in si de ha lto n. co m O ak vi lle B ea ve r | T hu rs da y, N ov em be r 4, 20 21 | 28 TOCCALINO, David John Angelo ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ It is with profound sadness, and much love, that the family of the man, the myth, the legend, the sculptor, the smartest man in the room, the confidant, the supporter of the underdog, the humanitarian, the patriarch, the advisor, the charmer, the eccentric, the greatest husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend the world has ever known, has passed away peacefully following a long and courageous battle with pulmonary fibrosis. David John Angelo Toccalino (also known as Tyzo or Tic among his peers) was born in Oakville in 1950, and spent many of his formative years beach-combing the shores of Lake Ontario. It was there that he discovered a lifelong passion of turning discarded items into beautiful works of sculptural art. He was an elected member of the Scul- pture Society of Canada and has had his work displayed in numerous exhibitions and private collections. A consummate artist who loved to create, Dave left a lasting impression on every- one he encountered. Of all his creations, he was most proud of his children. His family meant more than anything in the world to him, something he proudly mentioned often. Anyone who knew Dave was touched by his kindness, gene -rosity and distinctly unique personality. He was truly a peacemaker and always a source of positivity. He will be deeply missed. Following through with Dave's motto, "Be excellent to each other", the family asks that in lieu of flowers or donations, please consider engaging in unexpected and unsolicited acts of kindness. A celebration of life will be held at a later date. www.grahamgiddyfh.com HELDMAN, Barbara Ann ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ We were spoiled to have her as long as we did. Our mom, Barbara Ann Heldman (née Darlington) passed away Oct- ober 28, 2021. She may have shared the Queen's birthday on May 24, but will forever be the only Queen in our hearts. Born in Toronto 90 years ago the youngest of seven children to Eva and Fred Darlington. The baby of the family protected and loved dearly by her older siblings, Jack, Edwin, Doug, Bill, Ruth (Phillips) and Miriam (Wynn). Her father moved her to the 'summer vacation' town of Bronte, Ontario in the mid 1940's after the passing of her mother. Barbara attended Oakville Trafalgar High School where she met the love of her life Herbert Heldman. They raised four children, Robert, Douglas, David (Stacie)and Carolyn (Eldon) in Oakville. Barb worked as a telephone oper- ator for Bell Canada before her marriage. She eventually worked for Ford Canada and retired as a switch board operator at Becton Dickinson in Mississauga. Barb loved to try new crafts and was always eager to learn. Ceramics, quilting, knitting, even sewing outfits for picture day or Halloween costumes. Our home smelled like a bakery on Sunday afternoons after she baked bread for the week. She loved to swim laps in the pool before work and was happiest sitting by the water reading a book or watching the sail boats race out of Bronte harbour. She and Herb travelled the world during their retirement and packed in as much adventure as they could. From Egypt to Peru to Germany, Switzerland and Africa. Her love of life, travel and family bubbled out of her. She loved her kids unconditionally and doted over grandchildren (Derek, Connor, Emilie, Abby, Cameron, Sophie, Jason and Sarah). We will miss your laugh, your giggle and your ability to be a sweet but fierce mama bear protecting her cubs at any opportunity. We never wanted to say goodbye but knowing you are at peace brings comfort to us all. Thank you to the amazing, ded -icated, compassionate staff at Creekway Long Term Care in Burlington. You were her caregivers, friends and family when we couldn't be at her side. Our words cannot express the gratitude our family feels for all of you. Condolences, memories and photos may be left at www.circleoflifecbc.com QUINTON KUSCHEI, Gail ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ Passed away at her home in Oakville, October 30, 2021. Mom was predeceased by her beloved Arnold, wife of 24 years, and sister Bonnie. She is survived by sons Ken (Pascale), Mike (Addie) and Steve (Kim) and grandchildren Brianne, Nicolas, Joey, Trinity and Daniel. Gail is also sur- vived by her brothers Gary (Judy) and Richard (Betty). Gail was born in Winnipeg, MB on August 9, 1939, to Arnold and Norah Quinton. When people heard of mom's passing the words heard most often were kind, thoughtful, loving, caring and generous, with many mentioning her good sense of humour. To her family she was the one who was always there for you. After losing her husband 30 years ago, mom became somewhat of a super- hero. Whether it was a last- minute request to babysit an ailing grandchild or to drive them to an event, Grandma Gail was there. When she wasn't helping family, she could be found supporting her church, taking friends to appointments, or when time permitted, enjoy the company of her friends, whether it was to go for a walk, go out for lunch or just spend time in their company. Mom touched many lives for the better, and while her presence will be missed, the memories and love she's left behind will live on in all of us. In lieu of flowers, please donate to either the Good Shepherd Centre, Canadian Wildlife Federation or Easter Seals. A visitation was held at the Glen Oaks Funeral Home on Wed- nesday, November 3, 2021. A Memorial Service will be held for registered guests only at the Glen Oaks Funeral Home, 3164 Ninth Line, Oakville, 905 257 8822, on Thursday, Nov- ember 4, 2021, beginning at 12:30 p.m. To register for the Memorial Service, please visit www.glenoaks.ca. 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Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep, I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glint on snow, I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush, of quiet birds in circled flight, I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die. Your memory is as dear today, as in the hour you passed away. OBITUARIES