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auctioniert georgetown audj lamps lam j tle iitjct izd brtt xot ever itomtiia gaeiiu hall lamps library lamps banquet and l piano lmps pcoriledodbronie stand lampi the cdebrttst b md h lwpt from 75 to 400 cicdja power tote best in the taiortol direct bj frank burgess house painter fjaperhangijr sign etc is preiiaxad jj execatc cnlert in thy of aiott use la tee beet taaaaer aditresoaije term etery job having fl v persoasi attectlon iran uiare caitoare hzztlclc catiifaciipc griaiasaaiiitoodt a fidalty ordenieitt ay rcieq- ill receive proiapt tttcajj l t artec rnhe haxiiax barber sh0e hxtj- srerrx arros aa uit thare a stylih fcairnt arood seafoam aaexailiaratlagibaispooajraygiteil eaton based aal par in firrtcla eoadiuoa- ladlea tad caildreaf hair tastily cat hwordektosiotialartits- agents wanted rjoaanr to mate money fc b sejloar choice yorserj etocfc- o is the time triie ss at once for terms haybbothere knrserymen iioehestrfr k y wehingtoii marble works quebec sleeet gcztfh- clark carter dieect bepcrtert of graxiite and afarble lfoaaaifats aad kestoaem of ail shade andfrointheaettstdesiffat all work and ma terial ttnaaied firrtclau parties isiiinff to porcaase wiji pleajrfre ai a call and inspect oar node and prices as e are coafldentnre can compete riihmsy estaiiisiiiacat n ontario ujlrjzfjxiczn er icterestto the abore firm lrespwfnlir solieii the patronafie to mr friends m the pzluc oa their behajf j h halflltos agents wanted i erery townsmp to sett pe pictorial cyclopedia ofuve stock and oomplete stock doctor lsf- raiprrfiaui ort tis 1 l bumui repu- j2ck ffleq ctlle brine ejtfl the cterp of the j uuoa ocsots brlne esoittr s st a xn4 ofportanh- to tf e e m moyee pubueher v izo riae st toronto y prgktwire co from 5 cenii per rod i6i jietl up 4 fram k j m dooley dq cueloh ont coal wood james brown jwwffljroiopur diicr la u prt of jstjmretmium price esjjjveliwait nor irojtliwij r mutual fmynsoeance company or tui colthty op wellington head off cuelp rnsarecririidi2lcerccodifoir4aaftctor- aadah other descriirtioasaj insanble propcitj oa the caiirsjid premiaa kcta syiteta f yfl stone chii- daytdson preelrfpnt manager johk tayloetagekt fj youivglten and boys ctartia in life fo thcasive or ij- tvmiz the basicess oi a father or relstire and waatrng the bctt prtrparauiic to aacaref ccces yotjnalldies desiring to qaalif y thesc res forgood positidns and to mate themselyec in epeadeat for lifejia a inert time and at a very moderate expense will tad the thort practicaf coarse of stcd y the tjiielpiibnsiiites goltegf guelph oiiabio as what they need for larms etevaddrjsc if iticcofofice priacipa haniiitoirs maijble wors haireltoksiiioetfonicriy hatchs riocjcl thegotecornerof vbolihaad xorfq streets gcelph ont j john h hamilton proprietor wholesale and retail cealeraad direct importer and inannfxctcrcrof ui kfeds ofgrr uaroie ifooaineats toalfetonc etc had aa ezteosive crjicritnca for the bust the nablicloay rely oa exxizz ji tpiwrl artieies act cheaicr rale than any othtr deal iathe west n bis per ccat- oi oa cetredfortce ceil 30 days eds of granite and harfcg for the last 1c ycats urn any a difoct order m new planing wil aid- t sasn and door factory john cameron s fitted an the bnildieg oil ifaia street isjtfly apfed as a treat factoryj kith new machfnery ians specificatiaot has fitted ocei t and is prepared to foraish and estimates for all classes of baiidiags aud execate all kinds of dresalkcf katcarkoj iad uolxdikg itlkz aix itttfis or sahei doors and wliulows and doof pramea and dretaed lumber and teep a itoclt oa band jall orders promptly atteuded to r j6hk cameeor actojn livery bijs linl the undersigned rcsiwctfalj f soliclu the patr age of the public and it forms thm that well equipped and st rusb rfgs can il ways be sec axed atblifublof ix comfort lie baa roecu kjl trains betwten lq and fcifl r m careful attention gf re i to every order the want of coinm irclal trawl- len folly tjict jj0w contracto wtltl john jr boxd fo qrelph direct silrtlwire importerf fancy goods store christmas x0velt1ies miss frpeland is oiaicj cp a complete sadtiei i iacct goods in so many of the h ctt tljlec and new deejnis that tee will not allow parficaliriiinc- all kinds of novelties sil for the holidav seasln the pjtfic gcatrallr is invited toj iarpoct the uasietoil- trticlo from litkcl prices to suit the til ces 7 m88 freeland ophite etj uiifi jcrcilry btrc ctoa bu deiioilt sotirg a golpes riddle tlio liuibtddmln oe goldou mora a wltltfl mj1 dn till la lu tola hd roulil ijiyilerjidmue xd7 roa to to tilt u uio eoldoaboartod rooea tho roddy tioboj oatried uio tho tilliurghu ti ketoi lolr roo and litiiiud ti hi gathered fof toronto tcf rsesljkstsp- mm ppd amoiifi tho corn beneath the iai iinor mystic spell it burst ero lot tho priionluff shell and twixt tho t rowa loams rifted emit lla emerald leai ota upward thrust through loiifitb ofng dsyi of rain aud sbiue kut gnw aud ti rlvod