50 - The Oakville Beaver, Friday December 26, 2008 www.oakvillebeaver.com There are lots of ways to give to others By Akemi Liyanage GRADE 11, IROQUOIS RIDGE H.S. G iving is a very broad concept. It can range anywhere from simple homemade cards to a velvet-encased diamond ring. You can also "give" love and caring to someone when they are sick, and "give" support to a relative or friend Put a Little Magic inYour Holidays You r Ho liday Gift Store who is ill. Whatever you do while giving, it is to get gratification from the happiness of another. This holiday, as every one, the spirit of giving is in the air. There is a constant need to love, give, share and appreciate, and such emotions could be seen through the glittering rainbow lights, silvertipped trees, tightlywoven ribbons, stacks of presents and hearty wreaths. Jingling bells and cheerful carols could be heard around the street corner, on the radio, on TV and Christmas decorations were scattered throughout the World Wide Web. 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Expires 01/06/209 your clothes, and thanking your parents for waking you up instead of yelling at them also count as acts of giving. You don't have to go to the trouble of finding your grandparents their quilt or cleaning the attic with your Aunt Marie, but it is always an option. Then there is the giving of your presence. Perhaps you have a party to attend, but your best friend is rather glum at home with a stomachache and is in a sullen mood. Instead of gracing the party with your glamorous self, you might do a lot more good by sticking around for your friend. Giving people your full attention during conversations, contributing to a familial debate, laughing at everyone's jokes, and staying downstairs to watch Elf again with your family are long-standing gifts of your presence. Being there for someone at the right time and right moment can be a priceless gift. But don't forget to give back to yourself. Lying in a relaxing bubble bath, sleeping late, exercising, playing with the dog or letting yourself sink into your favorite holiday read are all nice presents to give to you. Anything that may lead to the benefits of rejuvenation, recreation and regeneration, should also be considered, especially if you want to turn a new leaf for the New Year. Forget regrets and bad decisions. 2009 is the year to kick back on the bad karma and start getting things right. Though it may take just a short moment, giving yourself another chance at fulfilling your goals and reaching your dreams maybe the best gift you've given yet.