0 PAGE 2 - PLAINDEALER - WEDNESDAY. NOVEMBER It, 1177 Officers Installed At Candlelight Ceremony holiday Dinner Pleats Made For Aike Seniors When the Wonder Lake Senior Citizen's club met Nov. 7 Nativity Lutheran church, members were given the details of the Christmas party to be held at Andres Steak House, Dec. 15. All were reminded to make reservations early with Helen Komoll or Mrs. Otto (Helen) Eckert, both Wonder Lake. Following the opening ceremonies, President Bill Lamont informed the members of the free diabetic screening ests scheduled at McHenry hospital Nov. 14 through 18. Appointments may made by calling the hospital im mediately between 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. through Friday, Nov. 18 Guest speaker Officer Bob Joosten from the McHenry county Sheriff's Police spoke on the subject of "neighborhood watch" and gave hints on home protection. He demonstrated various safety locks and an swered many questions. Members were reminded to send Thanksgiving greeting cards to Irene Solinski, Florence Nursing home, Marengo, and Elva Nelson, Aurora Manor Nursing home, 1601 Farnsworth, Aurora, 60505. The rememberance is DIAMOND ANNIVERSARY-Members of the Frank L. and Cecelia Adams family wUl honor the couple on their sixtieth wedding anniversary Sunday, Nov. 28, at the McHenry American Legion hall. A 18:45 a.m. Mass at 84. Mary's Catholic church will commemorate vows exchanged 88 years ago before the Rev. Weber el St. John the Baptist Catholic church, Johnsfaurg. Nov. 21, 1817. Formerly of Johns burg, Mr. and Mrs. Adams have made their home at 3822 West avenue, McHenry, for the past 18 years. Mr. Adams was employed at Alexander Lumber company for many years until tall retirement at the age of 88. The couple are the parents of four children, Clarence (Kathryn) Adams, Albert (Joye) Adams, Florence May and deceased son, Edward Adams. Grandchildren number seventeen and they are the great grandparents of twenty-three. % sure to be much appreciated. Card games followed refreshments served by Marie Lamont and her committee. The next meeting will be held Nov. 21 when blood pressure screening will take place. Wonder Lake Senior Citizens are welcome to attend. Craft Gallery Prompts Early Bird Shopping St. John the Baptist church in Johnsburg will present "The Craft Gallery" Saturday, Nov. 26, from 10a.m. to 6 p.m. at the' Johnsburg Community club. Crafts will be represented from Wisconsin and Illinois. Also featured will be homemade crafts from St. John's along with a large plant section, a country kitchen and the display of a unique hand made doll house. There will be several various craft items represented such as macrame', jewelry, knits, crochets, plaques, wooden toys and other wooden items, egg art, stuffed items and much more. This is a perfect opportunity for early bird Christmas shoppers. There will be a minimal admission charge at the door. IGSSSSSS^Hfes BIRTHS CHILD ABUSE SPEAKER J. Scott Campbell, ACSW, associate director of Family Service and Community Mental Health center, McHenry, will be guest speaker at the Valley View PTO meeting slated Thursday, Nov. 17. Topic of the speech to be held in the school cafeteria at 7:30 p.m. will be child abuse and its prevention. The public is invited. Parents Without Partners, Crystal Lake Smile Chapter 189, held election of officers at the Nov. 4 meeting and the new officers were installed at a candlelight ceremony at the installation dinner dance Nov. 11. The newly elected officers for the 1977-78 term are, President, Patricia Wojtas of Crystal Lake; vice president, Roy Forsbeck of Woodstock; recording secretary, Jan Holm of Elgin; corresponding secretary, Laura Saturday of Woodstock; and treasurer, Mary Alice Carey of Wood stock. The next meeting of the chapter will be held Friday, Nov. 18 at the American Legion home in Crystal Lake. Following the meeting, there will a group discussion on the topic "Sex and the Single Pareht" Newcomers are urged to come at 8 p.m. for the orientation program. There will be refreshments, fellowship and dancing following the meeting. Activities for the remainder of November include a family church service and breakfast, regional conference and dance, family square dance lessions, Thanksgiving open hoilse, Volleyball with the Libertyville chapter, bowling, family movie day, and several coffee and discussion evenings. To be eligible for mem bership a person must be a parent of one or more living children, and single by reason of death, divorce separation or unmarried. Those interested may call 815 459-5262 or write to PWP, P.O. Box 165, Crystal Lake, 111. 