PAGE 2 - PLAINDEALER • WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 25.1961 tLi y Offer Baby Care Class Prepare For Fashion Show SHERYL ANN WEBER AUGUST WEDDING - Mr. and Mrs. Anton F. Weber. 1218 OM Bay road, McHenry, announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter Sheryl Ann, to Art W. Meyer, Jr. of 37983 N. Academy drive, Lake Villa. The bride elect is a 1978 graduate of McHenry Community high school. The prospective bridegroom, the son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur W. Meyer, Sr. of Antioch, is a graduate of Antioch high school and attended the University of Tampa. Fla. The wedding will take place at St. John the Baptist Catholic church, Johnsburg, Aug. 1. There's An Answer (by Norman Vincent Peale and Ruth Stafford Peale) Wants Him to Hurt Q. I had both arms and hands in a cast from a swimming accident when I found out mv husband was having an affair. I would still be in the dark if he hadn't had a car wreck late at night with his lady friend. I'm so bitter and vengeful. I have attacked my husband on five different occasions. I want to claw his eyes out. I want him to hurt like I do. For two months I stayed locked in the house with the lights off and curtains pulled. I cried day and night. My 8-year-old son helped me; he's great. I probably would have killed myself. I just know I can never forgive or forget. A. You will never get anywhere being bitter or vengeful, and locking yourself up in the house can lead to mental imbalance. Moreover, you are doing your young son a great injustice to enlist his help and sympathy If you really want to be nappy misery and become a joyful, loving person. Hard experiences is help a you really want to be nappy you will have to give up your iery and b«ome a joyful, loving person. Hard experiences can either make or break us. It is up to you whether > ou want to be miserable and embittered or, a far better choice, become the mature, attractive woman God made you to be. We are sending you our booklet Thought Conditioners which has helped others overcome bad thoughts. Anyone wishing a free copy may write to us at box 500, Pawling, N Y. 12564. Is Witchcraft Wrong? Q. I have a book about witchcraft. Before I read and use this book containing spells I would like to know that it would be alright with our Lord. I am a believer in Jesus Christ. How would He feel about witchcraft? A. If you can read about witchcraft in a scholarly fashion st as you would read of any strange phenomenon it won't ; you as a Christian believer. But be careful not to fall for it. As a Christian you are in Truth, and true followers of Jesus Christ are always mentally sound, never dabblers in strange doctrines. Nor do they need "spells" for they have God's power within them. Bad Example Q. We lost our lovely 28-vear-old daughter about a year ago, very-suddenly. She was the mother of two sweet little girls. Her husband promised to care for them, but to this day, almost a year later, they have not been in Sunday school or church except the weekends they visit us. He also has a "live in" arrangement with a divorcee. We love our granddaughters so much and feel this situation is such a bad example. We have tried reasoning with the father. What steps can we take? If we keep quiet and stay out completely, giving it all to God, are we failing? A. You are facing a tricky situation. If you push too hard your son-in-law will back away completely and you'll lo6e whatever influence you now have. If you retreat altogether the little girls will miss out on loving guidance from their grandparents. If you can strike a middle point where you still have influence on your grandchildren and a rapport with their father you have the chance to instill your Christian values into their family life. Do this and then commit the whole situation to God in prayer. If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale, write to them at Box 500, Pawling, N.Y. 12564. • ^ . . . * • Community • Calendar ' t i i i i m i n t i m n FEBRUARY 25 Dobson films, 7 p.m.- Faith Presbyterian church- public invited. Pistakee Highlands Wpman's club-monthly meeting, 7 p.m.