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There's An Answer (by INortnan Vin<»c»nt IVtile mid Kutli Stafford IVale) Wants lo strike back Q. During our married years on and off my husband had a night with the boys and I never objected to it. Finally, his night with the boys became weekends with the boys. He drank and life was hell with him. Well, I found out he was visiting the apartment of a divorcee. They both claimed there was nothing but a good friendship and that his visits were only to have a drink together. It's hard to believe that a man would lie, cheat and connive just to have a drink with a woman. He has stopped acting the way he was and is really trying to make amends, but I am heartbroken. I feel cheated, violated and sometimes I wish I could strike back and hurt him the way he hurt me. I think about it night and day and am very nervous. Please help me. • A. To strike back in kird at vour husband would only cause you more anguish, and such a procedure is therefore inadvisable. If you are nervous now, by doing what you suggest you could bring on an emotional breakdown. Knee your husband has stopped his reprehensible actions and is really trying to make amends, the best thing you can do is to give him a chance. And try believing that he is sincere. Remember that belief in a person often leads to realization of such belief. The best advice is to put the past behind you both and start over again. Real happiness can result. Back to the junk food Q. I belong to Overeaters Anonymous, which is a three-fold program for the physical, emotional and spiritual. They ask you to turn your compulsive overeating over to God, to work the spiritual and emotional part of the program, and the physical part will follow. I feel I'm working the program but I keep going bade to my old way of eating, which is junk foods all the time. Do you think I'm not using my higher power, which is God, in the right manner? Can you help me? A (Dr. Peale) Having myself reduced by 35 pounds and further having kept that reduction for over two years, I know from experience that one can defintely control weight. If you image or picturize yourself as being at a certain designated weight figure, your consciousness will help achieve your image. When you return constantly to what you call "junk foods" you are certainly not employing your higher power. We have a booklet, Live Longer Better, which may be helpful to you, and a copy of it is on its way to you. Anyone wishing a free copy may write to us in care of Box 500, Pawling, NY 12564. What to do? Q. What to do, stay home with my mother or go and stay with my children's father who wants to marry me? I was 17 and he was only 18 when I ran away from home and went to stay with him. Things didn't work out because we were just too young. I love him so much and want to spend my life with him, and he loves me. My mother don't want me to have anything to do with him. But if I stay home I can't ever see him, and our two children will never know their father. If I go to him I can't come home any more. What shall I do? A. If you have had two children by a man not your husband and fie wants to marry you, which he should if he is any kind of man at all, then definitely you should marry him and properly take care of your children. If you love him and he loves you, then there is a good possibility of building a satisfying home life together. While we can understand why your mother does not think well of this man, still you cannot let your mother call all the shots. If there is something you would like to ask Dr. and Mrs. Peale to discuss in this column, write to them in care of Box 500, Pawling, NY 12564. If you would like to talk directly with a prayer partner, call Prayer Line 212-481-1050. Reduced long distance rates are in effect nights and weekends. Village of McHenry Shores Jude La Francis 385-5067 jj • ̂ Nbb BIRTHS MEMORIAL HOSPITAL WOODSTOCK Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Sciarrone of McHenry are the parents of a son bom Wed­ nesday, May 17. A son born Wednesday, May 17, is welcomed into the Spring Grove home of Mr. and Mrs. John Gray. It's a girl...born Friday, May 19, to Mr. and Mrs. William Blankenhorn of McHenry. A blue bundle with the Friday, May 19, arrival of an infant son for Mr. and Mrs. Micheal Coss of Wonder Lake. Saturday's child is the baby boy arriving May 20 and welcomed by parents, Mr. and Mrs. Michael Doherty of McHenry. The new young man in the McHenry home of Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Malenius chose Saturday, May 20, as his date of arrival. In a few years trucks and trains will prevail at the McHenry home of Mr. and Mrs. George Delgadillo with the birth of a baby boy Saturday, May 20. The infant son of Mr. and Mrs. Clifford Gerber chose Monday, May 21, to make his debut at Memorial hospital, Woodstock. NEW GRANDDAUGHTER Mr. and Mrs. Dan Creamer of McHenry announce the birth of their first granddaughter, Julie Ann. Mr. and Mrs. James Creamer of St. Charles are the parents of the 6 lb. 11 oz. baby girl who was bom in Delnor hospital Thursday, May 18. Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Robert Kettell of Naperville. SECOND DAUGHTER Kelly Ann Dorsey, 4<* years old, has a new baby sister, Kristy Lee, who was bora in Memorial hospital, Woodstock, Saturday, May 13. The girls are the daughters of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Dorsey of 4421 N. Elm Leaf drive, McHenry. The dark-haired baby girl with blue-gray eyes weighed 7 lbs. 11 oz. at birth and arrived at 10:54 p.m. McHenry grandparents include Mr. and Mrs. Donald M. Freund and Mr. and Mrs. Howard W. Dorsey. Her great grandmother, Mrs. Joseph L. Freund, also resides in McHenry. The baby's mother is the former Rozanne Freund. One or the Other When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure that eiher the car or the wife is new! Library Hosts Open HousO For Village Readers The open house at the McHenry Shores library will take place Thursday, June 1, / from 7 to 10 p.m. at the village hall annex. 3211 Beach drive. Please plan to come and find out what is going on at your library. , A few weeks ago one of the major newspapers published a survey about libraries in the suburbs of Chicago. The best- rated of the ones men|iqflfrCljTiflrt about eight-nine books per capita; the lowest rated had less than one book. Your library, the McHenry Shores library, can boost between two and three books per resident at the present time. That is a very good ratio, especially con­ sidering that all the libraries mentioned in the survey are fully tax-supported whereas your library does not cost you a penny in taxes. Even though the McHenry Shores library is situated in the village annex and has received the moral support of the village government, it has been established solely through private donations and it is being run by unpaid volunteers. However, all this means nothing if you do not use its facilities. There are books for readers of all ges: love stories, historic romances, aventure books, reference books, and various other types of reading material. If you want to read the current bestseller without spending all of "that money, come visit your library. Remember, at the open house, the first fifty visitors will received free family mem­ bership cards which will be good for one year. See you at your library. VILLAGE BOARD NEWS At the regular board meeting of the village trustees, the board accepted the resignation of Linda Luerssen. Linda had held the positions of village clerk and village treasurer for the past two years. We extend a hearty 'job well done' to Linda who took over the dual responsibilities and did an admirable job. Also at the board meeting, the board accepted the ap­ pointment of Jim Janeke as village treasurer. ERIN'S BROTHER Three-year-old Erin Kerry Smith welcomes a new baby brother, Ryan Charles. The youngsters are the children of Mr. and Mrs. James W. Smith of McHenry. The baby's mother is the former Judy Walsh, daughter of Mrs. Quentin E. Walsh of McHenry and the late Quentin E. Walsh. Paternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Charles F. Smith of Johnsburg. HOSPITAL NOTES MEMORIAL HOSPITAL WOODSTOCK Recent admissions to Memorial hospital, Woodstock, included from McHenry: Michael Eppers, Pearl Klein, Patricia Knapik, Colleen Blankenhorn, George Schultz, Rubra Norton, Ida Legge, baby William Janke and Frederick Wahl; from Wonder Lake: Claire Nielsen, Master Toby Johnson, Charles Christensen, Heather Kinross, June O'Donnell, David Sellek, and Thomas Wollpert; from Ringwood: Donald Winkelman. HARVARD HOSPITAL Mrs. Guy MacGregor of McHenry was recently ad­ mitted as a patient to Harvard hospital. Netted The next regularly scheduled board meeting is June 7 at the village annex. OFFICER INJURED Officer Jeff Lundius, McHenry Shores ^ Police department, was injured in an automobile accident on Barreville road last week. Jeff is fine now and recuperating at home. Though still on crutches, Jeff expects to be fit as a fiddle in a few days. We wish Jeff a speedy and cheerful "get well". As a result of the accident, the village squad car is out of commission. However, the village will continue to be patrolled by two unmarked cars, and the new village pick up truck has beeen temporarily converted to a squad car complete with radio. The village, therefore, is com­ pletely covered and well- protected. No loss of police protection was sustained as a result of the accident. Village officials were sur­ prised and thrilled at the number of residents who called to offer assistance to the village and Officer Lundius. Thus it became very apparent that the village residents do appreciate the efforts of the police department to protect the residents while putting their own lives on the line in order to offer this protection. The offers of aid from the residents ran the gamut of volunteering automobiles to volunteering service and time. Such community spirit really pleased the village officials, and it caused good feelings all around the village. PRESIDENT'S PERTINENTS From the office of the village president comes the following^ item concerning the vandalism done at the Shores' beach. If the culprits involved in the total destruction of the water fountain, pier, basketball back­ board, beach signs, and caution sign on the concrete bridge are not apprehended, none of these broken items will be repaired or replaced. If a responsible individual wishes to come forward with information on these acts of vandalism, the damaged items could be repaired. There is an ordinance on the books which provides for those responsible to make restitution. The village cannot afford to continue to replace the items at the beach. Concerned citizens must take it upon themselves to seek out these selfish in­ dividuals and have them accept the consequences of their ac­ tions. Why do the rest of us have to suffer for a few vandals who destroyed a nice area where the village residents