Wednesdsay March 1, 2000 THE OAKVILLE BEAVER A3 `Sisters' celebrate decade of caring Formal relationship ends but friendship continues to evolve By Claudia D'Souza SPECIAL TO THE BEAVER Fun run tonight The Running C om pany holds its W ednesday E vening Fun R uns for both beginners and veteran runners. M eet at the store, 118 T hom as Street at 7 p.m. Call 815-1952 for information. PREGHANf & NEED HELP? Free Confidential Service O a k v i l l e M il to n 8 2 5 - 1 2 1 6 8 7 5 - 1 2 4 5 Monday - Thursday 1 7 a.m. - 5 p.m. Friday 7 7 a.m. - 2 p.m. H o tlin e : 2 4 H o u r S e r v ic e 1 -8 0 0 -5 5 0 -4 9 0 0 It's been a wonderful decade-long journey for Big Sister, Raym onde Worsfeld and her Little Sister, Baljinder. But this past July, their match officially cam e to an end when Baljinder turned 18. Well-known within the community having served as president o f Oakville Big Sisters for eight years (1989 1998), Raymonde looks back on their milestone with great fondness. "It's hard to believe it's been 10 years. I first m et Baljinder on July 1, 1989 when she was seven-years-old. R aym onde W orsfeld and Baljinder: It's funny because I w as alm ost friend sh ip continues. matched with another girl, but we met instead and hit it off. It was a twist of person and you couldn't make it up - it really got you thinking about what hap fate really - w e were lucky." pened to you that week. She's a very Way back in 1989, Raymonde was unique person, she loves conversation, new to Oakville and wanted to do some likes to be involved and just hang out." volunteer work. After some research, Raymonde believes they've devel Big Sisters piqued her interest since she didn't have children o f her own and felt oped a strong, intimate bond because they communicate on the same level as she had lots o f love to give. O ver the friends despite the age difference. years, she and Baljinder developed a "She's always been very mature, close friendship based on m utual genuine, honest and very open. She respect and trust, but it did start out ten tells m e everything. I love her open tatively. ness, her curiosity, and her great ability Since Baljinder is Sikh, her mom to fit in anywhere. It's been very was anxious to find the right person who exposed her daughter to different grounding for me. Even during very trying times, she'd tell me `hang loose, experiences, but also understood and respected cultural differences. She found her fears were quickly allayed when she met her daughter's match. "We have done so much together," You can support Big Sisters by Raymonde reminisces. "I taught her doing any o f the following: how to swim and ski and to get over her Volunteer to be matched with one of fear of cats. I took her to Centre Island 23 Little Sisters currently on a waiting for picnics, the ballet and the sympho list or join a committee. Support the ny. We baked and w ent horseback rid organization's programs by purchasing ing, and I introduced her to different a $ 10 Lottery Calendar or make a dona foods. I tried to get her to experiment tion to support a specific area like the and go outside the box to get past her O ne-to-O ne Friendship program, fears." monthly recreation fund, cam p place Relaxing, candlelit dinners on m ent or the Resource Centre After Sundays with Raymonde, her husband School Homework Helpers program. Michael and other family members and "W e also have a special fund in hon friends becam e one o f B aljinder's our o f Raymonde designed to further favorite pastimes. "The first time she came over for develop our Little Sisters special tal dinner we lit candles and it becam e a ents," says Markow. "In February, we ritual," notes Raymonde, a local yoga welcome community groups to hold instructor. "O ne day she cam e up with special events on our behalf." Tax receipts are issued for all dona a question, `w hat's new with you?' We'd go around the table asking each tions. Phone 338-0238 for more infor mation. SUITE 204 MALL 8 IRTH RIGHT HOPEDALE decade o f `sisterh ood ' ended but ju st let it go,' feeding back to me what I'd tell her." Recently, on the occasion of their 10th and final official year together, Baljinder presented Raymonde with a colourful scrapbook o f memories. The book was prefaced with a heartfelt, two-page letter Baljinder penned with care. "I wish I could explain to you how special you are to me," she wrote. "You have been one o f the most influential people in my life. I cannot begin to imagine my life without you. They say parents only look out for the best inter ests of their children. Well, I have to say, the best thing my mom could have done for me was make that call to Big Sisters because it brought us together. Ray, throughout our relationship you have brought out the best in me. I would like to say thank you for every thing you have done. You are the `bestest' friend a girl could ask for." "I bawled my eyes out when I read that letter," Raymonde admits. "It's been a pleasure. You say to yourself, `If I had a kid, I'd want her to be just like her.' For us, this is a lifetime friend ship." This fall, Baljinder will begin earn ing her master's degree in pharmacolo gy in London, England. She will be away from home for four years, visit ing home when she can, and will keep in touch with Raymonde via e-mail. Now that Baljinder is off to univer sity overseas, Ray says she feels a sense o f loss along with a great sense of pride." D r. 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TOWN CENTER ORTHODONTICS 243 N orth Service R oad, W est Suite 301, O akville (905) 849-1717 REGION O F HALTON PUBLIC NOTICE INTERSECTION IM PROVEM ENTS AT DUNDAS STR EET (REGIONAL ROAD No. 5) AND BRONTE ROAD (REGIONAL ROAD No. 25) TOW N O F O AKVILLE PR-1800 Noticc is hereby given pursuant lo Sections 297 and 300 of the Municipal Act. R. S. O. 1990, chapter M 45 as amended, that the Council for the Regional Municipality of Halton proposes at its meeting on Wednesday March 29, 2000 at 9:30 a.m. lo pass a by-law for the intersection improvements at Dundas Street and Bronte Road in the form of lane extensions for the southbound through/rightturn and left turn lanes on Bronte Road approaching Dundas Street and the extension of the existing southbound merge lane and taper on Bronte Road, south of Dundas Street, Town of Oakville. Plans showing the proposed work may be inspected at the Planning & Public Works Department, Halton Regional Centre, 1151 Bronte Road, Oakville, Ontario. On Wednesday. March 22. 2000 at 9:30 a.m. in the Halton Room at the Halton Regional Centre, 1151 Bronte Road, Oakville, Ontario. Council, through its Planning and Public Works Committee will hear in person or by his/her Counsel, any person who claims that his/her lands will be prejudicially affected by the said by-law and who applies to the Regional Clerk no later than Tuesday, March 8, 2000, to be heard. · For further information, please contact: M r. J. C hoi, P. Eng., M anager, D esign Services Phone: (905) 825-6030, extension 7610 Sm oke-free target 2002 By Irene Gentle SPECIAL TO THE BEAVER The H alton R egional H ealth D epartm ent (HRHD) is hoping Halton will be sm oke free by Jan. 1, 2002. And despite the m isgivings o f som e council lors, the R egion's health and social services com mittee endorsed a request that the four m unicipal ities am end their current butt bylaw s to incorpo rate that deadline. 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