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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, October 20, 1967 ANN LANDERS Swiss Company Backs Women Drivers Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band is a rotten driver. Thank God he doesn't hit people, only things--like fences, garage doors, fire hydrants, bushes, and last week a billboard. When a man is a poor driver and his wife is a good driver why doesn't he admit it and let her take over the wheel--as a matter of common sense, not to mention financial sense? Our repair bills are out of this world. : : Yesterday we were discussing the subject with friends, It was really quite amusing because this man (who drives a lot like my husband) was sitting with his leg in a cast as a result of a mine, We go to lunch at the Same moment and I always walk out directly ahead of him. When we @at in the company dining room (which is almost every day), I sit across from him. I have bumped into him at the water cooler dozens of times. All he says is, "O-ops. I'm sorry." This has been going on for five months and he still doesn't know I'm alive. What can I do to get this gorgeous hunk of stuff to notice me? -- High Pulse Rate Dear High: 'Hunk' has noticed you, but he's not inter- ested. recent collision with a beer truck. He was telling us how) nervous he has become now| that his wife has to do all the driving. The man is a psycholo- | gy professor and he claims. that women are not as well-coordi- nated as men and therefore cannot drive well. Do you Dear Ann Landets: I am 15, KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN Glowing good looks are not possible without some form of regular exercise. Whether you take shape-ups to look better or Exercising The Midritt Banishes Middle Age my sister is 17 and our mother is 37. We are all the same size. The problem is clothes, j My sister and I get no allow-| ance. We earn money babysit- ting and buy our own shoes, blouses and sweaters. Mom) works at a trucking company.) believe it?--Beat Down Dear Beat: According to a} group of Swiss insurance execu- tives, women drivers are less aggressive, less hostile and less) dangerous than men drivers.) They are also more patient and/ more careful, To support their) theory this Swiss insurance company offers a 20 per cent She never wears her own shoes| to work, She prefers ours} because they have no heels.) Mom has worn out so many pairs of our shoes that we have lost count Mom wears our sweaters and blouses as much as we do. She} has never yet bought a blouse| or sweater for herself. Why discount on policies to women|should she? drivers, provided the car is} My sister and I think this is driven only by them and not\unfair. If Mom wants to wear EVENING CHARM RELAXING at-home after a long busy social or career day is no longer a matter of merely kicking off one's Shoes, shedding dress and confining girdle and just ed and to cast off your day- time personality. Because lotingewear for these very reasons is so much in de- mand, there is a wide se- lection available in a vast range of prices, silhouettes plunking down before the and fabrics. This _ tent- television set for one or two shaped mobile lounger is hours of viewing. Now, it is silver-struck white mate- a matter of freshening up, lasse d'argent bordered donning an exciting at-home with black velvet. It is gown and looking devastat- é€qually as eye-appealing in | | to feel fit, exercise is marvel- ously rewarding. A letter has just arrived from a spirited] homemaker that can lend wings to your exercise éfforts. She writes: "Exercise enabled me to get off dead-center. One does reach plateaus and exercise does help. I was within ten pounds of my goal but couldn't break the pound barrier. I requested your leaflet 'Away With The Middle Spread'. Somehow those exer- cises did the trick and I not only toned the midsection but went on to lose those last stub- born pounds. NEEDN'T BE PAINFUL "I'm 46, and after having seven children, my waistline is now back to 26% inches, just where it was when I married. My measurements are 35-2614- 35. This note is to assure your readers that dieting need not be painful. I lost 31 pounds without Exercise along