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McHenry Plaindealer (McHenry, IL), 29 Oct 1942, p. 7

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, V" * • >* ' vs- ^ '"/"V %. i ; J'j^S '\' if ' ' AWR "* ' , " " ,"i.,-j* -. , v:. . - a . t%?" W{ 7* % 7 ff -r ^ ^ - •**; ^ ^ * " 4« » „ », *'v8' - ;;V^- : "*r '-.v^.'* '" 'v vr'^ "*"} *' ^ ^ Kathleen Norris Says: fftivorce Sometimes Is Justified i#. B«I1 Syndicate--WXU Faatura. 3; t ; *, > • ' - 'w ^ 35%'. 'Sic 5- W! /= 1 •«1 My second husband's daughters rifle the tea box. B« tMiib everything they da m right. The girls say they are (Juxyi kir with outside activities and km no Imm /or home duties. I l?y KATHLEEN NORRIS ** T KNOW you hate divorce and never advise it," writes Norma Brown, "but I want to know what you advise in my case. / "Two years ago, after an ideally happy marriage, I was left widowed with a boy of 5. I was crushed, bewildered, young, and within three months I suddenly married an old friend, a chiropractor, a man I had always regarded as an advisor, an older brother. My mother was furious, and would not forgive me for months. Fred is 49; he had been recently divorced; he has two daughters, who were then 13 and 15. Their mother takes them off for every other Saturday, coming back to dine with us ton Sunday night. I now have a small girl baby, EUen. "We have a large house; Fred's offices are in it, also a room for the nurse. This nurse, who is friendly enough to me, expected to marry my husband, when he and I eloped. I never knew this until lately. They had been engaged for a long while, and although she laughed about it when she told me, the fact that she did not leave him indicates to me that she likes him still. "I have no servant; it is impossible to get anyone to come here for what Fred will pay. The girls do nothing, not even make their own beds; they come and rifle the ice hoc of my custards or sandwiches; everything they do is right in their father's eyes. .Sometimes MiHy, the nurse, helps me clear the tabR) ; nobody else helps with housework, cooking, marketing, and the baby's "needs and laundry. I am exhausted with fatigue most of the time; I sever catch ig>. Both girls are in brifefei and they claim that with first-aid classes after hours and gym and Junior Red.. Cross they are always busy, aorV h»ve- no time for home duties. There Is No Harmony. MThis would perhaps not be so serious if they were my own children, but there is no harmony between them and my own son, Phil. They tease and annoy him all the time, and my husband blames him. He would like to send Phil to his sister, who has children about his age, but I will not consent. Fred is passionately devoted to his daughters, and over and over again he will plan for them some outing that doesn't include me. He takes them to movies, buys them whatever they want and this summer, during the very hottest weather went away with them for two weeks, leaving me at home with the small children. "This treatment has opened my eyes to the fact that I don't love hhn; I don't even like him, and I never will again. What he needed was a working housekeeper, and in these times he would have to pay her a good fat salary. "I slave and struggle all day and far into the night, and my reward is that Sally won't eat this and Eunice won't eat that; little Phil is sent away from the table to wash his hands or comb .his hair, and Fred comments, kindly enough on my own appearance. 'Is this the pretty girl I married?' He also questions an bills, and has asked me twice if I ever got money from the stores and had it charged on the bill. My heart is broken, but that doesn't mean I have to break my back, tOOi • AN EXCEPTION In her advice to Norma Brown, Kathleen IVorris makes an exception to her rule against divorce. Usually, she feels, divorce is just a lazy and immature way of set• tlin'g grievances that are far less important than the integrity of the home and the unity of the family group. Read Norma Brown's letter carefully before you say to yourself that your problem, too, can only be solved by divorce. And remember that you may lose more than you gain by divorce. It is still a last re• sort, and things must be very bad indeed before it is worth the sacrifice it inevitably means. "My mother is well-fixed; she. has always despised Fred; she would gladly take me and my two children in and I could be of real help to her, for she takes summer boarders and has a few boarders all the year. But she keeps a fine colored cook and her daughter and what I would do would be only