A n Attractive Youngster Hi! My name is Amy Nicole Donoghue.and 1 arn oneë-year old today, May 3, 1978. My Dad and Mom are Ron and Marilyn. My big sister Angie will help me celebrate my birthday along with my friends! My grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Alvin Metcalf ana Mr. and Mrs. Albert Donoghue. My great grandfathers are Mr. Norman Metcalf and Mr. Terry Donoghue. Mr. and Mrs. Ray Maki of Thunder Bay were overnight guests last week with Mr. and Mrs. Wilfred Paeden. Last Wednesday evening, Mr'. and Mrs. Wallace Boughen, Mrs. Bea Jones and Mrs. Mary Jones were among those attending the musical entertainment, in Orono United Church, by the "Orian Singers" . Recent visitors with Mr. and Mrs. Ken Fletcher, included Mr. and Mrs. Walter Wooliey of Bowmanville. Mr. and Mrs. Howard Smith and Stevie, and Mr. Don Fletcher, ail of Oshawa. Mr. and Mrs. Frank Gilmner were Wednesday afternoon visitors with Mr. and Mrs. Clinton Brown, Newcastle. There were eight tables in play, at the Card Party, in Community Hall, Friday evening, with the following winners: High lady- Lena Clysdale, High man- Robin Alldread, 50-50 draw May Burley. Ladies' Draw - Mary Thompson, Gladys Brown, Men's Draw - Jim Adams, Bill Morley. Mrs. Irene Burley of Bowmanviile was a.weekend visitor with Mrs. Lena Clysdale. Mr. and Mrs. Phil- Gilmer, Kim and Ken, were Friday evening visitors with Mr. and Mrs. F. Gilmer. Mr. and Mrs. C.M. Jones accompanied by Mrs. Mary Vinkie and Mrs. Bea Jones, attended the Zone A. Gideon Rally at the "Glad Tidings Tabernacle" in Cobourg on Saturday. The day's activities included musical entertain- ment by the Youth Choir, fromn Peterborough in the morning, the Preshyterian Maie Choir, from Toronto, in theevening and excellent speakers, during the session. Altogether, a very inspiring day and evening was enjoyed by the approximate three hundred present. Shirley and Glen Stapieton were the greeters at our church door, Sunday morning, when the theme of Rev. Tizzard's sermon was "A Great Day Coming." The choir sang "Trust and Obey" and prior to the sermon, a presentation was made to Frank Stapleton, by Rev. Tizzard. This was on behaif of "lOutstaniding Young Men and Women of Canada". A Certificate of MenÎt which reads as follows, "This Certifies, that Frank Staple- ton has been selected as an outstanding young man of the year, 1978, in recognition of distinguished service, notable achievements, and demonstrated leadership." Frank expressed his thoughts for the honor, and the entire congregation, standing, clapped their hands in approval - proud that one of our Newtonville boys received this honor. Mr. and Mrs. Melville Samis of Port Hope with Mr. and Mrs. Jim Imlach, and Miss Dale lmlach, enjoyed Satu-- day evening with Mr. and M sýý. Melville Jones and the showing of pictures taken in England, when the Jones' visited there awhile ago. Miss Carol Henderson was home from Kingston, over Sunday, and Mr. George Henderson of Port Hope was a supper guest, Sunday with Mr. and Mrs. Fred Henderson and Carol. A bridai shower in honor of Miss Cornelia Ruegger was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Bob Kimbali,. Sunday afternoon. This was arranged by the "Kimbail girls" and included most of the neighbors and friends in the Port Granby area, about thirty-five attending. Mrs. Stella Elliott and Bud, from the Millbrook area, were supper guests with Mr. and Celebrates lst Birthday Hello! My name is Tracy Alberta Selleck and my parents are Bob and Nancy Selleck of Bowman- ville. I have a sister Tammy, aged 5, and my proud grandparents are Mrs. David Bothwell, of Bowmanville, and Mrs. Mona Selleck of Oshawa. Mrs. Jack Elliott after the two ladies had attended the 1 shower at Kimball's.1 Mr, and Mrs. Ron Burley of1 Newcastle, were Sunday 1 visitors with Mrs. Agnes1 Burley. Mr. and Mrs. Don Vinkie were dinner guests, Sunday, with Mr. and Mrs. Pat McDonald of Janetville. Mr. and Mrs. Wallace Merrili of Warkworth, were Monday visitors with Mrs. Bea Jones. Newtonville U.C.W. met in the Church Hall on Wednesda3 night, April 26, and President Carole Gardner welcomec everyone and opened with a reading, "Good Intentions". In the absence of Secretary Jean Kimbali, former Secretary Shirley Stapleton rend the minutes of the previous meeting, duiy adopted. Financial report was given, inciuding that of the Special accounit, and various notes of thanks were rend, from those who had been remembered by the Sunshine Committe, the sick, bereaved, etc. Estimates have been given on the carpeting needed for the stairs, and upper rooms, and a motion was passed, that we have the required amaount, installed by To-,s -f Newcastle. B ernriiceP Henderson agreed to take care of the ordering, etc. Our annual AVniversary service wiil be held May 28, with Mrs. Bob, Ann Dickson, the special speaker, andthe choir wlll consist of U.C.W. members. Practîses are suggested for Wednesday, May 17, and Wednesday, May 24. Ushers for the Anniversary were discussed and the names of four will be decided, after the first choir practice. Appreciation is to be expressed to Amelia and Sidney Lancaster for their splendid work in refinishing our tables, twenty in ail. A motion was passed to have iocks put on at least two of the double cupboards, so that sugar, serviettes and other supplies may be kept, securely. Wallace Boughen's advice is to be asked, regarding the installing of these locks. Unit Leader Mariene Stacey presented the Devotional, assisted by Carole Gardner, Helen Elliott, and Mary Vinkie and a duet, by the latter and Marlene was enjoyed, namely Fitness. lIn your heart you know it's rght. "Whisper A Prayer In The Morning." The offeringwas, taken up, after singing the hymn, "What A Friend We Have In Jesus. " The speaker, Mrs. Redpath, of Oshawa, President of The Bay of Qginte The Canadian Statesmnan, Bowmanviile, May 3, 1978 5 EÎduudcaýtiu-on wvithTerry Hawkins Ask any parent and they will quickly tell you that it costs a great amount to money to raise a family. They may flot be able to tell you how much it, costs but they know that it's plenty. There are, of course, ways of calculating the cost of raising a child. One figure that has been arrived at is $61,568 dollars to raise a child to eighteen. This includes ail the varlousexpenses incurred but does not include indirect costs like the cost of schoollng or lost wages, if mother has stayed home to raise the child instead of working. If one includes educational costs spent on behaif of the child, this amounts to 24,300 dollars to the end of secondary school. Add another 82,000 dollars for wages lost to the non working mother. Total cost of raising and educating a child to age eighteen with a secondary school education is in the area Conference, 'was then introduced. She gave us an interesting account of what her duties consist of and the various worthwhile funds which are supported by our organizations, urging us to choose Projects, named in the Project Book. Appreciation was expressed to her and ater the Benediction, lunch was served, by the, unit, to 'the sixteen members and one visitor present. Volunteers are needed to assist Mrs. Dora DeSmit, in a spring dlean-up at our church, Wednesday, May 3 at 9:30 a.m. and another day, later. of 168,000 dollars. Add another 12,000 dollars personal money and 12,000 dollars* tax money for a total of 24,000 dollars expense for a four year university education and the total cost approaches 200,000 dollars. This means that directly and indirectly a staggeringly large amount of money is spent in raising your children to adulthood and preparing them to enter the employment market. And this is only the fînancial side of the picture. There is really no way to calculate the enormous number of hours that parents are involved in being with their children,.thethought and effort spent on their behaif and the concern and love that is cons tantly present. In short, a huge amount of money, time, effort and love goes into raising a chiid to adulthood. If any young person ever thought about it fromn that point of view alone they would see why parents are so concerned and, interested in their welfare. After ail that effort no parent can stand by idly and watch their son or daughter drop out of school. No, parent can hide their dismay when their son or daughter does not make use of the opportunities available to them. It's because of this huge involvement that parents want to know what their kids are doing. That question mom or dad asks, "what did you do at school today? " is based on real interest. The standard student repiy of "nothîng" isn't much help. Lt is very hard for young people to appreciate the intense degree of interest and concern that parents have about them. We shouldn't hold that against them however; because we reacted the same way when we were their age. But if a young person ever doubts that parents are interested in their children he or she should have the opportunity to watch how very proud parents are when graduation or a similar event takes place. __ WELCOMES ALL CUSTOMERS LADIES' - MEN'S> TAILORING and ALTERATIONS CUSTOM-MADE CLOTHES ercn f f for Sr. C itiz ens -25 YEARS EXPERIENCE - Enter Mother Mod's Fabrics 34B King St. W. - Bowmanville SATURDAY, May -13o 4 p.m. - 10 p.em. 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