a THE DAILY BRITISH WHIG SATURDAY, OCTOBER 9, 1920. td In the Realm of Women---Some Interesting Features Contains more flesh forminé 'matter, than beef." Bakers Cocoas 1s for robust men anid all who:must have a great deal of issue building material fo repair. Si 1ICal and mien- oes 18 deliciofis, Purezand wholesome: and i8 made By, #ieis it sever ven any sas DR chanical process:-withous dhe se of chemicals. so. Preserving sme myer, fom vin in ny te fheexisite flavors aroma and QlotoLthe high bade cdcoa beans e. Olly © Walt Baker Co. 4 3 * Advice to Daughter Mary. Perhaps, my dear, having read this little book which I am going to place in your hands, you will want to know when your "Daddy Karl" and I came to the conclusion tha: we could live a little more successful and beauti- ful life it we lived it together, than ir each should go the way alone. You will be somewhat surprised, ny dear, in fact, I was surprised my- self, on looking back over my life, to find that Karl Shepard never de- finitely proposed to me. He never asked me, Mary, in so many words, to marry him. He never put that question to me, which it is said that 4 man always puts before marriage and « woman always asks after. Kar] Shepard has never said to me, "Do you love me?" He never asserted, of our feelings for each other and yet I know I am a part of him. There is a peculiar oneness between us that makes it impossible for me to even him he never thinks of himself unless the thought includes me. . We are perfectly content. I am not quite sure, my dear, if the words happiness and content are synonomous. Indeed, I think one | can be content without knowing the | great heights of happiness and one can be happy and still long for a pas- sive level of content. I know now, my child, that you are saying, "There you go, mother dear, playing with the spiritual, instead of the obvious meaning of words." But I must tell you, dear, that whether you consciously or unconsciously de- duce these spiritual meanings, being & woman, you will have to live by them. Men, by long years of evasion, have | be able to forget, or lay aside any- thing but the obvious. And because they do this they have put upon us, my child, the duty not only of bear- ing the consequence of their forget- ting, but they have also made us the custodians of the realities, men rebel against this duty at your time of life, they come, at mine, to accept it not only contentedly, but with a kind of proud happiness. There, 'my child--there I have jug written the difference between, and the definition of, the words content and happiness, because we a because w Fate goes pattern of that ch Fate, after all, is inexorable, not re not free agents, but e stumble on blindly, while on coldly and sometimes it seems to us, cruelly, marking the angeable thing we call Destiny. Looking back tonight, after read- Ing this story of my other life, I am wondering if I should have been a happy wife to Karl if I had never been the wife of John. Or, if Johan had come back from that tragic ride and we had gone into the new home to "jog along together" would I have beén as happy as I am now? which thoughts are rather tytile. had done so--"" I believe that that word "if" makes almost all the trouble in the world. Looking back, we always say, "It I You remember the poet uses about the same idea, but he doesn't use the words, when he proclaims-- pen. "Ot all sad words of tongue or The 'saddest are these: 'It might have been.' " All of KITCHEN ECONOMIES ~-- By ISOBEL BRANDS -- {Three Ways to Make Delicious > Bak ed Beans. Beans baked Hoston style will al- ways be popular, for there is no othe er way of cooking them in which the @elicious flavor so thoroughly per- meates the dish as the Boston met- hod of slow baking. But nniess the over is being used simultaneously for other cooking turposes the use of gay, for 50 long a p:1.cd makas toe dish rfar from an €ccaunical ona. Tae bost i Way i8 to use s hreless codier. One has to leave tne beans in the firsiess tional cost for fuel, and the longer the beans are baked in a slow heat the tenderer they will be. Boston Beans, 1 quart of navy beans. 