% fake Mcton™HSITH ̂ !,Jomlfln80n^JcH«nry County Dairy Princess, left, and Ellen Gardner, Black-and-WhMe show at .he 10 "" ^ (DON PEASLEY PHOTO) f %Vowi inic Mark's wife is typical of her sex For men worship at the shrine of "efficiency" but women crave change, variety, novelty and "surprises." Even at restaurants, which sex wants to sample unique menu items and new foods, vs. the usual steak and potatoes? Which sex dislikes getting a new hat. By - George W. Crane, Ph. D., M.D. CASE N-550: Mark H., aged 42, is a lawyer. "Dr. Crane," he groaned, "my wife is a wonderful woman. "But there are times when I explode in anger at her. "For example, I spend a lot of time at night in my den, where I have my books and papers, plus a typewriter. "I'll admit it looks quite untidy to outsiders. But I always know where I have scattered my papers and notes around the room. "Maybe I have a geographical mind, for I can reach with my eyes shut and find almost any book or paper in nrt^ 'Hen. "Well, my wife has a mania to sort and file and clean up every room in our house. "She is meticulous in that regard, which is fine if she would confine her activities to her realm. "But yesterday she decided to renovate my den. "Last night I was in a hurry to type off some notes and when 1 reached for my original papers - they weren't there! "It took me half the night to find the things she had neatly sorted and filed away. "Dr. Crane, why will women go on these periodic sprees of housecleaning, even when unneeded and unwanted?" WOMEN AND CHILDREN Women always remain emotionally at the halfway point between the adult male and a child! And I mention this, not in criticism, for it is one of women's greatest assets. In fact, that's why a mother usually has far better rapport with the children than does their daddy. And that also explains why kiddies come to their mother for advice or to make con fession. For she is the go-between. In childhood, boys and girls look up to the giant adults around them, namely, their parents, teachers, policemen, etc. And both boys as well as girls will then cry when they are afraid or get a splinter in their finger. But by the teens, the boys learn to replace fear and tears with anger. The girls still cry and even do so when they are adult women. For wives are always half- child and half-adult in their adult emotional state. They gain equality with men in I Q. or mental age, and often attain a higher status in college. But they still retain many of the child's emotional outlooks. And one of these is a desire for change, excitement, novelty, as in the rearrangement of furniture and the desire for new dresses or hats, drapes, rugs, etc. The usual male, by contrast, dislikes change! He knows it is more efficient to find his tools, clothes and desk papers just the where he laid them down last time he used them. But meticulous wives, eager to rearrange surroundings, consider novelty a far more attractive concept than ef ficiency. It is men who organize, think ahead and use the "agenda" plan for scheduling their work. Wives dislike such "regimentation." They crave freedom to change and alter and "surprise" their mates with new recipes, new rugs, etc. Even in romance, the usual husband is regarded as stodgy by his wife! And at fancy restaurants, he ignores exotic dishes to order his standard steak and pie! (Always write to Dr. Crane in care of this newspaper, en closing a long stamped, ad dressed envelope and 20 cents to cover typing and printing Fin Whales The fourteen-nation Inter national Whaling Commis sion recent ly overrode Japa nese and Russian objections and voted to end the killing of fin whales within three years. This is the second com mission ban on whales; catching the blue whale, the largest mammal in exist ence, has been barred since 1966. The fin whale, now threatened with extinction, is the second largest. Unfortunately, the com mission has no enforcement authority, and the Russian and Japanese governments can formally serve notice with the commission they will not respect the ban; they