60014. Community Calendar McHENRY HOSPITAL FIRSTBORN Robert and Holly Schultz of 2819 S. River road, McHenry,. welcome their first child, a son born Ulonday, Nov. 7, James Robert weighed 7 lbs. 12V4 oz. when his parents first saw him. Delighted grandparents in clude Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Jansson of Lincolnwood, 111. and Mr. and Mrs. Carl W. Schultz of Franklin Park, 111. HARVARD HOSPITAL Mr. and Mrs. Larry Harvey of McHenry are the parents of a son born Tuesday, Nov. 8. NOVEMBER 16 Edgebrook PTO-General Meeting-School Gym-Agenda: Parents Without Partners. Family Service and Com munity Mental Health Center- Regular Monthly Meeting-7:30 p.m.-3409 W. Waukegan Road- Public Invited. LCWC Thanksgiving Party- Town Hall, Spring Grove-12 Noon-Potluck-Flower Demonstration-Guests Welcome. NOVEMBER 17 Town and Country Newcomers Club-Tea, Trflk, and Sew-Home of Debbie Ka jpus-Demonstration-9:30 a.m. Pi Alpha Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi-Regular Meeting- Hostess, Mrs. Joan Corn well. McHenry Garden Club-! Meeting-Home of Mrs. Ralph Smith-1 p.m. McCullom Lake Con-t servation Club-Meeting-8 p.m.-Lakeland Park Com munity House--Agendf: Committee Reports, Futile Events. Mt. Hope Methodist Church, 1015 W. Broadway, Pistakee Highlands-Rumbaz & Lun ch eon--11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Court Joyce Kilmer 573-K.C. Hall--8 p.m. Valley View Girl Scouts- Neighborhood Meeting--St. Patrick's Church Hall-9:15 a.m. St. Patrick's C.C.D. Parents Association-Monthly Meeting- St. Patrick's Church Hall-7:30 p.m. NOVEMBER 18 St. Margaret Chapter of Nairn-Meeting-St. Mary's Oak Room--7:30 p.m.-Bring Christmas Prizes. Wood Sculpture Demon stration by Edward Jirasek- McHenry City Hall-8 p.m - Information, 459-4528. NOVEMBER 19 Free Children's Cartoon Movies -McHenry Public Library-2 p.m. Mt. Hope Methodist Church, 1015 W. Broadway, Pistakee Highlands-Rumbaz-11 a.m. to 3 p.m. THANKSGIVING BUFFET FEATURING ' Roast Turkey, Baked Ham or Bar-B-Que Ribs ADULTS CHILDREN 8JJOO 8 JOO Buffet Includes: Candied Potatoes, Vegtable, Salad Bar and Dessert. -- MENU SPECIAL ===== Butt Steak $6M One-Half Long Island Duckling *59S Shrimp $5*5 Surf & Turf $13°° Filet Mignon *700 New York Strip Steak $775 Dinner Includes: Soup, Salad Bar, Cracker Basket, Candied Potatoes, Vegetable and Dessert. MAKE RESERVATIONS NOW 385-8600 DINNER SERVED 12 noon til 9 p.m. S. Rte. 31 to mi. S. Rte. 120 - McHenry 1 PLEASE -- NO TRESPASSING Ws regret that ths dangers involved with indiscriminate hun ting or snowmobiling do not permit these activities on our properties, and we would appreciate the cooperation of the public in this regard. Our properties are posted against trespassing, and willful violators are subject to prosecution. We particularly ask parents to keep their children away from our areas, for their personal protection. MATERIAL SERVICE CORPORATION Arts & Crafts Bazaar- McHenry VFW Hall-9 a.m. to 5 p.m.-Holiday Hills Women's Club. Sponsors. Annual Thanksgiving Bake Sale-Wonder Lake Company 2 Firehouse, Thompson Road-10 a.m. to 5 p.m.-Wonder Lake Volunteer Firemen Company 2 Auxiliary, Sponsors. NOVEMBER 20 Bus Trip to Barnum & Bailey Circus-AmphitheatUre Ringside Seats--Leaves McHenry State Bank l p.m.- Public Invited-Auxiliary to McHenry Hospital, Sponsors- Information, 385-8633. NOVEMBER 21 Annual Thanksgiving Party- St. Peter's Hall, Spring Grove- 8 p.m.-Prizes and Refresh ments. NOVEMBER 23 Church Women United Medical Van-St. Patrick's Montini School-5 to 8 p.m. NOVEMBER 26 Free Children's Cartoon Movies-McHenry Public Library-2 p.m. NOVEMBER 28 McHenry Senior Citizens Club-Meeting-7:30 p.m.--East Campus Cafeteria. NOVEMBER 29 T.H.E.O.S -Meeting With SMILES-McHenry First Baptist Church-Potluck Dinner-6 p.m.-Bring Table Service & Dish To Pass. NOVEMBER 30 Bus Trip to Chicago Loop- Bus Leaves McHenry State Bank 9 a.m.-Auxiliary to McHenry Hospital, Sponsors- Information, 385-8633. DECEMBER 1 Pi Alpha Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi-Regular Meeting- Mrs. Fawn Vail, Hostess. DECEMBER 3 Free Children's Cartoon Movies-McHenry Public Library-2 p.m. DECEMBER 7 Annual Fashion Show and Salad Luncheon-Johnsburg Community Club-ll:30 a.m.