-Community center-program, Lake County Chapter Barbershop Quartet. FEBRUARY 26 Valley View Neighborhood Girl Scouts-Neighborhood meeting, 9:30 a.m.-St. Patrick's church hall. FEBRUARY 28 Newcomers club "Mardi Gras" party, 8 p.m.-- Barbara Hajek, reservations and information. M.C.H.S. Warrior Booster club-4th annual Alumni Basketball game-Chicago Honey Bear cheerleaders play volleyball-West campus gym, 6 p.m. Mardi Gras Dinner Dance- -Legion clubhouse, Ringwood road-Dinner, 7 p.m.-sponsors, Lakeland Park Property Owners association. Fun Fair-Montini Middle school-11 a.m. to 4 p.m. MARCH 2 McHenry Senior Citizens- Board meeting, 10 a.m - McHenry Public library. St. Patrick's Ladies guild- meeting, 1 p.m.-church hall. U.M.W. Mission Team (Executive committee)-- 9:30 a.m.-First United Methodist church parlor. MARCH 3 Koinonia study group-10 a.m. to noon-First United Methodist church parlor. Marcia Mary Ball circle- noon-First United Methodist church--Lonah Wendlandt, hostess. Ruth Circle-First United Methodist church-meeting, noon-hostess, Sylvia Nelson. MARCH 4 McHenry Grandmothers club-luncheon, 11:30 a.m.- Andre's Steak House- meeting, l p.m.-Shepherd of the Hills Lutheran church, McHenry < MARCH 5 McHenry Senior Citizens club-Drivers Refresher course-first session, 9:30 a.m. to noon-council chambers, McHenrx City hall. McHenry Woman's club- benefit Card Party-Dessert Luncheon-noon-St Patrick's church hall. McHenry Area Separated and Divorced Catholic group-meeting, 7:45 p.m.- Oak room, Montini Middle School. MARCH 9 McHenry Senior Citizens- meeting, 7 p.m.-first time in new location-East campus cafeteria. McHenry Amercian Legion Post 491-meeting, 8 p.m.-Legion hall--the Legion needs Vets-Vets need the Legion. Whispering Oaks Woman's club-Board meeting, 9:30 a.m. MARCH 10 Whispering Oaks Garden club-Board meeting, 1 p.m. McHENRY OPTICIANS Artistry at Work. The Childbirth and Parenting association of McHenry county will offer a "Baby Care" clask Tuesday, Mar. 3, at 7:30 p.m. The class is for expectant parents and the parents of newborn babies and will demonstrate newborn care such as bathing, feeding, diapering, temperature taking and the appearance and behavior of a normal newborn. The Crystal Lake Jaycee auxiliary will also have a demonstration on child Hadassah Taste--Tell The Elgin area Hadassah members are preparing a "Taste & Tell" luncheon to be served Wednesday, Mar. 4, from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m., at the Hemmens auditorium, Elgin. Tickets are available at the door or in advance through Hadassah members. Proceeds from the luncheon will be used to support Hadassah hospitals in Israel. The main course will again include homemade blintzes, among other dishes, and will safety. Hte public Is* invited to attend and there will be a nominal charge for ad mission and handouts. For details, contact Mrs. Thos. L. (Mary Jo) Farrell, East lane, McHenry. The sponsoring group is an organization that offers opportunities to make childbirth and parenting a shared and enriched ex perience. More information may be obtained by calling Mrs. David A. (Colleen) Zeiger of Wonder Lake. Sponsors Luncheon feature "Hamantashen", a cookie traditionally served atPurim (the March holiday which celebrates the victory of Mordecai and Esther over the wicked Haman). In the U. S., Hadassah's work centers mostly on educations - American Affairs, Israeli information and publication of a substantive monthly magazine. In Elgin, the chapter sponsors monthly programs on educational subjects. Schedule Mardi Gras Dinner Dance Feb. 28 All preparataions are completed for the Mardi Gras dinner dance to be held at the American Legion clubhouse, Ringwood road, Saturday, Feb. 28. Dinner will be served "Lakeland Park style". The hall will open at 6 p.m., and serving of a buffet dinner will start at 7 o'clock. Dancing is scheduled for 8 p.m. For reservations, call the ticket chairperson, Cheryl Winkel, or contact Pat Buhrman, 385-3701, or Lois Kasper, 385-3456. The public is invited to enjoy the evening with members of the sponsor Lakeland Park Property Owners club. MARCH 11 Christian Mothers, St. Peter's church, Spring Grove-annual St. Patrick's lunch and cards-church hall-serving, 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.