Saturday January 163 DEAR MEG Stayathome dad cant tame tot By Meg WbJtcomb DLAR MEG I am the rather of a son My wife has a tern job so I m what you might call Mr Mom My problem Is typical My son just I listen to me Hollering and spanking don seem to do the trick And explaining things calmly believe me I try docsn t work either day he grabbed the cat litter box and threw it all over the kitchen It possible to keep the place clean My wife has five more weeks to go on her special project I don her to worry so always tell her ev OK But the truth is my days arc a living hell DE STROYED NEW YORK DEAR DESTROYED Heres what do Forget about cleaning house and concentrate instead on your little destroyer A old needs constant supervision you can t leave him alone for an instant Catch up on the cleaning during nap time If you re not catching up on your sleep or just leave It doubt you re fooling your wife so why not level with her She might even have some childcare shortcuts up her sleeve Two heads are better than one DEAR MEG 1 ve been going with Kevin for a year now and we re male At first he took me everywhere with him but now he changed He says he wants time to himself so he can be with his friends but It turns out his friends are all Female This t be so bad If he hadn t told me he was working on the night I ran into him In a restaurant with three Later I confronted him about it He but snore be would never do it again I still love him and he says he loves me But his cheating makes me won if he really docs Do you think I should forget about his past and just work on our future Or should I gel out before Kevin has another chance to hurt me I and hes HURT WILMING TON DEL DEAR HURT Get out while the getting still good Working on a ture together could be a waste of time Chances are Kevin will simply repeat the cheating pattern ready established only more so Who needs that If you can t or won t learn from his past your future Is almost sure to include more encounters of an absurd kind his cheating your catching him his cajoling your capitulating Life is too short DEAR MEG I think my mother loves my brother more than she loves me he 13 Here are some examples If I bug Buddy Mom hits me But when Buddy bugs me she says He only playing around If Buddy loses something Mom replaces it it I lose something she says That s your problem Neither of us talks back often but when I do I get slapped If Buddy talks back Mom ignores It At Christmas he Rets more pre 1 do I feel so unloved Vi hat should I do LUCY HOL1YWOOD DEAR LUCV Even he best par sometimes to favor one another or show their low in ways that youngsters find unfair borne parents actually do have favor though they may not know why It often has to do with the treatment they received as children In any case you should pick a quiet time not in the middle of an argu to talk alone with your moth about your feelings She truly may not be aware of how unloved you feel Sharing your hurt with her may open her eyes If things don Improve confide in another adult you rust Feeling unloved when you re young can leave painful scars even after you re grown up I sure Mom t want that to happen JOANNE VRANIC Business Residence 8530336 Exceptional custom built ranch style bungalow Features oak cupboards in kitchen with built in oven stove dishwasher Two fireplaces main floor family room plus finished room Beautifully maintained bedroom home with double garage and double driveway with extra parking spaces For a private viewing please call Joanne VraniC 873 1881 ROYAL CITY We work together for you Hills Milton Areas BARBARA GLENN Milton 1156 He 1 For appointment call Alan or Barbara Glann Royal City I ALEX GLENN CHARMING OLDER HOME kept otter bedroom home with beautiful hit stream running through back of property Lots ot room lor family and business Potential duplex 7I6S mm rwtft tar tail fa cm 114900 Picturesque Board Batten Pine wain sorting In large room new windows kitchen to beautiful lot Alio 3 bedrooms main floor laundry garage Assume mortgage January 1988 possession LOOKING FOB 2 HOUSES ON PROPERTY 339900 This is a beauty wltti teres of land and 30 140 bam Main home It A old with approxlmatefy ft and bungalow approximately 900 sq ft Asking 900 HORSE FARM 249900 35 acres paddocks stall bam Imitation brick storey bedrooms large country kitchen double garage GEORGETOWN 8775296 Well Be Glad To Help New Years wishes to you THE PRICE taint Ml you looking lor 3 In room with Irxn room Can Be trie Kick Sale Rip CAN A homo for round your fire unman Wiinth from round tram your Nil Unkgnt Tudor ilyte lot Cm Morgan Salt Hep