the future. One puzzled mother writes: "My husband and 1 were flot raised in. the comforts we are.- able to provide for our sons, So aur impulse is to give them a 'happier chldlood tlhan we had. We have not denied theni costly toys, rnechanical gadgets and bicycles., but 1 arn wondering whetlier this is wise? Tbey take It all toÈ grate, an as theif demnands increase perlaps we san't be able to nieet themn. "Iwonde1r, too, whetlier we sliould share our money prob- lems with tliem?' Tliose are. budto corne in these tmes ,,Yf increqsing costs. Are boys inine and Il too young to face thern? " CILDREN DESE1WE TRUTJI A child's preparation for 1f eý as it must be livedf is lis par- ent?' first duty. The indulged youngster is flot always the hap- piest. nor dtoes it prove liow inuel his paren'ts lo~ve. him; of- ten it only shows they love to spoil hhn. To deny his demnands occasionially, expl1hiinfg f n reason, is to teach himn that !U-2 Is not ali geting but renoûncing, too. ~The family is a unit, and each mnember is a part. 1f a younig- 5ter learns eariy thaat alil must pull together lie wi develoP responsibfliity withotrt whining, Maling him feel a partner in ail farniy situations will make hlmr feel im.portant. Awakening hlm. interest in the homne and its upkeep, 'iearning about liv- lxng êxpenses an~d the needi to save for the future, wlll pro- mote him as a menmber of 'fam- lly councils, and instill a re- spect 'for his parenrts that no axhount o! indulgence can ef- fect. I do not approve of darkening a youngser's days with tales of anticipated, povertir, ftr btur- dening him with unessertia, lect- ~cslons. I do kriow that if you want your' child.ta learn co- For Leiuuiare Hours Largle or smiall, whaýt ue tiald ever lbas too nmany h1ine ns! T>he-se will deigît you. 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I11 you imakze azra l ice now and then of askingi * is opinion on Ap 'ding ceor- *tain asuris for' certain u~~s hle will feel mnore aduit, an4 re- Sspond. accordingly. * No, 1 on't' think youi boys *are too yaujng to have the *truth. Go to it, and watdli lowx. *they mature. *somie readers will disagree *with this idea, and 1 invite *their reasoris. Havlnig for years observed the results, however. *I shall be hard to convn. POOR JUBOMENT "Dear Amie Hlrst: Fin going te graduate this year, and for. the past twG F~ve gonie steady with the sarne boy. He used ta see mie every niglit, but now I'm lucky if he cornes once a week. We went ta a show on Saturday e-venings, but-that is ave-r now, "Instead, he goes out with a bundl of boys anid drinks. 1 took it fortht<ree weeks, then 1 -wrote if uc thouglit more. of sucli di- versions than of niele caiild forget about me, "Recently, le called to returii n~y picture (and get lis own) and asked me for a date. I ac- cepted.' I haven't seen hlmn since! Please tell me wlat to do, l'n sure lie stili thinks a lot of mi; and I think the world of hi-m." DISTRACTED'" * If you had 'kept your word- * and refused to see the boy, ie~ * might have decided he'd rather * lave your f iendship even if * le lad to behave hîinself to * get it. 'But you weakeried, and, * no you're igît bacl, where * you started. * Ilow 'cari you stîli "thir'k *the world" of a youngo man ýwba * chooses ta carouse anaund * town and neclect the girl he's *dated for two years? Dou,'t *you realize .wlere sud is *conduct can lead him? Or have *you iowevred your ovin stanid- *ards and accepted lis? 1 hope you wîll think this *througl, and nealize how. * mucl depends on your stick- *ing ta yotir guns. Sharing fam1Iy probletms with. growing chldren gOves themi an insight Into the' f sts of iv ing, and an 'lnereased respect for their parents. Study your child, and feed hlmi responsîil- ity as you see he cani take if. Annse Iirst's experience and' tsnderstanding awalt you. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighiteentb St., New Toronto, Ont. Marry-Go-Round Film auctress lngridBega dliscovered, that the, sum onf the squares in her particular triangle add up ta a long, sad story. Wile Ingrid vac(ationed in Sweýde ith husband No. 3, anil talian appeals couirt ruled that she stili was married ta huisband No. 2, direc- tar Raberta Ros;sellini - in Italy, aýt least. Last year., Rasseini ob- tained an tuncantested annulment of hisz 1950 pro-xy Mex'ican1- ma-r- nage,- ta lgrdon the ground that her _Meixicniivorce from husband No. 1, Dr. Peter Lind- strorn, was ilivalid. Inndsubse- quIently mrarried Swedish irnpre's- aria Larsý Schmidt ini England. Buit, on the appeal of the pub- iïc proseétar, the aninulm-ent was reversed by the Iiîgher tr-ibuntial. The cut adRossellini rmust first get a Swedishi court decisian declaring Igi' Mexican di- vorce invahid and then file foi an annulmenmt. Presumiiabl, if Ras- selinii follawýýs the court's instruc- lions, nt anc paint Igndwill be legaIIly imried ta husband No. i in Sweden, Na. 2 ini Italy, and Na. 3 in Egad 1Modern Etiquette SPACE PLAY - Its "oit out for Mars" at a niodernistic play- greund i Hannover, West Germiany, where children~ play on an -out-of-this-worid rocket slide. rm mrad .