DEAR MEG 5 them hopefully by next De- wedding Dad suggested that Barry FLORIDA FAN and I move to Florida and he would Ft a help He didnt help pay for the wedding DEAR NFF cant have it Were In Florida now and 1 have both ways Unless you want to pass a braces on my teeth at last Ive need- cup pay the bills Id grin and them for years but Mom couldnt bear It where you are I COPY ItALTON IMUOinXOOKSatnnUy April imPigen know him as an adult a worthy lmM1 Rather I buy him nice things and make way be does Id wonder why you love Hes a prisoner of irrational urges By Meg DEAR MEG Im years old doing an 11year sentence for grand theft auto I have met some sick guys who are In here for child molestation They only got three to seven years for their crimes I have to live with these and I bate it I have a little brother and a sister on the outside and Im for them Every day crazy thoughts about doing something to hurt these kids run through my mind I never had these feelings before I went to prison I have to see these guys every day and it isnt easy keeping my hands off them What can I do before I do some thing Ill regret ANONYMOUS ILL DEAR ANON As you know child molesters rank the lowest of the low In the prison pecking order They are the objects of loathing fear and often violence by other Inmates This is un fortunate because most of them be long in psycho wards Instead of jails Your obsession with them howev er is disproportionate and dangerous Its also preventing you from coming to grips with the problems that landed you behind bars In the first place Talk to the prison psychiatrist You should use your sentence for rehabili tation not Irrational revenge DEAR MEG Since the birth of our second child months ago my husband has stopped nuking love with me He says hes afraid 111 get preg nant even though Im using birth con trol Every now and then we have a quickie Weve been married eight years this leads me to believe there may be someone else What do you think NO SATISFACTION BOCA RATON FLA DEAR NO Its not uncommon i new parent to lose Interest in sex when the baby comes Fatigue new responsibilities fear of getting preg nant again all can contribute lode- creased sexual desire But 16 months says something else is bugging your husband An occasion al quickie Is no substitute for a loving sexual relationship Talk this over with him II he can t come up with an answer both of you should get some help DEAR MEG In my day women were crazy about fur coats Im a World War vet widowed and Im dating a woman In her late Last mouth I bought her a fur coat for her birthday Much to my dismay she said she doesnt believe In wear- 1 tag fur because shes an animal lover Then she said if I really wanted to spend money on I could pay her tuition She went back to school after getting divorce and is earning a graduate degree In English mystified by behavior She was very polite when she told me bow she felt but Im still hurt I told to keep the coat anyway Three days later she told me shed given It to a homeless person That hurt even more I dont know what young women want these days CHANGING TIMES BOSTON DEAR CHANGING You hap pened to hit on a gal who doesnt be lieve In wearing the skins of furbear ing animals and If thats the way she feels thats the way it Is Id say the difference In your ages Is a gulf rather than a generation gap And I cant help but suspect shes more Interested in your money than she Is In you If I were you Id look for someone more congenial who shares DEAR MEG My parents were di vorced when I was My father moved to Florida so we didnt see him often Dad is welltodo and always has been but be refused to help Mom raise us and we never got gilts for birthdays or holidays I hold a grudge because of this afford them The problem Is Barry easy for him but I dont get any- a guy who has nothing to offer and I are not happy here and want to Dad may not have shown a heart of thing in return I do far more than I Psychiatrist Sonya Friedman has home to 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