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THE HERALD OUTLOOK Looking at how we talk OUR LANGUAGE proper spelling of heroes CLERGY COMMENT By THOMAS MS KINGSTON Rector St George Anglican Church The manner which family members talk to each other affects the quality of their family life In extended families is the married people who have a key role in modelling to other family members the standard of verbal exchange In modern marriages there is the tendency for partners to become with each other The reason for this is that spouses see each other only at the conclu of the day It is a time when fatique and irritability are very high Full weekend agendas result couples being overextended and thus there are few opportunities to talk to each other without the pressure of obligations to other people or projects Communication problems develop in marriages when people treat serious things lightly One spouse may express a con cem to the other regarding the academic performance of their child The other refuses to take the concern seriously and responds you are such a worry wort I As the marriage endures in length of years these types of comments may escalate to a new stage where verbal exchanges become disrespectful of the other person Critical remarks are now being MM meat shops OPEN DAYS 8732151 Sun liam Thun 9am 9pm Wed Saturday IS HERE RIVIERA CENTRE Guelph Street PO Box 416640 Norval On made in public about the partner behavior or appearance An exam pie of this would be to criticize the appearance of the other with a comparison to the attractiveness of another person The third stage in the sion of poor communication pat terns is for verbal abuse to develop One spouse discredits the other as having little value or significance as a person When this happens in a marital relationship it is time to seek counselling We can prevent these patterns of communication from developing in our marriages One way is to say clearly and plainly that you do not like the way you are being spoken to and it must stop Secondly you might reflect on the following ques tions When are we not taking each others concerns seriously How have we been disrespectful of the other person Are we using verbal Fashions For The Young Heart 115 MAM ST S GEORGETOWN Across From Knox Church abuse in our patterns of com These are questions upon which we might reflect in relation to all our family relationships Our faith can support us in im proving the quality of our com munication in families One of the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit is self control Self control enables us to discipline ourselves in verbal ex changes We are then less likely to resort to flippant disrespectful or abusive behavior Married people are significant persons in shaping the quality of family life This is the season of Pentecost May we be granted the gift of self control in our verbal ex changes May we talk to each other particularly at the dm ner table HYUNDAI OWNERS For Service Call 8731818 COME IN AND SAVE ALL DRESS SUIT FABRIC Sfij FOR THE MONTH OF JUNE GEORGETOWN FABRICS 877 2477 Georgatown Market Place by Jeffrey McQualn Immemorial describes something extending back in time beyond memo or record This adjective which came into English in 1602 isn from time immemorial Varnish is a liquid preparation used to give wood or metal a hard glossy surface Try varnish a word you might take a shine to A story describing some firemen said Tbey were Is thai spelled right A No it isn t The correct spelling for plural of hero is heroes with a second An exception in some nancs is the plural used for more than one hero sandwich I say the least those firemen deserve is the I was told not to use tomorrow morning at a Why not A Tomorrow morning at a is redundant Use either morning or a to indicate the time of day Don use both however or you find that some English teachers won give you the time of day TILE KING 354QuslphSt Unit 23 Georgetown Ontario 8732688 tops A I FL I 123 I I GEORGETOWN SERVICE ELEGANT CARS FOR ELEGANT PEOPLE AT AN AFFORDABLE PRICE T 87JZDZ2 A GARDENERS GUIDE TO GREAT SPRING VALUES Browse through our retail centre at Nurseries for all your gardening needs Dreamina Of A New Kitchen Dreams Really Can Come True AH it takes is PRODUCTS and SERVICES Include AEG Appliance KWC Faucets Lamina Indirect Lighting Corim Sinks Flooring Installations Renovations Coordinated Kitchen Designs from concept to completion A Touch Man 5 it SM Appflferttnnrt KITCHEN SHOWROOM INC 8534577 8534655 MEUHA MM MMkUHli