-.really boppJng, -nad, anc d li on account of the starlings.' Last Saturday, if we hadn't gone ta île cottage, we would- have lad a picking of peas by 1Monday. "Sa, first thing I did after cornvfng home was ta go out ta the gai-den, Ten stanl- ings f léw up as I appraached. On two rows of peas there wasn't a pea-po'd le! t that ladn't been picked open and stripped dlean. The third row was 'sleltered by a raw of beets a-nd from it 1 got enough peas for' dinne-r. One quart o! pc-as after Rartn.er woxking with thern for s ick weeks. Now the beans are just about ready. I wondei' if the pesky- starlings will go af 1er thein too. Oaa you blame me for being mad . , as if tle hea-t and iack of rain hadn't bec-n eaough ta contcnd witl, without thc strI.ingýs adding. insuit ta injury. Next day a neigîiboûn phanied ta say we -werc welcomieta some ,eherries if we cared ta o a ven and pick tîemn. "But," she add- ed, "you lad better came soon before tle birds strip ic-l trees." Sa I went over tîat saine e ninig but 1 didn't get nmany cher- ries. Tîcre wcre plenty tîcre but t'hey wr not reahly ripe enaugl ta make gaad preserves. And they neyer will be-. Long ibefore they ipen ipnopcnly tÉic stlanlings attdi rob)ins will have tanken them all. 1 neyer saw sa many starlings as there are thls year, non1,haveý Iseen thcmcongegat in s ud-i large inmberzsos early ini the sea- son. We ofieýn see a larg-e lock gao aveýr, probaýbly in seatrch of more gairdens and orchards taLnplunder. I lave bir-ds but T arn aft-aïd that lave does flot incîý-1tidethest- ings, especillY as thy re a:sa ma..king free with nmy bir-dfe- ing. - saic probably -kee-ping mare clesîrale birds at ba-y. Joy and 1I lad a good tLime at ic cttaýge the- time we -,v ee aln.Hot at f irst then t he, wahrc0ooled of"f considerabjly. Wc ,vre e'ýen gldof a snmall fire first thing. in tIc ma-irninig. Two marnings' 1 s-t up in led and watched itbIc Sun-ise aver tIe la-ke, itsgogeu colouirs relecd in tic sii, blute wvater When- the colouirs lamd faded 1 laid down iand iwent ta sjeep, again. But flot for longiÏ. Ross nd- tIb by saw ta it thaýt we go't an early' stairt each day. We, divided aur, labours. Joyý looked after thc boys and did theoir washîg. Icooked île mals wased ihes and taok can)-e o! ille fine. t was \'('ly enjoyable and relaxing and 1 can unden- stand youing folk having a gojod time in and an the watcr. But, Pantner and I hiave dIecided we prefer the comnfarts of hiome. We can't cooli off by jumnping into ic lake sa aurlywe miSss the canvenlonjce of a bath or shawcer. Thc cofttagÏ,e las ydra 1but no plumbing. We used lake water for drinkling, wasliing and cooki:n«-wuiLI)out -any iii effecis. Tuesday' niglit Bob camne up again, bringing- witl him Art's outboard riotar for 'the boat. Once hý had it going Joy, and 1 toolc tprns going out witlh in~ for a boat ride on the lake. TIen Bob dedided ta go fishing for awhile. But le was soan back ta the buse. "Wlat lappened ta xay bait?" le askied. 'H'açpned ta it," nepeatcd Joy. "Nothing that 1 know 'of. It's stihi. under the iront step whiere. you left it last Sunday." "The ý box is there," said Bob, "but the lid was off and al the worù's have gone." Instantly we kne~wlo the cuiprît imust 'be. None ather than Ross. The, wo-nms .cost a dollar and Bob lad diven t'wo miles to set' them., Worm digging must 'be quite a~ profitable business. We- planned to Icave, for honme ~Wednesday nigît about 8 o'clock. 1We hd everything packed ito ~the car; thc cottage windows locked and the sluuters closed down. And tIen it started ta storni, haill eating on the roof for about ten minutes. It got terrlhly. lot indoors but we just lad ta sit it out. As soon az there was a let-up we -raft for tlec car and leaded for homne. It was an hour befare we drove out of tIc storm. 