•/ There's An Answer (by Norman Vincent Peale and Ruth Stafford Peale) * Indecisive And Sick Q. This guy who asked me to marry him told me he loved me very much, but something in me teils me that I don't love him, and there's also another part that says I do love him. I don't know what to dp about it. I wish I could get some advice soon-'cause it's making me sick and upset. Please be quick. He also says he will wait for me. He won't go out with any (me else except me. I'm confused. That's all. Please hurry. A. You are too panicky; cool it. If one part tells you that you love this fellow and one part says you do not, then better listen to the second part. For if you do not know for sure, with all your heart, that you love him-then it naturally follows that you don't, really. He is foolish for waiting. He had better get himself a girl who really loves him, and who knows that she does. We have a booklet, How To Make Right Decisions, which has helped others with questions such as yours, and a copy of it is on its way to you. Anyone reading this column who wishes a free copy may write to us at Box 500, Pawlinc. NY 12564. lied Down By Dependent Dog Q. I have a small dog 8 years old who has been my constant companion since he was a tiny puppy. I have been his only companion. Due to the fact that he will not make up with anyone else, and will not eat while I'm away, I have been unable to take ' out of town or vacations. I live alone and am retired due to health problems. I face a stay in the hospital in the very near future and would in time like to visit my relatives out of town. I have thought of having him put to sleep, both for his sake and mine. However, I feel guilt-ridden to even think of it. Is it a sin to destroy life? Will God hold me accountable? I love this dog fend have spent much time and money on its care, but I am so confused. Can you help me? A. A dog, with its complete devotion to and considerable dependence upon its master, can really get a hold on your heart, and sometimes, without realizing it, the master becomes a slave and the dog becomes the master. We think you have let this happen to you. We have the feeling that you need to assert yourself more in your life. Had you sincerely wanted to go on trips and take vacations out of town, we believe you would have found a way to take the dog along (since you say he is only a small dog) or you would have found someone who would show him special kindness and patience in coaxing him to eat and survive in your absence. We suggest that you find such a person, or else a^suitable boarding kennel. Let's try this rather than thinking of putting this nice little dog to sleep. Jealous Husband Doesn't Work Q. It's been seven months that my husband hasn't worked. I'm working and always have. I support him and our daughters, aged 16 and 15. He is 60 years old and diabetic. I'm 40 and we've been married 19 years. My problem is that he is so jealous. But he is never home. He leaves the house at 7 a.m., back at 10 p.m., or 2 a.m. I love my husband, but I don't think he loves me. I'm very lonely and alive. What can I do? A. The fact that your husband is a diabetic is no excuse for his abdication of responsibility for supporting a wife and two daughters. ' If your husband is never at home from early morning until late at night or early the next morning, this obviously indicates that he isn't very interested in his family. You are the one who must let him know what you expect from him. If hedoesn't change and you want to continue putting up with this situation, find interests of your own. Live your own life and above all do not perpetually agitate yourself about an irresponsible spouse. (If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale to discuss in this column, write to them in care of Brae 500, Pawling, NY 12564. If you would like to talk directly with a Prayer Partner, call Prayer Line (212) 481-1050. Reduced long-distance rates in effect nights and weekends). New Tomato Varieties m \ \ '• * .. •: t . '-v. - • „ - t ' -i •' f* * • A ^ _ Safe For Home Canning Ms BIRTHS A two-year study by U.S. Department of Agriculture D (USDA) scientists shows that new tomato varieties are no lower in acid than older varieties, says Nancy Moore, University of Illinois Extension home economist. Tests of more than 350 tomato varieties and more than 200 current breeding lines show that there has been no consistent change in tomato acidity of varieties introduced over the last twenty-five years. What the public has been told about yellow, orange and small tomatoes being low in acid and not suitable for home