with calorie control definitély helped." Wonderful! Live tone in the abdominal muscles not only will help banish the spread, but the mi ~~} feeling as well. Exercising these musclés stirs up the life forces within~you feel alive. On the waist, slimming score however, quite a lot depends on your build. Another reader pointed out that the midsection toners strengthened the front- tee! but did not slim her waist- ine. EFFECTIVE MEASURE The most effective waist slimming méasure is to twist at dead-center, But unless your back is normally strong, you should not execute twisting movements. The following exer- cise involves a stretch and side-bend, but avoids the twist. Position: Standing on knees, arms tpstretched overhead, hands grasping a wand... the handle off the earpet sweeper will do, or use a yardstick Action: Holding the |pills and I never went hungry.'side and touch end of wand to CLUBS INVITED TO SUBMIT - STORIES ON 1967 PROJECTS The annual supplement of women's club activities will be published next month. This year most organizations have held special centennial events and it to make these the highlight souvenir edition. Secretaries are invited to send in articles recalling upstretch, bend slowly to the is planned of the supplement as a floor on oné side. Hold for a second or two. Come back to centre, then slowly and sthooth- ly bend and touch wand to floor on opposite side. Repeat six times, alternating sides. Do not éfumple in the middie, keep pulled slim. Walking is also 4 zest maker. Start, and you'll feel like it, Walk as if you heard a band laying ... head up, chin level. Get the knack of pulling up with the abdominal muscles and down and under with the big hip muscles. When you Walk in éxcellent posture you get twice the results. Bulky Sweaters Men's Heavy Knits Safe In Mild Suds By ELEANOR ROSS Hand is as handsome does in men's knitwear -this season. Styles have never béefi more varied and ruggeédly attractive; textures have never been so deep and spongy; co-or- dinates have never been more imaginative; and colors are loaded with masculine appeal. In addition, it is good for the tone and disciplined pattern. Other prominent types are the dimensioned block stitch, the linkeand-eable stitch, and the standatd baskétweaves, cobblé- stones and such. All are done with heavier- than-ever yarns; 4ll give a fine rough-and-teady outdoorsy effect. Thésé heavy knits may be latindered by machine, pre- ferably in a protective mesh bag. tt the knits are washed by hand, do them in a bathtub or deep sink to allow room for plenty of suds and rinse water. Never twist or pull, but lift the garment from underneath, squeezing sudsy water gently through the fibers. PUT THE SQUEEZE ON Rinse thoroughly and roll in a towel to squeeze out moisture Block to shape if necessary, and allow to dry flat. To restore depth of texture, tamp the surface gently with a ponge while it dries. Light steam pressing from the wrong side, over @ thick layer of tow- els, will further raise the pat- rm. We will have further tips on Styles and the care of them SKIRTS UNSETTLE MONKS BANGKOK, Thailand (AP)-- The Thai Buddhist elergy is asking girls attending temple services not to expose théif thighs. A leading priest, Panay- anda Bhikku, said that although Buddhist priests are sworn to celibacy and trained in self-dis- cipline, the sight of young girls in miniskirts and matador pants is unsettling. OSHAWA TIMES PICTURE RE-PRINTS 20% Discount o Orders of 5 or More Pictures Available At NU-WAY PHOTO SERVICE 251 King St. £., Oshewe 8 x 10 -- 1.50 each 5x7 -- 1.25 each shortly. se cacdbeaele lady of the house to know that the new knitwear is thoroughly Sudsable and easy to care for-- if label instructions are heeded. Different fibers and fiber com- binations do require different handling--from careful hand- washing in deep suds to totally carefree machine washing and drying. Labels should be identi- fied and filed, DOMINANT NOTE | The Big Stitch is the single most dominant fashion note for men. Still far ahead is the brawny beauty of the fisher- men's knit with its off-white| Discover A Radiant Steam Waves & Color Treatment Modella 71 CELINA You This Fall! We Specialize in. . CALL US