tho goiicrodi viae aud uoaui the foriuuaadde banclqg ikim held up 1u soldon cup hose forces quo ho world a boon acalnstlho mould abiod crock of gold hue ifrgataod each day a rills aud vbtle the sjaaoa waxod and aood gloaming lance and iirord guarded fffth ccjuolcsrwatch aad ward through midnight hash and noonday boat the golden treajwre at their foet aud whoa tho crppc wore pimcrod lu aud granary wj barn and bin withtioaltli of oxd3crsoldirflr itorcd than uiat wblcu greedy mlscri hoard when clad lips tog the barvotthowc and lordly dome lij from great to least the harvest feast ab richer than tne rareat wine tuii yellow fraltnge of the tine transmuted by ujc housewife skill to golden diaks fith flaky friji ko fairer fruit thp fields sfford ko choicer rianideck the board and grateful beaks their praise lift to uim who gfvw the golden gift j harptz tiazar tltd jfafailrj tlraoing tlie spoiled pie bisfi dont go away she sold would break my heart and then bo kisicd her and ran away there was wrrow in ho liouae on jcbrfsi- mas morning tind tho pio went uneaten for dudley was gone and ho had left a little note in which ho declared hisj hi ton- lion of rotumlag no more he never did come back his mother who loved him more than ho knev shed biiter tears as christmas day came aroand each yea t tiio father whohad flogged him grew old repenting it tbre was a general imprcsaion in the family that dud ley had not been a good boy but the joubl as to his fate softened their thoughts of him probably he war dead poor old grandmother barberry believed that ho bad starved to death and aunt martha hid the spoiled pie dish 1 away up garret as though il had been some relic of a funeral when clara married yes- i mean it when clara married the consumptive young clergyman from boston and went away sho went iip to the garret to look for a win- ter cloak and found there the pie dish yet brilliant with its geraniums and ibe sat i down on the floor and cried over it and re membered the innocent childlove she had given the jointer and then wiping her eyes carried h diah down stairs and put it into her trunk it was still the pie dish- nothing more except a souvenir of the past worship in church j world itable call and khich to bread cakes -and- confectionery w l wordenj his rcinovi his batcry and coafectionery store to the shop nest wuhamtiboot and sboc store where be always bis a rood stock of bread cake9 buns and confectionery jr wedding- cakes a sp ctalty this the place foij christmas candies maie your purcaaso here w l wordek jr -actok- puifp factory axd i planing- mill thos ebbage man r hato reminod tho miuiccwentjit uio pauip hutiatti in acton lad woaid romctfnir miora ill pcrtle fn wuit of pom pi thit- va m now prepared to lappj- thenj from tie old style wooden pump to the beat force fainp made j ftrmpi for wind mi1i5 or hock well supplied on thort notice deep weill a specfiit prices hiohteveeyl thee lumber droaacdivblle you vali mouldings c made to order we hare alack quantity of lumber for sale suitable for building parpomi orderiby mail will receive prompt and careful amotion t 8hop6t foot of hirer street tffosebbatie manager many years ago rtxjforc those days when everybody talks aboqt decorative artand fiiach urge famijl- u to be foand at least one young lady who paints on silk and china a young artist was born in a country house many miles from any city how ho came to bcborn an arxist was a nrnfery to his family from the sammar in winch the karberrje took a yoaug artmt to board with them who when he we it away presented his paintbox to the i dmiring ixn who had followed him about from dawn until dark peace fled thadarlx try mansion fences ban doors halls leaven only knows what rrborc truces of fig res flowers trees cows and baihinga in all the colors of the rain bow when sodldoi barberry junior only replied well then give rrc can vases and things e want to be a pain er but the barberry did not intend to en courage madness what kind of a butincsi docs thee think aiating wool i be for a man v asked quaker grandmother barberry to sit twiddling thy fing n all day at an easel if thee doesnt wan i to be a farmer well apprentice thee to t iv uncle charles the baiter thats light and easy and thee is delicate so the barberry takingcoansel together decided that grandn other had had a call to speak and pliced dudley with the halter he worked patiently enough hut pointed mare than ever in tiie evenings for uncle charles was libcnu and he had a little money of his ow in those days on christmas he came pome and was received kindly and found his little cousin clara in the house an orphan in a black frock whose parent had teen lost at sea the child liked the boy very much arid he painted her old dolli face into new beauty for her and pat and flower on the back of the dolls chair she admired his ork very much as he had admired that of the artist who had given him his first cslors he was a hero to her and a genias as well as the kindest boy