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ANramaRS "Dear -Anne Iiirst: When we bought oui' home five years ago, 1 offered to go ta wark ta heip pay for it if niy husband would take over the housework and care for ourtw youngsters. '(H-e la a writer, aind does it at homie). lie promrised. 1 cauld count, the times h-e's wvasbed the wvindows or the kitchen floor, and the whoIe house la so negle-cted 1 *m ashamed of it. "My schedule is trying. 1 sel- domn finishl at homne bef are Il o'clock, what wiîth gettinig dinner, putting the children to bed, cleaning and ironingl, etc. 1 wouldn,'t mind it at ail if he'd oiy suggest a night out niow andi then, when my mother wauld mind the ch-ildren. But he just reads the paper and falis asleep! <(ie is amod persan wbile I'm lively and love people. Ou-r friends doni't drop in any more,~ hie is too unsociable.) "lie is suspicious, too; he says inm the kind that attracts men, Teaicher's Pet PRINTED PATTERN 4747 2l The shirtdiress - fall's top fashion for big anti littie girls. DauLgiter wiil love the* convent- ible collar., rlý--up sleevcs anti wide, wide skint. Easy-to-aew anti amant far achoal. Printed Pattern 4747: Chý- dren's Sizes 2, 4, 6, 8, 10. Size Otakes 2'- yards 3.9-inclit. Printeti directions on eacb Pat- terni part. Escaccuraite, Senti FORTY CENTS (-10Ï' - gtaimpa cannait be accepteti, use postal note for safety) for this 'e. rtte.i. Pes rn IE NAME, ADDR'ESS, S T Y L E Send ortier ta ANNE Box 1, 123 Eightecntb ýCùrùnto, Ont. ADAMS, St., New but even if 1 wanited ta I haven't the tiie. I air very fond of ihim, but I amn overwork- ed with litie hope aof reliefl and his iack of appreciation makes me feel like a housekeeper. What can you dlo -with a man like this? WORN OUT" * 1 think you should tel your * husband that unless he keeps h is part of the bargain yaun *will give up your jodb ani. *maniage on bis income. That *would be- a pity, fLor the chul- *dren's expense-s will increase l.'wi the years, andi with less *money coming in the brunt of the burdeni would stîll fa]] on *you. *You cannot Continue 'burning *the candle as yaou've been do- *ing, you know; you say you. *are losing weighit, and your *sprits sink as the months go *by. You have no business do- Me inheayy household tasks, for *instance, andi you need recrea- *tion to balance youir heavy *schieduie. Somethîng will give *way, aaid then wbiat will hlap- *pen? At his age, your husband * cannot change bis tempera- *ment, but hieCani surely toss * you a kind word now and then, *andi see that you take time out *for fun; it would cast himn * mal effort, but it %wouild re- *Vive youir spirits a'nd help keep *you younig. You would be a * better wife and miother for it, L oo. (How llittie san'e men ~know about wýolnen)! *I hope you wil not h-ave to give up yoiur position, but if nothing else will move the mn make tae threat and act upon *it. "'Dear Amie first: .I arn922, and I went steady for a-ver a year with the mïost wvonderful boy frienti a girl caulti have. Thien for n1o reason I1 ever understaod, we broke up, I see bim u Lptown) andi at dlances, andbea lway s brings mie home and tells me how much he loves mie. "But he has n,-eyer asked me for another date!. 4'I hear that once amnother gr J-ited hi-m. Could he atill be in love withlber thougýh she's mar- ried naw,? I keep praying wve will get back togcether, and thougb I have other dates sometimesi just break down ni cry! SICK WITH LOVE" Wherever this youing man left * bis heart, it is not wib ou. * If be reaily ca.reci, he would *not ailow an earlier disappoint- *ment ta keep hum naway. *See himi as the wea1k and *seifisb persan lhe is, and keep *busy witbi other friends. Wheni *you see him Lec casual, and *don't let imn bring yau home *agýain; that, only keeps you *emi-otianailly,.pseýt. He enýjoys *makin teing speeches, but *wby suffer sucbl frustrating *grief. -Anti for whlat? A %woman can spoil lier hua- band by takling tloo mucli res- ponsibility and iworkiiig ;beyond lier strength. If this la your pro- blem, write Aimie Hirst about it and receive her sympathy andi practical ideas. Address lier at Box 1, 123 EighIteenith St., New Toronto, ont. issuE 41 - 1959 IUST PLAIN MUUISH - "Rosebud XîV, vo .kodofca qnascot oDf the La5 Vegas Jayciees Commu~nity Fair, seematl> h. turning acaiod shoulder iz the attention z>f two loeîy ad. mirers, They're fuir quecn candidaýtes Mary StrQgsser and kinah Kim .Wh them lb cowpoke Tex Gafes. 