canning is a fallacy, says Moore. Ac cording to the data, tomatoes of the small and light-colored varieties actually tend to be higher in acid than other tomato types. The acid taste in some high-acid tomatoes may - be masked by a high sugar content. The environment in which tomatoes are grown, or the condition of the vines, can affect tomato acidity. For example, one sample of the variety Fireball was picked after the vines were dead, and although the tomatoes ap peared normal, 38 percent of them were low enough in acid to permit growth of C. botulinum. Decayed or . overripe tomatoes may be exceptionally low in acidity. This finding supports previous USDA recommendations never to can overripe tomatoes or tomatoes with soft spots or decayed areas, explains Moore. If proper procedures are used, canned tomatoes are high enough in acid to prevent growth of the organism that causes botulism. Proper procedures start with the selection of tomatoes that are not overripe or decayed. The home canner should then follow approved canning instructions. The researchers said that although there seems to be no need to artificially acidify tomatoes, some home canners may wish to add acid. One- fourth teaspoon of citric acid or one tablespoon of bottled lemon juice per pint increases acidity, and causes no oft flavors. Vinegar is not as effective as citric acid or bottled lemon juice in increasing acidity, and vinegar produces an off flavor, says Moore. The study reported that a commercial acidification tablet, when used according to manufacturer's recom mendations, was not as ef fective in increasing acidity as one-fourth teaspoon citric acid or one tablespoon of bottled lemon juice. The University of Illinois Extension office services are available to all McHenry county residents. Call 338-4747 or 3737 or stop in at the office at Rt. 47 and McConnell road in Woodstock. I teTMJCATlOHAL) I 1 I I College Honors j ACCEPTS POSITION Ronald E. Roadman, son of Mr. and Mrs. Roy Roadman of McHenry, has accepted a position as engineer for Alcoa Aluminum in New Kensington, Pa. following his graduation from Colorado State university recently. Mr. Roadman holds a bachelor of arts degree in mechanical and aeronautical engineering obtained in 1975 from the Illinois Institute of Technology. A master's degree in science (mechanical engineering) was conferred during summer com mencement exercises at Colorado State university. Mr. Roadman is a 1971 graduate of McHenry Community high school. FIRST GRANDCHILD Mr. and Mrs. Robert "Hessie" Miller of McHenry announce the birth of their first grandchild, Nathan Matthew. The baby boy, who was born Sunday, Aug. 28, is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Lebak of 305 Meadowdale drive, Car penters ville. He weighed an ^ven 8 lbs. and measured 20 inches long when his parents first saw him* Paternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Edward Lebak, Sr. of Lemont, 111. The baby's great grand mother is Mrs. Barbara Freund of Johnsburg. Mrs. Lebak is the former Barbara Miller of McHenry. FIRSTBORN Jason Robert Nelson, the new son of Mr. and Mrs. John Nelson of 9010 Pine avenue, Wonder Lake, is destined to be an "early bird". He chose 6:40* a.m. as his time of arrival at Memorial hospital, Woodstock, Friday, Aug. 12. He had dark hair, weighed 7 lbs. 13 oz., and measured 21 inches when his parents first saw him. Grand parents are Mr. and Mrs. Goran Engstrom of 1210 N. Eastwood lane, McHenry, and Mr. and Mrs. Charles Nelson of 3908 W. West avenue, McHenry. Great grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Raymond Klein of McHenry. - Tough Crime Package Governor Thompson has proposed a compromise designed to break the General Assembly's deadlock on anti- crime legislation. Thompson presented what he termed the best of his Class X violent crime package and combined it with a House bill. He said important features of his proposal will be formally presented at a later date. Community SEPTEMBER 2 St. Margaret Chapter of NAIM-Fish Dinner-Fox Lake Country Club~5:30 p.m. SEPTEMBER 6 U.M.W. Mission Team- Executive Committee Meeting- -9 a.m.-First United Methodist Church. Koinionia Group Meeting--10 a.m.-First United Methodist Church-Study Book "The Shalom Woman". McHenry Senior Citizens Club-Luncheon-Ball Game- Bus Leaves McHenry Savings & Loan 11:15 a.m. Marcia Mary Ball Circle Meeting--12:30 p.m.-First United Methodist Church- Marilyn Haines & Lyda Radisch, Hostesses. Free Blood Pressure Screening-First United Methodist Church-1 p.m. Overeaters Anonymous- First United Methodist Church- -7:30 p.m. Free Blood Pressure Screening-McHenry First National Bank-9a.m. to 1 p.m.