living wandejing aroand the hoasc one day he found a jreat pottery pie dish one of a dozen bougit of a peddler for the christmas pies and forgetting its purpose spent a whole bright morningpaintingupoa it a splashing bat spirited likeness of his mothers favorite lady washington geran ium which stood ink pot on a stand it was a wonderful success in the eyes of lit tie clara nd indeed it was not bad for a little practice goes a good way with a bpen artist and a winter p study without a master had greatly improved the young fellows work 1 adoration was ia- claras eyes as she looked at the dish and at dudley youre a great great artisi dudley said she i think you will be famoas 6ome day ive rea the lives of famous painters the big jrown book in the case in the parlor ant kings and queens thought lots of them and made them paint their portraits yof remember what i say when yon are grown up dudley dudley was sixteen ead from his work and she was thirteen he lifted up his 1 looked at her if ever i am clira he said shant have to remember you i hope youtl be there wbeq anybody before who think me so queer i am i never knew understood me they to like to paint yoa know all about it si ay yes said clara i understand and i hope well always k just like brother and sister only you know i might die like pa and ma dont cry 6aid dudley and dont clara he said clara i cannot beaij leaning over the innocent arms aboui i hope good little pet cousin i a voice sharp and talk about dying m whatever comes but he said no mdrc shrill with anger broke in upon the pleasant talk aant martha land of liberty dudley has spoiled die biggest pie dish v that afternoon former barberry whipped dudley that evening the boy did not come to supper later on whenhe moon had risen little clara who had gone to her own room to cry window 6he openpd it and looked out dadley stood there voice jerusha come here 1 tell me do you think it was right that i should be whipped at my age bight sobbed clara oh il wicked 1 wicked wicked ko one shall elver do it again said pm going to be a great know and and dont if he is not dead lie must have forgot ten me she said to herself he is twentysit years old now if her lives and though she highly respected the rev joel bird she sighed once or twice even on her wedding eve settledin boston she was very happy she liked the style of lie people she met heir cult arc their bookisliness 6hc saw the shining lights of the literary world and she wrote a piece of poetry which was pub lished one day somebody atw the pie dish the spoiled pia dish of the barberry family it was an artistic lady who had gone to take her hat of in the spare room of the parson age what i a lovely plaque she cried but why dont yoa have it gked it will be spoiled the pie dish presented to phujuchood was glazed ncrtweefc it had a brass hook fastened to it and was hung ou tiie parlor wall and on its back was painted the name of the boy- who from the barberry point of view had spoiled it the iky jck1 bird died young he was good to hfswife while he hvcdand she moarned him hut there had been no romance in their courtship and they had never been congenial the widow recovered her placidity soon and lived contentedly on her small income amidst a circle of attached friends the last survivor of the barberry family dud leys mother came to lire with her and mrs bird had palled two gray iiatrs out of her curly black hair when the great fair of st riusanrt church took place and a com mittee called to beg her to contribute something tiie pie dish no longer hong ou the wall a glimpse of it had thrown mrs barberry into gentle hysterics it was therefore locked away and a thought f came into mrs birds head i have a phwme she said it was painted long ago by somebody who must have become a very great artist if he lived i think ill give the plaque as well as my little bit of money i do not want to doit i would like to keep it but it is a shame to hide it away the more 1 see of art the better i know that it is good and there arc associations with it that make it painful to aunt to sec il the committee erpressed their shanks and the spoiled pie dish went to the fair where it was greatly admired kow dudley barberry had not starved to death on the road as his grandmother always believed he had sold his watch had lived until he found his old friend the artist had become his pupil and had gone toeurope with him 4 while unknown to the people of his little town he had made a namc in the great world of art he had made a moderate fortune also and one day he went back to his home expecting to find ail the batberrys there a little older of course and to be come the pride of the family instead he found he house occupied by strangers and was told that his parents dead his inform nt was a stranger who did not know who he was who thought she spoke the truth and he did not stop to ask questions of those who could have told him the truth r the woman had also told him that clara was married aud he