PAGE 2 - PLATN'PEALER - WEDNESDAY. JANUARY 30.1980 tLl r y Comm unity Calendar JANUARY 30 f^ilms and discussion on Women's Bodies~7:30 p.m.- McHenry County college student lounge-Crystal Lake. MR. AND MRS. JIM KACMAR LIVING IN LOUISIANA - Mr. and Mrs. Jim Kacmar are making their home in New Iberia, Louisiana, after a honeymoon trip to the White Mountains in New Hampshire. The former Laurie Braidman, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Leo Braidman, McHenry, exchanged vows in St. Mary's Catholic church, Woodstock, 111., Dec. 1,1979, with Jim Kacmar, son of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Kacmar, of Crown Point, Ind. The 3 p.m. ceremony was conducted by Reverend Eugene Jung and Reverend William Joffe. A reception was held at the American Legion in McHenry. The bride attended Marian Central high school, Woodstock and the groom graduated from Crown Point high school and attended Purdue university. He is presently employed as a Chemical Engineer for Morton Chemical company. Officers Installed During a brief business meeting Church Women United in Lake Region will install the following officers: President. Laurel Kloepfer; Vice-President. Mae Stinespring. Treasurer. Ruth Ann Simes; Ecumenical Celebration. Sister Jeanne McGue: Ecumenical Action. Mary Lou Murphy; Finance. Jean Smith. Area Represen tatives, Mary Kay Caston (Crystal Lake), Charlene Tonyan (McHenry), Pearl McConnell i Woodstock); Members at Large, Rita Pajrish. Norma Stone; Ecumenical Development, Almarie James: Com munications. Judy Thornton. The annual luncheon will be held at noon Friday. Feb. 1. at Bethany Lutheran church. 78 W" Crystal Lake avenue. Crystal Lake. A program will be fur nished by the ladies of Beth an v and Ruth Ann Simes. Various churches will be contacted for food and recipes. As usual, there will be a babysitter for youngsters and beverage will be fur nished. Each child is requested to bring a sack lunch. All women are invited to come and bring a friend for an enjoyable afternoon. No reservations are required. * * * * In case of doubt, don't borrow and don't lend. OPENING SOON ULTRATAN Suntan Salon ULTRATAN is the quick, new and safe way to get a tan. WATCH FOR OUR OPENING ON MAIN STREET IN McHENRY About Your Wedding... In order to serve McHenry area brides the Plaindealer sends wedding forms to all those whose engagements have been announced and carry a definite date We ask that these com pleted forms be returned three days prior to the wed ding Complete details will ap pear only during the week following the wedding except m the case of out-of-state weddings where an ad ditional week is allowed. Photographs will be printed any time later or will be in cluded with the wedding in formation if they accompany the story If your engagement an nouncement has not published, or if the date of the wedding was not known at that time please call our of fice ond request that a marriage form be sent Women's Club Schedules 1980 Activities -Projects Don't hide Beautiful Eyes Behind Glasses LOOK AND FEEL YOUR BEST SEEING IS BELIEVING ^ BRING YOUR EYE GLASS PRESCRIPTION TO US AND WE WILL FIT YOU WITH SOFT CONTACT LENSES JANUARY 31 McHenry Senior Citizens club~"Rules of the Road" Drivers Refresher course- second session, 10 a.m. to noon-council chambers- McHenry City hall. Films and discussion on Traditional and Non- traditional Sex Roles (male and female)-7:30 p.m.-- McHenry County college student lounge-Crystal Lake. FEBRUARY 1 Voter registration-- McHenry State bank-10 a.m. to 2 p.m.-Sponsors, Woodstock & McHenry League of Women Voters. FEBRUARY 2 HPTO Fun Fair-1 to 4 p.m.-Hilltop Elementary school. FEBRUARY 4 McHenry Senior Citizens Executive meeting~10 a.m., McHenry Public library. U.M.W. Mission Team- Executive committee meeting-First United Methodist church-9 a.m., church parlor. FEBRUARY 5 Chapter night meeting, W.O.T.M.-Moose lodge, 8 p.m.' Ruth Circle of the First United Mehtodist church- meeting at noon in the church-hostesses, Lila Jordan $and Charlene Tonyan. McHenry Pigtail league- meeting 7 to 10 p.m.-plan 1980 season-City hall Council Chambers. Marcia Mary Ball Circle meeting, noon-First United Methodist church-Hostess, Cleda McCracken. » t McHenry Lodge 158 AF&AM-Stated meeting, 8 p.m.-Masonic Temple. FEBRUARY 6 McHenry Grandmothers club-luncheon meeting-1 p.m. at Windhill-call C. Jansen for reservations. FEBRUARY 7 Veterans of World War I- McHenry Barracks 1315- Meeting at McHenry Post 491-American Legion home- -Ringwood road, 2 p.m. McHenry Senior Citizens club~"Rules of the Road" Drivers Refresher course- third and final session, 10 a.m. to noon-council chambers-McHenry City hall. FEBRUARY 9 Friendship club potluck dinner and meeting-5:30 p.m.