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r ) Classifieds Phoné 623-3303 Classified Deadline -- Monday 4:30 p.m. Handling It... by Lloyd Scott The Canadian Statesman, Bowmanville, January 2,1991 11 Daycare MOTHER of one will babysit children children of any age in her home. Lord Elgin School area. Phone 6230205. 1-1S Business Opportunities Tender PERSON to"Learn - My business of financial planning and management. management. Who desires above average income and who has managernënt ability. No experience required.! Confidential interview. Phone Edgar 623-2232. 42-tfSN Services PRIVATE Mdrtgages - Thé'plaoé to go when your bank says No! Anubtis Investments, (41,6) 66fri 7200, 110 Green Street, Whitby^ Ontario' 37-tiSN $63 TO TORONTO AIRPORT Cadillac Sedan Executive Service $78.00 TO TORONTO AIRPORT Super-stretch Limousine 623-2916 Visa accepted Div. of Deluxe Taxi ALL DELUXE SERVICES ARE OPEN "24 HOURS" 41-tfS ONTARIO HYDRO CHANGE ROOM AND SHOWER FACILITY DARLINGTON GENERATING STATION Ontario Hydro invites contractors to submit tenders for the construction construction of a trailer complex of approximately 920 sq. metres at the Darlington Generating Station located in Newcastle. The work is to commence approximately approximately February 1,1991. Tenders will be received up to 2:00 p.m., local time, Thursday, January 24,1991. Tendering documents may be obtained obtained from: Ontario Hydro ENS Purchasing Unit 230 Weslney Rd. South Ajax, Ontario L1S7JS Attn: G.B. Stephenson Pfease call for an appointment. Phone: 416-428-4227 Bid security in the form of a certified certified cheque in the amount of $150,000 must accompany each tender. Ontario Hydro may require require the successful Company to furnish a performance bond. The lowest or any tender will not necessarily be accepted. 1-1S Providence-Shaw's W.L by G. Guthrie PRO The M Piano Steel Guitar Tuning Repairs (416) 983-5437 53-4SN Women's Institute held their December 13 meeting at the Maranatha Church with 24 members present. President J. Tax opened the meeting with the Mary Stewart Collect Collect and the Ode. The minutes minutes were read by J. Buma and S. Moffatt gave the treasurer's report. The Games-Night hosted by the This program was d G. Rickards*was, as usual, a preciated by all. ereat success. hour then followed. call, "Name a meaningful gift you have received" was then given. J. Tax gave an informative Christmas reading reading about the "Silent Night Society." The ladies responsible responsible for the meeting gave us an old fashioned Christmas concert ranging from piano duets, skits, recitals and ending with a thoughtful reading titled "No Limits." •am was deeply ap- A social great success. *■ R.'Barnes arrived at .the' meeting to thank us for our \ donation to Community J Care. J. Buma read a letter i from the Salvation Army. ' President J. Tax thanked A. Rickard for opening her home for the Games Night. She also thanked R. Canois and B. Wood for the excellent excellent Bread Baking Seminar which they held. M. Dow gave a report on the Games Night. It was then moved that we give a donation to the Maranatha, St. Andrew's arid the Orthodox Orthodox Christian Reformed Churches for the use of their halls during the past year. M. Arnott gave a report on the Ontario Convention in Ottawa. She discussed "Women and their Environment." Environment." A very interesting roll The liextmeeting is Jan- 1 uary 17 and the subject is soybeans. Ebenezer U.C.W. The Ebenezer U.C.W. were invited for lunch to the home of oùr President Joan Pickell. Eight ladies enjoyed this treat. The primary reason reason for the meeting was to fill out the Presbyterial annual annual reports and to complete the nominating list. An Executive Executive meeting for 1991 members was announced for Tuesday, January 8 at 1:00 p.m. On December 11, the U. C.W. arranged for a bus to take us to see 'The Living Christmas Tree' at the Presbyterian Presbyterian Church in Lindsay. It was an excellent presentation, presentation, emphasizing the true meaning of Christmas. Over the past 36 years of being a father (my first-born turned 36 last October), I've had occasion to look at a great many books on what's come to tie known as "parenting." "parenting." For 12 of those years, I was a book publisher (editor, head of editorial departments, departments, company co-owner) and understand very well how and why many books get published - because there s a perceived market. So, I have a healthy cynicism cynicism when it comes to the published guides, methods and programs for being a good, effective parent. Despite the flood of advice advice from professionals of every stripe, the market for "how to parent" books appears appears without end. The marketing strategy is simple: simple: create the need, then fill it. It's easy enough for book and magazine publishers to prey on parent's fears, uncertainties uncertainties and feelings of inadequacy. It's a tougn job, so to speak, and most parents parents want to do the best they can. They think they need help and are easily persuaded persuaded to consult the latest authority. "Parents all over the world have used the STEP method as a guide to parenting. parenting. Now the authors of STEP address the tough challenges of living with teens," says the reassuring blurb in a recent guide. We're further advised in the same book that being parents of teenagers is more difficult these days because of "societal pressures, well- meaning friends and relatives, relatives, and conflicting theo- Obituary Clifford (Andy) Anderson 111 for several weeks, Clifford Clifford (Andy) Anderson, agea 69, died in Oshawa General Hospital, on Friday, December December 7,1990. The son of the late Frank and Vera Anderson, he was born in Hope Township, and educated at Morrish Public School and Port Hope High School. He