-tickets at door. MARCH 12 McHenry Senior Citizens club-Drivers Refresher course-second session, 10 a.m. to noon-council chambers, McHenry City hall. McHenry Woman's club- meeting, noon-Shepherd of the Hills Lutheran church- Conservation program. Priscilla circle-9:30 to 11:30 a.m.-First United Methodist church parlor- babysitter provided. Lakeland Park Women's club-meeting, 7:30 p.m - Lakeland Park Community House-1717 N. Sunset avenue. MARCH 14 Friendship club-potluck dinner and meeting, 5:30 p.m.-Fellowship hall, First United Methodist church- program, Geda and Leonard McCracken. MARCH 15 St. Patrick's parish- Corned Beef and Cabbage dinner-1 to 4 pm.-family style-church hall. MARCH 16 THE OS-dinner, 5:30 p.m- -Busy Bee restaurant-4621 W. Elm street (route 120)- then to First United Methodist church for fun and fellowship. MARCH 17 Whispering Oaks Garden club-meeting, 1 p.m.-- Gardens by Flowerwood. MARCH 18 * Whispering Oaks Woman's club~"Eggostics by Geri"- egg artist-1 p.m. MARCH 19 McHenry Senior Citizens club-Drivers Refresher course-third session, 10 a.m. to noon-council chambers, McHenry city hall. United Methodist Women- General meeting, 7:30 p.m.- First United Methodist church-Hostesses, Evening circle. McHenry area Separated and Divorced Catholic group-meeting, 7:45 p.m.- Oak room, Montini Middle school. MARCH 20 St. Margaret Chapter of NAIM-meeting, 7:30 p.m.- Oak room-Montini Middle school. MARCH 23 McHenry Senior Citizens- meeting, 7 p.m.-East campus cafeteria. MARCH 28 St. Margaret Chapter of NAIM-Cards, 7:30 p.m.- Oak room-Montini Middle school. Guest Speaks To Moms About Assertiveness Michele Weiner-Davis MSW will speak on "Assertiveness Training for Moms" at the Ambutal in Crystal Lake, Friday, Mar. 6, at 7:30 p.m. The program is intended to help those feeling the need to be an assertive woman and mother achieve their goal. Ms. Weiner-Davis, a young mother, is currently working with the Youth Services bureau and the Counseling center of Crystal Lake. The class will be limited to 30, therefore, reservations must be made by Feb. 28, with Irene Ravin, 385-6912. no rims, clamps, or screws lens assembly held lens assembly by a tough nylon independent of thread I bridge & temples LOGO'S SJLff MM* SIMILAR FRAMES $45 an array of fashion-inspired shadPS NYLORm RIMLESS FRAMES McHENRY OPTICIRNS 1301 RIVERSIDE DR McHENRY IL . (Across f rom Fox HOIP) 385-9240 kets are available with proceeds earmarked to help patterns at can be made by writing La Fashion Affaire, P. O. Box S9. McHenry. Fashion show committee members from left, front, are Mary Lou Vomastek; Carol Smith, co-chairman; Kathy Lundquist, chairman; and Melinda Gallant Back row from left, are Joan Tekhmiller; Carol Barnicle; Janet Skopec and Jill OlssewskL Mlsslng from the picture are Annie Cnda and Janet Conway. Hold Miss McHenry County- Pageant At County Fair The McHenry County Fair will once again feature the Miss McHenry County pageant as its opening night attraction of the fair. The fair will run from Wednesday, Aug. 5 through Sunday, Aug. 9, at tne Woodstock fairgrounds. "We • have started contacting last year's sponsoring communities to invite their participation again in 1981," Don Peasley, coordinator for this annual event, reported Deadline for entry intention for this 1981 Miss McHenry County contest has been set for Apr. 1,1981. "At this time we nope to have a definite count on which communities plan on having their own contests or selecting their contestants for the county contest," he said. Details on rules and entry forms will be sent in early May to those organizations indicating their desire to participate. The rules, features, deadlines and procedures essentially are the same as in years past. The first Miss McHenry County in 1949 was Marilyn Thomsen, Woodstock. The reigning Miss McHenry County represents Cary - Jane Titus In between, virtually every county community has been represented in this roll call of the most beautiful, most I personable young women in I McHenry county McHenry Girl Vies For Miss Illinois - (7SA Title LORI KUCZWARA Nineteen-year-old Lori Ann Kuczwara, daughter of Violet Kuczwara, 1616 River Terrace drive, McHenry, was selected as a semi- finalist and will be among those vying for the 1981 Miss Dlinois-U.S.A. title and over $15,000 in prizes and awards. 