The following text may have been generated by Optical Character Recognition, with varying degrees of accuracy. Reader beware!

the georgetown herald wednesday evening july igth 1940 mainly for women timely topics for women by barbara bajnes some advice to budes now that the honeymoon is over and the groom has carried his june bride over the threshold of theii cottage email marriage begins to take on reality now comes the time for the fulfilment of all the plans that have been made sill the dreams that have been dreamed not even the wedding itself is more thrilling than getting fietued in the new home and having the first meal there together but i is a new relationship a new way of living and from the very beginning involves new problems and adjust without doubt the bride in her own mind has thought of many changes that must take place in her daily routine and has laid down a standard of herbwn bj which to measure her behaviour this is a splendid thing to do because precedents and standards set in early marriage are lne foundation upon which your life together is built and for that reason are of great itupurtmoa grandmother woula no doubt say hat a happy marriage is as sured if your house is always kept clean as a new pin and you always have a substantial hoi homecooked meal ready for your husband when he comes home on the whole this is good advice but the do mestic virtues are not the only ones some men do not want substan ttt hot meals and have you not known women who were neither beauti ful nor good housekeepers and yet were adored by their husbands and friends because they were jolly and good natured ancljuli of pep i once heard a bride say my first aim will always be to please my husband and do the things he wants me to do at first hearing it sounds like a fine motto but what a dull life it would lead to no man wants a docile doormat for a wife one whose every reaction he can anticipate whose every thought he can read he wants someone who will introduce a diversity of interests and variety into life someone who is stimulating someone who occasionally does the unexpected so it will be seen that good advice to the bride is only good up to a certain point or probably good for some persons and not for others but there are certain broad underlying principles that do tend to give happiness first of these ls this do not place too high a value on security in life security is only comparative anway as witness events of recent weeks and for the young at least is often over rated marriage is a gamble but what would life be if all risk all adventure were removed let your husband tackle the new job or new business it he believes in it- change means progress money is important of course but do not let it become too im portant some of the gayest brightest most inviting i artments 1 have visited have belonged to the young couple with a fiat pocket book but lots of originality and enough backbone o go ahead and try things it is amazing what can be done with a can of paint and ome chintz if you are of a creative tun besides it leaves something bigger and better to plan for and work for 111 the future similarly amusements and vacation trips uicn jou are joung do not necessarily need- to be ex puisne to be fun speaking ol monev what about a buoget is it necessary to have one i would say definitely yev but not one to which jou are a slave the budget that works is the one whtn ou keep the essential overhead expenses rent heat light tood etc down to a point where you will have something left over f r the extras the inexptctd expense savings and those foolish things that mean so much to ou do not deoend olel on eacl other tor company nouung be comes so monotonous a hearing the same ideas expressed over and over again do things together of course don i let jourstll become i golf widow but try to f t yourself into the life of the community if you are making jour home in a new ciij or town it ls a greal help to be a good mixer don t let shyness or an irhriority complex sere as a cover up for laziness lack of initiative or lack of interest in people the young bride should do hrr own work at least for a wnile wheth r she needs to or not why because no hing is so dulling and stupe fying as idleness we all need the feeling of satisfaction that comes from work well done then later if the family grows and she must keep help she knows what mu t be done to take care of a house and meals and what can be expected from one pair of hands above all a joung girl must bring interest and enthusiasm to her marriage and home she should not let herself slump either mentally or physically she should not let herself fee hurt by petty differences of opinion or oversights on the part of her husband isn t it much better to help him remember the anniversary or birthday than to stoop to self pity because he didn t don t be the sort of person who enjoys being a martyr be ready to be amused ard to amuse be companion able never