Af gt veats me ie a asiave. Ie, LflCI- re wonderful hours when we eem to be close and which nake up fryr ail the heartachie (le causes me. 1 know 1 could aýot go on without his love, nor would he want to, without. mine. "Alonie together, he is loving And kindneAs itself; but when xe are with others, he makes such a fool of himself over girls hat 1 arn furiously embarrassed uid hurt. Regularly, he vows ie iwon't misbehave again and zlways he does. "It is really tearing my heart but, and affecting my health. Can you suggest anything 1 can 1do with him?ý -NEARLY 20.- "ALL IS VANITY" The only way to end your, heartache is tc, stop dating the man entirely. He is an incurable roman- 1ticist, vain as a peacock. Such Young Ensemble' r' r' 'r r' r- r' 'r 'r 'r r-, 'r 'r r-- 'r -r r 'a 'r 'r -r a- '-r r-- 'r r'- 'r 'r r-'- 'r 'r r-' 'k - r' r- 'r 'r -r- -r' -r 'r- 'r,' 'r 'r 'r 'r 'r. 'r r-. 'r r- 'r 'r c- 'r r- 'r r' r-r 'r r-r 'r 'r r' 'r r- r-' r' 'r- *men cannot resist feeding *their vanity by fiaunting their *charms before ail femnales in *sight. They vow fidelity ta the *girl that loves themn, but at *one smile fromr another, they *are off ta cýonquest an-d certain of avictory. * This cruel trait seems in- *borni, and it, stays untl the *day the romanticisf dies, If is an a»goism vwhich transcends *every other emotioll.- * Pity fhe girl this man mar- *ries. She lives a ife aIof aifli *given and betrayed, hope re- *newed only to be ravished. In *every other wa3' he may be *honorable, bu,.1t, when this *temptation cornes, off he wl Sgo to the chase, leaving his *wife exasperated, disgusted * nd heartbroken. The mani is *a cotemptible, yet pathet<r, *fig-ure. What intelligent wom- *an would choose to share his *ignoble fate? * Unless down the comiug *years you waut ta be pitied *by those wvho love you, and Scalled a fool 'by those whb *don't, send this man on the *way hlehia chosen. Do not feaout you.wil ro; exiwitma- '~age ta cor-ral another trust- *ing .vorshipper ta n ourish his *ego as you have, and finaliy *insuit hier as hee las beeau lu- *sulting vou. * You can live wîthout lis *love, too, once you see hlm ,k as ha la. 1 hope this causumoing aioa- *tian he arauses in you will *oua day be bestowed upon a ' man who will honor it. FIRST LOVE RETURNS "-Dear Anne H-irst: For sev-er- ai years 1 went w-ith a high- school student whom I1 really laved. But things happeuad, and ï met an oîder man wvhomi-1 mnarried. WYe have been happy together, but I've afteu long-ed ta, know wa becamne of my first beau. "Noýw 1I ear he is back lu town. How I'd like to sea him and gat acquainited again, findl out if le ha, a giýrl and su on! Would it be ail right ta write hlm and ask him tao drap lu? ".One tima you wrote thalt first love is somethiug really spacial, anid neyer caally leaves a girl's iheart again. Sa în m inter- est inuIhlmi natural?ý WeONDERING:," I'rn afraid you hiave been ' eing too miauy rmni * movies, If yau and yOUr l1us- *baud are happilly mnarried,wh * shuld't his lad spend ani 1111vening w,1ith yýou twa? Donlt *1 write hlmn, but whani.y-ýOu sec * him au th-e street, usk hlmii it if e Vwould like ta meet youri *husýband1. * A first lae aSpSeciýal in that *it is a girl's earliest emotiOn- * al experience and shie neyerU *eutirely fargets it. But aiter *she is m1-arried, it beconies $part Of 1erbckrud-fo au im"portant partatht àmaniwhi will onl'Y repay yoi in mor eatrek Lifai, s ton short to squanider on an ingrate. Anne Hirst will help ,you re- gin *y«our pDjýais ndcnidn if you wrýýite ,1r at Box, 123 ElgîtelenthSt., NwTrn io, ont, aboýut your pnoblem. If the ladies adopDt these new musical hand- Romani af Roime, taly, "they shall have music A silent "guitar." left, in brown leather is Ias l-unctional Right a m.odel "plajys" a song ither Ilmandolin," .with the haildie serving as STAR-STRUCI< AT AN EARLY AGE-Littie J. A. Finney's. own pre- ference for "stars" is geared closer fo his own age level. At a municipal airport, he prapares ta greet Arnelta Flynn with a kiss. Arriella arrived with her mother, mnovie star Patria Wy- more, who is also Mrs. Errol Flynn. Gave Up SmokingTo SmeII Roses Bitiug-, scratching, screarlnug 1unid swooning, t hl e womnen fought ta get lu. Not ta see a famrous film star, fiot ta attend a departmenit store sale. Tley just wauted ta see ROSE. It was the first public show-. iug ýat ValJenciannes, lu