ANiST r- v I s- v v 5- -s- r s- v v v v s- v '-r r' 5- r -s-s '-t. r v -r 5- s-r s- 's- -t- v <s -r- 5< v Sf 'g S- r s-'- r' s-- -s- s- v 'r 'r -r r 'r r. 5. 'r 5- r 55 5-s 5- y- - s-- -s. 5- 'r s--' r -5- 5- 5- v v v v v v v r- 'r y 5-5-e 5- 5-s v -s- s- v r, r 55' r t--. v 's- v r r r v s-- '--- -r r s- '-S 5- v. v v v v 5- r r r r r 'v Prnrted l"tterra 4556: Misses' Sizres 10> 12, '14, 16, M. Size 16 takes 4 yards 39-inch f abric. Priniteti directions on eg pattern part. Easier, accurate. SeniFIFTY CENTS (stanps cannat be accepted, use' postal note for sofety>, for thiis patterai. Please print pýlinly SIZ7,E, NAME, AD D R E SS, STYCE NUMBUER, Senti .arder o ANNE ADAMS, Box > 12, 3 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Onit. «Dea2r Anne Hirst: On my 2e- -cent birthday, 1 ta my owvn sur- pris, got engaged ta a young, Monr I'd known for years. R1is1 farriily and mine evidenrtly 'iiad- plann.ed our future before I re- alized it. Tin their presence hie gave? me a beautiful diamond I was srpezechless-aid 1'm asharn- ed Io confess that I have nit yet found courage o oppose themn al. "Whyî? Because for three- years V've been in love with a mon 10 years aider whorn I met. in business. We have dated ro- gularly, and Misn I arn with him 1'amn tbrilled throughi and3 through; yet I arn at peace. Hie lias neyer spoken in terms of love until the other day, when I showed him mny ring. He wish- ed me happiness, and that wvas that.col1.ntbaitIte- "I cu( o er i.1 tl, phoried hirm and we met. Vhen he admnitted he bas alw ay s * loved me, but hesitated. ta sayv so becouse hie la olIer. Hie is a professional man, really a so- ,phisticated person and sarning a large incarne. Now hie seens miserable tooand 1 arn so con- .fused 1f dontjcow *hat o do, "I am fond of mny fiance, and hestate to hurt hirn and aur familles. Do you Vlhink I couild.l learn to love him' Or shail'-1. break things off and tel] myv fomnily why? IN A , WIIRL" *Ta test, your feblin,ýs for * the Ve ldr înan, try ta picturs * hib- without a - dollar t o. is * hamne, Suppose his - prosfession * failed h im, his ifnvestrnents * dimliih, andi he crow bitier *at fate? Gstld you stick by k, bu, comffort him, <punt, ail' * sse Iwell lbat just ta be by hïblésid? If jrod find fthat you could not love hir foi ' him- *self lon, .put hlm out of> *your mind today and forever. '~But if you are wholehearted- 4Wyin love, then break y.-tur Sengagem~etV Thfe youflgrn±ar w*il get aer- ltI. 1Ils -lamîlly would not want *hyn ta marry a gil who *doesn't love hlm, and yuur *parents wxill surely wont, firast "your personal hoppîness. SWhether anyone con con- ysciously learn ta love a mon is latebatoble. I hope you wil' *noV go hraugh with marriage *ta your fiance uniess youa do *f all in lave with hlmi - and- if you renauncre this other- man Sthat coufld haupen. "Dear Anne Hirst: 1 andi a grand young mon are, vsry muchi in love ond want o get married. I'm noV af agýe, how- ever, -anti my mother will noV consent although I wouidn't, wiant o get marrieti onyhoýw without that. She had an uni- bapp 'y lîfe with- my father until. he tiisd rscently, sa' perhaps thiat s why she fears for me. "She knows my fiance's fa- mîly and likes 'hem, and she doesnt' çislike Ihlmr, fow con, I persuade ber o help lis? MNAIXIE" -'Witing VO marry-until you ar cr f age wil drow you and *your fiance closer, and ahou id *soften your mother's attitude *cansidei'ably. Discouraged i h er own- sati marristi lif e , sh *s larying to proteet you from- possible disillusion. i-Since she 'admires he Iads "f amily, pferha,ýps h i s rother *can influence her Vo believe *thiat this mariage' la right for y you when he timye cornes for 'it Chetup Whether ,your, problenîi s