Behind The Scenes In High Society Ataset 57, Cecil Beaton fI oýne of thelosec'Eýrs in the sealm of chi-chi. As a young mnau at the univýersity, hle was a tremn- bling snob5 who wanted to know the "best people at Cambridge, if there are any,"e and lie ha3 ,grown up ta becomie photog- rvapher to the British Royal famn- ï1y, the eostume designer for "My Fair Ld, and aitogether as fragiant a Gswell as ever waftedi amaong friendshipa with such peo- pie as Edith Sitwe il, Greta Gar- bo, Pablo Picasso, Gertrude Stein, mid the Duchess of Windsor. The diaries of such a man frorn the age of 18 tç, 36 rnight be expected to be somnewhat re- barbative. But "The Wandering Years"' is flot, and for good rea- sons: Beaton b as feeling-s as weil as whirns; hc is seîf-critîcaI as well aýs sel-f-intoxicated: and he write about lis environiment with cornî insiýght as wý,ell as infaiuation. He cant heip be2ing hinse!If, boutle knows a good deal abDotht that self is. The resu_ is dan acute self-portrait Rnd afaciatngpanoiarma of the world cf high and gasping eash ion. M.tof lis page read like breathlýess and pivl g gsip,. Paies of William Ran-dolph Elarst atl hîs California castie, San Simeon, are intimnately des- crbdin ail their heroic-scaile Cu~ut.Adele Astaire devat- edly leamýrns ew dance steps frorn young Ný egrioes. Greta CGar- 'bo rl~xsin ian evening eof the- atrcalhoreplysigîs "tomor- row 1 got ta w ork w %ith a lot of peope wo ar ded,"and gives B3eaton a yeloDrse "whliflh she had kissed, d which 1I naw toak: up the trrtstairs ta keCep presse betwee hepageos of M7y diary. Pablo Picss srprisecs Beýato)n by aigfu1 tr which is flot mn the leasýt chc ut.hihpas- Sesses its onsud virtues. France's prtcna "intelli- gence, wit,ýd authority" jean TEMPTING -- KristiriaKauff- mon, 17, 'piqys opposite Tony Curtis in the forthcoming film, <Toros Bu'ba,'" boised on a clossic Ru3sson tale. Born in Austria, the ,cnew acreen "f du" wos seen creviously in "Town Without Pt. ceýntral unhappiness - "the per- sonal tragedy of beisig abandoni- ed by lovera." Gertrude Stein and Alica Pi. Toklas are a, easy as old pairs of espadri-'lles. Mrs, Wallls Simpson makes Bea- ton her confidant just before lier ,wedding ta the Duke of Windsor, when everything iS SO Straine-d, aithougl tlie du,.ke'.q equerry$, For- wood, 'seemed pooped but alert,' When Beaton la finally siwmmon,- ed te photograph Queert Eliza- beth of England, just before World War Il, she acts liRe a, happy young girl enJoying a, treat. In the midast of such ga-ga ex- citements, however, Beaton re- mains a student of himself, 1winc- ing at his snobbery, and his early unpopu.larity. ,,He tells how he was bullied at aschool (by a gang led by Evelyn Waugh), and was sonie years l. ater thrown into a river by other tail-coated giuests at a grand social occasion. He re- calîs how thre arcli-faâshioniable Noel Coward, one of his idols, first scathingýly imicked himi and then gave hlm advice: "Your sleeves are too tight, your voice is too higli and too precise. You m-ustn'Ct do it, 1Itcloses so -many' doors." Beaton also tells protes- sional tales on hiniseif: How, for instance, a veteran plotographer beat hlm to the front p'ages with1 pictuLres of thep Windsor mar- niage, Beaton w r i t e S exceedingly moigpages on the deatl of' lis father, a ovigcricket-play- ing,, businessýman ta wlose mem- ory the book is dedicated, and on that of bisý brother, an RAF f lier. Andc nowliere dooes Beaton write wtl m-ore arsigsuggesijon- th an in an enitry dunîni-ikg 1935-: 1 drug myseit anSt reality by plungin,>g int-o Vork and engage-, mients., without allawýing myseif tirne ta le aware cfantlngbe- I mningle with toa mii-anýy peuple; j.r daedby too nimnyights. MlY sethe re'tua qu ick, rny articles tao quckfiemyphot,,o- gra-,pîs to maY ...Iarn atbest abio aapprecýiate on1-ly certaîin spfcalforrns 1-of bg aand Q.When wv'riting a letter or- noiüte t a brothier and sister (both eunmarried). mtiay ýone ad- dress thse einvelope fQ "Miss D)or- 1othy Noirris anmBotei A. IN(e v e r. Thec envel1ope s1louild be ddesa