left the town that night feeling at ooee ruilty and illused he made his way to boston scon after aud wig taken rather against his will to the ladies fair at st susaus church where pretty girls besought him to buy pin- cosh iocs at pncea that would have horrified even a california and where he bad ja a- very unlucky hours fishing at a dollar a dip in a big pond into- which all the rub- bishhad beeo thrown and where amongst his prizes were a topsy doll with one arm and an original poem by an unknown lady atrlast roaming about amongst the staos in the bewildered manner peculiar to single gentlemen at fairs he saw a pretty figure and a pretty face framed in a widows cap standing at a table and over ber head suspended agaiutt a dark drapery an object which startled him could it be yes it was ho kuerw every stroke by heart he stopped and gazed at it j the lady turned toward htnv shall i have the plaque taken ddwul she said j would you like to look at it closer i i thank you he answered looking at her oddly ji can see it very well andil should like bo to buyit though it interests me rather as an old acquaintance than as a work of art i once- spoiled a pie dish in something like that style it must be im agination i suppose but i could swear that that was the dish itself then he paused for the widow olafped her hands looked at biro with her eyes fall of tears and answered oh dudley it is the dish i how could you use your poor old mother and all of us ao badly land what a great beard you have grown the plarjue went home under the arm of its purchaser on the other rested mrs birds littla hand of coarse you guess the rest the famous artist is no longer a baohelor clara is his wife his happy mother makes her borne witb them and the great treasure of their household is 44 thfi apoilcvi pie diah dodley clara i artist itll in me 1 forget me clara ill como back and oh toleavo yon fill tho child put her the boys neck doing bight his much easier tp think aright witt out doing right than to do right without tl nklng aright just thoughts mayifafl of producing just deeds but josl deed alwa s beget just thoughts i grandma went to rosewood for a little visit being there over the sabbath she uked if she might take little grace to chareh father was away from home and mamma wa not well enough to get out she hai never been to church said mamma i fear she will not lit still she is only three years old v let me try ber said grandma mamma put on a clean white dress tied the straw hat over her brown curb and gricie was all ready well ait on the piazza fill the bell rings laid grandma so as to make the time m short for her as she could v the church was nearly opposite the house and they could go there in a few minutes while they sat there grandma said we are going to gods house will godbethero asked gracie yes dear be is everywhere bat he loves to meet those in his own house who go to worship him whats at grandma v to worship means to pray to him to sing his praise to think about him to listen to his words gracie cant do this as grandma can but she can sit very still before god that will be her worship when the bell began to ring they started many people joined them as they went into the church gracie felt that god must be ther indeed it was so still she sat very quiet for a few moments then she whispered to grandma j when will they do at now said grandma you nt till aud ill think and soon be rain it ter will pray gracie noticed all that went on when the miniiter prayed the saw that all the people bowed their heads and grandma bowed hers she laid ber curly head in grandmas lap and when they began to sing she looked up and smiled bat by- and- by sbe grew sleepy grandma saw the eyelids droop and spreading ber handker chief over ber jiik gown she let the little sleepy head mipn her knee gracie didnt wake till the sermon waa- done and the people rose to sing again aud soon they were dismissed did i do at grandmav ahe said as they walked home do whati darling at what you said fore we went i cant member worship god t yes dear i think yoa did as well aa yoa knew how yoa sat very still and i think god was pleased with his little one do yoa like to go to church would you ike to go again 1 yes grandma i am not afaid of god uow i waa most afaid when you said god was going there too i didnt see him t only felt him a little bit it waa so still bat ive tied to orsiip him the faiiji- ful witneu 1- the true gentleman a childs needofsympathy the child demands sympathy compan- ionahip love here also the instinct of the higher qaadrepeds shows in a touching way the same demand the dogs desire even more pressing than the desire forfcod and often displacing it ia to be with hit master i his master it wi thindoors the dog wishes to lie at his feet if he goes to another room the dog must go also and establish himself there if ho goes forth to walk or ride the four footed friend boouda along in bliss overjoyed to traverse miles of coantry which he would never