let the time come when you can t find fun in small things petty things even silly things reserve judgment on your husband s faults and do not take kindness too much for granted laugh at the small tragedies that are bound to occur even a flare up of temper isn t as annoying as a cloud burst of tears and doesn t make a man feel so helpless an easy laugh a sense or humour a gaj philosophy and life for you and your husband will never be dul drab or commonplace let me remind xv how majestic la naturalness i have never met a man whom i really considered a great man who was not always natural and simple affect hon is inevitably the mark of one not suie of himself gen charles o dawes news about food just now limes are plentiful so do try this dressing on your next fruit alad r unke dniwing 2 eggs well beaten cup honey 2 limes juice 1 cup cream whipped place the eggs honey and lime juice in the top of a double boiler stir and cook mixture until it thick ens cool when ready to serve fold in whip cream was service win women t help is needed the war tens of thousands of canadian 9 women are engaged in war work and etch week there seems to be an ever wider variety of work to be done last week several shiploads of tousled and tired children arrived in canada the first war guests from the old lsnd and already in some bomes extra places are being set at the table and shouts of children at play ring in our ears with strange ac cents thousands of other homes all across the dominion are ready and waiting to offer hospitality and care to other young children being sent to us for safety from across the seas the red cross is urging its mem bers to even greater efforts that the huge quantities of supplies used up in the battle of prance may be re placed before an invasion of britain begins the women s institutes and other groups utatstricts where fruit is plen tthil have been making strawberry jam in large quantities for shipment tas the red cross has been applying the tins and arranging the transportation individuals are asked to can larger quantities of fruit for home use than usual this year in or der that commercially canned food may be sent to britain the navy ls taking an increasingly active part in the war and our sailors are especially in need of seaman s socks sweaters and scarves even in the summer it can be pretty cold in ses are being offered in first aid nurs ing cooking and driving transports there ls an opportunity for everyone to use whatever talents they women s work is an important factor in winning the war to save from final destruction those personal civil and religious liberties which alone make life tolerable vtpfree men book review wht europe flghte by walter mllks mr mil lis believes that the war in europe is indirectly due to the pres ence on one small continent of several doxen nations of varying and conflict ig ambitions and personalities their common ties weakened and their dlf fere noes emphasized by trade barriers customs unions and minor and major animosities and rivalries the direct cause of the war though ls that one nation composed of a warlike ar rogant people embarked upon an ac live policy of conquest which she can not or will not halt the author has given us a concise well coordinated account or the high lights- of history from the signing of the versailles treaty to the present time he tells of the nearsighted idealism ol the victors of the last war their lack of vision their inability to work with each other their policy in the eailj days of allowing germany to build up her war machine be cause she seemed too weak to bother about and later because she seemed too strong to bother he tells of th v indictiveress of a defeated germany and her threats of revenge how every the north atlantic similarly the boys i pledge made by her ha been of the alrforoe who often have to fly whittled down or broken from imv very high altitudes need abun dance of warm woollies so keep those knitting needles clicking the citizens committee y m c a and other organizations have been do ing a fine work among soldiers faml lies sending their sons to camp pro- tiding layettes for the new arrival and giving advice service and enter talnment when needed many soldiers have said they can look after them rives but they feel helpless as far as r families are concerned once they leave for overseas there is work for every woman to do if you cannot knit or sew prob ably you can help make surgical sup- toum or raise funds to carry on the work or you may like to do can teen work or help entertain the troops here there is a great need sat volunteer drivers for typists and ttvat able to do dotal woak oonr- jntil the present time of how unknown corporal came into power in 1933 because he was able to push and bluster his way into office and how he built up without outside lnterterehoffbflilorto his powerful nasi juggernaut and his perfect timing in its use as country after country has fallen before