light work. " am thirsting for escape and for freedom. Fred, I suppose, would immediately marry his nurse. What She Would Do. "She practically told me the other day that in my place she would pack the girls off to school and get in a good servai^, so it may not be all roses for him, but that isn't my affair. My husband has never shown any affection for Ellen, my baby, and my old doctor told me as a joke that her father's welcome of a third daughter was a hearty curse. "Well, I have written you my problem. Am I justified in getting a divorce, in your opinion?" It was a foolish union from the first, for anyone with eyes in her head could see that such a household was no place for a young wife and a small boy. Yes, I think you would be justified in legally ending a union that never was real marriage, and in living hereafter for your mother and your children. It is a strange thing that a man like Fred can present the prospect to various women so charmingly that they are willing to sacrifice common sense and reason to leap into matrimony with him; certainly his office nurse has had every chance to study the situation. That you were young, plunged in grief, and that you had always looked upon Fred as a sort of big brother and guide, is your excuse; I hope you'll be a little more careful about a third experiment. At 27 you still have plenty of time to consider the serious thing that mar riage is. Fred could dispute your divorce, for in your state nothing that he has done is actionable. But if he is thinking of marrying his nurse he may not interfere with your going to Reno to establish a six-weeks' resi dence. Unjust Treatment. One would like to be able to get into the mind of a man like that, to find out just what he thinks he is, an East Indian Sultan or Superman or what? Not only to impose upon you himself, but to allow two untrained selfish girls to walk roughshod over you; to restrict your purse, criticize your appearance, poison your first joy in your baby by a curse at her sex, and abandon you whenever he wants to go on a pleasure trip, is to treat you as thoagh you were merely a mechanical device in his household and not a woman at all. Lord's Prayer "Hie Lord's Prayer, engraved on the head of a small gold pin is in possession of a pawnbroker in Butte, Mont! Three years of labor were required for the work. Ifcat Yet Ddt NeeC fttst about two pounds of rubber goes into a gas maak or a roll of adhesive tape for the medical corps. Surely you can find two pounds around your houae that you don't really need. Gold Site A London syndicate is reported to have obtained an option on the goldbearing district in Otago, N. Z„ where a strike was made recently. Stronger A boat tee* cleat has been designed of glue-laminated wood, replacing iron which is needed for war production. The laminated cleat is stronger by weight and leas expensive than the iron cleat ADVERTISING GETS BREATHING SPELL By GEORGE PECK It is now apparent that the adver- SOLON MILLS 'SPRING AGAIN" *0 OPEN ITS LAST WEE* AT SELWTN THEAT&S f-i_„ v • . , . • . - - i Mr. and Mrs. E. E. Cropley drove to hLtJf ^ ? f ^ I Mineral Point, Wis., Tuesday to visit A J,?*?: from bureau-!^ latter-8 sister and husband> Mr. ' Grace George and C. Aubrey Smith, beloved and distinguished stars of the rrata at ,, i w"- »«"•**•» » oiovcr aim nusuanu, j*ir. t theatre, opened a limited engagement f wouk* curJand Mrs. Frank Batchelor, Mr. and of four weeks, October 10, iJ 3Sir in tnta fnr th! Cropley, arcompanied by Mr. hilarious comedy success, "Spring ]and Mrs. Batchelor, drove to Brook- i Again," at the Sehryn Th^tre Ch, ine "having i lyn, Mich., to visit their sister and ! cago, in the roles they created in New sought to attack it rthr ough the Treas- Ii husband- MF- and Mrs. Walter Read- York last season. - - • v in_ 1 RTvenu^yCl9 Bure?,? °/ ^T*1: Mr. and Mrs. Earl Monear of Mc- Achillp'n'hrrl «r<-t^ [Henry and Will Monear and daughter, 5»at adv^C v Burea.u | to Mrs. Ralph Widder and husband of P* ^ f eXpen9es could ^ J* Denver, Colo., were calling on old ' * pall-bearers^oulrf friends in Solon Sunday afternoon. i**!! immediate interment ^ The Sunday visitors in the C. W. and Bertram Bloch won wide-spread < : < and beneficial busing honorable Cropley home were Mr. and Mrs. Paul approval from the Chicago critics. •Rut ^ o «.y »> = Prettyman and daughter, Donna Jean Wolfe Kaufnkn of The Sun hailed it *>' •» 0.k Park. become an accessory to the against "advertising." Late in .Aug The Chicago engagement of the Broadway hit, which ran for nine months