either taý the sittor the bronther, but nover tabath. Q. Whlep a -womnan guest is leaving a party and the men are stanlding nearby wvaiting for hier f0 niake lier exif, and she is en- gaged imnüconversation with the hostess, s hIo 0 i 1d thley reillain standing or may the.y sit downi? A. They ,,.slou;îld remain s:tand- ing for) so long as the2y are neýar- by, It woul-Ald, aevr be ail rigîit for tlem to) sit dawn if thaey maove t[a0 terpart 0ft Iha Q.What is an appropriate fhing f0 say to ia fellow emýPloy-f e whenheliereturnus to the Offic after mhe funeral of a parent? _A. A bief, but warm,bnd c1as:p should le anough Or just, 'inveryv sorrv.-' Don't lauinch intua an lngspeeches, or Lask qutestions. SHAPE 0F '62--Travis Hudson, wholiI appeor- in Leortord Stiilmon's "New Faces of 1962,- wears one of the 100O cos- turnies mode for the show by Brooks Costumes. ~w~~-coLi~,eP. Ctô,.re We fhavectually co'rne ontl of the edeep fre(-ez2--and 1, for one, arn veryv glad. The cold' winds were bad enaugh ,bbutl stepping arounid on thic (e was, even wors-to saiy nothing of the glare of thie brigî,t sui, on the snaw an-d ice. 11t was almnost bnineven i sewr u Pair of Leaves Looking forsaein u- 1usual? crochet tls paýir c0! af idoilis -pretty, andi praicical. Leaf doilies - for clair set table. For luacheon set, crochet ia gran usset toues, or match ichina. Pattera 750: dloilies 15-16 and lOxlî½ 2indcles ia No. 30. Sand TIRTYFIECENTS (staimps cannot be accepted, use postal nota for safety) forý this pattern to Laura Wheeler, Box 1, 123 Eiglteentl St., New Toronto, Ont. Print plainly PATTERN NTJMBER your NAME and AD- DRESS. FOR THE FIRST TIME! Ovar 200 designs In aur isew, 1962 Needflecraft catalog -- biggest ve!Pages, pages, pages of fas- ions, home* accessories ta kit, crochet, sew, weave, embroidar, quilîtSüee no-nthits, cloths, spreads, toys, linens, afghanrs plus fneýe paqttennaw, Setsd 25<1. Ontarlo resldents mua incl l lû Sales Tax for eacl CATA- LOÜ orde-red. There La no saýes fax on th*. patterna., WeCel av ijttie ta grumnbla about la tis ;part of Ithe world, Even at ze-ra mlost 0f our b huses are so atquippad ýthat we can be carnfonotable and wVarm. Our, main wnorry lm ad walris [oct for ourselves 1but for ourfiends and I~~~~~~ la atr rm Cc -a friend ivn nerwna .d it waa mostly about tiie weaýth-er. OQn Cîistias Day a taxiae liad Sa thýe diver ieU ilis cail on the mnain road and wlke id Up tfIa. street ta collact Cicely and lhan ov7ernL-igît caise. Anouther tii-e sle wvanted ta visit sste-i-la l a lospital at Lew,,es but shie ccoldnt bca Illte lbuse-s haýd And since ber lattIer wavýs written .1 knoltera have ,ýbeen territ ic gales wepigacrass fhe cau- tr.Sa, in c-omparisýon, wlat have io- t camuplain bot The earLly part cf he e ;ai al- ways seemsa f0 blring anl iluxII of mail. And how 1i do love geIt- tingc leterýs' BuOt tIen, doesn't evei-yon(me' Partner( goas for- the mail about eee-hry-rur al daliver. 'Wlih ha caes ila my fii-st questlion is-"ýAny letters to- ay"1fthere are, letters t1Ien- f asit downaradread tliemn. Dinn-rer las ta wvait puntil 11-i have anjayed and igÏested ten. Sd ice lat- tera m-osýtof(fie imie but samne- tirnea,2 they'vmaR,ýe me feel guityý For instance, in a recet ete Lillian C. NwrIote-"Iwassode lighted taIoget 'your nice, longi, ltter-buit 1 do wish you would write more often - your 1 ettars are always so interesting." Well, tha-t waa news to me. 1 didni't knoùw 1 wrOte an ýintaesting lat- ter. 1 just write.-penîiod. But 1ier remnark set mne thinking an -d I triad ta analyse various types of lattera. And do you know wlat 1 discovared-.