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12 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thu redey, July 13, 1967 Dear Ann Landers: I chuckled when I read your typical Land- ers' reply to the woman who married a handsome man and ended up lonely and miserable. You said, "Marrying for looks is.a lot like buying wax fruit. bg can starve to death looking ot" I am something of an author- ity on this subject since I have had both types. My first hus- band was so good looking I could scarcely get him away from the mirror to go to work. My second husband was an ugly little runt. I am sure now that ANN LANDERS Handsome, Homely Both Deceived Her to live on the West Coast. When my daughter left she asked me to take her little boy. He was only six months old then and a sickly child, at that. I said yes on the condition she would promise not to ask for him later: She agreed to let me raise him to manhood. In the three years my daugh- ter has been away she has never returned to see the boy, He has become very attached to me and calls me "Mommy." Last week my daughter called to say she is getting married to a doctor who lost his wife two years ago. The doctor had no I picked Number Two for his children and he is eager to have ugliness, having been com- pletely soured on beautiful peo-|this boy, I reminded my daugh- ple. ter of her promise and she said Now I realize that looks had|she is sorry to break her word nothing to do with either of my|but she has changed her mind. marriages. Just because a man| This boy is my whole life and is ugly does not mean he will|it will kill me to part with him. be faithful, considerate or kind. | Please tell me what I can do (The runt cheated more than|to keep him. Is the law on my} the Adonis.) |side?--Heartsick | If I marry again I will pay no| Dear Heartsick: The child is attention to a man's looks. | will|/hers, and the law is on her side. judge him strictly on the basis |Of course she should not have of what we have in common, his;made such a foolish promise, | character, maturity and most of|/and it is wrong to go back on} all, his appreciation for me.--jone's word, but a larger issue | Twice Deceived lis at stake here and I hope you} Dear Twice: I hope all the|will see it that way. teen-age girls who see your| There are many children who) letter will learn something from|need the love and care you can| it. Dozens of gals who write to|give. Call the Family Service me say they are head-over-/Agency and make plans to take heels in love and then they goja foster child in your home. into raptures over the guy's| looks, They don't mention one| Confidential to Green Grass word about character, maturity|Blues: Sometimes the grass or the way he treats a female.|looks greener on the other side The qualities to look for in ajof the fence because the people mate are the very ones you/over there take better care of mentioned. Thanks a heap. it. If you will be honest with) | yourself you will admit you have} s Dear Ann Landers: Three/not been the best wife ana| B.C. Women Reject years ago my daughter and her|mother in the world. Pull up | The well-dressed woman appears coo] and composed even during the hottest summer weather. To help her achieve and maintain this look there is a strik- ing summer collection of dresses and costumes. Pro- jected in 'this collection are all the current. good-taste looks of fashion. It is BLUE CHECKS minus all the freaky way- out styles and contains many season-spanning num- bers. This attractive one- piece pomezia cotton in a blue and white graph paper or blue-print check has a bias-cut, button-trim- med top front shaped like a waistcoat, The neckline curves to a stand-away col- lar and a half-belt circles the back from a slightly raised waistline. --By Tracy Adrian CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD A mother writes from On- tario: "I was very interested in your recent article on 'hand - me- down' clothes, and felt I would like to share an idea which has virtually eliminated the prob- lems this practice presented in our home. "Our family consists of twin girls, seven, and a girl, five, so that the youngest is in line for even more hand-me-downs than usual. We refer to the twins' clothes as kindergarten dresses, Mother Eliminates Resentment Of Family Hands - Me - Downs article this Ontario mother re- ity to get some hand-me-down helping the younger child al- ways to be satisfied with the hand-me-downs, when an older child is forever getting new clothes. As I pointed out in the ferred to, there is the opportun- Women Alone Club Started By Widow REGINA (CP)--"It's no fun going to things alone," says the