4 I I I PON CHO BUILT FOR TWO -- "Togetheýrness" has invaded the fashion world Making ifs debut is a Samese poncho. just about t'ne first garment designed îo be worn by two people al he sanie time. Aimed at the college set, Soncho is the thing to take along fo, a football gameý on a windy Saturdaýy afterncon, ifs maker Says. N 4/ 1NGERFARM From tropical heat ta kTilIrng frost - that vas quite a record for the first of aiSeptemnbei, wasn't iInsitie o! twenty-for houirs peaCple wresaying' "M, isn'tit coiti" BEut not I . .no sir, I hiad na comnplaintII at ail, except that 1 didati' like ta see the garden iand imarket praduce nippcd bhy vthe' trost. 'It wasý quite a biow ta tbase hav- ing garden stuff ta seil. " t cýdi't makce much di!'fercncc taý us because we haid -very littie of anything lef t in the gartien an. way, anti wbat was,. there the frost wouldn't hurt- -likebes and turnips'. Remiember the nmeetinig i1 mnentionced lastwek Well, wve won aut against the Pli nning Board. Againsýt teor wt tbemi - we are not sure whlch way thiey realiy wantcd the vote ta ga). Anyway, ail tha property owniers in his urne- diate distrýict rose up in a body ta pratest the construction and opriatian oai a store or stores-- in thlis iocaiity. Sa w remnain as, we were - R.I Residentiai. Sa that littIe worry is over. It stirre tirp quite a lot of intene.st in the district, only abouit two,ý families wereý witbauit nepresen- tatian at the meeting. The de- cision restoreti aur confidence ini the powver af the people. We proý- testeti anti aur protesta were ,given courteouis consideration. Incidentaliy this meeting. coin- cideti wvith the frat public ap- pearance in the Unitedi States o!f Nikita Kbn-hushchcveý.. In fact I rathe-r tbink bis visit bati sanie influence at aur meeting. The Planining. Boardi were ainxiaus ta prove aur rigbts as citizens f a fre Demaocracy s0 we were, giVen every oppartunity ta ex- presaur viewus, indlivitually and calicctviely. Ncxt day I toak a friend ai- ong fwitb nie anti we iwent ta a very diffenenit meeting - Our firat W.I. get.-togethier since early aummer, it -was a langemetn - m-aybe partly because it was beld inh a vcry . loveiy cauLntry home. Actually it was a farm but se-veral years iaga the oawn- ers found it impractical tao)p- erate as a fam, it being ahuist impassible ta, get reliable hired help. Sa tbey turneti ail the acre- age Iuta forage crops, tare down the rambîing olti fan hause, eleared eyut enough bush ta make a scenie settlig and built tbemr- selveà a beautiful ranch bouse overlooking- a ravine That is what 1 caîl country living ai its best - for those who can afford ta do il. Andi sometimes it is flotý So much a .1matter of molicy as of wiýe planning; a! being alive ta the potentialities aif farma property' without the burden af farming. A certain amaount af revenue cari usually be obtain- cd f nom ignazing, renting pas- turc or selnhay. in this case 1 mgn the ma-n of the famrily had. some means ai livelihooti othecr thian farming. S und ay wc v isiteti i a r rn frie2nis in Duf,!erin County - getting- on in years, only themi- selves ta kýeep anti yet workingl f ar beyond their strcngth, ai- thougb they only bave a fifty- acre f arvm.* They have even stoppeti takinsg a daily paper be- cause haif the time they don't have time to reati it. It is an- other Case of most af tbe work anti cash retuirns going back ta thie farm ta support the ani- mais that, pnoperly speaking, shoulId Le supportingiý the pea-- pie themacîves. We think thein main trouble iLs avcn-anxiety ta make good. They have had big- ger"vt bis in their few years o! operation than we had il the time we wene farming Nearly eve;Fry cow that freshens bas miik- lever, pnobably tbnougb ov,,er-feeding before calving. We feel sorry ta see the poor dbar3 working aa hlard, especially as they seemn t othinik it unavoid- able. It is aniother case of not seeing the woods for tbe trees. Less work and more planinrg would 'help considerably. And what do you tbink ýtbey had ta shiow uis - nothing more or less than an "imibecile caîf". We bati neyer heard of sucb an animal so 1 asked ta aee it. Tt wýas a queer creature witbout a douibt. About three mionths aid - unde-rsîzed, pot-beliied, runninig eyes, ears back and showing littie activity. L aiýt week the vet was thîere ta see a sick cow Yso they asked him ta look at the caîf - whichi, by the way, was two weeks premature at, birth and denieti normnal care by its maotrir. And that was what the vet told themn - it was an imbecile caif. Hlas any other farmrer bad a simnilar experienice? We had a lovely cross-countrýy drive - witb Bob, Jay and the two little feilowvs. Andi Bob had at surprising bit afi news for us. jApparentiy a reader ai this cal- uni - frorii the Sarnia district. __ was trying ta locate us. 1Couldn't find us but tracked twnBob instead. Accordin g ta tbis reader he and his family bad followed the doings at Gin- ger Farn -for years and practi- cally watched aur famil 'y grow up.Bo didn't write down his_ naine and has somiebow forgot- ten it. Sa t'lis is ta say "thank you" ta "Sarnia Reader" for your finterea,,t andi we hope we shaPhbe seeing you soon. Shouldi A Doctor Tell The Truthl? 