- St. John's Home and School Association, Sponsors. DECEMBER 10 Free Children's Cartoon Movies-McHenry Public Library-2 p.m. DECEMBER 13 Town and Country Newcomers Club-Cookie Exchange-Home of Sandy Howell-7:.30 p.m. DECEMBER 14 Church Women United Medical Van--St. Patrick's Montini School-5 to 8 p.m. Sentimental Locket Worn By Local Bride Cynthia L. Mowrer wore her mother's heart-shaped locket given to her by her parents as a christening gift, when she became the bride of Martin R. Apel Saturday, Nov. 12. The union was blessed by the Rev. Roger Schneider at Shepherd of the Hills Lutheran church during a 3:30 p.m. ceremony. Soloist James Boyd was accompanied by Rosemary Schneider at the organ. White mums and gladioli decorated the altar. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Phillip E. Mowrer of 2923 W. Lincoln road* McHenry, and the groom's parents are Mrs. Joan Apel of 4314 W. Clearview drive, McHenry, and the late Roy M. Apel. The bride wore a gown of white organza trimmed with chantilly lace. An illusion wedding band collar and bodice were trimmed with lace and accented with pearls. The gown was designed with bishop sleeves, deep lace-trimmed cuffs at the wrist and the full lace-trimmed skirt swept into a cathedral length train. Her pearled lace Juliet cap held a fingertip length and blusher veil trimmed with matching chantilly lace. MeHody Buchert attended the bride as rttaid of honor with Mrs. Linda Beaman, the groom's sister, Lisa Mowrer, the bride's sister and Mrs. Pat Schmitt, all of McHenry, acting as bridesmaids. The attendants were attired in A line floor length autumn colored dresses with round necklines and long sleeves gathered at the wrist. Each wore a halo of fall flowers in her hair and carried a bouquet of roses and mums in autumn colors. McHenry friends assisted the groom with Robert Schmitt as best man and Gary Boehm, Clayton Patzke and George Lossman as groomsmen. Mrs. Mowrer wore a cocoa brown full length polyester knit gown with a matching chiffon cape while the groom's mother chose a sienna A line long sleeved dress trimmed with Venice lace. Each wore an orchid corsage. The bridal-' couple were congratulated 'by ISO friends ahd relative& at the McHenry American Legion hall im mediately after the wedding service. Following a honeymoon trip to Florida, the newlyweds will make their home in McHenry. The couple are ' both graduates of McHenry Com munity high school, the bride in 1975 and the groom in 1973. The bride is .employed as a secretary at Miller Formless comany, Inc. of McHenry and her husband works for Paddock Drywall company, Lake Zurich, in drywall construction. McHenry Girls Participate In "Godspell" Dances Candy Bolger and Sue Hoff man, McHenry high school graduates now attending Northern Illinois university, performed in the student dancers' selections from "Godspell" at the N.I.U.'s Anderson hall on Nov. 4 and 5. The entire program was directed by the students and proved to be highly en tertaining to the packed house on both nights of the show. Helpful! "Pardon me, sir, do you know the way to the post of fice?" "No, I'm sorry, I don't." "Well, its two blocks up and one block to the right." MR. AND MRS. KRISTOPHER J. EINSWEILER CONCELEBRATED SERVICE--The Reverends Thomas L. Johnson and Lee Ambre heard the vows of marriage repeated by Cheryl Marie Elbersen and Kristopher John Einsweiler Saturday, Oct. 1, at Bethany Lutheran church. Crystal Lake/Parents of the couple, Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Elbersen of Wonder Lake and Mr. abd Mrs. Kenneth Einsweiler of Galena, witnessed the 7 o'clock candlelight service. One hundred and thirty-five guests toasted the bridal couple at a buffet dinner at the McHenry Country club after - the ceremony. The bride is a graduate of McHenry Community high school and the University of Illinois, Champaign-Urbana and is currently employed by Union-Whiton school district as a vocal music director. The groom graduated from Galena high school and the University of Illinois, Champaign-Urbana, and is employed by John Deere company as a mechanical engineer in Waterloo, Iowa. The couple will make their home in Cedar Falls, Iowa. PHOTOGRAPHY BY N1ES There's An Answer (by Norman Vincent Peale and Ruth Stafford Peale) AT THE KNICK KNACK SH0PPE PIONEER CENTER OFFERS "CHRISTMAS