visit alone an occasional friendly word contents him bat without companionship he can do oothing strange that we recogniz the instinct in the animal and often ignore it in the child every child needs compao ionship to have soma one to whom every little joy may be imparted some of the most conecientious and devoted parents who have ever lived have been those who never kissed their children and the same habit of repression still shows itself in some households in regard to all communi cations with the young l woman of genius not now living once told me that ahe did not know bow to tell time by the clock until she was eighteen because her father had undertaken to explain it to her when she was twelve and she was afraid to let him know that she had failed o com prehend him yet she said he had never in his life spoken to her one harshvword it simply tho attitude of cold repression jthat froze her after hia death she wrote to me his heart was pure and terrible i think that there was not another like it on earth on this point i fear that she was mistaken and that the race of such parents survives harpers bazar good manners yesterday i met one of my little friends on the street i never forget to apeak to my boys and girl so i said good morn iog howdoyou think he replied he looked up into my face and said hello a little further on i met another littlo friend i thought i would wait this time and sue what he would say just as he was near me aud i waa expecting he would apeak he pat his fingers between his teeth and whistled to a boy across the street to sharp and shrill that it almost deafened me that waa all he said near the post- office i met a little boy that we all knew he lifted his hat and said good-mom- ing mr johnson now which do you- thifik was the best way the hello the rude whistle or the lifted hat and cheery goodmorning which boy had the beat manners even girls do not always have good man ners the other day i saw two young ladies passing on opposite sides of the street they were sixteen or seventeen years old one called out hello mary the other replied hello sally kow i want to whisper to you that i do not expect that young ladies who are so rude aa those two will ever improve much in their manners bat i do expect that all of you will cultivate good manners toward every one you all know what good man ners are be respectful to your parent and all who are older than yoa be kind to yoar companions have too much respect for yourself to do any meaa act or aay a bad ward treat your teacher in the public school and baoday school with the honor is dae ber s s jiuwnger a saloon as a bank yon deposit yoar money and lose it your time and lose it your character and lose it your health and lose it yourstrength and lose it yoar manly independence and lose it yoar home comfort and lose it ypur wifes happiness and loeo it yoar childrens happiness and lose it your own soal andloeg it x the habits that markthetrue gentleman jare not wf iliffilcah to acquire as to account for the comparatively small number who own them their neglect arises usually from carelessness or from a selfishness j which places personal ease ahead of the j comfort or gratification of others for i unaelflibneas lies at the root ot the best breeding gelfishrtess it is which hinders a mans taking the troable to remember o stand aside and let a lady f recede him inj entering ot leaving a room which keeps j him in his seat while ahe is standing i whether in a public conveyance or in a pri vate parlot he does not recognize the spring of his actions by this name his excuse is always ready 1 never thought of it why thoald ahe not stand as well as i orl perhaps the hardest to deal with what is the use of bothering about such things to begin with let it be roandly stated that no part of tbe toilet should ever be performed in pablic all such operatns ascleaningor cutting the nails picking the teeth removing the shreds of dried akin from the face or hands pulling out stray hairs from the beard or scalp should be performed in the prrfficy of ones own apartment not on thff street in the car or boat or in the drawingroom some men consider they are qaite justified in scraping and paring their nails in the presence of their families assembled at the breakfast table if they preface the action with a perfunctory excnso me or by your leave others do not take the trouble to apologize even thus slightly aud without pessimism it may bevafiirmed that only exceptionally does one find a man who will not pick his teeth after a meal if not before eucstsor id a pubrc restaurant al least in the presence of his iamilr there are still households in which it is considered quite a touch of elegance to pass a glaas of toothpicks as the final course of a meal abstinence fjom the abovementioned small vices and from others of the same school may be termed the first step in good breed ing such avoidance is among the things a man ought to know and to practice bat there are other observances