1% pound of pork. - 1 teaspoonful of salt. _ 2 tablespoonfuls of molasses. 1 tablespoonful of sugar. Use any large casserole if the Te- gulation bean pot is not available. Cover the beans with cold waterand let soak over night. In the morning drain, cover with water and cook slowly. Test for tenderness by trying it the skin will crack when touched. Drain and place in casserole. Press the pork on top, rind up, Mix the salt, beans. If this is not enough to cover, 8iX to eight hours. Test occasionally, cover that the top of the beans may brown, iii Pan-Cooked Kidney Beans. for a long time, but there is no addi- | DRINK 0X0--and KEEP WARM ! No wonder UXO is a favorite winter beverage lined ar gtion Prepared In a minute -- the minute you want i. sugar and molasses with one cupful | of boiling water and pour over the | add more water, Cover and bake from | and during the last hour remove the | A CUBE TO A CUP CORSETS Elegance-- Comfort-- Economy! "D.& A" corsets are up-to-datd in style and of excellent workmanship. Their great popularity has made possible their Tow price ; they are produced in large quantities in a splendidly equipped corsetry, But when one nears fifty, my child, when a woman notes the slanting rays of the sun in life's afternoon, it she has learned anything from life, she knows that the '"'might have been" was a false chimera and the "was" is the only thing by which she could have come where she could look into the twilight and shadows with any kind appreciation of not only what is, but what will be. I learned through the great rest- lessness and so-called unhappiness of my youth that there is given to all of us a bigger, broader and more beau- tiful thing than love in this world and that is Life. As I write these words, my child, I hear your father Karl's footsteps outside my door and I think I will in the morning drain, cover with cold water and cook until tender but un- broken. and place on back of range to dry. Melt two 1ablespoontyiy of beef drip- pings, mix and heat in the frying pan with a lit- tle chopped parsley. pepper, and when piping hot pour in th® beans. until thoroughly heated, and serve at once; also cook Boston style, Soak kidney beans over night and Drain, sprinkle with salt ith half a grated onion, LA DIVA® S$" Corsets, Sold Everywhere. DOMINION CORSET CO. Quebec, Montreal, Toronte, Makers of * & ""GODDES. SH Yea Add salt and Shake for two minutes or Beans and Rice. 2 cupfuls of cow peas or lima beans 1 cupful of rice 1 tablespoonful of butter 1 teaspoonful of salt 1 slice of pork After the hard siréhtious day "in the office, in the workshop or in the field, there is nothing so, refreshing as. a ei v STI IER S RITRY Coffee) RC ge or Rideau Hall wercor COFf@@ cunereres THE BEVERAGE THAT CHEERS YOU up' sleaming cup of' | But this much comfort I will give you, dear: | read them to him. Monday--The God's of Jade. Soak the peas over night in colli water. 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A Do You Need your Furnace overhauled for the cold weather? We have a competent staff of workmen who are at your service. Give us a call and you will get prompt attention. (Continued From Page 3.) Mrs. Van Straubenzie, Beverly street, entertained at tea on Thurs- day, in honor of Rev. J. O. Crisp and Mrs. Crisp, who are leaving for England next week. Miss Hattie Crisp and Miss Edith Van Strauben- zie were at the tea-table with its centre of autumn flowers. Mrs. Van Straubenzie's guests, who were all old friends of the guests of hon- or, were glad of this opportunity of having a farewell chat with them. Among thdse present wers Mr. and Mrs. Frank Dobbs, Mrs, O'Hara, Mrs. A. MacPhail, Prof. and Mrs. Callandar, Mrs. Gamsby, Mrs, Hague, Mrs. Norman P. -Nisson, the Misses Muckleston, Misses Lyman, Miss Lewis, Miss Maud Betts, the Misses Crisp, Miss Ada Bates, Miss K. Wilson, Miss Mollie Cartwright, Miss Gertrude Whitehead, Miss Mol- lie Richmond, Archdeacon Dobbs, the Dean of Ontario, and Mr. Birkett. : LI The Royal Military College was fortunate in having most glorious October sunshine for the field sports on Wednesday, and throngs of peo- qui bridge, sure of a