last season, comes to a close on Saturday, November 7. Produced and staged by Guthrie McClintic, "Spring Again," by Isabel Leighton as "chalining, escapist fun." Lloyd j Mrs. Lyman Johonntftt and daugh- Lewis of the Daily "NfeVs called it, "a p ot ters, Ann and Susan, and Mrs. Joe genial, highly good-humored comedy. dre,v * w'oket,n --- itional Advertisers, *1^ an hikling Mmk? Johonnott and lady; Grace George, ccnsiderd by many i that its members need have no misap- f"? * spe . T dfy authorities to be the leadiug comedi- ; prehensions. On September 29th, in a t week with her son and family, enn^ of the American theatre, is en- < fo.tr mal* sta_tae me..n.,t , ,thi e Bn ureau r'e cog- ii «lononnott>« ' nized that "advertising" is joying her happiest hit of a decade Mr. and Mrs. John Hatham, son,, with "Spring Again." On Broadway sary and legitimate business"ex^^e R°*er' lind dau*ht.er' Florence of Zion; she has*staw*dln such notable pn£ .Lot's Buve a Real Football Supper! ^ - : <See Recipes Below.) TootHaH Sapper Thoughts for fall naturally bring to mind fall's favorite game, football, and foods that go well after t h e g a m e . I t makes no difference whether you have been to one of the big games or whether you are going to feed the hungry crowd of youngsters who come in from playing in the nearest available field, the uppermost thought in your mind is good, hot, appetizing food. Smart management dictates a delicious hot dish that you whisk out of the oven, a crisp salad for balance and contrast to the meal, and a smooth, light dessert. Your crowd will be thirsty, too, so don't forget coffee for the grown-ups and a hot, chocolaty drink for the children. Do something special for the table --even a little touching-up will bring the appreciative oh's and ah's from your family and guests. Perhaps there are a few chrysanthemums still in the garden or you might try to get together a few, small novelty footballs to make up into a centerpiece. A cloth in the burnished fall colors or deep brown, bright yellow, or what-have-you will mark you as a hostess whose eye is ever on the calendar and season. Bring on the food! And such food it will be if you serve spaghetti, done up in casserole with plenty of sauce and cheese for extra goodness:. V.^flBpaghetti Creole. (Serves Si 2 pounds long spaghetti 2 onions, chopped 1 clove garlie V* cup batter - H cup oil 2 cans tomato puree IVi caps tomatoes 2 teaspoons Worcestershire Mace Salt, pepper 1 pound ground beef ' Grated cheese Cook onion and garlic (peeled and a toothpick run through it) in the hot oil and butter, slowly. Remove garlic. Add tomato puree, tomatoes, Worcestershire sauce, suit and pepper. Cook meat in additional fat. Add to first mixture and cook very slowly for two hours. Cook spaghetti in boiling, salted water. Drain and rinse in hot water. Place in buttered casserole, first spaghetti layer, then sauce, grated cheese, and so on until casserole is fulL Garnish with an additional slice of bacon if desired. Bake in a daw (325-degree) oven 45 minutes. Contrast note to the Spaghetti Creole is a green vegetable chilled to a crispness. It's also a good idea to balance a'-~ starchy food witH something as full of minerals and vitamins as an armload of greens clinging together ^18 I with a light, tart french dressing: *Tossed Greens. Wash lettuce and separate into leaves. Use several large spinach leaves, carefully washed, and shredded with the lettuce leaves, or small spinach leaves used whole among the lettuce. Shred three carrots, mince one small oriion and toss among the greens. Marinate 1 cup Lynn Says: The Score Card: The secretary of agriculture, Claude Wickard, has announced that meat rationing days are in prospect, so learn now, how to cut down on meats. Fewer meat cuts will be available, so be prepared to learn how to do many different things with what you have. Eggs, cheqse and fish are obtainable at moderate prices and are wonderful props in plaae at meat, and are all rich, sources of protein which is one of the main values of meat. Tea supplies are short; so it's suggested you dispense with the aoe teaspoon per pot measure M a means of saving. Bare Enough Women and elephants never ioc^ get.