great or smtali, Anne iraýt %wI lend a sympathetie ear~ and give it, ber best theugliL Write er frànkly àt B'tx 1, 123 Eigh<ê5flth- St., NwT or o nto, Ont., and know yoü wil have an 'honiest ,opinion and safe guîdance, Fnijoy Geometry! ;ý' «rsaiIlil>"h" Cra-be, "But T like geomitry better." The statetasat was re- ynaikable "r;4a simple reasork VhalV-J9pn CraIbbý is oniy 8 years old. ro4ethei'wlh 3,000 jýecônc andIthird graders la hs Polo Alto., Calif., area, Jc>hn la study- ing rt'diietai#pI ane géameiry' -including ths formation of fig- ures.ai.nçairrntot angles. - WhoV'ts mare, he andi , is clýss- mates are grosping the subject easiiy. Backud hy a-s$32,000 Car- negfie Corp. graln-t, hs sxperî- ment is Vhse braIi child ofVo 'professors at 'nearby 'St aisud 'University, Dr. Patrick Su~ppes andi Dr. Newtn Hawley, aihî of a 161-page textbook, G- mry f- lor Prinary Grades." "We hin-k it's 'possible o 1g1ive , h e mi soreVhhing haVtentil graders don't bave tins ta ab- sorb," said Dr. Suppes recently.1 "A horough intuitive feeling,- For- geametry." The easy vex(t- booki- problems also improve a child's reatiing camiprehenisi !n. Witli sons awe, ans eacher re- ports thot words like "quairi;pa- teral" are appearing i comp- sition - used correctly mnt spelled carrectly. JuvenileDecency The attention that juvenjil tieliqueacy blas been getting re- centiy has obscureti for moany New . Yorkers Vhs efot that oniy a fraction of aur youngýsters are involved inl such activi ies. Theý Bloard of Education hais pointed up hs positive ide of the pic. ture with a report on the tbou- sonds of puipils wo ook paît at yeOr la constructive, civic- minded wcrký under school îs pices.- Juvenil e cency may not drawv sensational headlinie, 'ut it shoulti be remnemybereçi that for mors of hs city's young people are actively engageti in worthwvhile tviisthon ever wanits me to Send imi a P'%-!t- graph ofIlmyseif wlth sanie ,tenl- der sentiment" written on it. What would be appropriate for mue to write On it? A, My advice to you is ta write nothing! A girl's,ý picture in a col- lege room is an attention-, tter as it is -- but written endear- ments on iV can attract the sort of attention an-d commients any well-bred inan or girl shouild hate. roosters frani the1 tree-Vops. Even hough you provide hs boirds with hs best passible ac-1 commoclanodtion some wili escape(2 frorn custody and take ta the, trees. Catchin.g them is ,as biard a job as any on hs farm, A quick grab for a chinken's legs -and if you miss iV flutters ta he grounld and then runs squawking laVa the gardein or aipong theshsrubs. There is nothing more stupidi thon a frightened chicken. Chasing iV wjth a flashlight lsao wastre a! Vimie -- uniless yau cari throw a sack over iV or chose iV into hs. corner cv! a buildingyand then make a grab for iV ii he dark. Dear farmer-friençis, 1 aincerely hope yau don't have too many cbickcens Vo cath, If you ha- thon my' sympathy la' wlth you Now. . do you evsr get be- hind in answering.ý letters?, Who daesn'V? This nay give you an idea. Recently I recelved a thrse-page typewritten letter from o friend. 1V wos foidedi over like an advertisement, stapled lai one place ani came wlth a four-cent stomp. IV be- gan - "Dear P a m iîy a ndc Friends -" IV continued like any ordlnary letter giving high- lights of' family news, also littlc, item-s of 'nterest concerning ymutual friends-w%,hi-e K,. went for his holdoys, how lhs boys, were getting on with their mu.i- sic, andi so on. The letter had evidently been takeru off on' a hiome duplic-ator, obviouLsly with th.,- intention of sending o copy týaia' those in- teresteci' in hearingl from Vhse wrîter. 