Rev Barrow notes a social problem What did you say Communications gap THE HERALD Wednesday May IMSPago Day Care Day in Halton Todays Day Care Day In Hie Association for Early Childhood Education has officially designated today citizens to see what Is going on care centres In the area Wednesday as a day for all In nursery schools and day Most centres to will Everyday every hour and every minute we com municate Yet we tend to neglect or Ignore these com munications The old saying Goes In one ear and out the other didnt originate as a compliment but as an insult Everyone slips Into bad habits Such as standing face to face with a friend looking directly at the person yet having to resort to come thing like I didnt hear that or Sorry I wasnt listening I These communication gaps I were topics covered by Reverend Peter Barrow minister of Knox Presbyterian Church and Georgetowns of the Year in a recent talk with women the Ys day- workshop entitled Tie Art of Communications When you listen you do pot pick up everything by any means Our concentration span Is not very long and we never concentrate at all times But we do manage to pick up a few things which were said commented Barrow He explained his of feedback from any audience he speaks to When people start to fidget and look up at the celling counting the number of bolts In the rafters then I know I am not getting through This feedback is split into two categories positive and negative Positive feedback Is when someone violently disagrees with what was said and states a direct question or controversial statement On the other hand negative la more of a sensed reaction better known as body language A speaker realizes by the fidgeting yawning whispering constant coughing and extensive rustling that bis audience Is suffering from flickering concentration thus not ab sorbing much of what Is being said Communication threads through a cycle consisting of the communication Itself the channel used the receiver and the feedback Its exactly the same process talking to a crowd of one hundred people as having a quiet chat with your husband in the living room However concentration neglect is only of the barriers which prevent people from complete comprehension and attention The greatest barrier of communications he said is the use of language The word oft for example has at least six different meanings and interpretations Because of the numerous translations of words our language falls Into oil kinds of traps said Rev Barrow To illustrate on example Rev Barrow related a true story which once happened to him when using a word Im properly I was paving a visit to a home and as I was leaving I said This Is a very pleasant homely house you have There was a look of shock and horror on the owners faces At that time I didnt realize the difference between homey and homely Another serious problem he related Is people tend to hear what Ihcy want to hear Rev Barrow then talked about a most common and frequent aggravation a mother faces Mother Come wash the pots Child What Mother Come wash the pots Child I cant hear you Mother I said come wash tho pots Child 111 be there In a minute Fifteen minutes later the COMMUNICATIONS was the topic under discussion at the womens workshop held last week Guest speaker for the afternoon was Rev Peter Barrow Minister of Knox Presbyterian Church The old scarf lives again THE SCARF LADY Patricia Patterson demonstrates a turban made from a scarf Pat Wood These models dont just look good Theres more to making pUftic models than following the directions In the box With a small amount of imagination I and a little more time you con create a very Individual piece I 61317 contract for After frantically searching for that extra touch to com pliment your outfit you finally decide to resort to the old reliable accessory the scarf However once tied under the neck with a knot the size of a golf boll supporting your neck discomfort and aggravation take over Before day is through the scarf has been tugged off the neck and angrily stuffed Into a purse or at pressing moments the gar bage cans However at a recent scarf and pin show held by the Georgetown Hospital Auxiliary at St Albans Hall in Glen Williams the audience discovered the solution to this tiring problem Sponsored by Patricia Patterson originator of Love that Style scarf pins women learned that with bit of imagination and creativity a acarf con become a most valuable piece of clothing Patricia along with her cousin designed and patented a pin that Is the substitute of a knot Not only are these pins which come In gold and silver convenient and handy but decorative as well Using her faithful travelling companion and comforting friend Glgi Patricia illustrated how one scarf can be used In at least five or six dirferentfashonsBytbeway is a gorgeous young lady with hair of darken gray with j silver streaks Before It is forgotten Glgi Is a dummy Patricia does about three of these displays a day but only for charitable organizations Scarves pins and other pieces of are sold with a large part of the profits going to the organization holding the show Patricia originated the clip ten years ago and has been kept frantically busy since Perhaps that Is the secret of her youthful appearance She proudly admitted to be which shocked everyone Otherwise known as the scarf lady Patricia has won three trophies for original creations with scarves C these plastic miniatures