8775213 FOBERT I EXCELLENCE AWARD IN CUSTOMER RELATIONS DOWNTOWN GEORGETOWN No need to roam If right here at home strap Downlown Georgetown FREE PARKING I Friday April ID IBS Seminar on coping with family loss had kindred spirits sharing tears A seminar on grief and bereavement held at Milton District Hospital Thursday brought tears to the eyes of a quarter of the audience members The talk by Toronto West Park Hospital chaplain C Union was the second meeting of the North Halt on Palliative Care and Interest Group The Palliative Care group organized by Karen Fergu son and Eva hopes to help people cope with death and significant loss in their lives making them aware of the standard responses to these situations Rev defined grief as the emotional physical mental and spiritual stress resulting from the loss separation or death of an object person or value The way that we will respond to these losses depends on how closely related we were to the object or person that we lost he explained We are fighting our bodys natural responses when we try lo repress painful experiences Illness is our body communicating who we are Repression causes psychosomatic disease and depression Rev explained the six stages of response to death and dying as defined by American phychologist Elizabeth Ross author of the bestseller On Death And Dying Ross asserted that these six stages would be experienced by the dying and those close to them in sequential order beginn ing with shock then denial anger bargaining depress I on and finally acceptance It was Rev contention that these stages wilt be experienced Intermittently for a twoyear period but not in regular sequence It Is Important to allow oneself to go through the grief process without restric tion he said We must be patient with those who are going through the grief process because Ihcy have the necessity of expressing their pain by talking others about their loss in order to be healed There is a need at the beginning of the grief process to be alone then share the loss with others and then to reorganize ones life independently after self- esteem has been reestabli shed he stated He explained how ones relationship to ones culture and to the whole or mankind could determine the length of time required for recovery If someone is very much a part of heir own culture and has a sense of belonging they will find it easier lo rejoin that culture after the death of a significant other he said After the talk Rev urged group members to share personal experiences of loss and people who hod been strangers prior lo the meeting shared tears over each others losses Guest speaker for the next meeting will discuss the nursing aspects of dying May at Acton High School There will be a weekend retreat called Working It Through For People Who Have Suffered A Loss at the United Church Centre Cedar Glen near Bolton June lo For more information call CLIMBING THE RANKS The Squadron the Royal Canadian Air Cadet were Corporal Mike Flight Sergeant Roger Parsons lop presented with promotional bodges and trophies by their Sergeant Frank and Corporal sponsoring Royal Canadian Legion Monday Pictured licit lo Frank Harrison rlghl are Sponsoring Committee Chairman Joe Town readies Glen plans while doubt remains over legality GDHS student jet setters hack front Spain Morroco The towns planning depart ment will soon be presenting final drafts of secondary plans for Glen Williams and Stewart- town despite lingering con corns that the documents may not be legal under Ihc Planning Act Although the provincial gov prefers to have the secondary plans added to Ihe towns official plan through an amendment to ihe latter own planners hope to include the secondary plans through resol passed at both regional and local councils Under regional planning guidelines secondary plans for villages and hamlets deal with road patterns location and types of housing and other land uses inthcarea Intended to closely follow policies outlin ed In larger municipal official plans Ihey often deal with problems peculiar to ihc smaller areas Meanwhile one business and a local resident are seeking changes to the Glen Williams Brent Morris told planning board members last Tuesday night he wants his fiveacre property zoned residential like Regional policemen charged by excop Herald Special A former Milton policeman testified Monday that three Ha I ton Regional Police offic ers dragged him across a parking lot choked him with his own necktie and hit him without saying why or whet her he was under arrest Connor who resigned in I960 from Millon police now part of Ihe regional force has sued the three for false ar rest and damages He said the June 1979 incident occurred after he had called a service station attendant a dummy when he discovered his cars gasol ine cap wasn I tightened properly he had been over charged for gas and the licence plate number on the receipt was Incorrect He said he ripped up the receipt and asked for a new one but the attendant called the police Mr Connor said lhal when