-First United Methodist church. FEBRUARY 11 Marriage Encounter- Community night, 7:45 p.m- -Jim & Rita Thenness-4406 Lake wood road. McHenry Senior Citizens meeting-7:30 p.m.-West campus cafeteria. Whispering Oaks Woman' s club-Board meeting-9:30 a.m. FEBRUARY 12 Whispering Oaks Garden The Lakeland Park Women's club began the 1980 season with a potluck dinner at 6:30 p.m. at the Com munity house, followed by a very busy meeting planning the activities and projects for the year head. The meeting was called to order by President Shirley Koch and the members united in the Pledge of Allegiance 4o our flag. The annual Spring Lun cheon and Card Party was discussed in detail,„as this is the major fund-raising source for the club. The event is scheduled for Wednesday, April 23, at St. Patrick's Church hall, 3500 W. Washington street, and serving will begin at 11:30 a.m. Committees were formed, and tickets will probably be available at the February meeting. Plans are also to be made for a pancake breakfast in the near future and possibly several similar breakfasts will be held during the year. The members expressed much enthusiasm and hope tp-jnake the activities very successful, as the project and goal for this year is to modernize and improve the Community House kitchen, which will be a big job, and quite expensive. Members were reminded that all dues were due and payable as of Jan. 1. It was announced that the annual general meeting of the Lakeland Park Property Owners association will be Sunday, Mar. 23 at 2 p.m. at the Community house. This is an important meeting and all L.P.P.O.A. members are urged to ahend. Also the L.P.P.O.A. i an nual dinner dance wilt be Saturday, Mar. l, at the American Legion hall. It will be a family style dinner, and tickets will be available from L.P.P.O.A. Board members. The meeting was busy and interesting and the ladies are looking forward to a very active year. x Marie Cross and Mary Schaan will serve as hostesses at the club meeting Thursday, Feb. 14 at 7:^M) p.m. at the Com munity House. All ladies in Lakeland Park and Lakeland Shores are invited and urged to attend and enjoy an evening of good fellowship. Local Church Women Group Join Others For Luncheon On Friday, Feb. 1, Church Women United will meet at the Bethany Lutheran church in Crystal Lake at noon and each participating church will provide part of a potluck meal. The First United Methodist church, McHenry, has been assigned to bring bar cookies; and members should arrive at the church with them by 11:45 a.m. The United Methodist Women's general meeting Thursday, Jan. 17 began with a potluck luncheon and the U.M.W. Mission Team Executive Committee were the hostesses. After the delicious lun cheon, the meeting was called to order by President Marilyn Haines. Bea Nuziard's meditations included "New Year Meditations" and "Rear View Mirror of Memories". They were very appropriate and interesting. A report was made regarding work being done in the kitchen as U.M.W. previously had agreed to* contribute to the cost of the cabinets, counter tops and so forth. Patricia Esposito con ducted the pledge service with Vivian Bassett, Norma Pieplow, Marlene Strohman and Marilyn Haines reading scripture passages. At the conclusion of the meeting and program, the ladies toured the new ad dition with Reverend Smith as a guide. The next U.M.W. general meeting will be Thursday, Feb. 21 at noon when the Priscilla Circle will hostess the pot-luck luncheon. Plan Easter Seal Dance Dancers throughout McHenry County will have, an opportunity to "Take that Extra Step for Easter Seals" and possibly win one of eleven top prizes at the upcoming Easter Seal- WXRD Dance-a-thon to be held at Woodstock high school in the commons area Feb. 9 and 10. All dancers must have a minimum of $3 per hour in pledges in order to register. However, the more money a dancer has in pledges, the greater that person's chances are for winning a top prize. In addition to the top eleven prizes, all par ticipants will be eligible to compete for hourly prizes. In the event that the dance marathon raises $15,000 or more, the top money-raiser will also win an all-expense paid trip to LosAngeles to , appear on the 1980 Easter Seal Telethon with an array of Hollywood stars. At last year's Dance-a- thon, dancers raised $32,094 in actual collections and was the second most successful of all Easter Seal Dance-a- thons, outdistanced only by huge LosAngeles which netted $35,000. Sue Malenius of McHenry, led the nation in pledges last year with $3,740 collected. club-board meeting, 1 p.m'.