needed to give grace and finish to a mans demeanor removal of he hat not only when meeting au acquaintance on the street or coming into the house- bat at other times in a horsecar when tendering a seat to a lady and when she acknowledges the kindness by bow or word in aa elevator or a hotel corridor when a woman is present aad when kissing a woman be she only ones wife sister or daughter do all theee items seem such trifles as to be unworthy or notice yet they are powerfal agencies in forwardingor destroy ing the happiness of a mans home of the women therein and of every one else with whom he is thrown in contact even if the big bother man does not clearly see the necessity for hia own sake of yielding boarljesy may he not as aeon- cession to fermmae weakness make a ehght sacrifice of his personal inclinations ttfij surgeons ks1fe there aw boartsstout heartstuat cvn no fear it the wttrllafl iword or the darting spear they are really alike to bleed in the dust saatb tbe labros cut or the baronets thrust they hcod apt the blows that fato may deal from tbe murderer dirk or the soldi tri steel butjips ibat laugh at the dagger of itrie turn silent and white from the itjreon knife though jbright the burnish aud ilender the hjade j ring h digli tad the 1jtvc are stradrelr araid- aud he ropf ou the beam or tlio tie on the block has less terror to daunt sod less power to shock science may wield it and danger mar ask the band to be quick fn its gor task the hur with torture and death may be rife sot death is less feared than the surgeons knife it fiacjia the griip tis no weapon for play a ihadder betrays it is ipeodintf its way while tbe qaivnring mmcle and severing joint are gained by the ktvn edge and probed by tho point it has rocked in tbedark and welliqg flood till purple find wumi with tho bcarti quick blood dripping it eoincs from the cells of life while glaiuig eyes turn from the surgeons knife j braggarts in eourapuinci boa ter of itrengtb at the eannoui mouth or tbe bayonets leohth ye who have itruogled iword to sword with your ride wouads drenching tbe battle sward oh boast ao more till your soul be found iatnoi ed with a breathless silence around and a dread of the grave and a hope of jifo that rest on the work of the sargeons knie elba cwl 7 traininq the memory put it iu yoar memorandum book and jyoa wont forget was a mans advice toy another who was noted for bis ahokt raemf pry ohiudeed was ihe rep- but who is tovemind m that i have w memor andum book or if i do reylet that i have due who la td tell me thai i must look at it before l certain hour hia was perhaps an neiommonlylhort mem ory but his protest suggests an undeniable truth the memorandum book does not solve the difficulty to go to the root ofthis matter of forget- fulness and tffett a cure an intelligent self denying system of mental and personal one of them- is the prompt discipline mast be followed a writer in f insult returned by compli ment a yonng girl beautiful ia form feature and dress sat in a car directly opposite sat a poor girl of about the same se shabbily clothed with a shambling body slightly deformed as to the shoulders and and exceedingly plain face which bore the lines of suffering and want her eager eyes were fixed on the face and figure opposite her with a devouring pathetic look that showed how keenly alive she was to the exceeding beamy of the beautifal lady the object of the gaze began to grow aneasy under its intensity and fixity and finally looking tbe girl coldly in ibe face ie leaned partly across the car and said well miss impertinence if youfhave looked at me long enough will yoa be kind enough to look somewhere- eke i am tired of it the poor girl grew first red and then hite a lohk of keen pa came into her eyes and then tears as ahe tamed away and said softly l was only thinking how beautiful you are he didnt forget it a wife recently gave her husband a sealed letter begging him not to open it till he got to h place of basin esa says the sheffield eug tdtgraiih when he did so he read ism forced to tell you something that i know will trouble yoa hat it is my daiy to do so iam determined yoa shall know let the result be what it- may i have known for a wee that it was comiog but kept it to myself until today when it has reached a crisis and i cannot keep it any longer you bust not censure me too harshly for you must reap the result as j well aa myself i do hope it wont crush you j by this lime a cold perspiration anod on hia forehead with the fear of some terrible unknown calamity he turned the page hia hair slowlr rising and read the coal is all used np please call and ask for some to be aeot una afternoon i thought bj this method you- would not forget it he didnt a thankful deacon the importance of thinking before yoa speak recently received an amusing- illus tration at a meeting held in a well known town not a hundred milee from the hanks of the hadsdn one of the persona who occupied the j stage was an enthusiastic