could enjoy themselves? POLICE DEPARTMENT NEWS The McHenry Shores Police department would like to ex­ tend an invitation to all residents to drop by the police department and meet the of­ ficers. The officers are there to serve and assist the residents in any way that they can. They cannot give legal advice, but they will be glad to explain any of the ordinances which they are instructed to enforce. Parents are cautioned against allowing their youngsters to remain home W« at Century 21 Cor* R*ol Eatot*, Inc. in pl»w»d to prMWrt you with our wttkly t+ri+t of informative tool lafnta I rtl« pWWfw AmVCIW* The National Association of Homo Builders reports that "Hard Construction Costs" rose a record 15.3 percent last year and in the last five years hard construction costs have soared a total of 52.3 percent. "Hard construction" refers to labor and materials and does not include interest charges, land costs, marketing or builder's profit. At Century 21 Care Real Estate we believe that as these tren­ ds continue the definite edge will be in purchasing an existing home, many of which could never be duplicated for anywhere near selling price in today's construction market. CARE REAL ESTATE INC. Phone (1S-344-10M 3717 W. Elm (Across from Jewel) McHenry, II. from school without a valid reason such as illness. The McHenry Shores Police department has observed children staying home from school with no visible valid reason, and the police will be cooperating with the truant officer of McHenry county to reduce this practice. Tickets issued during the first half of the month of May are as follows: Kathleen Latimer, Westshore drive, McHenry, speeding 60 in a 45; Deborah Adams, Ellen street, McHenry, speeding 58 in a 45; Robert Wittek, Birch Lane, Park Ridge, speeding 59 in a 45; Mary Huska, Barreville road, McHenry, speeding 69 in a 45; Roy Allsup, Garden Quarter apartments, McHenry, speeding 73 in a 45; Cynthia Budrek, Barreville, McHenry, speeding 63 in a 45; Eric Swanson, Lake Shore drive, McHenry, speeding 59 in a 45; Kurt Swanson, North boulvard, McHenry, speeding 60 in a 45; John Rice, Three Oaks road, Cary speeding 58 in a 45; Patrick Murphy, Terrace drive, McHenry Shores, no vehicle sticker; Mary Johnson, Pearl street, McHenry Shores, overnight parking and no vehicle sticker; Barry Roberts, Sunrise View, McHenry Shores, overnight parking; Carlo Fiorite, RR no. 2, McHenry, speeding 66 in a 45; Kenneth Eiksen, Bull Valley road, Woodstock, speeding 60 in a 45; Michael Ball, Deep Spring road, Wonder Lake, speeding 62 in a 45; Marland Protzer, McHenry avenue. Crystal Lake, speeding 58 in a 45; Thomas Pender. John street, McHenry. speeding 59 in a 45; Vicki Workinger. Sterling drive, McHenry, speeding 58 in a 45; James Frank, Channel Lane. McHenry. speeding 59 in a 45; Soe Dwyer. Mill court, McHenry, speeding 65 in a 45; Brian Driscoll. Bromley drive . McHenry, speeding 61 in a 45; James Headtke, River road. McHenry, speeding 58 in a 45; Daniel Streit, Crystal Lake avenue, Crystal Lake, speeding 38 in a 25; Robert Murdock, Wright road, McHenry, speeding 58 in a 45; David Grimes, Hunter Path, McHenry Shores, overnight parking, parking too close to an intersection; Frederick Edelman, Homan, Hammond, Ind., overnight packing. BIRTHDAYS Happy belated birthday to Larry Csajaghy who had his special day May 20. May 29 will be the big day for Joyce Lexow, Marcia Henshall and Tony Einweck who celebrates bir­ thday number eight. Gene Kurowski and Agnes Sch- weikert share May 30, for their big day. Congratulations and best wishes for swell birthdays to all of you. Friendliness - a daily routine which never grows mundane. No Answer The question today is not "what is the world coming to?" but "when?" * -Herald, Bristol, Va. PAGE 3 - PLAINDEALER -WEDNESDAY, MAY 24, 1978 Audubon Spring Census Reveals Over 110 Species owned end operated. Have you ever seen a one- legged Yellowlegs? Or a lonesome Mallard looking for a mate? These two fine birds we're viewed when the McHenry County Audubon participated in the spring census. Not only were the Yellowlegs seen at the sewage4 treatment plant in Hebron and the Mallard in a flooded field near Marengo, but over 110 other species were seen on that day. May 27 will offer another chance to join the McHenry County Audubon at the Rush Creek Conservation area, southeast of Harvard on McGuire road. Along with the informative wooded trails to follow, a newly formed lake has been attracting waterfowl. Because of this varied habitat RustrCreek is one of the more productive 'birding' areas in McHenry county. Those making the trek should meet at the parking lot at 8:45 a.m. Meandering streams--and there are still some in McHenry county--offer excellent en­ vironment for wildlife, and being a lucky passenger or paddling a canoe is a great way to view stream bank population. On June 17 the McHenry County Audubon will sponsor the third year of canoeing a local stream. Reservations must be made and there is a small charge for rentals. Additional information on this outing or any Audubon programs can be had by calling 455-1570 or 338-3632. God could not be every­ where so He made mothers. -Yiddish Proverb: Win Program Federal government officials recently commended the Illinois Work Incentive (WIN) program for a dramtic change in program effectiveness. The program helps AFDC (Aid to Families with Dependent Children) recipients find jolft and thus reduce welfare ex­ penditures. 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