B2 - The Oakville Beaver. W e d n e sd a y D ece m b e r 10, 2003 In-School Mentoring needs more volunteers By Howard Mozel OAKVILLE BEAVER STAFF While Big Brothers of Halton staff could go on about the sheer number of youngsters on the InSchool Mentoring Program waiting list, statistics can't do justice to the stories behind each and every one of their faces. The youngsters include Drew, who is 11 years old and does not have contact with his father. He was very close to his grandfather, but 'Poppa' passed away and the child has no other male role models in his life, said Big Brothers of Halton Com m unications Manager Eileen MacKenzie. He is described by his teachers as kind, but is shy, has few friends and his self-confidence has suf fered. A mentor would help him to feel that he is special and that would make it easier to feel con fident with his own peer group. "We have 30 children waiting in Oakville alone but also have children waiting in Burlington, Milton and in the north," said MacKenzie. "The program works in other communities. We need to make it work here." The initiative matches ele- Th e Body Shaping Fitne Studio for Women I lost 2 7 lbs. a n d a to ta l o f 2 7 inches" A NLVV M E & A N E W L IF E ! 12 WEEKS mentary students aged five to 12 with mentors who spend an hour each week with them in their schools. The students have been identified by teachers as needing support, such as encouragement to learn and to build self esteem. Jenna is another student who struggles at school. She tries too hard to get attention and this means that some times she can be disruptive in class. She is bright and artic ulate but has few friends as a result o f her attention seek ing behaviour. With her own mentor, she would feel better about herself and would not need to seek attention. 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