient effort, able to ad: dress every one first and last name, after a few weeks or months, If you consider it Important to remember each child's name you will work hard at finding ways to do so. Let's hope you do consider this important, How different the relationship be- tween you and George Kiev and between you and another child ou can't address by name, 'ow much warmer the mutual feeling then from the feeli as her or him, LACK OF THOUGHT some primary them by their when you speak to a child whose name you don't know, or when you speak of another child One time while I was visiting school classes much about how a child feels," When you call the roll I'm sure you would not pays and laugh at any name that struck you as odd, If any of the chil- dren did so you would rebuke them, If any child's name ts hard for you to pronounce, ask him (or her) to say it clearly for you and then practise at saying it correctly, If the child is shy and doesn't say it clearly, plan to have him help vou practice on it privately at a later time, Also help your children to use your name cor- rectly, Write it on the board and say it for them slowly and distinctly, Your most important achieve- ment of these early days of school is learning the first and last name of every child you teach and pronouncing it cor- rectly, ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Our daughter, 4, is finicky over foods at home and refuses to eat any of some of the most essential foods served her, But at nursery school I have seen hor eat heartily of all the fonda served there, Why . does this happen? A, No one is there to tell her she must eat, She and the other yang children just found it was the t ing all of them did, with a supervisor, she happened to look at the list of names of the children on the teacher's desk, She laughed aloud and said, 'What a funny name this child has,"' as she pronounced it loud enough for all the chil- dren to hear, -As I looked about the class I easily located the child whose name she had said, The other children were looking at this mortified child, I suffered with that youngster and said to my- self: "This supervisor may know much about technical matters of teaching but not The | | | ] Burns School of Dancing ANNUAL REGISTRATION | Saturday September 10th. | KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS HALL "Next te Onterie Motor Sales" | Hours 10 A.M, te 2 P.M, = 728.7902 Where good taste in fashion is not expensive INTERIOR DECORATOR FURNITURE ORAPERIES BROADLOOM 15 King Street East CUSTOM MADE DRAPES Phone 725-2686 + Mrs. Slee, more commonly | 'known as Margaret Sanger, had | deen the centre of controversy | or 4m connection with the birth| control pill since 1915 when she| was indicted for sending birth | 'control information through the | mails, | ' The indictment was dropped) safter protests were sent to Pres: ident Woodrow Wilson by Yriends of Mrs, Sanger and the| Planned Parenthood Movement. | + In 1916 she was arrested in} Brooklyn, N.Y., for conducting | birth control institute. While} r case was appealed and the) Judgment against het was sus-/ dained, the decision neverthe- Yess opened the way for physi- 'clans to give birth control ad- ice to their patients. ' She organized the first Amer- | dean birth contro] conference in 'New York City in 1921, On a) 'world tour in 1922 she took the, 'gospel of planned parenthood to | 'many nations and she organized | athe World Population Confer-' --_-- at Geneva, Switzerland, in 9 When It's Warm Up Time.. - CANADIAN WOOL PLAID BENCH WARMERS WORTH OF DRY CLEANING Stylish reminiscent of Canada's early voyageurs. Densely fringed patch pockets GILLARD CLEANERS oelag lee e OSHAWA 725-3555 | A tasele tops attached hood. Com. H pletely quilt lined. Styled by 'Sport Tex', Choose from Laurentian 98 Plaid or Red Plaid, 7-44. 1 4 only y, TEENERS' POOR BOY STRETCH SLIMS Zipper fly front divides 2 front pockets with contrast cord trim. In viscose and nylon. 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