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PAGE 14-PLAINDEALER-FRIDAY, MARCH 9, 1973 What's Best For Your Child - And You (Series 1) SELF RELIANCE Self-reliance is the grand old American ideal, the principle upon which our country built its greatness. But are we raising self-reliant children today? College graduates want safe jobs in large coporations, with regular pay increases and a good pension plan. Workers are satisfied to accept feather- bedding as a union prerogative. Youngsters sacrifice romance for the security of going steady. Too many American parents say: "I want my children to have an easier time than I did. I worked hard, but I hope my children won't have to. That's one of the reasons I worked so hard." This is an egotistic attitude. of very doubtful benefit to your children. Here are three ways to help you give your child a feeling of self-reliance: Let him feel loved for him­ self, not for his good behavior. He then feelsvstrong and tries to cooperate. Love him and set him a good example, and he will develop a conscience, his true moral strength in time of trial. Never do for your child anything he can do for himself. Your child's strength and self- confidence are in exact proportion to the difficulties he himself has overcome. Every time you help a child do what he might have done for himself -- when you feed him, or dress him, or set his mechanical toys in action, or do his homework for him -- you rob him of his strength and self-reliance. Never interfere with what a child is doing, as long as it is neither dangerous nor im­ moral. A child must create and build on his own dreams. This gives him power, the feeling that he can rely on his own thoughts and efforts. The wise parent provides food, shelter, affection, play space, and constructive toys; he also encourages com­ panionship with other children. In the give-and-take of friend­ ships freely formed, in building and making things, in physical sports and games, the child is continually testing and developing his abilities-in other words, he is developing self- reliance. Self-reliant children are less likely to become delinquent. They have the strength to meet their obligations and so more readily do their duty in the world. They feel self-confident and so do not need to become belligerent. Self-reliance cannot be taught as a lesson. Your child will behave according to the influences around him. At (For And About Teenagers ) HE STIU VVAJ\1T£P TO GO OUT WlTW ME", &ot r ft.ew IT. asked another one of my girl­ friends to go with him and I'm out in the cold. What should I do? OUR REPLY: Three strikes and you're out. You've got one' more try. Hopefully, he'll come back ttfyou. If he does, make sure you don't blow it again. If he doesn't, you've learned by your mistakes. If you have a t«tnog« problem you won! to ditcvti or an observation to make, ad­ dress your Utter to FOR AND ABOUT KIN- AGERS, COMMUNITY AND SUBURBAN PRESS SERVICE. FRANKFORT. KY. 40601. THIS WEEK'S LETTER: I have a problem that I hope you can solve. In October and Novem- home, parents can provide children with the good in­ fluence of religion, literature, art, and music, as well as with the personal example of their own constructive and co­ operative behavior. The interchange of affection between parents, their loving words to each other, their gaiety and high spirits fill children with faith that it's a good world we live in. A happy home is the most significant of the good influences that form a child's life. ber of 1971 I used to go out with this certain boy I really liked. During that school year we didn't see each other often because we had different schedules. But sud­ denly I told him it was quits. I just got tired of him. This sum­ mer he asked to go back with him and I told him I wouldn't mind going back with him. Then, when school started, my best girlfriend started hanging around his locker and messing around with him. I didn't have the courage to tell her to leave him alone because I didn't care to have a conflict about him. Everytime I saw her with him, I would go in the oppo­ site direction. He told me it was nothing serious and that he still wanted to go with me but I blew it and he got mad at me for some unknown reason. Now he has SWEAT SHIRTS ft- API£6,ENft> \̂ MM ABVJ rioME EC. COORSE- AWANCEP D£FRo$T,UG. How does The News - Sun cover Lake and McHenry Counties? The News-Sun's new and expanded regional section is reporting on every major area of Lake and McHenry County every day. No matter where you live you will find local news in our INSIDE/OUT section. Five reporters, six correspondents and the News-Sun photographic staff have been assigned to communities in both counties, and we hope you will get to know them by name. Feel free to call the reporter in your area whenever you have news items, features or possible photographs of interest. We hope to hear from you soon. Sflie Ketas-Sun * LAKE COUNTY'S DAILY NEWSPAPER McHenry and Round Lake Boots Davis / 689-6933 Antioch, Lake Villa, Lindenhurst and Venetian Village Linda Picone / 689-6965 Libertyville, Mundelein and Vernon Township Bill Choyke / 689-6962 Gurnee, Wadsworth and Newport Township Doug Weatherwax / 689-6934 Lake Zurich, Wauconda, Island Lake and Fox Lake Bill Bolotnik / 689-6935 for convenient home delivery call 689-6800 your week ahead BY DR. A.W. DAMIS Forecast Period: March 11 to March 18,1973 ARIES Mar. 21 • Apr. 19 TAURUS Apr. 20 - May 20 GEMINI • May 21 • June 20 MOONCHILD June 21 - July 22 LEO July 23 - Aug. 22 VIRGO Aug. 23 • Sept. 22 LIBRA Sept. 23 Oct. 22 SCORPIO Oct. 23 - Nov. 21 SAGITTARIUS Nov. 22 - Dec. 21 CAPRICORN Dec. 22 - Jan. 19 AQUARIUS Jan. 20 - Feb. 18 PISCES Feb. 19 - Mar. 20 A member of the opposite sex will put you to the "acid test." Also, avoid bragging or fishing for compliments as a means to nourish an in­ feriority complex. For those