it he tens of the failure of the lea gue or nations dedicated to which offered no interference when mussolinis gunboats bombed and seis ed the island of carfu in 1933 or when in the same year germany oc cupied the ruhr or when japan be gan the conquest of china or italy marched into kthlopla walter mulls has drawn for us a very discerning picture of the factors l up to the present war in a book which most people win find very t international uniform sunday school lesson jobs straggle to faith in life after death slnd y jl li 14th 1940 colden text for i know that my redeemer liveth job 19 25 lesson passage job 14 13 17 17 13 16 19 j3 29 launch jour vessel and crowd your cinvass l and ere i vanishes i o er the margin v afur it follow it follow the gleam alfred tennyson jcb s qaestion 1315 our phv i n eves find delight in a wide honon that ls why we en joy looking out over the sea or uie prairie in cities we feel hemmed in by skvscrap r that shut out heavens blue in a dteper sense we yearn for limi ess bound irie to our lives a grave is so short so narrow and so sh i low that it cinnot be the final home of the oul thu b sight una una ion i nd memorv ranges through i ilmitc icp w know that tarth rai not bt our ultim t koal becaus wp cannot nirrow o ir iho ixhts to mitiml nut job had to make up hi m nd is to whether his destiny lay in a itrave or in paradise he well knew that it was a venture or filth not to be proved like a proposl tion in gtometrj his taith in a fu tiire life was the outcome of a much more oasic belief laith in an eternal uid almighty god the real question was not would job die but would god fail and leave half finished work again t a background of filth atht r than of scepticism job a ked the ageless que tion if a man dit sha 1 he lite again jobs experience 1617 it is shallow thinking to discuss the possibilitv of a future life as an ab slract ana theoretical question we hould approach it in the light of o ir total experience of god here the facts jf life far out number the brief momen s of death job had been grateful lor gods providence during childhood youth and maturer life and his past came into the picture he had fck a loving power guiding his life numbering his steps and for giving his sin thinking of god he became conscious of his sin a strange experieno to have if the grave des troys all moral values it ls because of our faith in a purposeful and loving god that belief in immortality be comes reasonable our heavenly fa iher has cared for us in all the vicis siludes of life his attitude will not change as we breathe our last a life longer anc better than this earthly me is par ol the good news of christ s gospel ind the news is not too good to be true jobs blarkoat 13 16 even the saints of god do not have an unbroken experience of trust and exaltation as the negro spiritual has it sometimes we re up sometimes were down the dramatist who wrote the book of job was true to life when he sketched job s changing moods at times the suffering patriarch des oended to the depths and at other times he soared to the heights here we find him thinking or the grave as a cold and cheerless house a bed in darkness the worms his only com rades thls ls realistic poetry but it is the logical conclusion that must be faced bv those who have no larger hope than dust to dust ashes to ashes job had his nightmare or doubt his eclipse of faith but he could not rest in negations hls yearning for life bevond the tomb was implant ed within him by the spirit of god all the t me that job was seeking to justify th ways of god to man god was loving job more than job could possibly love god christian ceme teries witness to the hope of lmmor tallty by the inscriptions on the grave stones christ has taken away the fear of death the shadow feared by man is eplsced by a mystery of light jobs conviction z3 87 handel s messiah is a t a great musician completed the artisllr expression of a daring dra matlst the section i know that my redeemer ltveuv is sung in countless churches every easter jobs desire peace jfor his words to be written in a book to be as permanent as though engraven on a rock has been literally fulfilled the h iman heart will not readily al raw jobs words to be forgotten these words of strong faith and high hope have been translated into hundreds of different languages these outpour ings of trust are the climax of the book of job and christians appropri ate them to express their faith in christ our human suffering seems insignificant when seen in the bright ugh of the eternal love of god a man whose boyhood faith was ahat tered by manhoods doubts after thirty years of study regained faith and could look forward to his life having a higher progression after death it was as though god had said to him thou hast what thy whole heart de sired jobs vindication z8 z9 a life ls to be judged not by isolat ed incidents but by its general trend and direction baffled as he was at times by