- Community center. McHenry Chapter 547 O.E.S.-Stated meeting and Valentine night-8 p.m.-- Masonic Temple. Koinonia Group, 10 a.m.~ First United Methodist church parlor--weekly group. FEBRUARY 13 St. Patrick's Ladies Guild- annual Valentine salad luncheon and card party- serving, 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m - -St. Patrick's church hall- tickets at door. Fox Ridge Women's club- regular meeting-Shepherd of the Hills church-special travelogue by Cornelia Roberts. FEBRUARY 14 McHenry Woman's club- regular meeting, noon- Shepherd of the Hills Lutheran church-business meeting, 1 p.m. Priscilla Circle-First United Methodist church- 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.-church parlor. Lakeland Park Women's club meeting--7:30 p.m., Lakeland Park Community house-1717 N. Sunset avenue-hostesses, Marie Cross and Mary Schaan. ° FEBRUARY 16 Fox Ridge Women's club - bausch&lomb SOFLENS' • CRT HA TM«N SOFT CONTACT LENSES Other Services Also Available: *Eyes examined 'Fashion frames Fun AKU TIKI COcsUfn couples Valentine potluck dinner-home of Mrs. Judy Klebs-5001 Abbington. FEBRUARY 17 Zion Lutheran church- family style roast beef dinner-serving 12 to 3 p.m.~ tickets at church office. FEBRUARY 18 T.HE.OS.-catered dinner and meeting, 5:30 p.m.-First United Methodist church-3717 W. Main street. FEBRUARY 19 W.O.T.M. business meeting-Moose lodge-8 p.m. Whispering Oaks Garden club-meeting, 1 p.m.- Community center. McHenry Lodge 158 AF.&AM-Stated meeting, 8 p.m -Masonic Temple. FEBRUARY 20 Whispering Oaks Woman's club-meeting, 1 p.m. McHenry Senior Citizens l u n c h e o n - t h e a t e r t r i p - Marriott -Lincolnshire-bus leaves McHenry State bank at 10:45 a.m. FEBRUARY 21 United Methodist Women- potluck luncheon and meeting. noon-First United Methodist church-Priscilla Circle hostesses. FEBRUARY 25 McHenry Senior Citizens meeting-7:30 p.m.-West campus cafeteria. FEBRUARY 26 McHenry Chapter 547 O.E.S.--'Stated meeting, 8 p.m -Masonic Temple. MARCH 2 W. O. T. M.-rChapter day. Rally JOHN RUDOLPH AND BONITA LYNNE ANNOUNCE ENGAGEMENT - Mr. and Mrs. Robert C. Bourke, of Island Lake. IU.. announce the engagement of their daughter, Bonita Lynne, to John Rudolph, son of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Rudolph, of McHenry. Both are 1977 graduates of McHenry high school. An October, 1980 wedding is planned. There's An Answer (bv INormun Vincent Peale and Rutli Stafford I Vale) MARCH 3 McHenry Senior RIZENS Executive meeting-10 a.m.~ McHenry Public' Library. MARCH 4 W.O.T.M. chapter night meeting-Moose lodge, 8 p.m. MARCH 5 P r a y e r b r e a k f a s t - Whispering Oaks Woman's club-9:30 a.m. MARCH 6 Veterans of World War I- McHenry Barracks 1315 - meeting at McHenry Post 491-American Legion home- -Ringwood road, 2 p.m. MARCH 10 McHenry Senior Citizens meeting-7:30 p.m.-West campus cafeteria. MARCH 11 Whispering Oaks Garden club-Board meeting, l p.m.- -Community Center. Wants a change Q. I am 57 years of age and have a severe anxiety. I shake and tremble and at times perspire terribly. It's very embarrassing for me. Sometimes I feel unbalanced in watting and stagger like an alcoholic. My iamily doctor had me on all types of drugs and finally advised that I be admitted* to the mental health unit of the hospital. I refused to do this. I know God can help me and that my condition is all in my ways of thinking. I need help with obtaining a positive method of thinking to control my body. A. You must find the reason for your acute nervous condition. A sense of guilt, rejection in childhood, an inferiority complex, to name just a few, can cause severe anxiety. You need professional help to understand and deal with these feelings. And I would certainly not depend on medication. Along with professional counseling, you can help yourself by changing your thinking. Ask God for His forgiveness, then believe He has granted this, and finally, forgive yourself. Also ask for Divine help in taking firm charge of your undisciplined emotions. As a sovereign individual, authoritatively command them, in God's name, to obey your rational control. The shaking, trembling, perspiring and staggering may be caused