Constable Rod Plant one of the defendants arrived I asked him Whats the prob lem and Is it OK If I leave He said Youre getting in ihe cruiser He didn tell me why and grab bed my Mr Connor said he resist ed and when two other police officers arrived his coat was over his head his suit was ripped when he dragged across the parking tot He said he was handcuffed and thrown into the cruiser Then another of defend ants Constable Arnold Van- die f choked him by pulling on his necktie hit him on Ihe temple with his billy club and swore at said Mr Connor his neighbors across from him on Main Street Only square feet of his property is zoned while the remainder characterized by steep grades Is designated as hazard land A representative of Hills Sand and Gravel the purchasers of the Bishop grav el pil north of the plans boundary suggested including the pit before settling on a final plan for the village Clare a company engineer sold Ihc area may eventually be rcsldentially developed once the pit opera lion closes In the next few The company would like outline a road plan as cries out the pit and ills In 135ncre site Mr Rcipma said adding that potential developers want to make sure the proposal would conform with the secondary plan However at least one board member expressed disappoint ment with idea Miller chairman of the towns pits and quarries committee said Hills Sand and Gravel officials had assured Ihc committee there was enough resource left In the pit lo continue a quarrying operation for 10 to 20 years He expressed concern that the company may have origin ally bought the pit for devel opment reasons and not for pit reasons Despite promising lions that high grade gravel was plentiful on the site Mr said the company now feels the resource is not While Mayor Pete Pomcroy suggested the proposal to Include the pit in the Glen secondary plan was pre ma lure planning director Mario Vcnditti assured council that developer con apply for an amendment to the plan If the company wants build on the property in the future But he added residential expansion in the Glen plan is oriented to ward Georgetown and not beyond the plans other bound- The Her alds Georgetown District High School correspondent of Danrldge schools travel club At our Invitation hes written the following account of the annual March break oversea trip enjoyed this year by ten students and live chaperon el After a delay at Montreals Mirabel Airport caused by the groupi original airline over booking their flight GDHS teacher and veteran traveller Ron Nelson finally led hit group aboard new flight bound for the sunny Herald Special The original Itinerary had the tour fly directly to Malaga HOME POOL SERVICE SERVICE SALES Pool equipment chemicals Suppliers of Marsat Chemicals Pool Openings Maintenance Programs or service satisfaction call Robert Plaits Federal program has jobs for you Katimavlk the national volunteer youth program funded by Secretary of Slate Is currently accepting pant applications for projects beginning this summer and Tall Programs will commence July and Sept Now entering its fifth year of operation pates placing 1300 young people In some community projects across Canada Katimavlk Is designed to offer young Canadians between 17 and from all regions backgrounds and cultural groups a challenging altcma live educational experience With participants have the opportunity for able community service deve lopment of employment skills discovery of country and second learning Each Koilmovik team of participants will spend three months on three specific project sites each chosen to offer a wide range of work experience and living sltua tlons The basic components of the Malimavlk concept inclu ding physical work aimed at protecting and Improving the environment service through local lions and cultural education are emphasized throughout the nine- month experience Our ice cream Easter Bunny comes in multiple 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doing a variety of things prior to dinner pm The next morning a local fur merchant invited our tour to some champagne and a fash ion show of Zeboo fur coats This wai the only thing plan ned for the day and many people walked through Torr- or stayed on the On Tuesday several people from the Georgetown group and other schools took a full- day tour past the Rock of to Tarifa and with a hydroplane over lo Tangier In Morocco On Ihe bus the tour guide said Tangier and the Caibah are like totally differ cot worlds he was quite right Right from the dock a I Tangier the local merchants would literally mob you and try to sell their stolen wares Along the way and at a lookout point these vagabonds would try and sell you everything from IB karat gold brass rings to Jilbas the national dress and other merchandise At the same time youre trying shake these locals you must watch your wallet because pickpocketing Is rlbed as the second most famous national sport The biggest national sport Is haggling 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