There's An Answer (by Norman Peal* and RujhStu^J^ Q. I am voy IgnelyrTm 16 years old Most of the time I feel depressed and I have been crying a lot latdy. Sometimes Icry for no reason at all. Just when I think I have no more tears I start to cry again. I can't even play my stereo because I start scared Could it be a love I will more than that What is wrong BIRTHS to cry. I feel dead inside, never have? But I think wilh me? A. Could be the deep uihappiness, even sadness, to which developing youth is sometimes subject The cause may be an abnormal or emotionally hindered passage out of adolescence. The cause might be emotional dejtfessiveness resulting from lack of normal human relationshipa-perhaps a feeling of rejection. It could be due to something not revealed in your question. But whatever the cause, this kind of /emotional ill health is curable through proper guidance. Consult your local mental health clinic and-or your pastor, doctor or a professional counselor. We are sending you our booklet 12 Steps to a Happy and Successful Life, which has helped others with problems such as yours. Anyone wishing a free copy may write to us at Box 500, Pawling, N.Y., 12564. Sports versus family life Q. I have always believed that suppertime is the perfect time for family fellowship, as well as family devotions. However, our children (age 10 and 13) are on ball teams and it has been nearly impossible to eat together! Ilove sports, and I really wouldn't deny them the fun with their friends. But surely, team schedules must be breaking down family life. Is there any solution? A One has to be flexible and adjustable to circumstances and this often enhances family solidarity rather than detracting from it May we say that in bringing up our own children we found that family devotions took on added meaning and excitement when the time frame was varied and the format innovative. We were always present for their sports events. They, in turn, understood that spiritual values undergird all of life. We had a great time living, playing and praying together. Has tried everything Q. I have a 17-year-old son whom I took to church and raised in the church. Since he has a car and part-time job he has completely turned his back on God. He stays out late, 1,2 or 3 o'clock most every night, and I can't sleep until he gets home. Sometimes he stays out all night. I have tried everything Iv know and pray constantly for him. Please give me some advice. A. Staging out late nights doesn't necessarily mean he has "turned his back on God." You see, God stays up late too. In fact He is up all the time looking out for boys like your son, who don't know enough to get some sleep instead of hanging around. Keep on praying for him to use his head If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale to disucss in this column, write to them in care of Box 500, Pawling, N.Y., 12564. For a recorded message of inspiration and prayer by Dr. Peale call Dial-A-Prayer (914) 855-5111 at any time of the day or night. Reduced toll rates take effect evenings and weekends. Witnesses To Attend Dec. 8-9 Convention "Friends In Service Here" It won't be long before Santa makes his deliveries, and Fish too, are preparing for the delivery of "Christmas Sharing" baskets. Presents will be collected for children, teen-agers and senior citizens. A few suggestions for teenage boys are gloves, handkerchiefs, wallets, shavers, tube socks and scarves; for girls, jewelry, perfume, gloves, scarves and stationery; for senior citizens, perfume, soap, stationery, playing cards, aprons* fancy tissues r and greeting cards; for younger children, toys, books, and items they can use. Wrapping paper, cord, scotch tape, yarn and tags, are needed for wrapping. For additional information regarding location for toys, gifts, non-perishable food items, and taking care of a family please call Fish at 385-0258. Canned goods, fruits, vegetables, meats, and household items, paper products, soap powders, toothpaste, etc., may be left at St. Patrick's church, 3500 W. Washington, Saturday, Dec. 15 and Sunday, Dec. 16, until the end of 12:15 Mass. Go to the west side entrance to the basement and deposit at the top of the stairs. Able-bodied gentlemen will be needed Sunday, Dec. 16, at St Patrick's basement, to help bring boxes in and prepare baskets for delivery during the early afternoon. Older Boy Scouts are requested to call Fish, 385- 0258, to offer assistance. Money, checks or cer tificates from a super market, may be mailed to Fish, Box 282, McHenry, 111., 60050. Perishable items are purchased from these contributions. M.G. John and Diane Wysocki, 1515 W. Lake view, McHenry, wish to announce the birth of their first child, Nov. 19, at Northwest Community hospital, Arlington Heights. Brian Michael weighed 8 lbs. 9 oz. Florence Koath, Car- pentersville, is the maternal grandmother; paternal grandparents are Lawrence and Shirley Wysocki of Round Lake. Great grandfathers are Walter Wysocki and Thomas Tontlewicz. Rose Goers is the great grandmother. Michael Charles Zim merman was born Nov. 25 at Woodstock Memorial hospital, to Mr. and Mrs. Charles Zimmerman, of Woodstock. He weighed 7 lbs. 9Vfe oz., and is their first child. Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Conrad Rupp, Jr., Bradenton, Fla.; Mr. Leo C. Zimnmerman and the late Lucille Zim-, merman, of Woodstock, are the paternal grandparents. The maternal great grandmother is the late Florence Mollison, of McHenry; Mr. and Mrs. Conrad Rupp, Sr., Wonder Lake, are the paternal great grandparents. A daughter, Veronica Marie, was born to Mr. and Mrs. A1 Zaremba, of Pistakee Highlands, Nov. 25, at McHenry hospital, and weighed 6 lbs. 1 oz. She fvas welcomed home by two brothers, Dan and Tony.? i The maternal grand parents are Mr. and Mrs. Anton Rak, of Chicago. Mr. and Mrs. A1 Zaremba, Sr., St. Augustina, Fla., are the paternal grandparents. Great grandparents are Mrs. Jenny Laiacono, of Chicago, and Mr. and Mrs. Lipinski, of Seattle, Wash. imong recent births recorded at ^emorial hospital fqr McHenry county, Woodstock, was the Nov. 28 birth of a boy to Mr. and Mrs. Patrick demons of McHenry, and the Nov. 29 birth of a boy to Mr. and Mrs. Craig Toussaint of McHenry. Dec. 2 was the birthdate of a boy to Mr. and Mrs. James Grothman, McHenry, and a girl to Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Kalsch, McHenry. Mr. and Mrs. Eamonn Donnelly of Chicago Ridge announce the birth of their first child Nov. 27. The baby girl weighed 7 lbs. 5 oz., and was named Linda Marie. Her mother is the former Colleen Keith. Mr. and Mrs. Edward Donnelly, Monaghan, Ireland, are the paternal grandparents. Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Charles Keith of Wonder Lake. Hold County Blood Drive A Mood drive will be held at McHenry County college Wednesday, Dec. 5. Aurora Blood bank per sonnel will be at the college from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. the day of the drive. Donors should come to the college lounge on the lower level of the MCC Main hall building. The college campus is located on Route 14 and Lucas road between Crystal Lake and Woodstock. Donors must be between 17 and 65 years old, weigh 110 pounds or more and be in general good health. Donors are urged to eat a meal before donating; donors cannot donate again for eight weeks. Other conditions which can affect ability to donate are acute allergy symptoms, currently taking antibiotics, cold or flu symptoms, epilepsy, a history of viral hepatitis, pregnancy, and a history of or exposure to malaria. There are varying rules applying to recent im munizations and vac cinations, medications and surgical operations. Specific questions can be answered by telephoning Ms. Louise Lundemo at the college. Helpful Lady--I want to buy an electric train but I want something more elaborate than those you have on dis play. Department Store Clerk- Try the second childhood de partment on the third floor. & SQFLENS For Handicapped Planning Meet For Special Attire Needs Persons with physcial handicaps or limited motion problems need special clothing. Arthritic fingers, crutches under your arms, in a wheel chair - all these situations present problems in dressing or design of clothes worn says Nancy Moore, McHenry county home economist. The University of Illinois Extension office has in formation to help adapt clothing by these persons with special needs. On Dec. 10 at 1 p.m. a planning meeting will be held with 15 organizations and agencies serving handicapped per sons in McHenry county. The agenda of this meeting is to include what types of programs are needed in McHenry county to train handicapped persons in the adaption of special clothes. If any person is interested in this topic they are invited to attend. Those with questions should call Kathi Heberer or Nancy Moore at 338-3737 or stop by the ex tension office at 789 McHenry avenue, Wood stock. The extension service in McHenry county provides educative information in areas of agriculture, home economics and sponsors the 4-H Youth program. • * * * Those who love to argue should get a book of facts. • * * • High flying causes more