partly by drugs, but also can be the result of your out-of-control emotions. We are sending you our booklet, Overcoming Anxiety and Fear, which has been helpful to others. It is free to anyone who writes to us at Box 500, Pawling, N.Y., 12564. Disgusting and filthy Q. I would like to know what to do when you find your husband has quite a collection of pornographic magazines and films. I have tried to talk to him about it but he brushes me off and has even lied about it. These magazines are plain disgusting and fifthy. A. We certainly agree with your estimate of such magazines. Perhaps your husband has insistent physical desires that are not being met. It could be that you will need to reexamine your own responses. In addition you might try together to get interested, even absorbingly so, in sports, cultural matters, community or church activities. Work at being close, emotionally and physically. Don't ride your husband about his collection, and perhaps in time real life will be more enjoyable than his fantasies. Will God forgive? Q. I was taught that God will always forgive one who repents. However, recently I have heard that God will not forgive the sin of blasphemy against the Holy Spirit Does this mean if someone, in a moment of anger, blasphemes and later repents, he cannot be forgiven? This bothers me very much.* A. You probably refer to the Bible verse which says, "But f he that shall blaspheme against the Holy Ghost hath never forgiveness, but is in danger of eternal damnation." I would not take this to mean a statement made quickly in anger but, rather, a basic attitude which never changes. If there is no desire to be forgiven, then of course there can be no forgiveness. But God's love is constant, and He is always ready to forgive. If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale. write to them at Box 500. Pawling, NY., 12564. SCOPE Schedules Childbirth Classes A FRIEND INDEED A Head Start spokesman said this week that the organization of Fisfi had supplied 46 families^yjth needed items during the holiday season. In addition to clothing. Fish representatives tried to learn what toys younger children had asked for and in many cases were able t6 furnish them. 1 SCOPE - Successful Childbirth and Organized Parent Education will be offering several childbirth related classes. The early pregnancy class, taught by an R.N. and a dietician, will be offered through McHenry County college at a nominal cost per person. This class will instruct the woman about diet, exer cises, x rays, alcohol, smoking and emotions to help her have a happ. and healthy pregnancy. The sessions will be held the last Tuesday of each month. Call McHenry County college to register. ^ SCOPE 'childbirth Sale Priced Lenses Only 89 50 SAVE 10-50% ON ALL FRAMES Ad Must Be Presented At Time Of Purchase 'Prescription filled SAVE 20% ON LENSFCS OFFER GOOD ONLY WITH COMPLETE PURCHASE OF LENSES t FRAMES OFFER EXPIRES FEBRUARY 29 < I ommons vision ( cins Across the Street from Hornsby s Shoretront on Gult ol Mexico ' Enjoy tun-filled days, magical nights on beautiful Lido Beach, one of the world's finest. Don't miss Sarasota's other attractions. Circus Hall of Fame,' Ringling Museum, Jungle Garden--fishing, sailing, water-skiing. Relax in comfort. . bask in'the sun, swim in the pool and Gulf, sip cocktails at the musical beach bar, lunch on the patio. Polynesian, American cuis.ne Golf, tennis nearby. All new rooms with Gulf views, effic., suites Color TV, air conditioning. 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For Lamaze classes call Mrs. Gary (Nancy) Willard, Crystal Lake. , Lamaze classes are available on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday evenings and Saturday mornings for a fee. Classes meet once a week for two hours, over a period of six weeks. SCOPE is a parenting group which offers classes and services designed to enhance the parenting ex perience. Other services available include Cesarean Support, New Mortimer's discussion group, Mother's of Tots discussion group, Playgroup for preschoolers, a bimonthly newsletter and quarterly meetings with a featured speaker on parenting subjects. For more information, call Mrs. Gary Willard or Mrs. LeRoy (Bernie) Hiller, McHenry. torry E lund-Publisher Adele Froehlich Editor 12J. CHANGE rr 4305 W. Elm Street (Rto. 120) (915)344-3900 Our Other Location ROUND LAKE BEACH Rollins Rd., Round Lake Eooch, HI. (31XOU WM Write or call now. 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