pain and doubt all the time job had the root of the matter in him his faith in a hereaftqr built strength and courage into his charac ter a canadian doctor who had had several unhappy experiences of congre gatlonal strife read books for years on personal immortality gradually the grandeur of the vision laid hold upon him he rose far above village gossip and parochial bickering his presence at a deathbed gave peace to the dying and comfort to the be reaved the power of the resurrec tion will come to us as soon as we begin to live as though we are ab solutely furelhat we are going to live fortver through this experiment heaven will come to earth for us eter mty will irradiate time so may we make this prayer our own o god author of the worlds joy bearer of the worlds pain make us glad that we are men and that we have inherit ed the d or ids burden deliver us from the lux iry of cheap melancholy and at tne heart of all our trouble and orrow ft unconquerable gladness dwell questions for discussion 1 do i live as though i expected to live forever 2 what reasons have we to be thank ful for death 3 ls it of the mercy of god that the fi lure is unknown 1 does the easter faith help us con erning war casualties 5 what aid christ leach about the luture lift ltson outlines copyrighted by the interna tioi al council of religious ed ucation used bj permission try it the saiada way infiim6hmplim tauaxiflftofskdbjladctalaapltttof irak boiling mteff altar 6 mlmrtandnta liquid into souari coatalhai lla kot aj 1 1 to 1 x capa of aigai nd lk ol inoni attalaed isr brillioor hdtoojvml ml coamaer whh cold wataf do not allow tea to eopl mora addles cold water or hqald trill become cloudy senre wlui chlppd k ike above nalto 7 ull gleiaea saiada etew give a boy or girl a holiday evacuating hundreds of children from toronto s crowded downtown i areas foi a brief respite in the cotm- ly ls a task that k yearly under taken by the neighborhood workers ssoclatior this year the need is just as great as ever according to f n staple ord general secretary 1 but the problem of getting needy chil dren out into the country for a much needed holiday grows increasingly difficult lhan 1500 city last yeir children were invited to the country by kind v hostesses living iin j radius of 150 miles of toronto many of the children were kept for more thffn the stipulated period of two urck the neighborhood workers cciatl n provided all transporta tion co s and had the children medi callv examined before leaving the city this yai witn the vast majority of canadian women engaged in war l ce of various kinds and with the irrl al of children from overseas in vititirn nre much slower coming in officials of the neighborhood work i a cciotion point out the extreme importantc of ktcping up the moral and healii of needy families during this period of emotional stress and strain any service whlh aims to build up the canadian home front is invaluabi to the empire at this tlmo and women who feel able to take two or three cty children into their horns this summer are helping to play tbetr pavt mr staplefopd points out many of the children on the n w a s waiting list are the sons and daughters of men now serving over sea with the canadian forces many soldiers wives are struggling to main tain large families on a limited budget which does not allow for holidays no matter how badly needed according to the country homes department children from six to twelve years of age are wailingto be invited to the land of green fields and blue skies f any person has room in their home for such needy youngster a letter should be ad dressed immediately to the country hemes department neighborhood workers association 22 wellesley st toronto stating how many children are invited and the desired sex and aire also enclosing a brief letter from lo al clei in 1939 740 hostesses opened their hi irts and homes to little guests from toionto the need ls just as great now carrolls peaches brights velveeta corn starch apple sauce biscuits pound cake layer care tender leaf tea our soap flakes lie cheese 15c 2 ic 17c z r 15c ib x5c n 25c e- zoc 31c canada christies plain cmusttbs diamond top trt it 7oa 25c i ivory soap lc sale 3 pearl while naphtha soap 4 bar 15c 2 pg soap lc v wntn tod iut i lc pkc of oxydol h for 22c y ivory soap wsgv- h kirks lc sale iyi ksila ma i c soap 3 j 20c p blflsbbeffll 3 i4c woddbury facial sdap when yousur 3 cakes at ftegular price j 24 lb bg h monarch flour libbys spaghetti z r macaroni or spaghetti 3 lb clarks pork and beans 3 2 posts bran flakes 2 u horseradish mustard welchs grape juice certo liquid pectin kkovah jelly maker p kirks caitilesoap 3 ce 14c colored robber fly swats 10c fly ded fly w s p r ay tr 25c p 6lc 15c lie 25c 19c lie 27c 25c 14c tor it iced frya cocoa ur 1 median slse large juicy gomen ripe texas rc oranges lemons bananas tomatoes cabbage 24c d 30c d 3 u 25c 2 25c 3c hem ttata street geerpelowi free delivery phk 38t