4 The Miss Illinois pageant will be televised live Mar. 7, from Hemmens auditorium in Elgin, 111., on WGN television, from 7 to 8:30 p.m. Tickets are available for both the preliminary swimsuit and evening gown competition Mar. 5 and the televised finals Mar. 7. They can be ordered in advance by phoning Pageant Productions company at 312- 896-9838, or the Elgin Chamber of Commerce at 312-741-5660. The winner will fly to Biloxi, Miss, for an opportunity to compete for tne U.S.A. title and over 8100,000 in prizes and awards. Feature Speaker For DCCW Presidents Dinner Mary Meismer, of Metamora, will be featured speaker at the presidents' recognition dinner scheduled by the Rockford Diocesan Catholic Council of Women for 4 p.m. Sunday, March 8, at the Fargo Coach room, Sycamore. Women from 105 parishes in northern Illinois will be honored by Bishop Arthur J. O'Neill at the "We Honor You" event. Mrs. Meismer has been a leader on all levels of National Council of Catholic Women works, from parish to national, where at present she serves as National Organizational Services commission chairman. During her career she has edited many newsletters, staged workshops and conferences, and is an ac complished public speaker. In addition to her role in the National Council of Catholic Women and the advisory council of the National Council of Catholic- Bishops, Mrs. Meismer has served her church diocese on the Conciliation and Ar bitration council, the Church Law committee of the Priests' senate and the Pastoral council. She is presently chairman of the Ecumenical Commission and is a member of the Illinois Conference of Churches. Reservations can be made with M. Plesa, 317 E. Lincoln highway, DeKalb, 60115. t RECIPE By Surah Aaae ShorMaa The eggplant is a vege table whose flavor is en hanced and often more de sirable when combined with a variety of ingredients. The versatility, therefore, makes it a queen among cooks who enjoy turning out delicious casseroles. This recipe while simple, is one designed for those who like the subtle taste of the eggplant. Eggplant Casserole 1 large eggplant, pared and cut into pieces 1 medium onion, quar tered 3 T butter 1 slice of white bread V» c grated sharp cheese 1 egg, separated salt and pepper Boil the eggplant and onion until tender. Drain well and chop finely. Add butter, crumbled bread, half of cheese, egg yolk, and sea soning to taste. Mix well. Beat egg white until stiff and fold into first mixture. Pour into a buttered, shallow dish and sprinkle remaining cheese on top. Bake for Vi hour at 300 degrees. AM SEW TAILOR AND SEAMSTRESS SHOP (FORMERLY L. PEDECONE, TAILOR) 2823 W. LINCOLN RD. _ McHENRY COMPLETE MEN A WOMEN ALTERATIONS AND REPAIRS PLUS BUTTONHOLES A CUSTOM EMBROIDERING CUSTOM DRESS MAKING IN CLUDING BRIDAL A BRIDESMAID DRUSES URSULA STETZ (SIS) 3*5-2211 l̂ TjyPORARV HOURS 9:00AM-2:30PM MON.-J i($3 OFF WITH THIS AD ON NAt £K>JgORK OF $B OR MORE)̂ ' Women Aglow Host Luncheon W o m e n ' s A g l o w Fellowship of Crystal Lake- McHenry will host its monthly luncheon Thursday, Mar. 5, at 10:30 a.m., at the John Evans Inn, Crystal Lake. The featured speaker will be Gay Brown of Zion, 111. Ms. Brown came to Christ at the age of 17, through the healing of her invalid father. Five years later, she became the first pastor of the church known as Full Gospel Mission, now known as Trinity Assembly of God, in Zion, 111. Ms. Brown later resigned to become involved* in evangelistic work and is now a teacher in a bible school In Zion. Reservations may be made by calling Mrs. Dale D. (Lois) Koss, Crestwood. McHenry. 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