0f ail the difficuit decisions a physiciar nmuat face, fane is more taormenti-ng than this:, Sboiild a hopelessly filF patient 1be tald that he la going to die? The problemi is as aid as mcdi- cine itsel; and now, with the aýum-ber of. deatbs, from cancer and other chronic ailiments ris- ing as the hie spant increases, the issue bas,; becomne even more In Britain recently, Dr. Harley Williams, editor of The Chest and Hleant Bulletin, determined ",to bning titis mnatter into tbe open forum -1of serious public discussion." Hie inviLteti sevenai einient British physicians anid clergýymen ta write a sertes af signieti articles entitled " Shoulti the Dying Be Told?" Sa far, tbree issues o! the bulletin bave canried the articles - anti by kast week, Dr. Williams' praject had arouseti conisider!ible dis- cussion aIl over Bitin. "On the wbole," Dr. Williams e xplIa i n ed, "physicians have fougbt sby of -telling patients that they are suffering froni an incurable dlisease like cancer be- cause in nine casýes out cl ten the patients will lose the great- est tranquilizen i Ilhoef Yet oi the six authors who havre presenteti their views sa far, anly one -- Dr. John C. Roberts,, a consultant at Hareiield Hos-, pital ini Middlesex - argued that the trutb cani kill. The othen authors al main- tain that a patient who asks a docton for the facta abould be told the truth -- if only ta give him timie ta put into ortien bis affaira, bis will, anti bis soul. Among the argumepnts: «iWhen a patient asks for a statemnent of the exact state uf affaira," sýait Di', Maurice D- vidsoni, a retnei orsuitinL phy- sician, "the dc rMust &iatui costs ans-wer. To e v a, d e thia obligation . . is,Ï in mi-y submis- sian, a br-each of m-edýical ethica 0 f couruse, there are no hard and fast rul0es as to how the truth should be told. A doctor's fundamiental knowledg, of humnan nature anid his voca- tional training- should hiave edu- cated himà to this end." "I scarcely think, it is possible ta conceal from a patient fc'- any iength of timre the seri6u- ness of bis coniditioni" the Rev. Aiphonsus Bonnar, a Catholle priest of ,East Bergholt in Esseu, suggecsted. "He soan beg-ins taý suspect, and the suspicion wl7eth ifs accamrpanying worry can have quite as deleterîouis an effect as a' definite pronounice- ment, of the fatal charactecr v2 the disease."ý "M a ny of mny patients are, childreni," Dr. Mi. C. Wilkinýson, orthopedic surgeon at Black Not'ley Hospital in Essex, .re- mrarked. 'el have found that they do not look to us for infalli.- bility, but tbey do expect coin- plete integrity . . . If the-y su- pe,ýct that tbey are being de- ceived, they becoie iserable., 1 tbink that sick and frigbten-edÎ aduits have fundamentally tIi. samie sor"t of feelings.' Modern W cii Drovmu I Slim, lonig, elegant pantels- ncweat approûacb ta tecarative drama. Use nannaw framnes. Ntuire.-inspir7ed accents :f or wall, door. Easy, croS-s7titch, choase true-to-life colora. Pat- terr 526: transfer ai twa 8 x 21- incb aprays, calar chart, key. Senti THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (stampa cnnot 'be accepted,, use postal note for safeety) for ibis pattern ta Lauraý Whecler, Box 1, 123 Eighiteentb St.,, New Tor.- onto, Ont. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME anti ADDRESS. Senti for a capy ai 1959 Launa Wbeclen Neediec-rait Baok. It bas lovcly des-Igns taonder: eni- broidery, crochet, knitting, wcav- ing, quilting, toys. In the book, a special surprise ta make a lit- tle girl happy -- a eut-out doll,, clothes ta colon Senti 25 cents for thiis book. PRIVATE UINE -- Whenever the wande-rlus-ýt hit s himn, ail Charley Marr has ,ta dc is gco ife his bock yard and hop a train on the "Wýellingtorî Lin,-." Marr-, a Westinghouse Copper c.m. ployee, furned a ifelong inferest in trains infa a 100-foot-long miniccure ïairocd h? con- structed himself at a cost of $900. And.while soma lunes ara having diý'2'cuW tires, Choniey . planning ta add more cars and trackage.'