delightful after- | noon. The R.C.H.A. band was pre- sent and played during the pro- gramme and afterwards for the dance in the "gym." Tea was serv- ed from the marquee on the green, There were a great many out-of-town guests present who had come to Kingston to see their sons, brothers or sweethearts, show their prowess in the sports for which the college is famous throughout Canada. * = * Mrs. T. W. Savary, St. James' rectory, was one of the hostesses who entertained at the tea hour on Thursday. * The spacious rooms were filled with asters and chrysan- themums and other flowers of autumn. Miss Rosalind Corbett, Brantford, who every one was glad to welcome to her old home, re- ceived with Mrs. Savary in the tea- room. Mrs. A, N. Lyster and Mrs. A. R. B. Williamson were at the dainty tea table with its lovely centre of asters. and were assisted LEMON JUICE TAKES OFF TAN Girls! Make bleaching lotion if skin is sunburned, tanned or freckled Squeeze the juice of two lemons into a bottle containing three ounces of Orchard White, shake well, and you have a quarter pint of the best freckle, sunburn and tan lotion, and by some of the younger guests. * a 9 through the meat chopper, mixed Mrs. Bruce Taylor, the Principal's Residence, 'Queen's Unfversity, re- ceived for the first tims this season on Thursday afternoon and many people went out to enjoy a cup of tea and a chat beside the open fire in her cosy drawing room. In the evening the principal and Mrs. Tay- lor were at home to the staff, who remembering the pleasant evenings of last winter, are looking forward to as charming ones this year. * * Miss Edith Carruthers, "Annan- dale," was the hostess of a small bridge on Thursday evening in honor of Miss Althea Hazen and Miss Elspeth McLaren, St. John, N. B. who are Miss Marion Ogilvie's guests, - * . Mrs. Norman Stuart Lesslie en- tertained at tea at the Country Club, on Thursday, in honor of Miss El- speth 'McLaren, st. John, N.B. * Miss Cartwright has come into town and is with Lady Cartwright at 37 Union street. Miss Mollie Cartwright went out to "The Maples" on Friday. Mr, and Mrs. John L. Whiting, Clergy street, went down to Ottawa to-day and will spend the week-end at the Chateau Laurier. iJ Capt. and Btrs.' Ar Joly de Lot- biniere and family safled on Satur- day for France, and will spend the winter in Paris, Canon Fornerf, Peterboro, {is spending a few days at "Moodie Cot- tage," Belleville, Miss Lucile Jeffreys, Montreal, who has been visiting Mr. and Mrs. John McKay, Sydenham street, is now with Dr. and Mrs. Gardiner, at "The Chestnuts." x Miss Clare Millward, Toronto, who wag in town for the Hollister<Cobet wedding on Wednesday, has retyrned home. « + a Mrs. W. Gordon Horn, Erie, Penn., is visiting her sister, Mrs. Harold Claire 8impson, Cataraqui. Miss Jean Dargavel, Rigin, Miss Stafford, Sudbury, were in town for the sports at the Royal Military College on Wednesday and were with Dr. and Mrs. R. J. Gardiner, "The Chestnuts," Johneon street. * * * Mr. and Mrs. Frank MeMurray have returned to Watertown, N.Y., after visiting with Mr. McMurray's brother, David McMurray, Colling- wood street. Lady Orr-Lewis is giving a dance in honor of her daughter, Miss Helen Orr-Lewis, at the 'Rits-Cariton, Mont- real, on Wednesday, October 20th. Miss Clara Wallace, Iroquois, ing the week with her sis- rs. G. H. Williamson, Brock with' breadcrumbs, seasonings and egg, and then either baked like a meat loaf or otherwise formed into flat cakes, and fried lightly like meat cakes. tial and tasty stuffing for baked to- matoes, cucumbers or green peppers A good cold salad of baked beans with rings of green peppers, is a tasty lun- cheon dish. Pound and Half-pound Cans at all dipped in breadcrumbs Baked beans also make a substan- sliced . cucumbers, celery or Blended from the choicest' of mountaln grown coffees and roasted and ground b experts of long experience. eau Hall Coffee is packed in special air-tight cans and retains its right-from-the-roaster fresh ness. GORMAN, ECKERT & CO." LIMITED LONDON AND WINNIPEG 7s TTY that delights the kiddies ! 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