was married July 3, 1943, to Audrey Comstock. Comstock. A resident of Bowmanville Bowmanville for 45 years, he had previously resided in Hope Township.,.An.,employee of General Motors, heretired 10 years ago. He was a member of Trinity United Church and of Branch 178, Royal Canadian Legion. From 1940-1945, he served in World War II in the Royal Canadian Air Force. Surviving are his wife, Audrey, son Brian, daughter Patricia and son-in-law Ron Carter, two grandchildren, brothers Chris, Delbert and Neil of Port Hope, and a sister sister Ruth Gian ville of Co- bourg. He was predeceased by brothers Bruce, Ross and George. Funeral services were held on Monday at the Morris Funeral Chapel, Bowmanville, with the Reverend Reverend Frank Lockhart officiating. officiating. Cremation. Interment Orono Cemetery. ries presented in books and magazines, on television, ana through other media." So much for the competition! This book is different, of course, as are all the others. "Practical, down-to-earth," are among the claims they all make, soothing worried parents that, at last, here are the correct answers to their troubled questions. My teenage son remarked after browsing through a couple of such books lying around the house, "Books on how to look after your car or motorcycle are okay. They're machines. But books on how to live with teenagers leave out the most important thing-the voices of the teenagers themselves. How can parents learn to live with them if they don't talk to them about it? Teenagers Teenagers are people." In other works, learning to be a parent isn't like learning some generalized "how to " skill. The term "parenting," like skiing and house-painting, creates the misleading impression aille we can that learn to do it correctly correctly by doing it the same way. And that s nonsense. Learning to trust our teenagers, for instance, means learning to listen to them, not to experts. It's not the manuals and guides that get us through those difficult times when communication communication breaks down. The moods between parents parents and teenagers are often uneasy, even explosive. Each gets as angry as the other. But the sometimes unbearable tension and hostility hostility usually subside. That's the time to talk and begin to repair the damaged trust. Like other parents, I've often been at the end of my rope with one teenager or another, only to discover that they're at the end of their rope with me. From our own teenagers, from those unique relationships, we can learn whatever it is we need to know about being being good parents-for them. v . m & s@®|, .. "Helpful, friendly, knowledgeable. That's IGA service." JAN & PAUL ÀDERNETHY ADERNETHY'S IGA ! S OPTIMISTS MAKE DONATION TO CADETS: The Optimist Club of Bowmanville has donated an overhead projector to the Bowmanville Sea Cadets for use in future meetings and training sessions. The donation was made last month during the corps' annual Christmas dinner. In this photo, Lt. iER i Mike Carter, Commanding officer and Kae Aber--,' nethy, President of the Navy League, accept the!* gift on behalf of the Sea Cadet Corps. Optimist;. Club executives shown here include: Club President-' Clare Howse; Sam Ivanoff, Secretary; and Jim Win-;- tonyk, Vice President. The price of HUNDREDS of items has been REDUCED due to the implementation of GST. For your convenience look for items marked with green dot in store." OPEN SUNDAY AT MANY LOCATIONS CHECK YOUR LOCAL IGA FOR SUNDAY HOURS. nat ALIEN'S PURE APPLE JUICE 46-fl. oz. tin SAVE 1/2 PRIC COKE OR SPRITE Selected Varieties, Regular or Diet s 7S0 ml ret. btl. case of 24 x 260 ml tins QUALITY MEATS DEADLINE FOR APPEALING YOUR 1990 PROPERTY ASSESSMENT Tuesday, January 8th, 1991 The final day for appealing your 1990 property assessment assessment to the Assessment Review Board is Tuesday, January 8th, 1991. Your assessment will be used to calculate your 1991 municipal and school taxes. You should appeal your 1990 property assessment (a) if you are dissatisfied with the amount of the assessment, even after discussing it with your Regional Assessment Office; (b) if you appealed your previous assessment and the appeal has not been settled; or (c) if you received a Notice of Property Valuation which does not reflect a settlement of your previous appeal. The Assessment Review Board is an agency of the Ministry of the Attorney General and operates less formally than a court of law. It is authorized to decide if your property assessment is fair and equitable, compared compared with similar properties in your area. You may present your own case, retain a lawyer, or ask a friend or relative to act as your agent. A Notice of Appeal form is available from your municipal office, your Regional Assessment Office, or the Assessment Review Board. You may also use the reverse side of a Notice of Property Valuation or write a letter, Appeals should be forwarded in writing to the Regional Registrar of the Assessment Review Board at the address shown below. If you have any questions or require assistance in filing the appeal, please contact your Regional Assessment Assessment Office, The address and telephone number are in the Blue Pages of your telephone directory, under "Property Assessment Information." Ministry of Revenue Ontario Regional Registrar Assessment Review Board 277 George Street North, Suite 207 Peterborough, Ontario K9J 3G9 a i/s mici FRESH! CHICKEN LEGS No Docks Attached lb. 3.26 kg SAVE 1.40 LD. LUVS OR PAMPERS ■MAPERS^e Assorted Varieties pkg. of 26 - 60 SAVE 1.00 CLOVER LEAF CHUNK LIGHT TUNA In Water, Skipjack 164 g tin SAVE .00 glass jar SAVE 1.00 IGA NATURAL CHEESE CUTS Brick, Colby, Mozzarella or Marble Random Weight Package lb. .94 100 g ASSORTED U| VARIETES w | Feature Price Without Coupon $.79 »a. 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