INFLUENCES FELT Youth Takes A Look At Parental Responsibility Italktii tin ihild is ihv juil will turf iimi i- am this problem I hae trying to nut people act as do any mam iimtu at ion tonics from the lack of sell understanding Well what I wish to talk about light now is the relation between parents and their children some reason I found kids unwilling to talk about this Maybe the feeling is that it is not coal to talk about such things But parents for the most part have been just the opposite I composed a series of questions that I asked to several people This I tried to do in the course of a normal conversation Some ei the reactions Rot were very in I resting but there seemed to be a certain amount of defensive vibrations within the conversation It was like a fear of being aught by their own words I think some of the people that I spoke towere of being criticized and condemned by their own words Hut some of the people wire surprisingly open I talked lo had a very interesting analogy when 1 asked him if he thought that parents had the right to influence their children He said that kids like a horse In a field with a fence around It It has to be a big field because the horse need a lot of room to move around or break its spirit Dm he went on to soy that if the horse challenged the fence too often he would have to be controlled to I Si this person fects that you have to give kids a lot of room to live You have lo give them their freedom as much possible but at he same time parents have to act like the feme lo protect the kids More often than not this is protection from themselves her opinions this varied jet and some no Bui the overriding feeling seemed to tie thai kids lannnlbcordtrtd people seem to feel that kids arc a lot smarter nun ustd lobe The pal this Intellectual superiority to lhal the hew poo pi ire hound to heir kids this influence annul bo forced i the kids Outgoing President Says Continued from Page 121 inlroduui in of a kin program which parents wanted for children and doing iwayuflhc programs for certain schools the kin heard a prism latum and to the parents concerned they hud good case but the powers that bo turned down basic rights in country I feel that the parents should their case right In mint should tit of line children lire deprived mi environment when tan host learn need lo stultify or get bored in inlenst politics r i have in IH 1 pupil leather ratio which is one of the highest in the province This nit ins over a thousand have or more students in at class in the last survey of is in ere its of s I in 117174 If lliltn mis between the child the parent is broken unci lost Hit ihild has no one to linn and the feu is the con sequences f inttrlenni Mill the kids the child Mini limit hi lilted iiil ski I ii son If mm Iheliftifllieii ehildit which i wire then is fed ihii if ion could their son rs What 1 tit it kids Hie these may itpinee it Tliey iplettlv the les Hit child Live Hun i lie sit back and I Jul fulfilled i le is I mi when In kids ect into i of the I In ii shut the I it Hun nice I I le his etvin hint Ihe In in tie mi equipped to I ilnlhni1 Hie ii I old like Mew wh is hap iil tin- situ Hi istl I iiid it s m ion 1 Hunk lodavs kids used kids know more things hut there arc many more things to know 1 can not icctillcct any proof to Ibis myth I think it conies down to the fact that parents feel the kids should be smarter they have he opportunity lo be sii do mil to go lo work an early age as Iheir did during the pi essoin Therefore Ii ihe lime and opportunity improve minds 1 do not feci the que slum should be eonsielcied it all Whither or ii mis ihe to floe me kids or not is nice ml the fait is do It of the human DIM TOWN THURSDAY JUL Page I children actions because good or had have had a hand in it HI a in e is a bad choice of words for this It just happens lo be the way things are It seems such a shame that people ict caught this question The problem just and there does not seem In be hint do about it One Is just caught in the trap of the human mind My tendency in this article has been to criticise parents but I do realize there is very little that can he done All I can really hope for Is a little more perception with regard to what is really happening Bridge Winners tine wo of achieving i Iwclsc tables of duplicate bridge were in play the 1 1 li in June South winners were J Fallows first second Ted Bar Im Richard It Mark Mi and Mrs Arthur Kwel with Clayton and Tom ttarncs fifth East West winners Gundy Kistemakcr Duke Wilson second Ash worth Sandy Dawson third Ron Jones and Hoy fourth Sue Sullivan and Harry with lois Barbour and Flora Smith fifth 1MnNMIill led lew whelm isponsihlt lliiint isonlv be held for the ait i int of Tins feeling is linked to the belief ihtt increased of today kids Thinforc one should be obliged not to in trftrt One might stifle I i fear the the ratio it of idutal then ask federal govern in en to intervene and use its Annul the enrichment program ihe wishes of the taxpayers who arc parents we re denied 1 feel lhal children benefit from in enrich thai Hit hoard would have to spend over SI nullum to get ekiwu so thdl more illinium lan he given on in individual basis as much is possible should note however of large class sue and a high ratio Italian did not have lose leathers Helen holds the silver Hid Hose Tea trophy and her winning red rose tin tieulturil s June flower show Mrs I wjs awarded the for rid rose in sin the parents of being blamed or the bad things kids in Ifihisistrue then it is true thai parents do mil to feel pride in heir children achieve I- 1 rwhal is pride if it is the of having a hand in the of someone else Il mid Ik nice but one just lake the good ignore the final was to Ihe Pet Pourri Georgetown Market Centre SIDEWALK SALE SPECIAL FREE FREE Natural Gravel value 88c plus Free Floating ther mometer with every Sold GOLDFISH for every child accompanied by adult This Thur Fn Sat only The Shoppings Great AT THE Georgetown 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