'in-e, if ths main pur- pose- was tûý Save tine, But I -Could ses 'drawbacks.. For. in- stance, how rmany %vould write the sain(- type of letter ta Dorai as we w'ould Va Aunt Mlin?> Per- sonh-a touches, would apply to oran andi noV the other. Ai-d heaven hslp us if we were gui]- ty -of oalittie criticisin of sither. o he type of letter l- k-now ofis a sortr o!f amily rhaini- ~letter. IV begins with Mabel whD writes ail the nsws relatintig0V hs aild hometowa com-munity. She sends the latter o TKatie. K. adds her bit andi forwards? it Vo, Betty. And so iV gaes unti] iV bas rsai-hed -saab of the Severi- inreýinbr,ýfamily andti 1shen re- turnedt o the ans who started IL. Maybe that is o better ide& thon the dMiplicate letter. la this case the. letter comnes in ia $.eà»l- ed envelope an-d has alVthsei- Viiniate detail~s ans is acëustoîy- ee toa in a fanuly letter. -But neiiiher a chain nor a circulor letter mn- as good, as a, persona] ! etter., Eithser, of cour.se, is b&t- er thio» noletter at- nIL. -An oth er woy 19 to write a colujarn, sucb os this. I w0iideÉ bow-, many hundretis o!f peopi e I write Vo each wesk - ai,fron, whom I 1get o surprisirig fluai- ber of heart-warm-ýing replies. Keep it up, deor 'peaplé. 1 love ,your letters. Why Women Live Longer Thon Men Wihile American nmen aogls tne opulent curves of a Monroe or Bardot, American womsn have been gettîng thinner. While American womsen sigh over the hard lean 'fram.es of Hudson avi Holdien, their own rien have beengrig fat. In fact, h- average 25-year-old Americonî wornan today weighs a goQd 5 pounda less than ber mother 'did 30 years aga, buit the overage American mon of 25 weigh5i about 5 pounids more thon his father aithesasme ale. That was whot the Societyv of Actuaries, which has a way -with figures, rsported last mionth. In an- atternpt ta finti out why people dis before insuronce comn- panies think thiey shi-ould, hs society compiled the weights, hieights, and causes o! death for nearly 5 million Americans whio have died in the past twsniy years. The massive report-Vths biggest statistical study Vo date in the bealth field - confirms wha ths insurance men thought ail olong: Fat Amiericons are poor insurance risks because hey are more likely ta dis of diobetes, digestive disorders, and heort dîsease. The last such stuidy wos mals in 1929. And hs average age, hieight, and weight statis tics con stili be seen on hs charts acked totchausonds cf penny scales. But even though the new average weight f or Arnericaîî moen is highier (5 pounds mors in, yaung odulthood, less' with increosing age) andi for womsni lower (by severa] pountis for- aIl ages) ths insuronce îmen are noV sugg-e-ting, that these are the bestvweighits for gôod hsalth, *They:, 1jun-d that, for bath sexes, 'the 'lowest mortality at ages over 30 wvas among people whno tipped the scales at about 20 pounds below a'verage. SWhat lias can-seçi the national ciange in weight? Goôd food, .th Vhinsurance report said, is the main reason why Amnerican rien have gained weight. As for Amnerican women, they ar lighter thon 30 years ago pri- niorily, becaiuse of "thie greater- vogue of slendei'ness." Modern Etîquette Bva, m sh~ - ,If the bride lias no one te give her away or wall dewa thue aisle 'with her, would it be ail right for the bride and the bride- groom to walk dwthe aisie ta- g-ether? A This miould be aIl right for a home - eddiriý. But i a church- wcddîng 1V is noV dons. IV would be much better for hs bride ta walk alone and hs bridegrooni Vo wait for her at ths he-d f hs aisle. Q. My boy friend -ai college 1"SUIE 46 7- 19 YOUR WEIGHT WEIGHS HEAVILY IN UFE'S SP AN - People who lîve langsst rare people whase body iveights arid blood pressures aie below normaî,l - on the average. Weiyht tables., above, are ai distilla-tion tram