founder of a Regina club for widows, divorcees and spin- sters. Doris Grassie, herself a widow, set up the club to help women without husbands com- bat loneliness and feelings of inadequacy. It's called Women Alone. "The purpose of the club is to enable women who live alone to find compatible friends with whom they can share activi- ties; to fill their leisure time with hobbies and pursuits suited to their talents and desires, and to give them an opportunity to expand their horizons and get away from the monotony of four walls." Mrs. Grassie says too many women sit at home alone in a room because they lack the self- confidence necessary to get out and make friends. "Developing confidence in women who live alone and help- ing them combat their loneli- ness 1s our main job." Members meet an afternoon a week at the YWCA, where Mrs. Grassie is on staff. Baby- sitting services can be arranged for young mothers. 'We'll start out. with a single large group. Then it can' be broken down into smaller inter- est groups." = Among them are a bowling team, book discussion groups, music appreciation, flower-ar- ranging, knitting or rug-making circles. Members will also be divided into over-50 and under-50 sec- tions, arments from a cousin or other riend of the family for the older child, so he doesn't always get new clothes. A somewhat similar problem | is that of getting a child to be satisfied with, or enjoy wearing, garments his mother has made or grade one jumpers, etc. "The youngest child loves to try these clothes on, and con- siders it progress when she is ready for the next size. Since the clothes have been stored for a year, because of the age gap, the older girls are interested in seeing them again, and this cre- ates an atmosphere of interest without resentment. SCHEME WORKS "All three children are pleased when the youngest 'graduates' into the next set of clothes just as they progress in school. "Since this solution has | worked so well in our family, I felt it might help others." My reply in part: Let us compliment you on your wise and successful way of dealing with the hand-me-down clothes problem. You did it un- der more than unusually hard|t circumstances. Though we would not wish to detract from your successes, you still may | children grow older and become Suddenly she informed her mother she hated the dress be- | cause the other child learned | that her mother made it. seems to be a strong trend among women of making their | own clothes. How strong this| trend is in Canada I don't know. But if it should become more and more fashionable for women to sew, the wearing of| clothes by children made from | their mothers grow more acceptable among | ce ANSWERING QUESTIONS garten were more often read to in small groups than they are? | face some problems as your/ers could be enlisted as volun- teers to help do this. over from her own clothes or clothes of an older child, When our daughter was about seven her mother made over from her | own dress a dress for this child. The daughter was very proud of this dress for several weeks. In the United States there clothes might | hildren, Time will tell. | Q@. Do you wish children in he nursery school and kinder- A. I certainly do. Many moth- | more clothes conscience. FINE ACHIEVEMENT Besides some other parents] may not prove as skillful as you|!i have been. Nevertheless you do|blender combine a can of| chilled tomato soup with a can} of ice cold water. Stand a cin- report a great achievement. Parents who try to emulate the achievement of this Ontariojnamon stick stirrer glass for flavor and fun. mother may face a problem of HOUSEHOLD HINT Tomato soup shakes are de- cious on a hot day. Ina in each | husband had a big fight and he your socks and work harder tol Perfumed Men walked out on her. They are now fulfill your responsibilities, The! VICTORIA (CP)--For at least KEEP IN TRIM smell of perfume on a man) makes him suspect. j Fat Teens' First Problem, | | The newspaper had carried a| |New York story reporting the) By IDA JEAN KAIN |new attitude you'll be set free! eens and pre - teens with/This happens and W's magic! One woman suggested it was| weight woes, tune in. A 14-year- SLIMMING MENU \time for the creation of a new This opinion was turned up by . . [ a ck Of Determination lopening of an honest-to-good-| jness beauty salon for men sell-| old girl laments: Breakfast--325 Calories ...\Sex to provide women a reason- jthe Victoria Colonist in a ran-| ing cosmetics, hair nets and) "Im go fat it's pitiful. I just] Orange juice, four - ounce|able alternative to marrying a divorced and my daughter wentirewards can be tremendous. |some Victoria women, the sweet) }dom sampling of comment. colognes. glass (fresh, frozen, canned);|man who looks, smells and! can't force myself to stop eat-\<oft cooked egg; toast, one|Primps like a woman. ing. I haven't any will power.