--Dorothy Parker. First Aid First Every roll of adhesive tape used by the medical corps contains onefiftieth of a pound of rubber. According to their spring estimates, 1,231,224 rolls were to be purchased this year ... using enough for 1,758 tires . . . or, at five tires to a car . . . enough for 350 cars. One reason why you and other passenger car owners aren't going to get any more tires fur two or three years. Football Supper 'Spaghetti Creole •Tossed Greens 'Corn bread *Apple Pandowdy •Football Brew •Recipes Given -penta. r The Bureau has arrived at the sensible conclusion that it is essential and equitable for certain taxpayers now engaged in war production "to of cooked green beans in french dressing for 20 minutes and add to salad bowl. Add more french dressing and serve. A bit of the something different for the menu is provided tf you serve this salad: Chiffeaade Salad. Combine cooked, cubed beets with riced hard-cooked eggs and minced onicn. Marinate and serve on crisp romaine or lettuce. You can turn out a chili con carne in no time and it's a wonderful dish on t h e s e e v e n i n g s with a fall tang in the air. The kidney beans, tomatoes and ground meat blend in delicious flavor: Chili Con Carne. (Serves 6) 2V& cups kidney betas 1 large onion, sliced 1-chopped green pepper 1 pound ground beef , 2 tablespoons lard SK caps tomstoes m teaspoons salt Paprika 2 whole oloves 1 bay leaf 1 tablespoon chili powder Brown onion, green pepper and meat in hot lard. Add tomatoes and seasonings. Simmer two hours, adding water if necessary. Add -beans and heat thoroughly. Corn bread is a delightful variation for any kind of dinner but is especially welcome if you serve the golden wedges at your football supper, Piping hot is the order of the day: •Cora Bread. 1 cap yellow coramesi H cup wheat flour * 1 teaspoon baking powder Vt teaspoon salt 1 beaten egg ' H cup milk 1 tablespoou melted batter Sift flour and mix with other dry ingredients. Combine egg with milk and add to dry ingredients. Add melted butter and pour batter into a well greased pan. Bake in a hot (425-degree) oven about 2fi minutes. Apples can be found in generous quantities now, so use them for thriftiness' sake. To save on your sugar, this recipe calls for part mo lasses and part sugar: •Apple Paodowdy. (Serves •) 1 Recipe Pastry 4 cups sliced apples % teaspoon salt M teaspoon cinnamsa H teaspoon nutmeg -- , 2 tablespoons batter M cup molasses H cup sugar M cap water Divide pastry into two portions and roll thin. Line shallow baking dish with pastry. Mix apples, salt, spices and sugar and put in pan. Combine molasses with water and pour over fruit. Dot with butter, cover with remaining pastry, press edges together and trim. Bake in a moderately hot (425-degree) oven 15 minutes. Lower temperature to slow (325 degrees) and bake 30 minutes. Remove from oven, chop top crust into fruit, return to oven and continue baking 1 hour. Serve witn butter or with plain or whipped cream. •Football Brew. Use 1 heaping teaspoon decaffeinated coffee, regular grind for each cup water. Pour cold water into pot or percolator. Set percolator basket with coffee in it. Cover. Let percolate IS to 20 minutes slowly and gently. Lynn Chambers can pi« you export edtrice on your homehold and food problems. Write her at Western Nems paper Union, 210 South Desplaines street, Chi cago, Illinois. Please enclose e stamped, self-addressed envelope for your reply. HeiaaaeA by Weston Hnr^tpir Uotaa. so lone as it is not carried tn an nn i^€r® visitors in the Joe London and ductions as "Kind Lady," "The Circle," "an attempt to avoid proper tax nay- ^f ScHultz of Liber- cons' and "Major Barbara." C. Aubnsnis »» " ' tTVJlle spent Sunday with their moth-jrey Smith, whose rugged features are er, Mrs. Belle Schultz. ^ familiar to moviegoers the world ove» Mr. and Mrs. Walter Mikutis and as the smybol of British courage, reson, Jim, of Chkago spent Sunday With ; turned to Broadway in "Spiring Mr. and Mrs. Chas. Westlake. i Again," after an absence of thirteen maintain thmnmh _ . .. „ Mr. and Mrs. Norman Stanger of; years. He has scored in literally doz- ^ trade names anH ir S i oodstock, and Mrs. George Noble and ! ens of Hollywood films, including «*! daughter. Jeanine, of Aurora, were l-clim of India"" "Live, of . rgoooodd -wwiillll built up over Jpra°s?t uycet*ar s•, nsdo : SLaotnudrodna yh oamfteer. noon visitors in the Joe 1; Lancer" an.d •" Lloyd's of London." fK* . . . Aful Ant when they return to peace time | Mr. and Mrs. Fred Scferoeder, Allan, J rJl! "Th* "nd N,dl*n!r Royal KX- Jnd -DinnJJ'.t Bgbt." «.* ...Sf." ' ",U known <«! Chicago were weekend guest, in the Kay™*, Stevenun. Henry Hubert home. j Ben Lackland repeat their original Mrs. S. W. Brown was a caller in i roieg while others in the large supthe A. C. Merrell home Saturday. i porting cast includes Michael Rosen- Mr. and Mrs. Willard Thaisen of; berg, Douglas Gregory, Charlotte Chicago were supper guests m the j IBemigf Edmon Ryan and Robert Henry Aubert home Sunday j aivd Mrs.'john Artte A„"rt "2 j rSpHneAgain^^l. daughter, Audry, of Chicago .pen, th.