TODAY! HAIR STYLISTS PHONE 725-4531 WEL A record for | Oshawa Times | Oshawa Times | depends upon tt Women's Editor The record of t) guest should be wedding. Ruth Marie Skin 'ald Albert Weale nuptial vows in | tist Church on Sa noon, The Reve Lytle officiated ; mony. The bride is the Mr. and Mrs. San ner, Oshawa, anc groom is the si George J. Weal and the late Mr. Mrs. F. W. Hi Sarnia, sister of played the weddin accompanied the George Delaney. Given in marvi father, the "bride length gown of sil de soie, styled wit ed bolero. The Fr and waist were t pearl - beaded, re Alencon lace which ed the bell skirt complemented by and sash and ; chapel train. Her pearl-encrusted lac her scalloped veil W the centennial project of their clubs and the full names of executive officers in this important yéar. Future proj- ects may also be listed. Articles must be mailed or delivered to the Social Department, The Oshawa Times on or before November jour things shouldn't she chip in jon the price or buy a sweater Dear Ann Landers: If there isjor blouse once in a while and) such a person: I'm beginning to/share it? What's the solution? | eae doubt you're real. This is my |--Sisters mal activities at work and play. fourth letter to you and you; Dear Sisters: The solution is} As for ourselves, let us par- their husbands. ingly pretty. No better way we know of to feel patper- a beigé and gold matelasse. --By Tracy Adrian Joan Doroth; daughter of Mr. ar ald Suppelsa, 0: George William W Mr, and Mrs. Geor gently, stirring occasionally, to 240 degrees F. or until a small sox tasie ap lets (0 06 Sialuade ait bene uy. Dat Orn (eats be grateful for the privi-|amount forms a soft ball in} 4. Envelopes should be marked 'Club Women's Edition". Wilmot, Nova ) | § od | 4 ; ' . e e 4 * * + ' your cute answers. lters. Almost without exception, |!°8¢ of companionship which|very cold water. Remove from Stories should be typewritten, on one side of a large po gael " "eres sheet of paper, allowing margins and double-spaced lines. The sender's name and telephone number should be in- dreamy|when females exchange cloth-/We enjoyed with the loved one./heat; add %4 tsp. vanilla. Cool My problem is this ANSWERING QUESTIONS |to lukewarm (100 degrees F.). guy at work. His desk is behind'ing someone ends up mad. Saturday afternoon. The Reverend \ | @. What is a good way to\Beat until fudge begins to) cluded on the story. bert officiated at th CHILD GUIDANCE |bring up a child not to open or| spread fo Ag Rd Joys The writing must be concise in order to have space Donald Allman si 'sag your mail? (Cut into squares a vhen, cold.| for pictures, Short articles are most acceptable, Do not panied by Ryddid *1 4! 4 | A. Being sure never to open| Yield: 1% pounds. delay. Late articles will not be published. Given in marria S 1 @ 10 eat lor read his without being invit- father, the bride \ jed to do so. length empire gow EvERYBODY silk fashioned al GENEFITS.... EVERYBODY Gives ® lines with a_ sco and bell-shaped sle ques of Guipure lac ron design enhance of the skirt and 2 chapel length trair the empire yoke : Na i Irene Kozy becan of Walter Naklowyc mony last Saturda in St. George's Ukr olic Church. Mirrors Sentiments Of P arent! CHOCOLATE CANDY | ic By GARRY MYERS, PhD usual play activity. Some EN aS senate Rae 4 alt= Of great concern to manyjers may go into a depression.|jowe'en party for the small fry -- gg og oe The symptoms may include Place 1 cup milk and 2 cups n ility. { 8 child's attitude toward death-- hostility, rebellion, refusal to -reoag fitey boa 'hag aa igh it.|eat or failure in school of a gi een how he feels and talks about it. 1 tbsp, butter or margarine Psychologists don't know asjbright child. |when sugar is melted. Boil much as they would like to! When death strikes in the| oo : know about this matter but\family, the child may fear that] they are striving to know more|he or his parents will die. He about the effect of death of almay be afraid to fall asleep. He loved one on adults and chil-|may fear that he had caused dren, the death "by hostile feelings One psychologist, Rosejand death wishes at times of Zeligs, Ed.D., who counsels/frustration or jealousy of COMMUNITY MANY