IN NOVEMBER •SILK SCREENED CHRISTMAS CUDS Handmade At Pioneer Center •FREE IMPRINTING With Every $5.00 in Christmas Cards Cards & Table Decorations 20% OFF ON ALL CERAMIC AND MACRAME ITEMS OFFER ENDS THANKSGIVING MY 1328 N. RIVERSIDE DR.. McHENRY Husband A Compulsive Liar Q. I've had a problem with my husband now for 10 years. He has seen twelve psychiatrists, and we have separated at least once a year. He has beaten me, as well as his ex-wife and children. Rut worst of all he is a compulsive liar and has a strong compulsion to please everyone but me and his family. Can you please help? The psychiatrist said no one can help him but himself. He lms lied since he was a child. Is it too late for him to change? A. It is never too late for anyone to change. But change cannot take (dace unless the individual really wants to become a different person. We have seen so many people find a new life through religious faith that we believe any human being can become a new persoa A suggestion might be that you try to bring your husband into contact with this personality improvement force by getting to know people who have themselves been changed. Incidentally, if you yourself have a vital faith it just might convey itself to him. We have a booklet, ThePower to Change Ydur Life, that has helped others with questions such as yours, and a copy of it is on its way to you. Anyone else wishing a free copy may receive one by writing to us at Box 500, Pawling, NY 12564. Wife Doesn't Love Him Anymore- Q. Regarding your column to the person who wrote in about "doesn't love husband anymore," this sounds very definitely to be my wife. We are having difficulty, and there are two children involved. Myself,I do not want a divorce or separation I have seen a counselor but she refuses. I can't make her go, but running away is no way to have a happy life. I never thought the woman I love dearly with my heart would say, "I don't love you." But it happened. I don't believe that two people really stop loving each other, and God doesn't want any marriage broken. 1 would appreciate any suggestions. A. There are definite, practical ways to woo a woman. Some are kindness, doing nice, interesting things for her, telling her how beautiful she is, and just acting happy and pleasant. Make it exciting fa* her to be with you. Help make life interesting for this apparently dispirited wife. Recap how you got her to love you in the first place, and do all that over again. Try and be romantic like you once were. It works wonders. Father Doesn't Like Boy Friend Q. My father doesn't like my boy friend at all, and the thing is he's never even met him. He won't even give him a chance. My father says that my boy friend is lazy. I'm afraid to have my boy friend over because of what Dad has said he'd do to him. The only time me and my boy friend get to see each other is at school. What can I do to get my dad to at least meet him and give him a chance? If I don't find a solution soon I'm going to go crazy. A. It seems that your father has heard something about your boy friend even though he hasn't met him. Fathers often seem unreasonable when they are actually trying to save their children from heartache. Ask yourself if your father is opposed to just this boy, or to any boy. Talk with him about his reasons. Listen-really listen to what he has to say. If you know your boy friend is honest and decent and you like him, you can stand up to your father in a kindly but firm manner. If you make this effort to communicate, chances are you can bring your boy friend home without too much unpleasantness. If thereis something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale to discuss in this column, write to them in care of Box 500, Pawling, NY 12564. If you would like to talk directly with a prayer partner, call Prayer line (212) 481-1050. Reduced long distance rates are in effect nights and weekends. ay? <Si\ut OCl. 3̂ -6790 THANKSGIVING RED CARPET ROOMS Open to the Public McHENRY COUNTRY CLUB 820 N. John, McHenry, III. WHOLE TURKEY, plus all the trimmings, SERVED FAMILY STYLE. Dad carves and takes home the leftover turkey. Minimum 5 persons for WhoU Turkey. Reservations a Must by Sunday, Nov. 20th. Complete Dinner and "Dessert Table99 $5.50 per person plus tax and gratuity. Dinners served from 1:00PM to - 6:00PM. Limited Menu in addition to Whole Turkeys. Reservations call 815-385-1072