Parte I THE HERALD Wednesday November I IITT Health council draws flaki over nursing home delay JUST CHECKING THE TIME Michael Teed left and Brian Franks at the Canadian Imperial Bonk of Commerce check their McDonald wrist in Georgetown Market Brian was the watches against the fry at October winner of the Kids Comer coloring McDonalds restaurant Michael was feature in The Herald he background is presented with a watch after having his name Arnold a manager of the restaurant drawn as one who had owned a new account A mature person profits by mistakes suggestions Do you know spouses favorite color How about his or her pel peeve most enjoy able activity or impossible dream Can you list five live assets or your mate These and other questions were put to about persons family life seminar Friday at Maple Avenue Bap tist Church Leader of the seminar was Rev Roberl lr win dean of students at Moody Bible Institute in Chicago The minister married for years and with four children began his semi nar with the statement that God is working in person the partner and the parent so that each one becomes ma lure How this comes about is BOOKS LIMITED CHRISTIAN BOOKS RECORDS GIFTS George St Brampton Ont Phone by speaking the truth in love he said A mature person accepts himself as God made him Rev Irwin said A mature person profits by his mistakes and suggestions of others He accepts the decision he made if its wrong As well a mature person adjusts to things he cant change and accepts disappointment or distress with calmness and stability Rev Irwin said They dont get thrown for Besides accepting and ful filling his responsibilities a mature person finds his great est satisfaction in making others happy frwin said noting howeier that We live in a me first society a self centred world Irwin put the the differences between being a giver and a laker A taker always demands but never gives is a perpetual griper thinks only of his own or needs tries to change his mate instead of himself news married life as you versus me does not stand beside the mate in disciplining the children and sees not the best but the worst in his mate A on the other hand Come to Church MAPLE AVENUE BAPTIST CHURCH LUTHERAN CHURCH Maple Ave P Harold J5 a m Sunday the Lutheran Hour E Kerr EVERYONE WELCOME GEORGETOWN AUIANCE CHURCH 14 Mam St Pallor Ralph Sunday Nov ST- GEORGES CHURCH Anglican Sunday School Rev R Gallagher Mam Morning Worship A 5 T Trinity XXIII Sunday Nov 11 a a The Eucharist Family Eucharist Everyone Welcome your church HAIT0N HILLS Morning Prayer Sunday JO Nursery Provided PENTECOSTAL ASSEMBLY Trafalgar and No Highway Rev E j The Spirit God is manlfelfrom time to time In rare spiritual beings who are called Manifestation of God Sunday Nov 13 Services 7 Krishna Moses Zoroaster Buddha Christ Muhammad and Ihe Dab were former Man fas tat ions of God Who revealed God message to mankind If you would like more in for mat lor or would like to attend fireside writ Box Georgetown or phone Musical Team Nov It Convention Tuesday Kids Club Prayer and Blbl Study always tries to give asks How can I help you considers Ihe needs of others wants to change and Improve himself stands beside the mate what ever the situation and sees the best in the partner Rev Irwin said An accomplished seminar leader Rev Irwin showed a number of cartoons which seemed to pinpoint his argu ment and cause a good round of merriment among his listen He reached into his own personal life for anecdotes and examples to illustrate his theme and his wife seemed as amused as the audience Intimacy in marriage is ac hieved through shared lives through the two becoming one Rev Irwin said He listed six methods of increasing inti macy in ma mage by confid ing in your partner by sharing even the days trivialities by intimate behaviour by verbal communication by sexual ex and by other contacts But the level of intimacy Involves a degree risk because it means making yourself more vulnerable he One question often asked In marriages is why dont mar couples talk to each other he said A roundup of common answers includes You dont give me a chance You don listen You come through as not real ly caring what I say You become defensive I afraid you will think less of You make me feel stupid I just don t trust you And Im afraid you wont Irwin offered some rules of for creative discus and suggested and re commended a book titled How to Fight Fair His rules were no name calling control of temper dont the discus sion deteriorate into criticism of other person dont make accusations dont be tic don be argumentative leave the past In the past dont jump to conclusions listen to the other viewpoint and at lack the Issue and not the ting partnership before parent hood You must determine lo keep your spouse first in your affection ahead of the children he said Plan for more time just ihe two of you and dont allow yourself to become a slave of your childrens ties Always take the long look to learn about each other for when the kids are gone on their own he suggested The positive ways to develop were to listen to them praise them spend quality lime with them and give Ihcm meaning ful responses Rev Irwin said the permis society to today has re sulted In an openness and acceptance as never before of sexuality It used to be that divorce just happened as did adultery but not as wide open as now when one of two rtuu will end in divorce he said The Christian home is not free of the problems brought about by permissiveness bul needs to be strong lo withstand them he said By TAYLOR Herald writer Hallon district health coun cil came under fire over Hills need for extended care facilities at a public meet ing Wednesday Georgetown and District Memorial Hospital applied the ministry of health to be allowed to build an addition servo extended care pat ients The ministry refused permission saying the Region already had enough nursing homes lo serve its population Judge Ken a mem ber the GDMH board said that because of the way the district health council handled Ihe request for extended