North France, af "PIralude," the rase witfl a difference. And it drew a record attandanca ai nearly 4,- 000,000 rosa-loyers withiui four days. "Prelude"ýý is a beatiful vio- ]et bMue rose. If has a bluish- Iac! bud, gracefully unrolling its twenty -fiva patals ta acon stant violat, touched witb co- balt w-hen fully open., Set in, a bowlv, il is bettknl eu tifu-l artifiil igt It is tIce first mnilestone on ticj road ta a tr1Ue- bIne rose., the perfection ai O which bal s beau hauuting fthe dreams ai y-v bridists for the past 150 yas It is the crowuning aciavemlent lut Ic already,, long career ai Fraudis Meilland, thehyrd- . ing genjius fram-1 Cap di'Anibea,. France. Meilland has devated a lue(- time tai re-) gever sturIier,. finle, lm9r- e pst-free r1oses. ThaseInn euselyoapularrea- tions )f his Pece- Hpý1pi- ness, Sun King, Miam i, Eden Rase_, wdnd uaw Pl-2reldeand no) Ieýwrrthan ,-eighty-faur the novelt Ias - a re iig the tao millionis 1île ýorld o\,ar.ý A mnlofai îgeie.this up tobacco - allctogeer because, lu îetlog ru.hwean1ý-s the lits ilinalaios atC0 do')Aotîbesre t;I mstupto 5 00--foot i i, yuhv rn bird'-eye ie~vaiCe1rLenares feetof-gltùnrig ~vitebuild ceuei matnig a11161wa bad-aïibaviy fil wt veetbls hihebsmte wa cuags]ymuig of a three mli-ls fr'om naiv Ts-l s\i althle marItIlad onpla-e sîr, lu Mide, f'hra oncicie Sall was no le ep ai]a ig he Ina hebots0fai negi Miaud s a ther, th, e ana I the no nymeus Freuc s dIers blacking he eG( ean an- gle-hauded g blthe ailyauda dc- veping novel hrase s ') eedîlua ai tean-hounry w orkiug da svn dsuceanwek, ity-ntwa weeks ao ycar or h drtin Ito-faok dagg tedpeserarancLe, spiritds lard til ta gto fi Italy, fl-le Queen Mothar aI Greeca, the Aga Khan and Alil -audC alMost alybjodJy wTho i S asamebady. Wlren they rau France, ex- premiers Antoine Pinay and George Býidauil t tok tima off ta Journey 600 miles from Paris lc admira bis novelies. The bcauty aI Mcillaud's r'ose namned Record litcrally stunued Georgas Bidault. Drawing backl a step Or t-wo ta admira from ,a distance thle profusion aI ruby clusters on that climber. lie baugecd hus bead against a per- gaapillar - and weut down for thc couint ai tell. Pests, viruses, weaither and eeswere against Meiiland - aud alsa war. Following a tnrp ta the Un]itedc States, whera ha studicd muarkat apeuiugs and cuiltiva- tianmtodMeilland rturn- edC ta bis farm sund Set oufta perfect the task af breediug a bardier grawth sud stuirdliar type ai rase. "October 01h, 1935, wl stand farPer as the highigh4t lu myv whole lufe," ha confidas, "As 1I was ispciu ur nur- series that marning, my heurt skilpped a beat or twa wh-!en tlic o!viies )lani fmy experi- mental blooms, sprang bfoura My dazzid vison." lie called ouita0bis iamily and they cauld neyer \cr driuking luinthe beauty af thase very first Peace roses respleud- eurt in their giaryai yalilo, green,. ivory a ndc pai1e gold, tiugeýd with a Sufuiou ai Car- The vivid coloi.jr, bugenes anld truiy eegai bearng aIflese lbans canviuecd then ut once Mthte hud crcatd le very ofen a rses. Waorld Wur il broka out justi _hnMeilland, laving cmn alted i Ss smailest fi a ws, la d started buildinig Up euiol'ighl stocks aI the rose 'for genarul release. Thee, ungunifir'e -camue n ar nsd 1nIaaer ta Franch but stIili MeJilland -worked con; but son -ecume lcevidant thiat Frne and the lrose-ws ju grave danger. r Tu the y'ear 1940 a friand ai Meillan11d's v,-11 was in the arn- play aif the United States' -en- eral Cansulue luncarby Ly- ans, phoned tb Say that Vic- Con.sul George Whutinghill was fiigta the U.S.A. and woud taeaparcel, weighng Lunder a pounid, ta th& rýse-grower's friaýnds tharie. But the parcel was ta rend fIae Lyons-Broi- airfield ino later flan 5 p.m. MWejlland uit once careîully packed 100 cuttIinrgs. Tley reucirhed fIe airfiald wt a- onda ta spare. No sooner lad thc thunder af the airliner's angines fadad away tflan tle anunous boomu of cannon could ha leard as fIe uli-canquariug Garmani armi-y approaclad, "That saineaa ternooni, üfty yadawuy tram al ur nurseries ut Tassn'" said pretty Louisetta Millaud, wii e ai Frauda, "the raad bagan f0 echo with fhe maclina.