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/ PAC.F 18 - PLAINDEALER - WEDNESDAY. JANUARY 25, H78 by stall psychologist from the Family Service and Mental Health Clinic of McHenry County (Editor's note:. This is another in a series of especially written articles for McHenry county readers. Joseph Cools is a psychologist on the Family Service and Community Mental health center staff. This article is "Coping with Death-Anger in Mourning.") - A woman examining her reaction to the untimely death of her husband may feel, to her shame and disgust, that after the initial period of disbelief and grief she is left iwith a vague, but persistent feeling of anger towards the dead husband for leaving her with a financial burden and the responsibility of raising the children. A man feels resentful to an old and trusted friend who has died and left him friendless and with no one to turn to when he needs someone to talk to Of all the reactions to the death of someone who was loved, none is as puzzling or distressing as the very real anger that one sometimes feels when someone close dies. It is important first of all to be able to put a label on that feeling, to recognize it for what it is. Yes, it is anger, real and profound Next, \t is important to examine the feeling and determine wfiy it is present. To the survivor of the deceased, it seems almost as if the dead person had deserted the survivor purposefully. This is ultimately the source of the anger: You have dited and left me here while I still needed your companionship. I loved you and you left me. It is the extraordinary person who can look at this feeling and accept it without the concomitant guilt that is inherent in having a negative feeling about the dead, for there is an inviolable taboo in our society against feeling ill towards someone who has died. Worse, there is the feeling that somehow one is being less than faithful to the deceased by not feeling anything but grief and sorrow at the death of the loved person. ' * The feeling of anger, however, is an almost inevitable consequence of the passing away of a person whom we loved. Ironically, the more we have loved and depended on the person, the more angry we are apt to be at his passing away. This feeling, often felt but seldom expressed, may be a source of guilt to the survivor for a long time following the actual grieving process. The cathartic effect able to say directly and/With no guilt or shame, "sometimes I hate you for dying and leaving me here all alone without you to understand me," can be an invaluable aid in purging oneseit 01 grief and anger, rand getting on with the business of living. VFW Auxiliary Helps Cancer Aid Program The Ladies auxiliary to Veterans of Foreign Wars promote and support many programs each year. One that is supported by members of the Ladies auxiliary to VFW Post 4600 is the cancer aid and research program. The cancer chairman of the local auxiliary, Renee Jende, has successfully raised money in the past year which has made it possible for the auxiliary to donate at least $1.25 per member to the cancer aid and research program. This is a quota set by the Ladies auxiliary to Veterans of Foreign Wars on the state level. The cancer aid and research fund have made it possible for auxiliary members to receive financial aid in the form of a grant at a time when expenses are unbelievably high. In ad­ dition to the aid for auxiliary members, researchers are awarded grants to further research in the many areas of cancer. Last year $101,000 was awarded for cancer research, public education and fellowships. Many auxiliaries throughout the nation make it possible for their members to be enrolled in the cancer insurance program. The Ladies auxiliary to Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 4600 carries this program which provides financial aid to its members should they be stricken with cancer. This aid is over and above the grants from the national organization. Payment of over $14,000 was received by thirty-three auxiliary members in the state of Illinois in a three-month period. This is an increase of almost 50 percent over the same period last year. The donations made by auxiliary members will help make it possible for many to defeat cancer through research. | Political Comer Fund Raising For Democrats On Saturday McHenry county Democrats will hold a fund raising dinner Saturday, Jan. 28, at the American Legion hall, Ringwood road, Guest speaker will be Michael J. Bakalis, candidate for governor. Rep. Thomas J. Hanahan of McHenry, McHenry county chairman of the Democratic Central committee, said dinner at 7 o'clock will follow a 6 o'clock cocktail hour. Tickets are being sold by Democratic committeemen throughout the county. CAST IN PLAY PM&L will present "Death Of A Salesman by Arthur Miller, Feb. 11,17,18, 24 and 25 at 8:30 p.m. at the PM&L theater, 877 North Main street in Antioch. Anna Marie Cina of McHenry is a member of the cast. Reservations should be made by calling 395-3055. Quick--how much are you really worth? Total up the value of your home, stocks, bank accounts, certificates of deposit, land, equip­ ment, personal and business possessions, and the cash value of your life insurance. The total may be a pleasant surprise. *• But estates have unpleasant surprises, too. Because estate taxes can take a hefty chunk out of what you want to leave your family. Estate planning can reduce taxes by thousands of dollars. So see your attorney. And talk to your Country Companies agent about Country Life's full-time estate planning de­ partment. The Country Companies. We're a little different than most insurance people.® A Your {(̂ Country Companies, Agent COUMlftV lire • COUNTRY MWTUAi • COUWTftV CAfUMW # ** M«f A»CA riftf AMO MAftlNt • IMSVAANCC CO»»MMCt BELOW DEALER'S COST 300 CARPET AND NOW AX VINYL REMNANTS WILL BE SOLD BELOW OUR COST IN THIS JANUARY CLEARANCE SALE IN ALL 3 TIDY LOCATIONS 4 DAYS ONLY - JANUARY 26,27,28,29 l CONSUMERS BEWARE. .. IMPORTANT INFORMATION . . . Tidy is marking 300 carpet and no-wax vinyl remnants below our manufacturer's cost. All items must be paid for in full during the four'Hay sale. All items must be picked-up from Tidy within 30 days of purchase or storage charges toll be applied. Prices on these remnants will be good for four days only (January 26,27,28 and 29). If you have seen ads or have visited stores in January which stated factory warehouse prices, wholesale prices, direct mill outlet prices, savings up to 80% or claims that nobody can sell car­ pet for less without seeing facts to substantiate these claims - and did not buy or see prices similar to those listed below then the dealer baited you intQ com int into his store. Please notify the appropriate office in your area for consumer fraud ... if you do not know which office to contact callTidy Carpets & Rugs and we will assist you and direct you to the correct government agency. 4'3" x 13'3" Spears Mars Shag (No. 30082) Reg. $32.00 *4.25 8'6" x 11' Cabin Crafts Great Expecta­ tions Light Cold (No 30129) Reg. $132.00 *29.00 10'6"x12' Milliken Print (Miltitron) nylon (No 30207) Reg. $168.00 *60.00 11' x 12' Milliken Print - Meal for area rug (No 30232) Reg. $1M.0O *58.00 12' x 11'10" Blue Cold Commercial Pat­ tern (No. 30271) Reg. $160.00 *60 12' x 11 '2" Cold Rust Geometric Design (No 30282) Reg. $150.00 *57.00 6' x 12' Columbus Shag (No 30321) Reg. $56.00 *1 5.00 5'8" x 12' Columbus Shag (No. 30332) Reg. $54.00 *14.00 10'6" x 12' Milliken Brown print (No 30362) Reg. $140.00 *53 9'6' x 12' Milliken Red Blue Geometric Design (No 30376) / Reg. $130.00 *45.00 9' x 11'6" Hollytex Sculptured Conven­ tional Gold (No. 30385) Reg. $84.00 *28.00 7'10" x 12' Cabin Craft Tower Place Shag (No 30585) Reg. $66.00 *20.00 12' x12'6" Monarch Kitchen Carpet -with attached foam (No. 30605) Reg. $96.00 *30.00 9' x 11'4" Armstrong Juno Sculptured Shag, nylon, Laurel Green (No. 30649) Reg. $144.00 *36.00 9' x 10'11" Monarch Kitchen Print, with attached foam, rusts (No 30698) Reg. $70.00 *22.00 4' * 12' Cabin Crafts Tower Piaqe, shag, (No 30750) Reg. $30.00 *9.00 12' x 12' Sweetwater shag, nylon, all sides serged (No. 30792) Reg. $60.00 *32.00 12' x 18' Sweetwater shag, nylon all sides serged, (No 30800) Reg. $120.00 *48.00 9' x 11' Trend Sp 122 Kitchen Print with attached foam, plaid print (No. 30842) Reg. $55.00 *22.00 9' x 10'8" Trend Ranger 11, nylon level loop with attached form (No. 30847) Reg. $55.00 *22.00 9' x 11'9" Trend spl 33, Kitchen print with attached foam (No 30853) Reg. $58.00 *23.00 9' x10'11" Milliken, Color Palace 1, Anso saxony, cinnabar (No 30891) Reg. $132.00 *42.00 8'6" x 10'2" Cabin Craft, Tower Place, nylon shag (No. 30897) Reg. $58.00 *20.00 9' x 11'4" Cabin Craft, Stepping In, Sax­ ony shag, nylon (No. 30917) Reg. $110.00 *30.00 9' x 10'11" Cabin Craft, Solarium, con­ tinuous nylon shag tweed (No. 30921) Reg. $70.00 *20.00 9' x 9' Hurrican Galaxy, shag plush with fat foam attached (No 30922) Reg. $63.00 *16.00 6'3" x 11'11" Carson's Shag remnant, nylon rust tweed (No 30958) Reg. $56.00 0.00 6'4" x 12' Royal Scott shag remnants, nylon (No 30962) Reg. $56.00 *10.00 6'5" x 12' Royal Scott shag nylon brown, (No 30978) Reg. $58.00 *11.00 5'5" x 12' Royal Scott shag nylon (No 31016) Reg. $36.00 *8.00 5'8" x 11 '10*' Royal Scott shag, nylon (No 31045) Reg. $40.00 , *6.00 6'10" x 12' Royal Scott shag remnant, nylon (No 31114) Reg. $60.00 *15.00 7' x 12' Royal Scott shag remmant, nylon (No 31121) Reg. $60.00 *16.00 5'8" x 12' Cabin Craft Stepping In, nylon saxony (No. 31157) Reg. $58.00 *16.00 12' x 13'9" Congoleum no-wax vinyl rem­ nant (No. 31176) Reg. $102.00 *32.00 9' x 11'3" Cabin Crafts Aces High drop pattern green and bronze (No 31183 00) Reg. $66.00 *22.00 9' x 11'5" Short nylon shag plush (No 31203) . Reg. $66.00 *33.00 9' x 10'5" Sculptured shag, nylon (No. 31208) Reg. $70.00 *25.00 6'6" x t2' Cabin Craft Tower Place shag, nylon (No. 31234) Reg $48.00 *16.00 8' x 11'6" Cabin Craft Solarium, drop pattern, shag tweed (No 31255) Reg. $77.00 *22.00 9' x 11'2" Cabin Craft Solarium, drop Pattern shag tweed (No 31379) Reg. $84.00 *24.00 12' x 17'5" Evans and Brack Fox Hollow Brown Charcoal (No. 31325) Reg. $312.00 *90.00 12' x 1C7" Evans and Black Burnt Orange shag plush (No 31326) Reg. $140.00 *53.00 12' x 15'6" Evans and Black Val D Or off white (No. 31327) Reg. $315.00 *79.00 12' x 9'6" Evans and Black Burnt Oran Shag Plush (No. 31349) Reg. $130.00 *49.00 12' x 9'6" Evans and Black Crass Green , Sculptured Shag (No 31350) Reg. $120.00 *49.00 6' x 38' Armstrong's Designer Solarian (No 3812-1) Reg. $350.00 *168.00 6' x 35'6" Armstrong's Designer Solarian (No 3813-1) Reg. $336.00 *1 50.00 12' x 14' Carpetron Star Trek Golden Avocado (No 2454-2) Reg. $09.00 *36.00 12' x 14' Carson's Special shag, brown with attached foam (No 3425-1) Reg. $90.00 *36.00 4'3" x 12' Congoleum Cushion Floor, no wax floor, (No 3460-1) Reg. $2S.00 *10.00 12' x 14' Congoleum Cushion Floor, no- wax floor (No 3462-1) Reg. $90.00 *36.00 12' x 11' Congoleum Forcast 2722, no- wax floor (No 3457-1-1) Reg. $60.00 *20.00 12' x 14' Cumberland, Paydirt, Olive tones with attached foam (No 3346-1) Reg. $90.00 *36.00 10'6" x 12' Cumberland, Kitchen carpeting, rust with attached foam (No 2959-1) Reg. 70.00 *30.00 12' x 14'6" Galaxy Revelation, brown and tan with Urethane (No. 4587-1) Reg. $171.00 *95.00 7' x 12' Calaxy Touchdown, stone bronze with Urethane (No 3636-1) Reg. $60.00 *20.00 12' x 24'4" Georgian Notorius with foam, gold tones (No 4060-1) Reg. $192.00 *96.00 12' x 6' Salem Kitchen Print Mat­ chmaker, Blue Willow (No 3780-1) Reg. $180.00 *60.00 12' x 11'8" Salem Kitchen Print, Mat­ chmaker Fireside Rust (No 3781-1) Reg. $80.00 *32.00 12^12' Trend CompatibleKitchen Print, CreehvPrint (No 2168-5) Reg. $102.00 *32.00 12' x 13'4" Trend Kitchen print with foam attached gold tones (No 2705-3) Reg. $85.00 *36.00 9' x 12' Trend Kitchen print with attach­ ed foam, gold tones (No 1960-1) Reg. $60.00 *24.00 12' x 15' Trend Verona Terra Cotta, kit­ chen print (No 2394-2) Reg. $160.00 *40.00 12' x 11'10" Blue Ridge Panorama gold shag with foam (No 1583-1) Reg. $80.00 *32.00 12' x 17' Blue Ridge Panorama, gold shag with foam (No 1582-1) Reg. $115.00 *46.00 12' x 20' Blue Ridge Panorama, gold shag with foam (No 1582-2) Reg. $130.00 *56.00 12' x 11'6" Blue Ridge Panorama, gold shag with foam (No 1587-6) Reg. $75.00 *30.00 6'6" x 12' Gardner Mills, newport, fair­ way green shag (No 3288-1) Reg. $40.00 *16.00 9'8" x 12' Viking Sandunes, Sahara Gold kitchen carpet (No 2125-1) Reg. $84.00 *26.00 7'6" x 12' Evans and Black San Bonito, nylon sculptured shag (No 4319-1) Reg. $90.00 *50.00 12' x 16'6" Evans and Black San Bonito, nylon sculptured shag (No 4029-1) Reg. $188.00 *105.00 5'4" x 12' Evans and Black Val D Or, sculptured shag (No 3211-2) Reg. $66.00 *24.00 7 x 1 2 ' K a r a s t a n T r e m e n d o u s , S o n a a r a green saxony (2312-1-1) Reg. $96.00 *40.00 10' x 12' Philadelphia, Casual, grassy green, saxony (No 3889-1) Reg. $91.00 *53.00 12' x 169' Philadelphia, Casual, grassy green, saxony (No 4203-1) 4 Reg. $141.00 r . *93.00 12' x 9'10" Philadelphia, Casual, Hard­ wood brown, saxony (No 4021-1) Reg. $91.00 *53.00 12' x 8'6" Philadelphia, Casual, Hard­ wood 8rown, saxony (No 4205-1) Reg. $77.00 *44.00 12' x 21'8" Philadelphia, Casual. Hard­ wood Brown, saxony (No 4834-1) Reg. $196.00 *112.00 7'10" x 12' nylon remnant (No 31545?) Reg. $66.00 *16.00 8'3" x 12' nylon remnant (No 31552) Reg. $78.00 *20.00 8'3" x 12' nylon remnant (No 31553) Reg. $78.00 *20.00 5'2" x 11'10" nylon remnant (No 31611) Reg. $36.00 *6.00 9' x 11' Karastan. serenteau. saxony shag (No 31158) Reg. $154.00 *44.00 6' x 20' C A F no-wax vinyl flooring (No 31707) Reg. $156.00 *52.00 12' x 12' Mohawk Celeste Way. printed shag - Ideal area rug (No 31712) ' Reg. $160.00 *64.00 8'8" x 12' Congoleum, no-wax vinyl rem­ nant (No 31717) Reg. $77.00 *22.00 4'9" x 12' Lee's Paradise Island, Sculptured shag (No 31731) Reg. $60.00 *20.00 12' x 12'2" Congoleum, no-wax flooring (No 31780) Reg. $96.00 *32.00 12' x 16' Congoleum, no-wax flooring (No 31781) Reg. $126.00 *42.00 8'4" x 8'10' Walters Nordic Sky, drop pat­ tern, sculptured shag (No 31886) Reg. $80.00 *24.00 9 x 11'8 Milliken Color Palace (drop pattern) saxony anso (No 32002) Reg. $132.00 *48.00 9' x 10'3" Congoleum no-wax flooring (No 32014) Reg. $70.00 *20.00 8' x 12' Congoleum no-wax flooring (No 32015) Reg. 77.00 *22.00 IinVCARPETS I lUl & RUGS Keith Sonnichsen McHENRY, ILLINOIS PH. 344-2772 Loren Miller RICHMOND, ILLINOIS PH. 678-6691 Tidy uses the established geographic retail price when compmmttoe pricing it uied in remnant ads. We alto acknowledge the fact that remnant priccs are always told Mow normal cut and roll retail prices. There is only a sale or special savings on remnants when the retail dealer drops the remnant price from his normal percentage of reduction. 200 WASHINGTON ST./W00DST0CK, ILLINOIS/815-338-1000 STORE HOURS: MON., THURS., FRI. 8-9; lUfcS., WED., SAT. 8-5; SUN. 12-5