- •Public Invited-McHenry County Heart Association, Sponsors. McHenry Lodge 158 A.F.& A.M.-Acacia Hall-7:30 p.m.- Past Masters Night-Master Mason Degree. Ruth Circle of First United Methodist Church-Meeting-12 Noon. S HOSPITAL NOTES MEMORIAL HOSPITAL WOODSTOCK Recent admittances to Memorial hospital, Woodstock, included from McHenry: Henrietta Davis, Rosetta Justes, Geraldine Postal, Joseph Rush and Bruno Karas; from Wonder Lake: Anita Kenny, Patricia Barnes and John Foy; from Ringwood: Mark Dernelle; from Island Lake: Linda Jones. SATISFACTORY CON DITION Mrs. Shirley Luto of 1404 Glen drive, McHenry, is listed in satisfactory condition in the McHenry hospital following injuries suffered in a car-truck accident Monday afternoon, Aug. 29. SEPTEMBER 7 McHenry Grandmothers iub-Martinetti's Restaurant- Ma. m.-Important Meeting: Nominations-1 p.m.-McHenry City HaU. Concerned Citizens for McHenry-Public Meeting-7:30 p.m.-St. Paul's Church- Robert Gordon, Speaker. SEPTEMBER 8 McHenry Woman's Club- Fall Luncheon ft Fashion Show- •12 Noon-Crescent Bay Lan ding. SEPTEMBER 9 & 10 - "All Church" Rummage Sale-First United Methodist Church-Friday, 8 a.m. to 8 p.m.-Saturday, 8 a.m. to .12 Noon. SEPTEMBER 10 The Friendship Chib Potluck Dinner-Meeting-6 p.m.-First United Methodist Church- Program: Bertha and Elmer Stange. • . SEPTEMBER 11 NAIM Council Meeting- Home of Sue Jennings, Aurora- 2 p.m.-Potluck-Bring Table Service-Leaving McHenry State Bank at 1 p.m. Saufen Und Spiel-Johnsburg Community Club-Beginning at 1 p.m.-Public Invited. SEPTEMBER 12 ; McHenry Senior Citizeniv Club Meeting--7:30 p.m.-East Campus Cafeteria-Program: Illinois Bell Telephone. McHenry Senior Citizens Trip to Amana Colonies, Iowa- Bus Leaves McHenry Savings. & Loan 6 a.m -Return 6:30 p.m. Sept. 13. -. SEPTEMBER 13 Overeaters Anonymous*- First United Methodist Church- -7:30 p.m. McHenry Town and Country Newcomers Club--Meeting-St<- Paul's Church-7:30 p.m.A* Husbands Invited-Wine Cheese Tasting Demonstrat SEPTEMBER 14 __ McHenry Senior Citiz Club Loop Trip-Bus Lea1 McHenry State Bank at 8: a.m. Card Party-Luncheon-11: a.m.-St. Peter's Hall, Grove-Sponsors: LCWC. SEPTEMBER 15 United Methodist Worn Guest Night-First Unit Methodist Church~7:30 p.m Evening Circle, Hostesses. McCullom Lake servation Club Meeting^ p.i -McCullom Lake Beach Agenda: Dredging, Fish Plans. SEPTEMBER 16 St. Margaret Chapter NAIM-Meeting--St« Mary Oak Room-7:30 p.m. t SEPTEMBER 17 American Legion Auxiliary-llth District Installation-McHenry American Legion Post p . m . S h a r p -- M e m b e r Welcome. SEPTEMBER 18 St. Patrick's Parish Pearl Street Park-12 Mass-Food, Games, tertainment. Family Style Roast Dinner-Zion Lutheran Couple Club-Noon to 3 p.m. VARESE'S Quick Sewing Techniques For The Seamstress Ever get discouraged sewing? After spending hours on a garment, it is tried on and...ye gods! it is either too small to get into or one wishes they were twice as large to fill it. If anyone has problems with fitting clothes, there is a program designed for them. Nancy Zieman, represen tative of the Sew Fit company will be presenting two programs on Sewing Shortcuts, Sept. 27. Each two-hour program will include pants and dress alterations and quick- sewing techniques. Anyone interested in attending either the 1 p.m. demonstration at the extension office or the 7 p.m. session at the McHenry county fairgrounds, make reser vations by calling the extension office at 338-3737 or 4747. Ad mission to this event is minimal. Reservations will be accepted through Sept. 15. The "Make It Yourself With Wool" program is being con- it ducted this year in Illinois by the Women's auxiliary to the Illinois Sheep Breeders association. There are two divisions in which to enter in Illinois. The junior division is for those ages 14-17 and the senior division for those 18-24 years of age. District winners from Northern Illinois will be selected Nov. 12 in Rockford, 111., and will ad vance to state competition. One junior and one senior from Illinois will be selected at the state contest in December to receive an expense-paid trip to Denver, Colo., to compete in the national finals in January, 1978. For further information, rule brochures, and entry forms, write to Mrs. Hazel Ralston, District 1 Coordinator^ Swanson road, Roscoe, 111. 61073 • Foxes Rtjin i Party Nite! THURSDAYS 8 TIL? | MEN'S AND LADIES' ALL COCKTAILS •LUS' FREE MUNCHIES! BLE BUBBLE <MON.-FRI.) 4 IU V I •DANCING •ELECTRONIC GAMES CORNER OF GRflN ST. ft RTE. 120. 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