cameaiens in ONE make the smart move... with parents on all sorts of problems with children, has . Written a helpful article, "Chil- dren's Attitudes Toward siblings." AUTHOR'S ADVICE Dr. Zeligs advises the thera- pist to try to understand the parents' attitude toward death, "and if they are religious, dis- cuss the religious element with} them." Very early in life chil-| dren, she thinks, should hear Death," appearing in Mental Hygiene, for July 1967. KNOW MEDICAL FACTS Dr. Zeligs says that parents after suffering the sudden loss 'of a child, need to know the/casual remarks about dead medical facts on the true cause/flowers, birds, insects, and 'of the death, lest they blamejexperience the burying of dead| ;themselves in some way for|pets. shaving failed to care properly) If over five or six, the child (for the loved one. They need to|should not be sent away during find comfort in the fact thatithe funeral and mourning| 'medical science is doing all it/periods. A funeral helps the| scan do. child know what becomes of the * The author notes that fear of |body and where it is buried. -death by adults is indicated by| Dr. Zeligs says the parents 'their trying to avoid the word|should not hide their own grief. "death", by saying the person|Here I would like to suggest thas departed or passed away.ithat grief hysterically 'Here I recall hearing when, aslexpressed by parents can be 'a_chiid, certain wives when|harmful to children. So can} 'advised to urge their husbandslexcessive dwelling on the| +to make a will, say they just/source of sorrow. | | in the) choose a sport coat from our connoisseur collection Judged from the basis of style and performance our new sport coats walk away from the competition! We've assembled a handsome selection of these chame pions... in all the patterns and colors that do you proud. Come in and judge for yourself . . . then choose one that helps you walk away from competition! The bride is the Mr. and Mrs. Mich Oshawa and the br the son of Mr. and | Naklowych of Toro The Reverend Jo! and the Reverend § officiated at the ma Carol Black sang, panied. Given in marri: father, the bride \ designed, empire-st Swiss silk, with a line. The sleeves : the A-line skirt we with Swiss lace. He of flowers, held length bouffant vei silk tulle and a sc: of tulle appliqued Hr P St. Gertrude's F *couldn't bear to talk about such} As J have said before, : things. column, it's very desirable to} slic Church was th Dr. Zeligs also observes what|talk unemotionally about the} the marriage la: /most of my readers know, that children are strongly affected tby the parent who is over-|er, Furthermore, we need to go +whelmed by the death of a sib-/about our work and play with| tling and is unable to come to/chin up and do our best to help| igrips with his own feelings. "'If!th- bereaved child to have nor-| late loved one, especially about the good times they had togeth-| afternoon of Valer Dittmar and Clif! Hrywkiw. The bi daughter of Mr. an Dittmar of Oshav bridegroom's pare! Sthe parent is afraid to talk fabout the. death, the child is| and Mrs. Joseph tinfluenced by this taboo and Canora, Saskatchev {represses his fears, guilt, and ,confusion."" The child may be tgreatly disturbed by his fears 'and worries. He may suppose} she caused the brother's or sis-] tter's death by his jealousies or] 'other reasons | Children's ideas about death j change with their development. From three to five most have ?no concept of the finality of fdeath. They may talk about ; death freely as they pretend to +shoot each other. But the child 'six or older usually knows that death is final. ' CHILDREN'S REACTION Children react to death in the neien{, Meaty HONEY WINE ITS NEW FROM BAYER! TRADE MARK REG, a decongestant cold capsule that helps clear stuffy nose, curb sneezing, relieve sinus pressure and ease breathing The Reverend G ham performed tt and Mrs, Clifford accompanied by h Mrs. George Toml The bride, who \ marriage by her an empire-style gown with an A-lir bodice was fashio patterned chiffon v slightly scooped r semi-French sleeve of peau de soie v at the empire line toured fold of the jfamily in various ways. 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