are expected by many t o a l l o w t h e i r h u n t e r s to continue killing fin whales. Persuasion, moral pressure from the rest of the world, then, seems to be the last hope of the fin whale. costs when you send for one ot his booklets.) Issue Tickets The following speeding tickets were issued by the McHenry Police department' this past week: Philip J. Peterson, 502 Lavinia, Joliet, 50 in a 40 zone, Karen Schaefer, 5420 Or- chardway, McHenry, 52 in a 40 zone. James Knaack, 2201 N. Alton, McHenry, 55 in a 40 zone. Richard L. Sagers, 1005 Cherry Valley, McHenry, 51 in a 35 zone. Donald E. Ludlow, 3619 Ames, Crystal Lake, 44 in a 25 zone. Michael P. Croke, Route 1, Fontana, Wis., 41 in a 25 zone. Richard C. Nott, 3620 Mc- Cullom Lake, McHenry, 40 in a 25 zone. Michael Khidirian, 4901 Rogers, McHenry, 40 in a 25 zone. Gerald W. Brodin, 5212 Pulaski, McHenry, 41 in a 25 zone. William Edwards, 2553 Walters, Northbrook, 40 in a 25 zone. Susan DeCicco, 518 N. Front, McHenry, 40 in a 25 zone. Jeffrey B. Hunt, 7304 Hiawatha, Wonder Lake, 46 in a 30 zone. Dale E. Pytko, 3220 W. Fairway, McHenry, 42 in a 25 zone. James L. Thomsen, 1718 W. Melrose, Chicago, 40 in a 25 zone. William Jakiel, 1422 Bayview, McHenry, 46 in a 35 zone. r Irma Sieb, 3816 N. Her mitage, Chicago, 49 in a 35 zone. Robert L. Fuhler, 706 N. East Blvd, McHenry, 47 in a 35 zone. Kenneth A. Hilton, 3520 Castle, Woodstock, 46 in a 35 zone. Nicholas Jones, 3617 • E. Wonder Lake road, Wonder Lake, 51 in a 35 zone. Celia Fernandez, 5305 Or chard, McHenry, 44 in a 30 zone. Jack Glauner, 711 Peter, McHenry, 39 in a 25 zone. Annette Cicchini, 616 S. Broadway, McHenry, 40 in a 30 zone. John N. Bialek, 8153 Grand, Niles, 42 in a 30 zone. Joseph A. Messina, 123 Babcock, Palatine, 47 in a 35 zone. Saran Pufpaff, 1220 N. Draper, McHenry, 47 in a 35 zone. John A. Motroni, 820 Ben jamin, Fox Lake, 58 in a 40 zone. "Valentin Shebeko, 12419 Hansel, Huntley, 54 in a 40 zone. Wayne Miller, 601 Whitney, Joliet, 60 in a 40 zone. ' ^ 7 / r ¥ # l T&oqan' BRIDAL GO WW SALE Wednesday, Aug. 8th, 1973 12 HOURS ONLY •9a.m. to 9p.m. Bridal Gowns (Some Include Veils) WHITE - IVORY - SIZES 8 to 16 Fall - Winter - Spring - Summer Gowns Exquisite Styles Bridesmaids and Formats Mother of the Wedding COSTUMES and DRESSES Bridal Headpieees Bridesmaid Headpieces •ALL MERCHANDISE - "ONE - OF - A - KIND" Fantastic Savings - Many Slashed Below Cost! * All Gowns Will Be On Main Floor For Your Convenience • Bridal Consultants Available For Your Assistance Wednesday,August 8th 12 Hour Sale 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. 118 N. Benton -- 338-1210 -- Woodstock W'** „ ft* fry* • ft* ft. xM Heart Woodstock . Patricia Koehn, 414 S. Crystal Lake rr ad, McHenry, 37 in a 25 zone Robert Roet ir, 25 Dukes, Deerfield. 56 in a 40 zone. F r e d r i c k H a y d a r y , Barrington Hills, 48 in a 35 zone. Dennis Duncan, ",37 Thome, Chicago, 35 in a 25 zone. Freimuth Blaumueller, 2525 Victor, Glenview, 54 in a 35 zone. Clyde Beutien, Route 3, Aurora, 45 in a 30 zone. Michael Barden, 502 McHenry road, Wheeling, 47 in a 25 zone. Elmer G. Smith, 1406 N. Freund, McHenry, 37 in a 25 zone. Ronald W. Flamank, 328 Shaddle, Mundelein, 49 in a 35 zone. James P. Grabowski, Jr., 301 N. Hill, McHenry, 37 in a 25 zone. Robert E. Burton, 2919 N. Shorewood, McHenry, 37 in a 25 zone. Harold M. Justen, 3609 W Main, McHenry, 48 in a 25 zone. Michael J. O'Brien, 907 Rolling lane, McHenry, 45 in a 30 zone and violation of classification (motorcycle). Jacqueline A. Bowe, 8719 Memory Trail, Wonder Lake, 47 in a 30 zone. Kevin M. Cadotte, 3202 Skyway, McHenry, 37 in a 25 zone. Abner H. Bender, 1106 Bay, McHenry, 56 in a 40 zone. Larry Bruce, 8819 Acorn, Wonder Lake, 57 in a 40 zone. Robert H. Frett, 2919 Vic toria, McHenry, 40 in a 25 zone. Keith Grossich, 1621 N. Woodlawn Park, McHenry, 44 in a 25 zone. Gayle Hansen, 4612 Ramble, McHenry, 58 in a 40 zone. Jerry Jerls, 2912 E. Chestnut, Wonder Lake, 49 in a 35 zone. David W. Kroncke, 1203 Oakleaf, McHenry, 37 in a 25 zone. Lawrence