|slice; butter or margarine one| "All we need is a new cologne I am five feet two inches and\teaspoon; glass of skim milk.|Called 'Sweat' and take the going for 140 pounds, Help!" Young men, add small sery-|votes away from women and First, state your problem,|ing of cereal with whole milk. the men will have led us back right and you can get a better|Approximately 200 calories, to the dark ages," she said, perspective. You need to stop Luncheon--480 Calories Said another young woman: overeating. With the right ap-| Sandwich -- bologna, large When a man calls me up for proach and good nutrition, you slice, one ounce; cheese, one|@ date I Shall ask him what can work a miracle. Stretch slice, one ounce; bread, two/ cologne he's wearing. If he tells your mind to a new dimension.|Slices; mustard; celery and/me Tomcat, Studd or Whip, I'll You can't win by saying limply|Carrot sticks; skim milk, one) know it's my night to stay home that you haven't any will power.|Slass; fruit--fresh. with a good book. Pull out of that self-defeating ite Afternoon Pickup | Still another woman, strug: | rut right now. Will power| 100 Calories gling to keep her young family| equates with setting a goal that} Chilled cocoa, slimming|clothed and fed on welfare al-| you prize. What do you want?|Style; one cup skim milk; two| lowances, declared: | Eager expectation is a nat-/€aspoons cocoa; non-nutritive| "I'd just like that skunk of) ural when you're young Ex. | SWeetener. jmine to help pay the rent for | pect to enjoy streamlining. En-| ,, Dimmer 490-550 Calories = |8 rat-free apartment -- never joy--that's a wonderful word,| Hamburger, four ounces|mind the sn.ell. for it means satisfaction in ex.|Tolled cooked weight; with chopped pickle relish; toasted|berry gelatin with low-calorie| ing. Expect to like the! gay y jhamburger bun--}4 bun; ean: Tot topping. 'way you feel when you do not|°?" alia . jable, green or yellow 2-3 cup;| Total calories for day 1395 to! stuff. sliced tomato -- small; straw-! 1655. 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Jashions since 1867 OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE WEL A record for Oshawa Times Oshawa Times depends upon ¢ Women's Edito The record of | guest: should I wedding. The Reverend cock officiated at in Saint Mar' Church, last Se noon of Barbara and Thomas M The bride is the Mr. and Mrs. Di and the bridegre are Mr. and 1 Douglas Clark, a Carrying a bo low sweetheart *9 Pinocchio chrysat bride wore a lon justred satin 2 with white organz waist flowing in skirt was accom French lace trai the shoulders, # C Marlene Dor! daughter of Mrs. | chuk and the la' chuk and Robert son of Mr. and Olenycz, all of changed nuptial \ George's Memoriz Saturday afternoor The Reverend performed the ct Mrs. William Fo sang, accompanie ganist, Alan Rees Given in mari uncle, Peter Dobr bride wore a full: gown of silk orgar de soie, with an ¢ line. The kimono featured in Chantil a border of scallo lace accented the chapel train of was gathered up | ganza bow and at Dot The marriage of Hartman, and T sius Donovan, bot was solemnized b end David Gaven | the Evangelist Ro Church last Frida The bride is the Mr. and Mrs, Art man, Whitby, an groom is the son Mrs. Aloysius Do' Paul, Minnesota. Given in marri father, the bride ° length gown of wh lace. The lace bo to bell sleeves « straight skirt had Ma Northminster Us was the setting f riage last Saturd: of Erica Laurel ' Charles Arnold M bride is the daug and Mrs. Bryce G awa, and the bi the son of Mr. Charles Howard Lindsay. The Reverend officiated and t music was played ist, Ronald Kellins The bride's fat in marriage. She length gown of and Alencon lace. bodice featured waistline, scoop elbow-length sleev with a bell-shaped with scalloped Ale matching band lace encircled the a FORTHCOMING Mr. and Mrs. Toolen wish to 3 forthcoming marri daughter, Everdi Johanne, to Ro Nathan, son of Alexander Nathan awa. The ceremol place in St. Paul's Church on Saturd: 1967, at 4:30 p.m. ENGAGED Mr. and Mrs. | rington, Gormley, nounce the engage daughter, Betty At Percy Newell, son Mrs. A. E. Newe! The marriage is on Saturday, Augu the Christian Mi: ance Church, Uni FORTHCOMING Mr. and Mrs. L Whitby, wish to forthcoming mart youngest daught Faye, to Alex son of Mr. and | Emiljanowicz of ceremony is to t Saturday, July 29 a.m. in St. Hed Catholic Church. BARBARA ANNIVERSARY 25% .OF ALL COLD | 78 CELINA ST. - 725-9