a massive, 2-yeair study répres3enting life-arid-death ecxperience of 26 ife insurance companies with ulmost f lys millioný policy bolders. Actuaries - insuriCO statisticians - determinied, for example. that men who weighed 20 pounds n-rore th)ar the avccage for their heigbt and age hocd a 10 per cent highsr deat,- rate. A 25 puund ave-rage %hot the deaith rate tc 25 per cent akiove the norm., Whsn the excess redched 50 pouhcls, the death irate reaiched 4rom 50 ta 75 per cent above the average. As with ail -verages figures are cnltoe by your own personctl physical cond-ition, and your own phiysiLian% advke shoulci be r- -th! ii) dealing W-th your problemn. r - ~,,- s-. ~ N t' Shadres of winter! 1 have knit- ted five pairs of boys' ,mâts this past week. Jerry an-d Eddile were so tickled 'with theirs they wore thei.. t& bed. Children geV pfeas- uire from the mnost uinexpnëcted things. Dave put hais into his coat pockets 4ready for sehool". R~oss hasl't got his ,yet and the flfth pair is 'for a littie neigh- bou'r boyiyncidentally 1 make the mâits, his inother týays mie 75ý a pair and that goes tQwards .niy -"alent money" foir the W*J. Each miember l s spposed to earn ~money ta thé. valne of $2 or more and ha:-idI it in. That littie scheme should' swell the treasur, qie-a bit. There are no rsrc tionÂs as,.tp 'how. the imoy shIal be raisf-d.,,It can be by baking, warl<'or by having ,a pay-tea or, card party. Thodight I would pass the î4ea alo.ng for w t i$ is wor th, Tal~entV money isn't a newW iea bkut ways. of i-iking it otbare:,, ThisU Th-anksgiv.inig weeed. Dee and farnily have gone ta the cottage -- probably for the las - timé lhis year. Anyway they'l,1 be putting the boat in dry diock, brii3ging home the rmator and al the- other stuif that wvas remnoved to the cottage temporarily. Yes, it reqlly Jaoks as if we have fin- ally Coipe to the end of our wvarm weather Now what a scranble thiere ,viil be -- on farmns and in homes - ta geV ali the odd jobs doneý before -.ireeze-up, And yavu neyer know how sourn it mî.ght coirie, judging by what is happening, on the prairie right naw. Imagine bliz- bards -and 'blocked ,roads Sa early in the seasun. Thle poor dean. However, 1 an hoping there won't be too imuch loss frai- snaov,ýerý-ed grain. 1 rernember iwe had that happen one year out west an-d we were able to thiresýh in early spring and. the wheat was none the worse. If haps been rou.gh and windy here today,, whippirg the leaves fromi the ash tr'ees and worr y- ing, the birds. Sparrow7s have been seeking shelter undier oui- peýrn-anent awninigs and dozens of littie juncos have invaded the lawns and gardens. Such, dainty. pretty littie birds. With this suddeni chang-e in the weather 1 an wndering. haw manyý farmn folk ,vill be up aginsct the lovely job Af rescuing contrary pullets ai-d a *1 Men Ages Heiqht 15-16 17-19 20-24 25-29 30-39 40-49 50-59 60-69 5101, 98 113 122 128 131 134 136' 133 2 107 119 128 134. 137 140 142 139 - 4 - 117 127 136 141 14-5148- 149 146 6 27 135 142 148 153 156 157 154 8 137 143 f49 155 161 165 166 - 1-6-3 10 146 1-51 157 163, 170. 174 17 173 6'0" 154-- 16_0 166 172 179' 183 15 3 2 14 18- 74 82 88 192 14 193 4 ,. 176 181 190 199 203 205 204 2 Women Ages Height 115-16 17-19 20-24 25-29 30-39 40-49 50-59 60-69 4' 10(Y 97 99 102 107 1à15 122 125 127 5 Ï06-13- 105--108 113 120 127 -130 131 2 Ili 113 115- 119 126 -133 136 -137- 4 117 120 1 15 132 140 1.44 145 6 - 125 127l 129 1 33--139- 14i7 l12 1, 8 132 134 136- 140 146 155 -160 -161 10 .. 142 144 148 154 1 64 16 152 15ý4- 158 164 174 180 Chili Chasermi Delight the snowball set on Christrnas' With this cap 'n' uilt- -ten set :Done in white. ai-d*a colour. 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