care beds Ihe board was left with he impression that the council Is merely an of Ihe ministry We hove the attitude that the health council said Yes here is a need weve identl fied the need but the ministry says you cant build soso long boys Judge said Terry chairman of health council said there is an extended care committee which Is trying to resolve Ihe discrepancy be tween the figures from the ministry and the figures from the hospital You keep drawing the line at Steelcs Ave Mr Baines said I find it strange that within a stones throw south of is the largest extended care facility in George Gray chairman of the board of health said there is currently a three month waiting period at the centre south of Avenue He condemned the ministry for refusing addition al extended care and nursing home facilities and at the same time calling for budget cutbacks which would affect home care program If we cant look after peo ple one way we have to do it the other he said Mr Barnes said that if pa presently receiving ex tended care in bed intended for active treatment patients at a cost of per day are placed in a nursing home at a cost of per day the active treat Letter drive for unity Hamilton newscaster and commentator Tom Chennglon is leading a national unity drive in form of a Letters to campaign Mr hopes the campaign will result in five million letters supporting a unified Canada and he plans to deliver letters personal to Premier Rene Levesque in Quebec City The campaign Sept on radio station CIIMLs Action Line program a nightly phone in show by Mr Chenngton Over letters have been received and the alls grow ing The campaign was a local one but a number of radio stations across Can have joined In This Ihing is starting lo grow and I dont know how far it will go Mr said just hope that when he people of Quebec sec this gesture from the rest of Can theyll realize theyre not Anyone wishing to be part of the campaign can write a personal letter in support of Canadian unity and address it to The Honorable Rene Lcve Premier The Province of Quebec Tom Radio Main Street East Hamilton Ontario 1MI merit bed would be filled im mediately The ministry would end up paying per day Instead of the present Norm Smith and Ernie who said they represent a large number of senior tens in Ihe area wanted lo know why an Increase of In the monthly pensions was matched by a decrease of per monlh in the nursing home allowance provided by Ihe pro vince Its to cover Ihe cost of living David Corder a of the ministry of health said You gel so concerned with the system you cant see Ihe guy in the gutler Mr gravesaid see him because your eyes are up Mr Smith said There are five names on council from this end of the county and one of them tells me that he Isnt on It any more Is that why hey have all the beds down at that They have the beds down Ashgrove social notes By MRS JOHN Urn Id correspondent Well Halloween is over and it was a grand night for the witches and ghosts to be out knocking on doors with their bags for trick or treat Its a wonderful night for Ihcm and they enjoy dressing in various costumes as we try to guess who they are Now it Is November a dark and dreary time when everything outside has gone to sleep ready for the snow that is bound to come sometime Oct the awards night was held In Milton when Marilyn Bird was the most outstanding first year It member and received the Claude Bain Trophy Bill Robinson won Champion Horse Judge trophy winner Glen McClure Field Crop Club first place winner of Ha ton Soil and Crop Improvement trophy also small seeds trophy far seed judging Marilyn won the Showmanship trophy for best pair of Jersey and Guernsey heifers Our genial Mr Vlncc owner of Gulf service station corner has made such an by building nice new store and a garage and demolished the old ones that stood out on the hinhwav It has been a very busy summer for family but it has muiii a wonderful and likeable appearance for the public New Hillsburgh business in is open for business supplying a wide selection of wool and craft needs The store is owned and man aged by Taylor who has returned to after living In Toronto for a number of years For three years she operated a Toronto dry cleaning ness She lived at Lake Roman before moving Toronto GT Knileraft will offer a wide selection of craft sup plies Mrs Taylor plans to sell such items as yard crewel embroidery kits rug hooking and needlepoint kits and sup plies for knitting and crochet ing Mrs Taylor has also received her own dealership for the Knilking knitting machines She will give free demonstrations on how to use Ihc machines OF SNOW AND BLOW IT FROM HERETO NEXT WEEK GRAVELY A pros And our is one Hie tup rows why jn exclusive all gear drive No bolls to blip come loose or break You canfltjndnvcviys and parking areas an as whistle And when spring hits Gravelv be ready the lawn and work you got 6772129 Fourth J Oni ihcrc because Ihey built them years ago Mr Baines said Mr Smith and Mr said they had got put together a petition with 3700 names asking for a nursing home I have to answer to names on that petition and 14B people from United Senior all iens of which there- are over In tell them not to wall for a nursing be dead before you get one Youre not doing anything for us Mr said He and Mr Smith walked out of the meeting BUSINESS DIRECTORY Our Prescription Drug Plan provides your entire family with coverage for expensive prescription drugs Get details where you work or give me a call BLUE CROSS KNIT KING Robert H Cranfield DC CHIROPRACTOR Mountainview South FOR APPOINTMENT CALL B8 ROY H EVANS D C Chiropractor 130 St Dr Foley OPTOMETRIST CHIROPRACTORS GWCorbettDC CHIROPRACTOR Mill Street Georgetown For Appointment PHONE CHARTERED ACCOUNTANTS Goebelle Wagner Mam Si col Hills CeoQctown Limited Surveyors Consulting Engineer 1G Mm South Qui discord drugs drink demons death Is that all there is THE AGES OF NONREASON AND FRAGMENTATION second last night of Schaeffer film series Georgetown District High School Saturday November at 800 pm free admission