deacon who j frequently interrupted the speakers by yelling thank goodness for that one pentleman was called upon who arose and said ladies anjl gentleman i am heart and sooi in this cause and feel that it will be a great benefit to the people of this place thank goodness for that yelled the deacon bat ladies and gentlemen ho contin ued i am going to say that it will be im possible for me to address yon this even- ing j thank goodness for that 1 broke in the absent minded deacon amid general laughter newyork llgcr the world cannot advance ranch j caonot make real substantia progress till people learn to devote fewer hours of the day fewer days in the week fewer weeks in the year and fewer years of their lives to tbe mere art ot moneygetting tn speaking of tbe girl to whom he was engaged ha referred to her u hbt gnao oee you mean yoar fiancee i guesa it is pronounced feeongsay i dont care how it is pronounced this girj is my ftflanoee shes worth 130000 leisure hour cites atase illustrattvedf the fact that theliabit of remembering can be cultivated r a a gentleman who during his business career was noted for his fine memory for the punctuality to the minate with which he kept his engagements and for the ease and accuracy with ivhlcb he could detail the various items of business which had been or were attended- to asacjed the writer tint when he began hia apprentice ship he had a wretched memory if his father told him al the dinnertable to do a certain thing orto go on an errand almost before he naditiosed the door lie would either forget tbfljmatter altogether or find himself unable fo recall some of its important particulars j being a thoughtful cbscrvaut ud he be came piiofally convinced by tbe time he he had been at rk for a few weeks that hampered by thw habjl df jorgetfulness he should never sdeceed aa he liad determined to do with the sympathy and help ofiia mother lie set himaelf resolutely to learn to remember a hit method wai this wnen he had re called something which be ought to have done and had forgotten he compelled himself to go and do it immediately no mailer at how much ex pen at of pleasure or convenience or if at the moment some imperative engagement prevented thif as aoou ts he waa at liberty he discharged the neglected duly man times when comfortably settled to read or study he forced himself and at first considerable force was oflep necessary to rise aud go and do somttbiaghe had i till then forgotten this discipline very soon taught him to make hia head suve his heels he said afterward thai it seemed an example of the influence of the body on the mind ll4ras as if ihe body said kow old fellow see that you remember lo do yqur work at ihe proper moment 1 certainly the discipline was effective his memory became almou a wonder to himself and was the envy of others he kept no memorandum book his engage meets were more numerous than fall to the jot of many persoob een of buay men er tending in point of locality al over great brkian and t several points o i the conti nent and injpoiut of time ffomeogage meuts daily kr appointments made weeks iu advance but he had to blame himself forgetting only one important tfchng in the course of many year i the education of children i ithink that all mothers must console themselves with the fact that no system of education cau be absolutely perfect neither arc we nor oar children perfect one thing should nes be lost sight of that we are edncatiag children to he men and women not to be children we can do uo better thanto develop them into what oalure has iu tended thenvto be wt cannot uccecafully make them what we should prefer let us accept oar cbij dren as the kind of people they are by nature do not let them fed that their faults are uppermost moor minds when we think of them- tho person who is bafpy sorely faces the world at an advantage the person who is unhappy often has doabuaod suspicions and hitterneaa let us try to give our children tho advantaged happiueas and though we hae no per- sonal motive we bball sorely not go unre warded were not waiting for the bats and moles but for men and women who have eyes and use them who have brains and reason theres a ucw world for them snflericg and sickly as they are4 new world crtat- ed from tbe brain of a skilful pbyaidana discovery the golden medical dis aovery f i years ago dr pierce found onttbt the secret of all scrota la broochipal throat and long trooble lay iu thev begin- ping at jeist in impure blood afd the tone of syatemj that the way tovoro these effects was to re tnovethecauay that human natoro being the wrao tbe same results might be looked for in nearly all cases so oonfideut was he that the exception were uncommon that ha took the riakof giving tho medioiue to t bote it didnt benefit for nothing and the results have proved that he was right and golden medicat discovery is the remedy fot the million 1 tbe only ffiar iuleed liver blood apd frfug remwdy yourtnoni y bank t it doeie t help yon 1-