than airplane acci dents. I Ultra-Thin I I I I I I I SOFT * CONTACT „ LENSES! "CHARGE IT' •Eye Examinations Available O OFF The Purchase of any lenses and frames. Must present this ad. SALE YOUR COMPLETE EYE CARE CENTER LENSES| ONLY! COMMONS VISION CENTERS 4305 W. Elm St . , McHenry (815) 344-3900 ALSO OFFICE AT: (312)223-0020 • • Round Lake Commons Shopping Center E. Rollins Rd. Round Lake Beach, Jl. I Jehovah's Witnesses from the Woodstock-McHenry area are scheduling a two- day convention Dec. 8 and 9 at their assembly hall in Janesville, Wis. Over 60 local delegates expect to attend, including family : members of all ages. A total of 1,100 are expected from • E l e v e n ̂ H e a r b y congregations.' 1 Roger B. Dixon, circuit overseer, will coordinate the convention program. William Young, a local elder and presiding overseer of the Woodstock congregation commented, "The convention theme willl center on a Christian's bearing fruit and proving N. HOSPITAL NOTES MCHENRY , Admissions:Irene Graef, William M. <, Klassner, Virginia S. Josephson and Gerda Dominich, all of McHenry. WOODSTOCK MEMORIAL Admissions: Peggy Rupp, Nena Thornton and baby Cheryl Lamberg, all of McHenry; Cecil Gresham, Walter Czarnecki, Geraldine V a n c e , J o s e p h i n e "\Jaworowski, John Bohac, Carmellinda Garcia, all of Wonder Lake. HARVARD MEMORIAL Admissions:Doris Mc- Carroll and Maureen Caron, of McHenry; Rosemary Pedretti, Wonder Lake. himself a disciple of Christ in accord with John 15:8. Various portions of the program will offer scriptural counsel outlining ways we can be filled with righteous fruit and also keep free from bad fruitage. Specific ap plication will be made for adults as well as youths." A public address, "Whose Disciples Are You?", will be especially suited for anyone newly interested in Bible instruction. This will be presented by Paul S. Illingworth, district over seer of Jehovah's Witnesses for this area, Sunday, Dec. 9, at 2 p.m. All sessions are free and no collections are taken. Complete cafeteria meals and other refreshments are available during program intermissions at nominal cost. The general public is welcome to attend any portion of the program. spurgeon's, Watch For Our Christmas Circular in this week s December 6th CITIZEN PAPER 8 Pages of Storewide CHRISTMAS SAVINGS! Hurry in for best selections. Sale Now thru Mon.r Dec. 10 Let us be Santa's Helper CANDLELIGHT SERVICE A Christmas candlelight service featuring the harp music of Shirley Lukey of Barrington, will be presented by the Unity church of Crystal Lake at 8 p.m., Tuesday, Dec. 11, at 3 Chalet Drive, intersection of Rt. 31 and U.S. 14. Unity is a non-denominational church and offers a library and with a good of titles on one's spiritual bookstore selection developing potential. MCHENRY HEARING AID Sales i Repairs ALL MAKES LOW PRICES! WED. ONLY 10 to5 3937 MAIN STREET McHENRY, ILLINOIS CAREERCLUB velour fashions fashionable, casual, luxurious velours from Career Club. Choose the very new "V" neck pullover. These velours go anywhere with ease. Ideal tops for your casual slacks or jeans. Choice of two solid colors. Rust or Navy. 28 00 (Hhristajiljpr'H ft ' ;'Y v ' v " r - \ * fc «f i £ * mr. •dm hmf* W • •• converts opened can to savings bank pp* , P$ I opener is only way to open your gift "package" Beginning December 7 Christmos Hours Weekdays 9 am to 8*30 pm Saturday 9 am to 4 pm Sunday . 10-3:00 pm (Dec. 7 thru Dec. 23) Free Gift Wroppino it adds fun to your gift of love* Imagine the surprise when your gift is presented in a can. The only way your gift can be opened is with a can opener! And, once the can is opened, a special slotted plastic lid converts the can to a savings bank souvenir. Just bring us any small gift that fits a #2 sized tin can and we'll seal it airtight in our bright holiday wrapped cans. We even include a special To and From label and bow. It's a lot of fun...and it's a perfect idea for those special people who "have everything". , You supply the gift, and we provide the canning for only 50'. It's our way of saying Happy Holiday. It's all for YOU at Santa's Cannery suggestion list: • Cash • Travel Tickets • Gloves, scarf, etc. • Watch • Gift Certificate • Jewelry • Pen/Pencil set • Golf Balls • Special love note • ? Your Imagination Mpn V? Mpnr 3902 MA,N ST-zn&ra B WFur McHENRY) ILLINOIS 385-4060 DAILY 9am-5pm, Friday 9am-8:30pm Saturday 9am-4pm CLOSED SUNDAY McHenry State Bank cmmm 3510 W. Elm St. and Lillian St. & Crystal Lake Rd. tEN0ER Richmond Rd. & Pearl St. McHenry, Illinois "Doing all we CAN for our customers" 385-1040