- -r---m- -jr- Mvrr2vflrr ~wflrmn il Y, i Help The Red Cross ANNIHIRST- problemt . . We've Fer six his, nmy tnpd has eing eut und coi- orne In- :d. H e I duo't .I can * /"H1e ls unemt- - e ployed a lot of the timte, though he's physieally able to work. I work every day and pay the expenses, saviug ont ony carfa-e and lunch money. When he's out of work, I get a blessing- eut every Saturday for payiîg what we owe that week and buying groceries-instead cf giving the money to him. (He has left the bouse with $50 and corne home without a cent.) "Lately, a woman has been cal- ing hlim at home. H1e makes au excuse and leaves the house. How Long? "Last week I told him I stilI Iovd hlim, and wanted him to str-aighten ont. But I couldn't rea- son with him at all. 'Now I'm at my wits' end. I can hardly do my work. Can you advise me? DISCOURAGED" * If yo are supposed to pay the * household bns, then be the man * cf the house, and act hike il * Arrange yonr affairs so you * pay cash for everything you buy. The Short Wrapon 1k * That will show you where your * money goes, and yneoucáplan * a bit ahead. * Wheu youi- husband is not * working, give him carfare and * lunch money, and nothing more. * If he wants te keep on drinking * and running ai-ound, he'll have te * earn the money himself. When * he has a position, he should at * least share the living expenses. * You canuot go on like this. * If le were good to you, and * rcally trying te make a livig, * yen would e glad te do your * part But now you are doiug his * tee - and submitting te neglect * aud insults that drain our spirit * and drown any hope of better * tomorrows. * It la hard te understand why * ye even likle hilm. Or do yo * still feel he i worth all the * anguish he causes y9u? * I'm afraid yu arie maiied t * a real rascal who la using ye * lke a cad. He las shon his truc * nature i revolting ways. _ That * must hui-t and humihiate ynU. * Wouldn't yen be better off with- * out him? * If yo stil hesitate, put him on * trial, and see whether le will sup- * port yen-or lose yen. Unmarried Mother Worries "Dear Aune Hi-at: Soei years ago I felu in love. The man told me he mariled his wife fer ber money, and never cared for her. I was too yong to realize what I was doing. I played aloIg with him. "Two years ago, I bore his ehild. (He has three ethers.) "He den't want me te leave bim-yet he won't part with his wfe on accofut cf ber money! 1e is to weak te realize the dreadful endîng that awaits us. "%hat shall I do? PUZZLED" * If enly for the sake cf your Schild, yeu will have te be strong- * ri- than he is. Send hlm hack to * bis wife sud family, and consult * d lawyer about his responsibility * toward your baby. * After things are settled. yen * can move to another town where * yo ai-e not known, and give the * child your name. IL yen are * brave enough te act upon this, * yen can relieve yurself ef this * heavy burden lofguilt, and start tlhe child ont untouchcd by yur Spast. The mac is supremely selfish, of course. Se It la yenouwh must *clear the path abead. * Yen have my synipathy, sud * my faith that yen wîll. * * *5 Il you have te acknowledgc that your new husband is hopeless, take some action . .. Aiue Hisi is ind and wl-e, and can help yen findI snoe good i ii-er give you courage te direct your own future Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteentli St. New Tointo, Ont, ISSUE il - 1952 Here It Is Ladies -The Perfect Button Ladies and gentlemen, the per- fect button has arrived! R fulMls all thse requiremtents cf the idieal Rut- ton for which men and wmen but- ton-makers ln Britain have been striving fer at least 300 years. A perfect button for milady's dresses, blouses, ceats, costumes, underwear ad ove alîs should, be weatherpreof, colour fast, Immune from the attacks of rats and mie and insets. It should retain ts lustre, be odourless and cou-t flammtable. And it, should be able to withstand frequent v.ashmg and boilhg and the effects of solvents used in dry-cleanig, not te mec- tion the heat cf the giant clothe' presses whîch mtany cleaners use. Well, this new butten-perfeeted by an Essex firm after months cf research-has ail these quaities. according to a buttn expert. It is madle frot a special synthetic ma- terial. As loi- the buttons vrn by mere men, makers say they are pretty good already. It was different with women's buttons, mtany cf which have always been something of a headache of the rougher wear they let. And iu the wash dys conte off sete of thetm COMFORTING We once heard au old lady tell- ing the pilot she did hope he would br-ing then all down saiely. "AIl I cau say is, lady," he replied, "I've neyer left a passenger up there yet" Two Beauties (ni ~ S24 W«. Remuants of scraps oi iaterial can be used te muake these prCtty aprous. Add a potholder te maitch. If scraps arc sall combine lu a p r et t y color scheme. They're bazaar moncy-makers. Pattern 714; pocket and pet- helder transfers; cuttmng guide. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS lu coins (stamps cannot be accep- ted) for this patter toe Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St. New Toionto, Ont. Pimt plainly PATTERN NUM- BER, your N A M E sud AD- DRESS Sucb a colorful roundup cf han- diwo-k ideas! Send twenty-fve cents now fi ouri Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Çatalog. Cheose your patterns front ouri gaily illustrated toys, dolls, household and personal accessries. A firee Patteru for a handbag i prmited in the book! Mother's .ittie Mousers-Four-yeor-old Nancy Heller and her broth- er Chor-es are beginning to think they need a cat. The two patient 'hunters" have been trying to catch a mouse for two weeks, but the sugar-coated tidbit doesn't seem to foot the elusive rodent. &a doit D Ctæ The 1952 Royah Winter Pair is many months away. And yet there la every -easson for us to be think- ing about it rightt now -- at least if we canI rely ou the subjeet piat- ter cr an editorial ln the FARM- ER'S .\DOCATE and CAN- AD\ kWCOUNTRYMAN - Feb- ruary 2 This editorial states quite openîly thtat a movement la on foot te have th-e "Royal" pen ori- busi- ness on Sunday - t1,at 5i ,the Sun- day that cotes midway during the ine thte Fair is on The editorial is quite obviously againat it and wen- ders what attitude we laimers will take lu thte mat-c-. \hat, indeed! This is a mat-er that should be discuaed by fai-m groupa and ag- rîcultural organizatiens fi-oun e end cf the provuce te the ether. T he Royaf" is our fair. It was or-ganized primasrily lun the interest oí agriculture, De we want it cheapened and uscd as oee more nieans o creating an epen Sun- day? W/e know i-bei-e are <pi-te a nunt ber oi lai-mers, motly fiuit aud maiket gardeners, who seem te thiuk It necessary te work on i-be Sabbab, but the tajOrity of farim- ers si-h regard Sunday as a day ci i-est - insoyar as it eau he where winter coes are almost su all- I haie spokens te several people abeut this subject ud not eue lias been lu laveur of aving the "Roy- al" open ici- business ou Sunday. The cear-est to it was oe mac who said he would like to sec Ihe Pair epen, but net for business. That ta te say an admission fee couldi be charged and people allowed te go through the bai-ns the be-se palace and the fiewer show, but ne judging or shoxv ring eveuts should be¯ allwed. And definitely ne cno- msercial aide shows - which, after ail, are merely su attraction to peo- ple who are not i t¶i least inter- ested l fairm aniials or farming operationts. 1'bere la als anether way of looking at it . . .suppose the Royal were te open ou Sundays. It would jusi heŽc the thin edge of the wedge. Il the Royal stayed open then there would be a clamuering fim seme quartera 't have the Canadi- an Exhibition stay open cn Sun- days - whih heaven lforbild. Ad if the Exhibition stayed open there would be Other places of amuse- meniýt ta o l tikthey shouh1i do likewise. Very seon-there would be moi-e comminercialized amusement bu Sunday than on any day cf the week. Apparently the idea of keeping the Royal open on Sundays has been tentatively suggested as a means cf masking moi-e money - according te the editorial it "might mean the difierence between sur- plus and defcit." And does the management think any good would conte cf a new venture which de- libeiaely sud publicly flouts the fourth commaudment? Dear knows, many f us aie guilty enough in that respect, but at least it remains a personal matter. Ifl the Royal is not paying ita way wly not lave it stay open the whole two weeks - Sundays e- cepted? Or i-aise the admission tee. People who are really auxieus te go would probably pay au extra 25 cents as easily as not. Rather hard on a big family, of course, but then clîîdren could be taught that ifl they want to go to the Big Fai- they must save their pocket money and pay their own way. Tee often, with easy indolence, we farm peeple sit back and let changes take place te which we are actually opposed. Toc late we re- alize we could have stopped any given change had we really tricd lu regard te the Royal Winter Fai- we have been given plenty cf time to think about it. I hope farn tolk aIl ever the province will make their voices heard, To make this possible the matter should be d:s- cussed by aIl farim organizations at ct And the RELIEF IS LASTING There's one thing that brings really fast relief froim the discomfort. . . the headache . . . the muscular aches and pains that often accompany a cold , . . INSTANTINE. And th_ relief i. prolonged! So get INSTANTINE and get quick comfort. 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