| the public. Officials of the Association of National Advertisers and the members thereof have expressed their complete satisfaction with Commissioner Helvering's statement. This is not surprising. In addition, advertising designed to help the war effort such as propa- Mr. and Mrs. Wm. Watts and i ganda for War Bond sales, salvage ' weekend at the Gieser home here, collections, etc., has the Messing of " " " the Bureau of Internal Revenue. While no official ruling was made outlawing advertising in which a company boasts about its contribution to the war effort, a word of warning was sounded. The government proposes to talk with advertising agencies and both local and national advertisers to point out to them that the public is nauseated with this "bragging," and to suggest that the advertising space so misused could be devoted to more constructive purposes. ' Much of this corporation 'tiomijfooting" has been engendered by false, malicious attacks made upon company officials. It is only human that these officials have sought to clear their reputations with the public by "blowing" about their contributions to tive war effort. The American people, however, expect corporations to make all-out contributionss to the war effort and can see no reasnn why a company that simply is doing its patriotic duty finds it necessary to spend corporate funds to inform the public about it. In other words it just ain't news. If this practice is voluntarily stopped, advertising^ defenders will be enveloped in a complete blackout. Italian Rice Italy i» tt»e oniy country in Btt> rope where much rioe is grown. Skill Is Greatest Let each man pass his days in that wherein his skill is greatest.-- Propertius. who had more than his share of herodaughter,"" patey!' sSunday ^th ! ^V,2£ her parents at Fox Lake ^ Miss Vivian Kilpa of Chicago spent f***? ,ha8 ***" several davs with her narenta Mr flected fame of hls bellicose Sire. and MuJr. FfJrLaJnEk vKtilWpatrriKck . Nor has he content to bask! H<j,s ^ ^ forty y<,<rs u Mr. and Mrs. Leonard Rush and incessant recital of the fabulous feats family of Richmond were visitors in 1 of his forbear to his wife, and her the BeHe Schultz home Sunday after- patience is worn thin. The devices noon- I by which Mrs. Carter makes profit- Mr. and Mrs. Harold Carnes of Chi- able the oft told saga of the defunct cago spent Sunday in the Arthur ^ General, the strategies by which she Carnes home here. | makes his memory an asset rather Mr. and Mrs. L. B. Johonnott of! than a family blight, fuses into three Genoa City w e r e S a t u r d a y c a l l e r s in ' u p r o a r i o u s a c t s in the modern the A. C. Merrell home. ! theatre. HELP WANTED Xtftihe and Milling- Machine operators, or men with mechanical background who can be trained to operate these machines. Our factory is operating 100 per cent on defense. Apply in person to THE FRANK G. HOUGH CO. LIBERTYVILLE, ILL. lightning Bares Vast Riches Riches fell from an ancient stone flgure when it was struck by lightning during a heavy thunderstorm near Prague, Czechoslovakia. The statue burst, and among the fragmemts gold coins and golden chains were seen. Further search revealed a tin box filled with jewels and gold and silver coins. It is believed the treasure was hidden during the Thirty Years war. Its value is estimated p* »»"»»* than $500,000. ami • • 1 Read the Want Ads! % ORDER YOUR £bri$tma$ £ard$ NOW! In Time to MAIL EARLY A personalised greeting card shows thought and good-will! Be sure to see The Plaindealer Display and order yours now! You'll want them in time to mail for Christmas delivery to the boys and girls overseas --as weU as sweethearts, mothers, dads, sisters and brothers over here. Assortment No. 1--21 Greeting Folders, all different djBsigno. •ery beautiful, with name imprinted, for only Assortment Mo 200--20 Greeting Cards, a selection of Masterfiece Oilette Christmas Greetings, with name imprinted, . ___. Assortment No. 50--A very nice selection of Greeting FolddW-- 5 folders each of 10 designs, with name imprinted. Also we have a. complete line of beautiful greeting cards at rosannaMe^ from which you select your choice in various quantities farent. ^ ' AD Greeting Folders come with envelopes to match. McHENRY PLAINDEALER ••1

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