B. McCrary, 2212 N. Orchard Beach, McHenry, 37 in a 25 zone. Alan W. Moll, 3907 W. High, McHenry, 40 in a 25 zone. William D. Paul, 3609 Young, McHenry, 41 in a 25 zone. James R. Randall, 2921 W. Victoria, McHenry, 40 in a 25 zone. Paul Schillace, 1512 Flower, McHenry, 41 in a 25 zone. Homer C. Sturgill, 605 Columbus, McHenry, 50 in a 30 zone John B. Thennes, 1212 N. Court, McHenry, 43 in a 25 zone. James R. Weingart, 4309 W. Ponca, McHenry, 45 in a 25 zone. Kevin H. Weiss, 310 Country Club drive, McHenry, 41 in a 25 zone. Linda J. Zabroski, 108 YMCA Day Camp Bus Schedule Is Announced On Monday, Aug. 6, many excited boys and girls will attend the first day of the fourth period of the Lake Region summer day camp. Boys and girls who will be 7 years old by Dec. 1 of this year are eligible to register for YMCA day camp. Qualified counselors of college age with an interest in children provide leadership and programs that include swimming instruction, hiking, cookouts, story telling, recreational swimming, out door sports, campcrafts and singing. The camp day begins at 9:05 a.m. at the Thunderbird farm swimming pool and ends at 3:45 p.m. at the YMCA building site on Route 31. Chartered bus transportation will be provided to cambers needing transportation.-The bus pick-up scnedule fox the fourth period begins witty a stop at Island Lake Village hall at 7:40 a.m.; followed by McHenry Junior high school at 7:50 a.m. and Thompson road and Rt. 120 at 8:05 a.m. The return schedule begins at 3:55 p.m. at Algonquin Village hall; 4:45 p.m. at Wonder Lake, 5 p.m. at McHenry and 5:10 p.m. at Island Lake. Registrations continue to be accepted at the Lake Region YMCA for the last period of day camp. The YMCA office at 7351 S. Route 31 in Crystal Lake is o p e n w e e k d a y s f r o m 9 a . m . t o 5 p.m. French In German Two of the most popular names given babies in West Germany are French, not German. A sur vey revealed that more boys born in 1970 were christened Andreas and more girls Nicole than any other names. Riverside drive, McHenry, 54 in a 35 zone. The following tickets were also issued: Michael S. Stewart, 99 Pomeroy, Crystal Lake, unlicensed driver. Wilma J. Rasmussen, 2808 E. Hickory, Wonder Lake, failure to yield right-of-way at in tersection. Fred W. Felde, 1415 S. Lily Lake, McHenry, no valid registration and violation of instruction permits and tem porary license. Robert E. Anzinger, 3008 Mary lane, McHenry, no valid registration. Ohlson, 4801 McHenry, un- noise (broken PAGE 17-PLAINDEALER -FRIDAY, AUGUST 3, 1973 How po r LET KWOiV [DO Lltf? H/M WITHOUT 'CLINGING" TO HIM THIS WEEK'S LETTER: I am 15 years old and there's this guy that I like very much. We had a few dates and he told some of my friends that he liked me a lot and that I was the nicest person he had ever met, but he wanted to have a good time. I'm sure he likes me, well, pretty sure, but he's very shy around girls and he doesn't act like himself. He's told me that he doesn't like for a girl to cling to him, but now he thinks I don't like him -- so now we hardly ever talk, we do speak to each other, but that's all. I don't know how to let him know I do like him without "clinging" to him. What am I doing wrong9 What would you do? OUR REPLY: What you have here is a failure to communicate. Ask him what he means by "clinging." Maybe he means he's not ready to go out with just one girl right now. It sounds like he still wants to "play the field." Try to be a friend of his instead of trying to be his girlfriend. This way, you'll be able to find out what his interests are and you'll have something in common to talk about. Who knows, by trying to be just a friend of his, he may fall for you because you aren't a "dinger." MEET I A GOOD | NEIGHBOR OF YOURS Dag R. Barreville, necessary muffler). Philip Fitzpatrick, Water- ford, Wis., no valid registration. See him for all your family insurance aaeds. DENNIS CONWAY 3315 W. Elm St. McHenry 385-7111 Like a good neighbor, State Farm is there. 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