persons, under your sign, unattached: It's highly probable that romantic overtures will come your way. Actually, you are entering a period when a permanent relationship is likely. The return of a chronic problem, regardng affairs of the heart, is very likely. Keep a tight lid on your emotions; seek new social activities. Apparently, many under your sign have been neglectful in communicatng with persons who are afar. Meaning? Contact friends who are in distant places - revealing news awaits you. You are entering a fast moving, hard hitting cosmic cycle - with things going your way. Your occupation this week? Winner! So, don't flinch from problems. Improved relations with a superior or someone in authority, is indicated in your chart. It's ad­ visable to abandon a premature grievance. In­ cidentally, unexpected compliments are likely. You are entering a cosmic cycle when it's not advisable to take associates into confidence. Stellar patterns warn of a betrayal, through dis­ cussions at large. Whether or not you care to admit it, you must yield to a situation, this week, in order to get your way ... in the long haul. There is fierce competition heading your way, in most departments of your life - including affairs of the heart. Above all, take nothing for granted, absolutely nothing! A long standing friendship will show the first signs of tapering off. Why? Because of going your separate ways and an absence of mutual interests. Your chart shows the very favorable aspect of receiving help from an unexpected source. Meaning? You will benefit from an anonymous friend who supports you - behind the scene. Just try to make it through this week's cycle. According to your chart, boredom will find you c r a w l i n g f r o m o n e e v e n t t o t h e o t h e r . . . o n your hands and knees. PERSONALITY PROFILE For your Sun Sign Analysis, send the day, month, year and place ol birlh, plus 50< for postage and handling to Dr. Andrew W. Domis, P. O. Box 12766, St Petersburg, Florida 33733. Legal Nofice Legal Notice IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE 19TH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT, McHENRY COUNTY, ILLINOIS PROBATE DIVISION ESTATE OF Alfred A. Bossier Deceased, FILE NO. 73-P-19 Notice is hereby given pursuant to Section 194 of the Probate Act, of the death of the above named decedent and that letters TESTAMENTARY were issued on March 1,1973, to Elmer G. Gilbertson 1021 Woodlawn Ave., DesPlaines, Illinois, whose attorney of record is Leroy J. Welter, 1303 N. Richmond Road, McHenry, Illinois. Claims may be filed within 7 months from the date of issuance of Letters of office and that any claim not filed within that period is barred as to the estate which is inventoried within that period. Claims against said estate should be filed in the Probate office of the Clerk of said Court, County Court House, Wood­ stock, Illinois, and copies thereof mailed or delivered to said legal representative and to said attorney. MARGARET O'NEIL Clerk of the Court (Pub. March 9,16,23,1973) WHEN IT RAIfte PORRIDGE me &EGGAR Aim/4 DISCOVERS MAS MO SPOOfvJ. LOSE UGLY FAT OR PAY NOTHING Start losing weight today OR MONEY BACK. MONADEX is a tiny tablet that will help curb your de­ sire lor excess food. Eat less-weigh less. Contains no dangerous drugs and will not make you nervous. No strenuous exercise. Change your life . . start today. MONADEX costs $3.00 for a 20 day supply and $5.00 for twice the amount. Lose ugly fat or your money will be refunded with no questions asked by: BOLGER'S DRUG STORE 1259 N. Green St. NOTICE Public Notice is hereby given that on March 5th, A.D. 1973, a certificate was filed in the Office of the County Clerk of McHenry County, Illinois, setting forth the names ana Kist-otfice addresses of all of e persons owning conducting and transacting tne business known as THE SWING THRU, located at 602 N. Kent Road, (Nunda Township), McHenry, 111. 60050 Dated this 5th day fo March, A.D. 1973. Vernon W. Kays County Clerk (Pub. March 9,16,23,1973) Legal Notice NOTICE Public Notice is hereby given that on February 16th, A.D. 1973, a certificate was filed in the Office of the County Clerk of McHenry County, Illinois, setting forth the names and post-office addresses of all of the persons owning conducting and transacting tne business known as WEATHERVANE SHOP, located at 1313 North Riverside Drive, McHenry, Illinois 60050. Dated this 16th day of February, A.D. 1973. Vernon W. Kays County Clerk (Pub. March 2,9,16,1973) Legal Notice IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE 19TH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT, McHENRY COUNTY, ILLINOIS PROBATE DIVISION ESTATE OF JOSEPH FRETT Deceased, FILE NO. 73-P-43 Notice is hereby given pursuant to Section 194 of the Probate Act, of the death of the above named decedent and that letters TESTAMENTARY were issued on February 26, 1973, to Walter Frett 2422 W. Aspen Drive, Johnsburg, Illinois, whose attorney of record is Hugh A. Deneen, Woodstock, Illinois. Claims may be filed within 7 months from the date of issuance of Letters of office and that any claim not filed within that period is barred as to the estate which is inventoried within that period. Claims against said estate should be filed in the Probate office of the Clerk of said Court, County Court House, Wood­ stock, Illinois, and copies thereof mailed or delivered to said legal representative and to said attorney. MARGARET O'NEIL Clerk of the Court (Pub. March 2,9,16,1973) •••••WW w> , I _ _ • SCHROEDER METALCRAFT GIFT SHOP •Fireplace Screens •Glass, Brass and Pewter •Tools and Adirons •Candle Sconces and Holders •Grates and Gas Logs •Clocks and Wall Plaques -GIFTS FOR ALL OCCASIONS- , 815-385-0950 1713 South Route 31, McHenry, Illinois Open Daily 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., Sundfcy 12 noon to 5:30 p.m. • • I • • .