THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, November 27, 1967 ANN LANDERS Indulgent Parents Destroy Character 10 Dear Ann Landers: I am writ- callege for the first time. " ( wh I I am a registrar in a Mid-jis a major challenge, stay there out and gone on to graduate. The difference between these|challenges. -- John W. Hauer, two groups is invariably the Rapid City, 8.D. parents. It is amazing to me ber on the phone about home-|their kids to fold out of college sickness, Come home." how much they miss them, howjeyes around the country. sick they've been and how hard up for money they is not very enthusiastic about college in the first place is in- clined to chuck everything and) come home "'for the sake of the folks." argumet. checks with the wedding gifts? I my less afluent relatives gave Wise parents understand the |j ing this letter in the hope it willjvalue of a college education and reach the thousands of parents|do everything they can to help whose children have gone off to|their children get that diploma. t : |The student who is told, "This western co-educational college.jand meet it," will often do just I have seen dozens of students|that. The student who is permit- quit and go home because they ted to throw in the towel and were homesick. Other students,|come home after a few weeks equally homesick, have stuck it}(or months) may well develop a defeatist approach to all of life's Dear J.W.H.\ Thank you for a how many otherwise intelligent|superb letter. I have long sus- parents tell their kids who blub-|pected that parents who allow "You don't have tojwithin the first few weeks or stay there if you don't want to./months do so because they, the parents, are lonely and want the |? Then there are parents whojchild at home. I hope your let-| write to their kids and tell them/ter opens up a few thousarfa| Dear Ann Landers: One sen- are. Naturally the student wh0ltence from you will settle this Is it good taste to display § feel that it is not, since some of THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TUESDAY Strive to further plans set in motion last week. A shipshape performance can be yours now. Just one admonition: A.M. hours will require extreme tact and patience with family and (or) co-workers. Persons born under some Signs may be some- what on the "'edgy" side. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If Tuesday is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that this new year in your life will be one of somewhat 'mixed blessings." From some angles, it will be excellent--notably along financial lines. Fine gains are presaged during the first three weeks of next May, during the mid-August-mid-September period and during the last half of October. You will also have chances to add to your bank balance next November--but only if you have seen to it that you have cash reserves on hand and have not gone overboard in spending while gains were ac- cruing. Where employment matters are concerned, results will large- ly depend on yourself. This will us rather modest checks as compared to the well-heeled folks on my fiance's side whose -- were downright stagger- ing. My parents feel it is spirit of lthe giver and not the size of the gift that counts. They say all checks should be on display. What is the lastand final word on this? -- Battle Weary Dear Weary: There is no |"last and final word." The answer is not part of the Bill of Rights, or the Magna Carta. I can only give you my opinion. I think wedding checks should be placed In sealed enve- lopes--with the names of the givers on the outside. Those who view the gifts will then be aware that Uncle Barney and Aunt Eleanor gave a gift but the size of the check will re- main undisclosed. | | Confidential to Your Old) Houston Buddy Who Is Not Drinking Anymore: From the sound of your letter you are not drinking any less. Your chief problem is still booze and until you are willing to accept this you will continue to have other problems. I recommend Alcoholics Anonymous. Look in the phone book; learn when and| where the next meeting takes) be a year in which your natural impatience when things go wrong will be accentuated. There will be at least five pe- riods when, aggravated by ob- place--and go. | | lf | A : = 4 j warm approval. _| sandwiches prepared ahead of _ Hot Toddy Adds Warmth Kas! To Holiday Entertaining Who among us, especially as the holiday season approaches, does not delight in increasing our skills as a hostess? It is refreshing now and then, both for the hostess and guests, to break away from stereotyped hospitality and try something new. This recipe for a new type Hot Toddy is fine for a hol- iday party, but just as suitable for serving friends or family after an outdoor evening. Try serving it after a skating or sleigh - ride and we predict This delicately - flavored punch has a base of tea brew- ed with spices, then combined|72mon sticks. Cover and allow lemonade|the mixture to brew five min- with canned frozen concentrate. It will be ready to use with- out the rum, and whether or not you add to this good, hot beverage, depends on both your age group and your own choice in the matter. Food can be anything from time, to something as simple and crunchy as salted nuts or pretzels. HOT TODDY You can use your staple type of tea for this toddy -- loose, instant, or in tea-bag form. Yield -- 20 to 25 four - ounce servings 2 quarts (10 cups) boiling water. Y% cup granulated sugar FULL OF HOT AIR PORTLAND, Ore. (AP) -- lium balloons into the air in Oc- tober as part of a science pro- ject. Each balloon had a tag which asked the finder to notify o 3 the school. The balloons have been spotted in Idaho, Colorado, and -Texas, A CINNAMON STICK IN EACH CUP OF HOT TODDY IS A NOVEL NOTE TENSION SECONDARY TO KI Emperor's Purse For Miss Ababa ADDIS ABABA (AP) -- Em- peror Haile Selassie has given his blessing--and $2,000--to a beauty contest to select Miss Addis Ababa. The girls are told they owe it to Ethiopia to make it a success. "Ethiopia is famous through- lcepts of beauty and other fac- |tors which make up the over-all] jcharm, dignity and worthiness} the assistant minister, Kebede| on Ethiopian and universal con- "The contest will be geared to|their daughters' disporting the traditions of Ethiopia," said|themselves in public. ; | The em "s bless Asfaw. "Judging will be based) jj) a ssa Miss Addis Ababa will be se-| iopia' j curbing irritating germs tn acid urine eg Sg 6, Ethiopia's Christ-|] $¥q ant : ain. Get pan. if being used. proof bowl or jug, garnished with thin lemon slices and add a cinnamon stick to each serv- Because of Sudan's diplomatic break with the United States over the June 5-10 Arab-Israeli SENT ABROAD war, no Sudanese students are KHARTOUM, Sudan (AP) --!going over to the U.S. The edu- cation ministry announced the 200 being sent abroad will at- tend east European universities, ¥Y% cup loose or instant tea or 5 tea bags 1 teaspoon whole cloves ¥% teaspoon granulated nut- meg 2 sticks cinnamon, 2 inches long 1 can (approx 6 ounces) fro- zen concentrated lemonade 1 tablespoon butter 1 to 2 cups rum, optional Thin lemon slices. Measure boiling water into a large saucepan and stir in su- gar; cover, bring to the boil and boil gently 2 minutes. 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See package insert for com- plete details Style #161 illustrated: 4.95 Leading the '( March" at the St. And Ball which was hel Friday evening in the men Community Cer are, (lower left), George MacKenzie, Britain's Far Rewarded A By CY FOX LONDON (CP) -- The ish know first hand wh population explosion mi . shop queues, dead slow and a general dearth of room. But with the birth ra ready easing after a : rise in the 1950s many made family plann through contraceptis non-contraceptive meth part of every-day life One town council, makes loans for home struction, grants less gent terms if it knows | couple practises family ning. Couples realize they c: bigger mortgages if the is working, said one 0 on the council in Wor Sussex. If a man and wi they plan not to have ch for several years, the c takes the wife's salary in count in assessing the involved in lending money. 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