0f course the nearer ,we got hoame tle less evidence thene was of nain past or preserit. -While we were away other members of aur family were sec- îng the Queen. Dee lad her compai-ny of Girl Guides on pa- rade at Higli Parkc-amid that terrific heat. Art saw the caval- cade from lis dawn-town office. The boys saw 1er fromi Parkside Drive. Bob waited on No. 27 ghway (en route ta thc cot- tag >e) and sa-w the Queat as she roeby ta the Woodbine Race- track. Partner watched al tle jroccedings on T.V. Everyone agrecd sIc was yery lavely and graýclous. Joy aMlI1 were the anly ones 'inour ftam)ily î*J miss the Quieen's -Toronto visit entire- !y- and that was tîrough Iack of oýppartuxity - certaýinly not «'indifference"!s Thiree che-ers. . . . It's actully raining! t des'tseem ,possible but it Is. Chicago Papers Cover Royal Visit The powerful Chicago Tribune was known for its militant An- glophobia, wlen the late Col. Robert Rutherford McCormick used ta liurl editorial thunder- boits from the 24t1 f loor of thec Tribune Tower. Especially ho-1 tile tow-ard British aristocracy, publisher MeCormick once de- clared that "ta revolutionary Amnericans, wvho remember al krings as appressors, the popu- larity of the crown in Britain is a myystery." But when Bri- tain's Q ue e n Elizabeth and Prince Philip swept into Chica- go this week, miaking the only U.S. stop on their 44-day tour of Canada, Tlie Tribune flutter- ed as excitedly as a debutante about to be presented at court. "We're smotliening this thingc in colon stoies,"' a veteran Tri- bune reporter observed as somne 30 Trib staffers lanned out to cover the royal party's thirteen- lour visit. "I guess we've dhang2 ed as a newspaper." Other Chicago papers seerned just as awed as The Tribune by the city's first look at a reigning British mon:îrch. "Chi cago awaits its biggest week- end," the tabloîd Sun-Timcs shouted in a front-page banne, five days befare the Qu-.een ar- rived. The Daily News, report- ing on construction o! the lake- side platform from whidli tne Queen would speak her first wards to the city, noted ecstatîc- ally that workmren's hamnmers w e re beating out "a medley with an exciting refrain: "The Queen is coming ! The Queaýn is omig. The American ranî photographs sh ow inag wlha t guests should wear to lunch and dirmer with a Queen. And Thie Tribune itself quoted lotel mianager Max Blouet ("Queen's Host at Luncheon") on how tc behave in the presence of roy- alty. ("Speak quietly," Blouet ~advised. '4Listen careftilly tu what they say and answer in the saine way.") Eager press agents. supplied the papers witli other de'1ectabloý details. The Ambassador East Hotel led 21 selected reporters the identical four-course luinci the Queen and 400 guests would eat. And the Drake Hôtel, tlough scheduled to share tht inMelight for only a half hour during a reception for thm royail party, invited reporters to a dis- cussion about wletler it would use antique or traditional silver in serving, tea. By last weekend, some reý- porters were beginininig to ques- tion~ whether the Queen's visit was wortli ail the space it was. getting. "You could have t1ie biggest story of the week wrap- ped up in yotir land," onie comn- mexited sour-ly, "~and if 't didn't have a royalty angle, theds would knock it down ta a jpara- grapht" The Chicago papers, in f act, had run features on such Inci- dental topics as the number of calories 'in the Queen's, lunch J2,139), and the reaçtions of a rlamber maid assigned ta tidy up the hotel suite in which the Queen would freshen up. The Daily News even carried acm ment on the Queen's table man- niers, in an interview with wai- ter Victor Jabenau, wha had served her before at two meals in France., "She spilîs nothing, absoitiýely notring," he said. But an the great day itself, as the oN~icial motarcade whis- e d Iby under the watchful ee 'of Dewsrni, 1t h e resourcefuli Tribune iýgured out bst,1l another angle. Lt d;1Ipatced. a -'reporter to stand by o41 f Michti- gan-born chef "7ýgpante and reý- port lis frowns and flourishes as he cooked the Queen's lunch. To get its foot inside the kit- chen, The Trib already had rua a four-columnn feature on the chef, who discussed lis assign- nment in appropriately glowing terms, "This is a wonderfljI thing," lie said, "it is almost lilce a Worid Serles or a major oper- Crime Pays Mickey Hoodlum Mickey Cohen, whe lias devoted hlis hf e to disproving the nxaxim that "Crime Doesn'i Pay," found a new racket - ana, this time, a legitimate one: He's going to talkz about tlie evils of crime -- for fees ranging ffran $1,000 ta $2,500. Mickey said liq recided to niakze a swing of thr, lecture circuit at the suggestion of columnist Drew Pearson., whu put hlmi in toucli with the Edna Stewart A-gency in Beverly Hillz, Calif. "Our clients are ail top nien,"' said an agency spokesmani. "After ail, Mr. Cohien, in a sensýe, was a capta.in of industry la lii field." Look ! JiffY'-Cut PRINTED PATTERN 12-20 JIFFY-CUT blouses. Pin pat- 1cmn ta fabric - presto! Cut )ut complete blouse instantly. 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