-guu rattla as oui sol- diers put uIp a deiaylng rear- lkuard ato. Yau would neyer guasa thutt these ' roses were developed within hea.ring of the cannon, amid ai the devastatlons, hor- rors, privations, and misery of war. Many lavely creations wvere derived fromn the single bed that a garrison of 175 Germans and forty horses left for- two years to the Meilands out of al their extensive nurseries, Imnmediately after the war ended, the Meiliands heard that the small parcel, which imeant so much to them, had got through ack-ackr fire and storms to its destination in the U.S. The preciaus blooms were re- turned and Meilland called lis rose Peace - an April 29th, 1945, the very day that Berlin feil. Instantly Peace caught the fancy of the world. A rose. standing in a class if its own. couid not have corne at a more proper time to symbolize the end of the great confiiet and the return ta the gaod and simple things of hIfe. And the more fit- ting that it should originate froin war-torn Europe. Modern Etiquette... Q. What is the best way to notify friends that a man lias legally adopted his wife's daugh- ter by a previous mnarriage, and that the daugliter will hence- forth be known by his name? A. Mail out eng,,raved cards: "Mr. William P. Miller hias the happiness to announce the legal adopotion of his wife's Jaugh- ter,' Mary Aune foutes who in the future will be known rias Mary Anne Miller." Q. 1 have been told fIat it lis poor taste to use arificial flow- ers around thie home. Is this true? A. Certainly not. Thcy are quite popular, and same people everi use them for decoration on the dinner table. Be sure, how- ever, that they are brighit nd edean laaking. Q.Is if ii-tproper to blow on a spoonful of seup or coffee [e- fore faking it into Éthe moufli? A. Not if the blowing is dotie ve-Y gntyand icupcos ly. Q. How miay onie serve fruit at anà informai dininer? A. J~ place a large bowl of fruit on the table, and aflaw the guests to Ihelp themiselves. Q. Whient a host asks, "Whaf iil you have to drink," is it correct to ask hlm, "Wha,-t do you have?"' A. A goed lost wL suaqlly mnake suglgestions, 0or will e his guests uwhat he hias to, of - fer. But if hie doesn't, it cer- taiuly is not weli-bred to ask him -what hiefias. Don',estt to state your lkreferenice, and if hie is not stocked to fil your order, yau; can start over fromi there. Q. IWhaIt is the difference be- tween a formai and informnai tea? A. The decorations of the in- formai tea are not Sa elaborate and the refreshments are more simple. The hostess at an in- formai tea minges wîth her guests and does not remnain iat the door to g-reet caach new- corner. Q, Should a woman keep hei, gloves on during the churcli ser-. vice? A. Yes. Q. Would it be proper for the bridegroom and his best man to wear tuxedo suits at an al-~ ternoon weddlng? A. No; tuxedo suits are cor- rectly worn only after six o'clock in the evening. Q. I t proper to issue invita- tions to a cocktail party over the telephone? A. Certainly. Pretty Centerpiece Elegant cuentrepiece for yu iint table! A graceful Swan crocheted lin pineapple dein- fl it with fruit or flowvers. Pattern 58]: crochet directionsy for swan ýentr-cpiece; bod 'y about 129 x Piý inches, Use heavy jiffy' kcotton - sta-rch stiffly. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS (stamps cannot be accepted; usr postal note for safety) for, t1il pattern to LAURA WHEELER, 123 ei,,hteenith St., New Toronto, Onit. Print plainly PATTERN NU-MdBER, *your NAMVE ,aic AD- DRESS, Oujr gift ta ou n- twa onj- derful patterns lfor yourseslf, yaur homne - printed in aur Laura Wheelecr Needlecraf t book for 1956! Dozens off other new desîgýns to order -- crochect, knit - ting, iembroidery, iron-ans, no- velties. Send 25 cenits for your cop-97 f this book NOW - with gift patternis printed lu it! ISSUE M3 - 191)G TEA TIME IN A TUB -- Three-year-ald Connie June Failen halde a make-believe tea parry while sitting in a tub af cool water in her back yard. No botter place for such a pairty. as the temperature soared ta 102 degrees. 4649 61 Sa',hli love île sucoopad-neck dreýsa witlils ýý"grownulp" Emn- pire sylg add thc littie baiera tcompiate thac smart ensem-ble! Paeri ecttfsosfor a gay, vplaidj tattan, crïqp piquce; or 'a filuae inen -for 1cr"Sunay"outfit! Paftarnl 46-19: Girls' Sizea 6, 8, 10, 12, 14. Size 10drs and h- leafaka 3 yardfs 35-inc11lifla- ric; 1~yard coitrast. This pattaru acasy ta use-, sim- Ica t saw, -la tested for fit. lias Scnd TIIP'Y-FIVE CENTS stmscaninai h auaceptcd; luse roîa ote for safaty)for hl )?attaýrn. Prinlt plain!y IXE AEADDRESS 'and STYLE