Pane SECTION A THE HERALD Wednesday Family Special church mass to honor movement Three children were presented the coveted Religion In Lite Craig Rob Boyle John Angle award by Father Dave Cole Mary Beth Brown Jim Brown Robert Sharon Jalle with Father Dave Cote Brown holding their certificates Back Row left to right Brent GuideScout Week Feb 20 HOT STUFF Scout Colin above II of Eleanor Crete trie bis hand at branding wood at Saturday a Scouta Rama Girl Guide Jalle Wallers above right IS of Moore Park Crescent gave the Scouts a lesson In log sawing Saturday at Cedarvale Park Marriage roles pressured Knight Continued from page Unemployment pre tents a real scare to people hat the Canadian dream Is shattered Mr Knight said helps them cope with their fin situation and learn to accept it It may mean couples have to alter their goals and have children in an apartment instead of waiting to own a home first Mr Knight said Unemployment also affects the roles of the spouses in a marriage In fairness there should be a switch In roles Mr Knight said There has to be a of the division of labor in a family like going to pay the bills do the grocery hopping or the laundry Some men aren going to take too kindly to doing the laundry a source of argument he said If the husband sees himself as the family breadwinner and is at home he could be un happy with carrying out the role of end not cope well with it DIRTY DISHES Tired from working all day the wife will come home to find the house a mess dishes still dirty and dinner not started and say At least you could help If couples don talk about the situation and bow they re going to handle it there could be problems Mr Knight said The difficulty I see often with people Is that they can t talk about It he said Hes really making life miserable for everybody in the family It hard to admit it and how your feelings If a person defines him self by his Job losing It affects his self Image and leads to feelings of de pression If they can talk about It and communicate how they feel they 11 be irri tated frustrated and angry a lot Mr Knight said calling it a major loss In a relationship if one partner cant give support to the other CANT AFFORD Many couples separate because they don spend time together any more their sexual relations drop off they can afford to do the same things they used to do before like hobles or being members of a club things they haredasanlntereat Mr Knight noted CHILDREN The unemployment problem in the household affects the children too They could be acting out that difficulty by not be having or having troubles at school he said With less money avail able to buy things for them children can feel deprived because it ways no to new hockey equipment or toys they see on TV or In the hands of other children Mr Knight said As well children are going to worry about the parent unemploy especially If the par ent Is having difficulty with it he said Usually Uteres also a in discipline tor the children to cope with with discipline changing hands to the parent who home more Since 1954 HFS has been counselling in Oak vllle with counselling to other parts of the region on a limited basis In the agency changed its name from Front End Inspection FREE yr or 50 000 miles warranty on any rebuilt end Commercial 30 months or 25 000 miles NORMS AUTO REPAIRS 71 Unit 2 Ci8lDfiinpolnlmnl 8776020 UMESTME USEES AMI SOI BUD HAINES DURHAM ST CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT Phone 416 8774109 ESL CARPENTRY Specializing in HOME RENOVATIONS Experts in KITCHENS REC ROOMS QUALITY CARPENTRY AT AFFORDABLE PRICES who or he home an average of two to three percent or their lake I pay on By JEAN LAYMAN Herald Special Brownies guides path finders rangers beavers cubs scouts venturers and their leaders attend ed a special church par the a mass Sunday morning Feb at Holy Cross Church In observance of the founder of scouting and guiding Lord and Lady Baden- Powell The color party led the groups Into the church Father Dave Cote receiv the flags with two 1st Venturers placing them In the stand Father Cote chose I Was a Stranger and You Welcomed Me for his homily He reminded each section of the prom ise and to always be reminded of love Vic and Eleanor were the readers for this special service and Fath er Con took part as well as the youth choir Father Cote had every one join In the Rite of Peace Right Hand of Fellowship making this service meaningful to everyone in he by Jean Layman and Gerry Timbers Scout movement The gifts were present by a beaver brownie cub guide and A presentation of the coveted Religion In Life award was made by Father Cote to Mary Both Jim and Robert Young This service was co ordinated by Barry Gam and Ann and it is the wish of both Father Cote and Father O Ma honey to be an annual DO HUB Doing Wash Who does But wo con help make It a bit Lots of washers dryers tables M0UNTAINVIEW COIN LAUNDRY I FitFive k Just for you FITNESS at your own pace doing the things you tike to do A personal ties gu 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