-I1 ound the sort of letterïs people enjoy maost are the cnes lat show interest in tle r-ecipient's pansonal affairs, and do nat dwell too mnuch o- the ,vritclr's own wvornias and af- flictions. I amn sure you know' what 1I-mean. IHaven't yousomie- tises lad a latter froni your sister or Aunt Susie going into detail about the troublete'v had witl Junior or tnea latest argument witl anae of the "in- 1Paws" TIen at the end of the letter the writer sy-Imso- ry Fred lias bean in lospital. HIop e 'you lave ail gat over the 'flu and that the children are back to school. Guess tlat'sý ail for now. Thea closing remarks show how littie genuinie inteneat the writ- an lad in the othen parson's prob- lemai.Na I do't mean we shouldni't write about Our own personal attains,-it is only nat- oral tînt wa 'sloujLld-bu-ttfhay augîlt ni ot ab he lmnain tapie 0f thelet- r ltrc and con- cern for the person f0 whomn we are .writing should surely corne first, also letters should be the media for an interchange of thougîits and idleas concerning other than farnily affairs - for instance an opinion about somne particular boo--k, concert or tele- vision programi, or a dlescrip- tion of sorne ouitstaniding- hobby -and of course a few intelligent remarks about the problerns of the world in general would in- dicata we are not exýaetly living_ in a- world of oui ownl. liltefl]you isom ething aise 1 have discovered. It is mo6thar and dad, or .tue grandparents, who hld the family together. Mother, la 1er friendly,' chatty way, gives youail the news about the other cousins, uncles and aunts. Without keeping up a steaidy cor- respondence with other memnbers of the( farnily* you know what theyv are- doing through mutheï's letters., Withut realising Tt mother is the central figure within what îmigît otlerwise b2 a loosely knlit fnîy circle. Thik ac, hose of you who have.-bat -yOur pa1rants, and you wïsi irealize tInt twhat I have said is trrre. fHow nrcdo ou know alitn.it ,,r econCi and third gen-, erzltion rs In?1f you wevre f0 taRe a !iLirrieci lrp ota ie Old ba-wassl yrnî kassw t lrn a m ae a -tgeti n bock than il, duus tjd'ay, M r popj'L, toak greati pride il, Vrer fa'nri'lv naine-andï' <f5ristiant umsweýr e landed down tram fa ýther t'a son. A FmnîWy Bli'was a ýàtfras- uired poss-ession' in rn-ny l'onesi as in Wil' ne recrdd'tiairths, mnarriages ,And eah-V'ai 1; tents aad purposes a coinritta farniily tree. Is'it tr inuie we-re- vivedi our interest in fai'ly tra- ditions? Villages are disýappeair- intowýnslýecomning Citie.s, farnl ily narnes forgaotten. One thing', we ca)n do ta preserve local bis- tory 'ý-i S to k, ýp ,ln tciLcIl w itl1aur own immecdiate f'amilyv - andi thiere is no) better wayv than bv writing letters.Ho about it, frieds-wat aout those let- torjs you lavi\e forgotten ta an- TRY-TRY AGAIN BANDIT -Thr ae r of a onyed ineg agenc y in Miai ws con- fronted by an arn-sed bandit who diemanded-c: 4"Give m1e al your mioney!" The money was abouit ta be landed avec wlen a customer walked i. The maoneyil was ra- turned to ic cdrawver, and the revolvr luriedly returned to the bandit's pocket. This scene. was rapeated no10fewe-r thanfouli times before the peristnt a- ber secured lis "a. Wtman areý tobam'frnot cf the Iyingilen dlýz They il%- sist ont asking qwuestions.S DIPLOMACY Leavig the'hotel, a mîIserle guest stalked past the door-, without tipping him. Neve\ýý less, the doorman heped the i-- into the car and said: "In case you tiappen to lose your wallet on the way home, sir, just remember that you didWrt pull it out here."' Styled-To-Slim PRINTED PATTERN flit a ila o ýa aufl ,wýitihi a. uholé(e off lrdori. iiskinits. Gloose prýrit,, hcso we texýtures of.ci a, ao. Printe-d Pkt i rn ,494Zt H t S*ize-s l4l' &ý 1R ,20, 22 , 2 -1'l7- S7 iz i akes 4s.yarda.ý 35-inch fabnic; % ,,yard contnast. Senjdý 'FOPTY CENTJS (stamnp- canno.t , L-ie 2.cepted, use postal nou,--ffor safe-ty4 tn ý paiterra. Ple-ase pJint' liyS'IZ'E,.NAI'ME ADDREfS S TYLE' NME Sen4d or.der tc) A-NNE' PA0. Bol1 123 Eîititeentil SL, Nexw' PAILU'S ltlOJBE.ST ESHI(DN2ý - searaescfreýsses.. suit, s en sembles, nahiz S- ,.U tinii ausnew Pàtter-n Catalog it coilin Swfor Ontaia) esitoii5 must, iincludaq 1'c Sales Tilx fln ,enh(fAlA.l LOG orderedi. '1lineeisýinm ta Cir l' le tr . I âr) i-1~I2 WAY-OUT DOLLS-Sc-viet children are introduced ta tha spoce oge through these plastic cosmanout doîls 1-ha ma est aippeoirs ta hava just emargad f rom o toy modal of the ship i which Yuri Gugarin mode his glob'ue gîrdiling fliqght.