con be an ab sorbing hobby and highly rewarding art form when properly done Jim Mon- tgombery has spent more time than he cares to remember creating models and begin ning June he will start a series of programs in the Junior Library to show other Interested wouldbe model makers how to turn out showpiece specimens The programs are designed for young people aged 11 and up and will be held on June 11 and IB at in the Junior Library Church St The size of the group will be limited to about so pre- Is advisable Applications can be picked up at the Junior Library where a list of tools and materials needed will also be available If the group is Interested enough Mr Montgomery hopes to be able to carry on with advanced techniques in the fall with some displays and visits from specialists as well From Bureau Of The Herald OTTAWA Two federal contracts worth have I been awarded to Varian I Associates Ltd of Georgetown I to provide the transport and I defence departments with I electron tubes the department of supply and services an il pounced last Monday I I They were among 333 un- I Classified contracts worth 1 or more that were I awarded by the department to I Canadian companies during I I ended May Total I value of the contracts amounted to Library looking for puppeteers The Georgetown Junior Library is looking for 13 very special young people between the ages of 13 and 15 for a summer puppet theatre Applicants for membership in the troupe should demon strate some talent for and Inter in developing theatrical and crafts skills The group will meet twice a week and after same initial workshops to demonstrate the various types of puppets plays and production techniques they will create and perform their own An excursion to Toronto Public Librarys Marguerite Bagshaw Puppet Theatre is planned and other related trips may be possible Interested summer pup peteers should drop by the Junior Library to fill out an application form MAY 1975 fit LAM v Band Ross Hlliier Buffet Dinner DOOR PRIZE TRIP TO LAS VEGAS 6 Nights TOM COOPER RICK 1393 BARRY 8772662 be opening their doors to any Interested parents or citizens throughout the day to watch actual classes mother enters the kitchen and finds that the pots are not done Mother Why didnt you wash the Child I didnt hear you tell me to wash the pots Rev Barrow pointed out thai Kids are great for that however the old man often acts the same way Another block in com munication Is fear and anxiety stated Rev Barrow If I said that Ill be talking for another two hours thewheels In your mind would automatically begin to fran tically churn You im mediately became anxious You start to worry about the kids coming home from school the supper that has to bo cooked or the roast that Is already In the oven From there on you dont hear a word All you think about Is that roast in the oven which Is getting browner and browner and browner and that kids wont smell a thing until the kitchen Is full or smoke In closing Rev Barrow explained what he feels is one of the most lm- words of wisdom he with newlyweda I explain that they have to learn not only to be lovers but to be friends as well They look at me as if Im daft But eventually they will find that communication Is one of the most necessary elements of a marriage If they start to communicate now by the time the children ore grown up and lead Independent lives they will then know they have a life long companion beside them Parks and Campsites are anions our greatest natural attractions This is what Ontario is doing to expand and protect them The Ontario Government has a firm policy of establishing and maintaining provincial parks and campsites This year for example four new provin cial parks and over new campsites are being developed for the enjoyment and recreation of Ontario residentsbringing the total number of operating parks to and campsites to The new parks are Silent Lake Provincial Park acres sit uated miles north of on High way 2B campsites are available but no motor boats will be allowed Regular fees apply Ferris Provincial Park situated one mile south of Campbellford on County Road 31 has been expanded by adding camp sites comfort stations and boat launch ramp for access to the Trent River System Regular fees apply Bronte Creek Provincial Park at the Queen Elizabeth Way and Highway 25 midway be tween Toronto and Hamilton will be open without charge this year lor dayuse and picnicking Among its special features are a childrens farm and nature hikes Canyon Provincial Park near Donon on Highway 27 about 35 miles east of Thunder Bay provides walking trails along the canyons edge to give visitors a spectacular view of the Grand Canyon of Ontario No admission charge Additional campsites are under construc tion at several existing provincial parks- Algonquin Bon Echo Killbear Remi Lake and Ivanhoe If you would like more information about Ontario provincial parks or campsites or a map showing their locations write to Ontario Parks Division Ministry of Natural Resources Whitney Block Street West Toronto Ontario 1W3 Ministry of Natural Resources Leo Bernier Minister Government of Ontario William Davis Premier THE LITTLEST HOBO favorite television personality and the Worlds most intelligent dog along with his three brothers MONDAY MAY 19 SATURDAY MAY Three Shows Daily noon 6 pm pm THE LITTLEST HOBO understands words in 3 languages plays chess types letters and even speaks English